[QUOTE=Inufin;36404242]bakemonogatari[/QUOTE]
Yeah I enjoyed it alot.
[QUOTE=Funion;36403944]i see how it is[/QUOTE]
but funion I love you.
and hi everyone else.
hi
Heard this song on the (internet) radio, and I'm hooked
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LJ6_5o6sAKA[/media]
[QUOTE=Livewire2440;36403907]Hi ~
Oh god its late goodnight.[/QUOTE]
dat avatar
[QUOTE=TinSoldier;36404507]dat avatar[/QUOTE]
I would lie to everyone if i said that i didnt know where that is from.
[sp] OH GOD THE RAINBOWS IM GONNA GET[/sp]
Who doesn't know where its from
probably not me but its gay so I can magically find out in ~seconds~
got it
[url]http://www.furaffinity.net/user/onta/[/url] prob this guy makes that
[QUOTE=KorJax;36397920]I wouldnt deny a lot of gay men are like what you describe but honestly I don't agree that it's "most gay men".
A larger amount of that type of man compared to straight men? Probably. But I wouldn't argue that it's most.
I've personally never heard of Grindr and have no intention of using it now that I have. I'm in a relationship of 1.5 years and have always saught realtionships of the sort. I've recently gotten to know someone who's been in a mutual and commited relationship for 10 years with his partner. My manager-in-training who can into cover for our actual manager is gay and getting married. All of the relationships I've been in didn't involve gay men who wanted to just fuck and couldn't control themselves. Are they out there? Probably, but that's not the type that I've been interested in and that's not the type I've ever gotten to know. Have I gotten burned? Yes, I have. My ex really brought a reality check upon me when he broke up, but he didn't break up because he wanted to fuck around.
I think a lot of this has to do with where you live, and what kind of "gay scene" you have in your area. If your local gay scene is very big I feel like there's going to be a lot of guys who fuck around. Compared to Ohio, where there is no gay scene, so its much harder to run into guys, but much "easier" to get into a legit relationship if you know where and how to look for one. Sure you could probably get a quick fuck here but you'd honestly have to be looking just for that if you wanted it. There are plenty of websites out there anyways that cater to actual dating - if someone wanted to fuck they'd use the usual channels for that (gay bar, craigslist, etc).
IMO the biggest problem gay men face when they are young and inexperienced is simply the fact that it's hard to get relationship confidence and experience due to the nature of being gay, and being in the closet and such. Not because of gay guys only wanting to fuck around IMO, but those types of guys are certainly a side effect of "lack of relationship experience". But because you don't have much experience with relationships by the time you "find someone", it's almost inevitable that your first relationship as a gay guy will fail one way or another, and/or give you some kind of reality check with how you went about things.
Anyways, point being, there are plenty of gay guys who want a relationship out there. All the gay guys I've known are like that. You just have to align yourself with that type of person and know what to look out for. And it depends on where you live. Just like going to school at a big party university will surround you with a large party atmosphere, living in a city with a lot of fast-paced fun and a huge gay fuck scene will surround you with that atmosphere.[/QUOTE]
Maybe it's a British thing. I know Americans tend to be more puritanical around sex (apparently "cunt" is some massive insult over there). Either way, I'd hate to live away from a city. I don't exactly live near a bit city right now at Uni and it's the same, but the idea of relocating to the countryside where everyone is awfully sentimental frankly horrifies me. I love London; I'd hate to have to mix with a bunch of swede bashers.
British people have a different attitude to sex to Americans; there's a bigger cultural difference than most people would realise. I know this just from my female friends - Americans tend to go on dates more than British lasses. Either way, I've never had a relationship with anyone and a lot of gay people I know haven't had relationships either (or "don't do" relationships). Perhaps it's different in places like Ohio but I have no interest in moving to the boondocks.
[QUOTE=Ban Camp;36404808]probably not me but its gay so I can magically find out in ~seconds~
got it
[url]http://www.furaffinity.net/user/onta/[/url] prob this guy makes that[/QUOTE]
Thanks I've been meaning to look for that user.
[QUOTE=Splurgy_A;36404923]Maybe it's a British thing. I know Americans tend to be more puritanical around sex (apparently "cunt" is some massive insult over there). Either way, I'd hate to live away from a city. I don't exactly live near a bit city right now at Uni and it's the same, but the idea of relocating to the countryside where everyone is awfully sentimental frankly horrifies me. I love London; I'd hate to have to mix with a bunch of swede bashers.
British people have a different attitude to sex to Americans; there's a bigger cultural difference than most people would realise. I know this just from my female friends - Americans tend to go on dates more than British lasses. Either way, I've never had a relationship with anyone and a lot of gay people I know haven't had relationships either (or "don't do" relationships). Perhaps it's different in places like Ohio but I have no interest in moving to the boondocks.[/QUOTE]
I wouldn't say I live in the Boondocks - Dayton is still a city, even if its a dying one. We used to have the largest gay club in the midwest that attracted people from all the way to chicago as a matter of fact. But I wouldn't say it's a mega-city like London, and I know popular mega cities tend to attract a more "exciting lifestyle" crowd, which might make it hard to find people interested in relationships, when you belong to a lifestyle group known for not being shy of promiscuous behavior. What you mentioned is probably also true of cities like San Fran and such.
I still think though its a matter of finding the right people. I think being a city with a big promiscuous gay culture doesn't mean there are less people who are interested in relationships in that city - just means there's a higher population of people there who aren't interested in a relationship added to the mix, because there's a culture there that accepts that attitude (and attracts people who like that attitude as well).
Large, global/worldly cities also have a thing going on with the "working professional", especially of the traveling variety. A lot of "working professional" types don't like settling in, and as such tend to stay single, because otherwise it'll interfere with their fast-paced and active careers, their travels, lifestyles, etc. Many large cities that are global hubs of working professionals will have a higher "single" rate due to the nature of such jobs. People who belong in this sector are likely to engage in the "nightlife" more and be attracted to cities that can cater to such a life.
[QUOTE=Splurgy_A;36404923]Maybe it's a British thing. I know Americans tend to be more puritanical around sex (apparently "cunt" is some massive insult over there). Either way, I'd hate to live away from a city. I don't exactly live near a bit city right now at Uni and it's the same, but the idea of relocating to the countryside where everyone is awfully sentimental frankly horrifies me. I love London; I'd hate to have to mix with a bunch of swede bashers.
British people have a different attitude to sex to Americans; there's a bigger cultural difference than most people would realise. I know this just from my female friends - Americans tend to go on dates more than British lasses. Either way, I've never had a relationship with anyone and a lot of gay people I know haven't had relationships either (or "don't do" relationships). Perhaps it's different in places like Ohio but I have no interest in moving to the boondocks.[/QUOTE]
So, I mean, I have literally no experience with this topic in general, but I find it unbelievable that "most" gay guys just want sex. I mean, maybe that's true. I don't know. But it'd be awfully depressing. Personally speaking I would never go around soliciting promiscuous sex. It's just... not something I could envision myself doing. And I have trouble imagining that most guys don't want relationships... that just sounds... absurd. Fucking everyone you meet sounds like a remarkably empty and unsustainable lifestyle, no matter how easy it is to get sex.
But again, I have no experience, so I can't comment with credibility.
[QUOTE=postmanX3;36406574]And I have trouble imagining that most guys don't want relationships... that just sounds... absurd. Fucking everyone you meet sounds like a remarkably empty and unsustainable lifestyle, no matter how easy it is to get sex.[/QUOTE]
And yet....
Again, the stereotype for a homosexual man is slutty and shallow. More or less.
why didn't anyone tell me that the game Journey was so good
i just became best bros and shared body heat with a complete stranger
twas beautiful
this thread
[url]http://www.hahgay.com/[/url]
God this thread is depressing now. i'm feeling bad for redback, splurgy and even myself. well night then, i'll see you fags tomorrow ;)
Officially moved in with my boyfriend :D
Years of gayness ahead in this apartment.
Your dick intake is about to hit an all time high
[QUOTE=TinSoldier;36404798]Who doesn't know where its from[/QUOTE]
Isn't it from Hard Blush? God they have the cutest characters. And I don't even fap.
Going back to earlier, I must have found a white elephant since we're not dating for sex alone.
I live in the city and there's plenty of non-promiscuous gays. Splurgy, you're hanging around with the wrong crowd. Stop only thinking gays exist at gay bars or dating sites.
You're going to make everyone think there's no chance in finding a nice partner.
[editline]20th June 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=KorJax;36405316]I wouldn't say I live in the Boondocks - Dayton is still a city, even if its a dying one. We used to have the largest gay club in the midwest that attracted people from all the way to chicago as a matter of fact. But I wouldn't say it's a mega-city like London, and I know popular mega cities tend to attract a more "exciting lifestyle" crowd, which might make it hard to find people interested in relationships, when you belong to a lifestyle group known for not being shy of promiscuous behavior. What you mentioned is probably also true of cities like San Fran and such.
I still think though its a matter of finding the right people. I think being a city with a big promiscuous gay culture doesn't mean there are less people who are interested in relationships in that city - just means there's a higher population of people there who aren't interested in a relationship added to the mix, because there's a culture there that accepts that attitude (and attracts people who like that attitude as well).
Large, global/worldly cities also have a thing going on with the "working professional", especially of the traveling variety. A lot of "working professional" types don't like settling in, and as such tend to stay single, because otherwise it'll interfere with their fast-paced and active careers, their travels, lifestyles, etc. Many large cities that are global hubs of working professionals will have a higher "single" rate due to the nature of such jobs. People who belong in this sector are likely to engage in the "nightlife" more and be attracted to cities that can cater to such a life.[/QUOTE]
Good post.
[QUOTE=starpoo90;36406656]And yet....
Again, the stereotype for a homosexual man is slutty and shallow. More or less.[/QUOTE]
The funny part is men and women are both equally sexual. Hell, I wouldn't be surprised at ALL if women were even more. My experience with both genders points to yes.
[QUOTE=13illay;36406759]why didn't anyone tell me that the game Journey was so good
i just became best bros and shared body heat with a complete stranger
twas beautiful[/QUOTE]
I wish I had a PS3 so I could replay that game
Played through it once before on my BF's brother's PS3, it was pretty brilliant. Too bad its so damn short.
That feel when you have an orgasm so good it feels like you're extremely high
[QUOTE=TehWhale;36407961]That feel when you have an orgasm so good it feels like you're extremely high[/QUOTE]
Solece, we need your guidance in here...
[QUOTE=TehWhale;36407961]That feel when you have an orgasm so good it feels like you're extremely high[/QUOTE]
Give us the story ffs.
I was expecting somewhere around 40+ posts and the whole topic to move on.
I am very surprised.
I wish I had cool striped socks. I'm wearing these white socks that go about halfway to my knee and they're comfy as fuck :v:
Also on a note that may or may not be related I've felt extra gay today for some reason.
I never understood the appeal of striped socks, but I'm fairly boring fashion wise.
Oh, feel free to take this entirely out of context but I was on my knees at work for 3 hours straight today. Scraping wax is quite possibly the worst thing I've ever had to do at my job.
chat, buy this y/n
[IMG]http://puu.sh/CfN4[/IMG]
wait shit I just realized I have $10 credit from the site too, would be 20 instead :smile:
[QUOTE=l l;36409151]chat, buy this y/n
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Go for it.
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