The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v2 - General

How about you get out of this thread? You're not contributing at all.

[QUOTE=AmericanInfantry;34054500]How about you get out of this thread? You're not contributing at all.[/QUOTE] Im not contributing to your problem im sorry. Let me tell you what I'd do you look about 15/16 in your facebook photo assuming thats you. Bide your time for a couple more years go to college / uni and then take this shit serious if you want to call it that. Right now your getting worked up over fuck all.

no, i was really only on his back in these two threads, and that wasnt patronising, i was legitimately saying that was a good post that is appreciated. however, you clearly still dont have your heart in the right place with these threads if you're still saying shit like "don't take this seriously" to people who are looking for advice. high school is a four-year period that is really stressful for a lot of people, and the spirit of these threads is to help people as best we can right now, not tell them to just not give a shit about their life right now and wait until it gets better later.

Sometimes being on my back about this is the only way to have me do something. I'm sorry I have issues, but I'm a teenager in school and it's fairly normal. I'm 17, not 15. Stop shitposting, Godline.

[QUOTE=Godline;34054329]Stop being a patronising little fuck. Your on his back in 2 threads hell probably more, stop judging peoples post your not a moderator more to it stop acting like one.[/QUOTE] This is an advice thread. Ensuring the quality of the posts here is very important.

this thread is so WEIRD sometimes

[QUOTE=AmericanInfantry;34054873]Sometimes being on my back about this is the only way to have me do something. I'm sorry I have issues, but I'm a teenager in school and it's fairly normal. I'm 17, not 15. Stop shitposting, Godline.[/QUOTE] You need motivation help, you struggle with other things in life? Shit posting christ im not qualified yet to hold that license ive got years of training to go. FLak- Im not going to argue with that but its what moderators do not kids who feel to the need to nit pick. Yea it is a weird thread the whole concept it weird.

Hey Godline remember this post: [QUOTE=JohnnyMo1;33604761]Yeah, I'm revoking your posting privileges for this thread Godline. Keep out of it or I will ban you. Autumn gave you enough warnings.[/QUOTE] I did. It applies in here too.

So today was the first day back to school, and I hadn't seen the ladyfriend since a few days before Christmas, so it was the first chance I had at a chance to give her a gift. I got her one of these [url=http://store.valvesoftware.com/product.php?i=S0102]plush compaion cubes[/url] because we both love Portal. I squeeze the present a bit before I hand it to her and she says "Oh my god, is it a compaion cube?" I laugh a bit, she tears it open and says "Yes, I was right, I always wanted one of these." Just thought I'd share that, I'm usually pretty bad at choosing gifts for other people.

[QUOTE=Godline;34055026]You need motivation help, you struggle with other things in life? Shit posting christ im not qualified yet to hold that license ive got years of training to go. FLak- Im not going to argue with that but its what moderators do not kids who feel to the need to nit pick. Yea it is a weird thread the whole concept it weird.[/QUOTE] the whole concept is pretty straightforward, really. friendly social and love advice.

[QUOTE=JohnnyMo1;34055109]Hey Godline remember this post: I did. It applies in here too.[/QUOTE] Cool story , nice to know . Have a good week !

Alright, so back on topic. I'm going to be busy on Saturday but not Friday or Sunday, and I am not sure of this girl's religious denominations. So that makes it possibly two days to go out with her. Why am i stuck on something as trivial as this.

just ask her

[QUOTE=AmericanInfantry;34055541]Alright, so back on topic. I'm going to be busy on Saturday but not Friday or Sunday, and I am not sure of this girl's religious denominations. So that makes it possibly two days to go out with her. Why am i stuck on something as trivial as this.[/QUOTE] Chill out dude, just ask a bit more generally - "this weekend" instead of "this sunday", if she's interested you'll be able to know and can ask "so how about sunday?" and take it from there.

Makes sense. Now I need to not care what others think, actually go for it and I'll be fine.

not going to lie, ask her out americaninfantry, if you're not going to don't. just stop half assing your shit and balls up, you won't amount to much if you half ass your way through life.

[QUOTE=Octyl;34050107]I think the only reason they were making out on my bed is because I repeatedly said that I don't give a fuck if they do stuff together.... That being said, if I ask them to stop doing it, they should fucking stop. Gah. I don't want to break off a friendship over this, because aside from this, he is an awesome friend.[/QUOTE] IMO If my friend was doing that to my ex in my BED. I would probably kick them out of my house, Regardless if they were an "awesome friend" thats where you sleep, and thats your ex. you tell them to stop, they should stop.

[QUOTE=AmericanInfantry;34055541]Alright, so back on topic. I'm going to be busy on Saturday but not Friday or Sunday, and I am not sure of this girl's religious denominations. So that makes it possibly two days to go out with her. Why am i stuck on something as trivial as this.[/QUOTE] what the fuck is this ridiculous bullshit just ask her out you horrendous turd

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what was that smartass

[QUOTE=Turnips5;34056918]what was that smartass[/QUOTE] Something that would probably look like I was trying to engineer others to pity me, even though I wasn't It didn't really contribute to the the thread anyway, so nevermind.

alright cool [editline]5th January 2012[/editline] you can post it if you want, I figure it's what the thread is for, people only get annoyed when literally all someone does is whine without trying to fix their problem

[QUOTE=AmericanInfantry;34036101]There's this girl I'm going for who gives me flirty looks and smiles at me and such. Normally I'd be a dumbshit and say "what do I do" but I'm in the clear here, I'm going to go get her. So what's the problem? A "friend" who is known to fuck people over and not care about anyone but himself is also probably going for her. Knowing my current situation he has no chance. Wish me luck, boys.[/QUOTE] Sounds a bit like what I had. Didn't know this girl at all and I meet her at a party. She says she cold so I gave hee my jumper (Read as beta) and after that we really got off. I didn't know much about her, she was pretty, German, and had a really cute accent. I get home and Facebook explodes with 'dude u r so in there' andvother immature comments made by my friends and other xomplete strangers. A week later I'm dating her and the comments change. Everyone of my good friends is like 'she'll dump u for Mr. XyZ' and I start to worry. Then more people speak to her because of the new attention and more people flirt with her. This is where the downfall happens and I worry about her too much I being ignoring her. Then I get dumped for a bullshit excuse. But now I'm more relax and she was to much effort. Yeah I for bitches on leash but they are all ugly so. Moral of the story - Don't get pussywhiped.

[QUOTE=FreddiRox!;34057218]Sounds a bit like what I had. Didn't know this girl at all and I meet her at a party. She says she cold so I gave hee my jumper (Read as beta) and after that we really got off. I didn't know much about her, she was pretty, German, and had a really cute accent. I get home and Facebook explodes with 'dude u r so in there' andvother immature comments made by my friends and other xomplete strangers. A week later I'm dating her and the comments change. Everyone of my good friends is like 'she'll dump u for Mr. XyZ' and I start to worry. Then more people speak to her because of the new attention and more people flirt with her. This is where the downfall happens and I worry about her too much I being ignoring her. Then I get dumped for a bullshit excuse. But now I'm more relax and she was to much effort. Yeah I for bitches on leash but they are all ugly so. [I]Moral of the story - Don't get pussywhiped[/I].[/QUOTE] [release][h2]THIS POST MAKES NO SENSE[/h2][/release]

I can't tjinkbof the right saying. Mm, just don't be in panic or worry because your partner I'd high maintenance. Sorry I'm not good at toting on my.phone I was tired Si I got up and ate waffle and bnow I cacn sleep

[QUOTE=FreddiRox!;34057335]I can't tjinkbof the right saying. Mm, just don't be in panic or worry because your partner I'd high maintenance. Sorry I'm not good at toting on my.phone I was tired Si I got up and ate waffle and bnow I cacn sleep[/QUOTE] of course it all makes perfect snense

should i ask this girl that im already good friends with out? shes moving within the month and im not sure if it would be pointless or not because i'd probably never see her again

it'd probably be pointless if she's moving far enough away that you might never see her again

[QUOTE=xxncxx;34057427]should i ask this girl that im already good friends with out? shes moving within the month and im not sure if it would be pointless or not because i'd probably never see her again[/QUOTE] It's probably not worth inducing that much pain on yourselves for so short a time. I wouldn't do it. If you like her though, and she does ever come back, ask her out. Time apart can do some interesting things to a friendship.

Imo you don't ask someone out solely to form a relationship. If you think she's interesting and you want to get to know her, then do so. It's all experience, and you can take meaning or value away from every interaction.