The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v2 - General

[QUOTE=Cheesemonkey;34204950]yeah i know things will improve but goddamn are people in high school awful i really don't like how the entire culture of high school is just drugs and alcohol and breaking the law. there's so much pressure to get dangerously drunk and get so high you are unable to function and then get caught by the police (all at the same time) that going out partying is honestly just russian roulette and that is all people will admit to doing over the weekend in fear of looking lame. you can circumvent the lameness by claiming you did any of the three, that too. i'm fine with breaking the law fuck the police etc but holy shit why do you keep having parties at the same house and go to the same spot to get arrested multiple times aaaaa [editline]14th January 2012[/editline] ok im just venting w/e[/QUOTE] you know something you will do is look back on this period and go 'aa i wish i wasn't so whiny'

I have so many regrets from when I used to be a shy and anti-social person.

[QUOTE=carcarcargo;34195492]Find something to talk about. That's about it really, if you have nothing to actually talk about you're buggered.[/QUOTE] I don't :C Shit I'm interested in isn't interesting to others and vice-versa.

[QUOTE='[CWG]RustySpannerz;34205486']I have so many regrets from when I used to be a shy and anti-social person.[/QUOTE] Fuck regrets. I was somewhat anti-social, but i used my time to learn how to play guitar, code, and draw. Time well spent in the end.

goddamnit this girl i like started to date one of my friends a few weeks ago, and just yesterday i found out that she actually liked me too. the kicker is she's just so goddamn happy with my friend though, like happy in a way that i don't think i've ever been able to make her. i'm just a little jealous, but i know that she wouldn't work as well with me as she does with him, even if she did actually like me.

I don't know what to tell you, Mon. I'd say let it run its course for a while and see how things go but I wouldn't know, I never had a girlfriend. So, about myself lately. I've felt not shitty, almost happy, like I'm at peace now. What the hell is going on in my mind?

I've got the chance to cheat on my fucking awesome girlfriend with another fucking awesome girl. Should I go for it? Why/why not?

Don't do it. So the girl you have been given the chance to cheat on is hot and shit. Your girlfriend is as well. Don't ruin a good relationship because you were thinking with your head, and no, it's not the one you see out of.

Way to assume shit. I don't want to cheat because I think she's hot, I want to because I see my girlfriend less than I'd like to (as in, almost never).

I'm not assuming anything, but I apologize anyways. I'm not good with seeing things how people word it. If you want to, go for it. I don't know what to say, really.

[QUOTE=FPKawaii;34207481]Way to assume shit. I don't want to cheat because I think she's hot, I want to because I see my girlfriend less than I'd like to (as in, almost never).[/QUOTE] don't do it

[QUOTE=FPKawaii;34207481]Way to assume shit. I don't want to cheat because I think she's hot, I want to because I see my girlfriend less than I'd like to (as in, almost never).[/QUOTE] Childish at best. To be honest, it sounds like an excuse to FINALLY cheat on her / telling her to piss off. Tell your girlfriend what you want, be a man about it. Then fuck the other girl and for the next time try being a better person.

[QUOTE='[CWG]RustySpannerz;34205344']There's a mugshot website?[/QUOTE] [url]http://springfieldmugshots.com/[/url]

[QUOTE=FPKawaii;34207407]I've got the chance to cheat on my fucking awesome girlfriend with another fucking awesome girl. Should I go for it? Why/why not?[/QUOTE] Don't be a fucking shit If you want to be with someone else, break up with your girlfriend. Don't fuck around with other people unless you're in an open relationship and you're both cool with it.

[QUOTE=FPKawaii;34207407]I've got the chance to cheat on my fucking awesome girlfriend with another fucking awesome girl. Should I go for it? Why/why not?[/QUOTE] do whatever the fuck you want you're young

[QUOTE=FPKawaii;34207481]Way to assume shit. I don't want to cheat because I think she's hot, I want to because I see my girlfriend less than I'd like to (as in, almost never).[/QUOTE] How is she a "fucking awesome girlfriend" if you are complaining about a major part of the relationship? Dump her, go fuck the hot girl and live without guilt hanging over your head. Or don't dump her, work out your relationship and don't go for the hot girl.

[QUOTE=FPKawaii;34207407]I've got the chance to cheat on my fucking awesome girlfriend with another fucking awesome girl. Should I go for it? Why/why not?[/QUOTE] Terrible idea, I don't even know why you would consider it. Just break up with your girlfriend if you don't want her around anymore. Don't be a cunt.

[QUOTE=FPKawaii;34207407]I've got the chance to cheat on my [B]fucking awesome girlfriend[/B] with another fucking awesome girl. Should I go for it? Why/why not?[/QUOTE] Why? [I]Why?[/I] Don't do it, or else you lose both of them.

I love you all, reading this thread always(usually) makes me feel happy.

[QUOTE=FPKawaii;34207407]I've got the chance to cheat on my fucking awesome girlfriend with another fucking awesome girl. Should I go for it? Why/why not?[/QUOTE] you sure sound like a great person i'd really like to get to know you

[QUOTE=FOOJE08;34208833]I love you all, reading this thread always(usually) makes me feel happy.[/QUOTE] It's my favourite thread on Facepunch. It's so friendly.

[QUOTE=FPKawaii;34207481]Way to assume shit. I don't want to cheat because I think she's hot, I want to because I see my girlfriend less than I'd like to (as in, almost never).[/QUOTE] Thats not a good reason to cheat on someone (as if there are any good reasons). If you don't get to see her as in almost never get to see her, why not break it off with her and go with this other girl? Cheating is just a shitty thing to do.

My friend was in a relationship for a few months. Girl goes away for a couple weeks and breaks up with him a bit after returning. Now he's wanting her back. I'm not exactly sure what to tell him since I'm bad with advice. :V I'm just trying to keep him from hurting himself any more since this girl obviously didn't like him as much as he liked her. What do I tell him?

[QUOTE=FPKawaii;34207407]I've got the chance to cheat on my fucking awesome girlfriend with another fucking awesome girl. Should I go for it? Why/why not?[/QUOTE] If I was your girlfriend, you would be getting hell from me and you would end up single. Just for saying that.

[QUOTE=Kids4Sale;34210300]My friend was in a relationship for a few months. Girl goes away for a couple weeks and breaks up with him a bit after returning. Now he's wanting her back. I'm not exactly sure what to tell him since I'm bad with advice. :V I'm just trying to keep him from hurting himself any more since this girl obviously didn't like him as much as he liked her. What do I tell him?[/QUOTE] send this to him. [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NHOf3s70w-c[/media] [editline]14th January 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=General Omega;34210513]If I was your girlfriend, you would be getting hell from me and you would end up single. Just for saying that.[/QUOTE] If this was 4chan we'd facebook stalk him and post a screencap of his posts on a message to his girl.

[QUOTE=FOOJE08;34208833]I love you all, reading this thread always(usually) makes me feel happy.[/QUOTE] why's that?

[QUOTE=CheeserCrice;34212245]If this was 4chan we'd facebook stalk him and post a screencap of his posts on a message to his girl.[/QUOTE] Don't have Facebook and neither does she.

God dammit now I have problem, after I sent that messege to her about going to the movies she hasn't replied. I felt like I may have scared her off. But she does normally take a long while to reply. For further info we do get along on from chatting on facebook. Facebook is pretty much the only way of communication untill the hockey season starts. aww fuck guys what do I do. Sorry if this paragraph is a mess.

[QUOTE=nimaratu;34196889]It's a problem because i'm not getting younger. I'm just scared i won't find someone. It sucks seeing my friends get Married - And then try to hurry me into finding someone.[/QUOTE] This feeling isn't any different than what I've felt: I'm just getting back into my course after a year of surgeries and sickness, while all my friends are graduating or otherwise moving on to bigger things. You just need to understand that that's not where your life is right now. Instead, focus on what you DO have and take the free time to improve yourself as a person! How old are you by the way? [QUOTE=FPKawaii;34207407]I've got the chance to cheat on my fucking awesome girlfriend with another fucking awesome girl. Should I go for it? Why/why not?[/QUOTE] If you're not happy about your situation and you can't do anything about it, leave. If you might be able to do something, talk to her about it and see what happens. If you just really like this other girl more and see the kind of relationship you want working better there... then leave. In that case, it would be best to break up with your gf first, and be honest about your issues. I just can't see any logical reason why anyone should ever need to cheat.

[QUOTE=Jimmaye;34215722]God dammit now I have problem, after I sent that messege to her about going to the movies she hasn't replied. I felt like I may have scared her off. But she does normally take a long while to reply. For further info we do get along on from chatting on facebook. Facebook is pretty much the only way of communication untill the hockey season starts. aww fuck guys what do I do. Sorry if this paragraph is a mess.[/QUOTE] wohoh buddy, ease up. First sign of trouble is when you start giving out excuses for her (i.e takes long to reply) Breathe, and make sure you actively push the subject away from your mind. At situations like this, that's the best solution. Now, don't do anything. Don't ask her about it again. Next time? don't ask over facebook, only via cellphone (not txt). Even if you did scare her off, let it drift away. Living is moving, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.