The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v2 - General

You fuck still fuck guys even if you like girls you know.

[QUOTE=SaWAH;34328737]so guys i have this sort of silly thing i need to get off my chest i'm scared to death of one day being gay - i've never had a crush on a girl, but i do look at (some) girls and think "gee she's pretty" or "wish i looked like that" - i have watched lesbian or solo-girl porn before, but i'm not really sure whether i've done it because i relate to the pleasure the girls get, but not the pleasure guys get - like, i know how it feels for a girl but not for a guy - i have a boyfriend, and we do rock the bed quite a lot and it's not like i think about girls while doing it but i just can't get rid of the "what if i'm just gay all along?" it's so silly but it's really messing with my head i have a lot of ocd symptoms and my boyfriend and whole family is convinced i have it and i don't know if that might have something to do with it - what i really need is for someone to say to me in a convincing tone that i'm not fucking gay and it's not like being gay would be that bad for me, seeing as my whole family is quite acceptant - i guess my biggest fear is that i wouldn't have my boyfriend if i was gay, and i can't stand that thought[/QUOTE] I don't think you're gay. But it is a possibility.

[QUOTE=Devodiere;34337681]You fuck still fuck guys even if you like girls you know.[/QUOTE] I understand completely, beautifully written piece of advice. edit- [quote]I don't think you're gay. [B]But it is a possibility[/B] [/quote] You make me want to run head first into a wall.

[QUOTE=1chains1;34337579]No I wouldn't because I never talk about weed and if someone calls themselves a weed smoker or a stoner or whatever stupid label they give themselves I wouldn't even talk to them at all. I could give less of a shit the stupid names these people come up for their different types. That being said I have nothing against weed in itself, just the stupid fucks who revolve their life around it and act like pretentious shit over a plant. So if someone is annoyed enough to bother me over the pronunciation of stupid ass name that is one of hundreds of other stupid ass names then they can kiss my slightly tan ass. I smoke maybe once every couple of weeks at a party, since it is a fun tool to relax and really loosens up the environment just like alcohol. And just like alcohol there are people who use it constantly and abuse it to shit ruining it for everyone else. Seriously I saw a dude on Friday looking at a wall drooling when the teacher was lecturing on the other side of the room. The teacher dropped a book right in front of him and sat there 5 fucking seconds (yes I counted) before the student finally turned and reacted. That is just pathetic. /rant over shitheaded people.[/QUOTE]Way to overreact over a small joke :v:

I have a problem with this kid because majority speaking he's an asshole who just in my opinion annoys the shit out of me because he simply just talks about pussy how he gets it and such he brags about weed he Bullys me in a way he cheats off my paper I tell him to fuck off no way of avoiding him so idk what to do about him ? He's a dumbass towards girls simply ploys them I'm going to fuck you in a convo.

[QUOTE=Rusty100;34337616][editline]22nd January 2012[/editline] you absolutely cannot 'turn gay'. that is pretty insulting to gay people to even think that[/QUOTE] well my dad's parents had 2 kids before realising they were gay... "turning gay" may not happen, but not really realising that you are for quite some time, and having led a straight life until then is entirely possible.

yeah but i think that's repression - deep down you'd have to know you're gay the whole time

well like i said i have quite a bit of anxiety issues and whatever i'm going to obsess about changes from time to time - i talked to my boyfriend about it and he just laughed i don't think he could see me being gay at all so i'm pretty sure it's not that (when thinking rationally) - also, the thought gives me panic attacks and i doubt that would happen if i were gay god..

I thought I could be gay once when I was in middle school but then I saw a shirtless dude on a cologne commercial and I said "well that's way better than a naked chick". true story In all actuality though, I honestly wouldn't worry about it. Even if you were a bit bi-curious (which I think is mainly what you're describing here), it's still not really a big deal and you don't have to share it with your boyfriend unless it actually starts to become a problem or if you just feel like telling him how you're feeling. I don't think you're gay, per se, you might just be overthinking an appreciation for the female form. It's normal to see someone of the same sex and think that they look good. It doesn't have to be a homosexual attraction.

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Got stoned as fuck yesterday and kicked it off with a nice chick. I think shes down to get it in if i keep some work effort up(;'

[QUOTE=Autumn;34338573]well my dad's parents had 2 kids before realising they were gay... "turning gay" may not happen, but not really realising that you are for quite some time, and having led a straight life until then is entirely possible.[/QUOTE] Wait, both of them? What are the odds?

[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;34341569]Wait, both of them? What are the odds?[/QUOTE] the chance of you winning the lottery is tiny, but the chance that someone wins the lottery is very high

[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;34341569]Wait, both of them? What are the odds?[/QUOTE] my dad's parents and uncle all turned out to be gay. however there was one other straight uncle!

[QUOTE=Pascall;34340880]I thought I could be gay once when I was in middle school but then I saw a shirtless dude on a cologne commercial and I said "well that's way better than a naked chick". true story In all actuality though, I honestly wouldn't worry about it. Even if you were a bit bi-curious (which I think is mainly what you're describing here), it's still not really a big deal and you don't have to share it with your boyfriend unless it actually starts to become a problem or if you just feel like telling him how you're feeling. I don't think you're gay, per se, you might just be overthinking an appreciation for the female form. It's normal to see someone of the same sex and think that they look good. It doesn't have to be a homosexual attraction.[/QUOTE] I still stand by my theory all the women of facepunch are closet homosexes. You should date a mature woman professor.

[QUOTE=Glitch360;34337411]*schwag, not swag. You'd look pretty stupid if you called it swag in front of weed-smokers :v:[/QUOTE] Doubtful, there are so many different names for drugs that you could easily pretend it

[QUOTE=Contag;34343193]Doubtful, there are so many different names for drugs that you could easily pretend it[/QUOTE] And even then it doesn't really matter, all you have to do is ask your dealer for cheap stuff or nice stuff it is not like he is going to be like "HOW DARE YOU DO NOT KNOW THE TAXONOMY OF THE CANNABIS PLANTS SLIGHTLY DIFFERENT DRUG PRODUCTS I WILL NOT ACCEPT YOUR MEAGER CASH IGNORAMUS."

also who cares if you're gay just enjoy being who you're with, if that happens to be another woman then so be it.

[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;34344155]also who cares if you're gay just enjoy being who you're with, if that happens to be another woman then so be it.[/QUOTE] that's not the point - nobody would care, but i don't want to be i love my boyfriend and i'd throw that away if i was just gay in denial

but if you love him why would you throw it away [editline]22nd January 2012[/editline] my point is why would you worry that you don't actually love him if you do love him anyway you could just be bisexual

you don't really get what i said tbh it's anxiety i have it and it hits hard with strange things from time to time

[QUOTE=SaWAH;34344536]you don't really get what i said tbh it's anxiety i have it and it hits hard with strange things from time to time[/QUOTE] Jesus christ we already told you, IF YOU LOVE YOUR BOYFRIEND YOURE NOT GAY. It is like saying "Man I fucking love cars, but boats are somewhat ok. BUT WHAT IF I REALLY DO FUCKING LOVE BOATS BUT AM IN DENIAL, I AM SCARED I WILL SELL ALL OF MY CARS I OBVIOUSLY FUCKING LOVE MORE."

......... ): [editline]22nd January 2012[/editline] i do love cars though but i'm pretty sure i don't like boats

This one time I was on a boat and it broke down in the middle of a big lake (~20 miles long and 4 miles wide, 200 feet deep) and it was getting dark and we were slowly floating away from the shore and it sucked fuck boats

I don't know how to describe this but: Its like I've changed personalities. My thought has changed, I went from being very social, to being very abstract and philosophical. It's not like I don't like it but, I feel very spaced out and its pissing me off, espcially since my life used to be partying and hooking up with chicks 24/7. fuck.

[QUOTE=SaWAH;34344536]you don't really get what i said tbh it's anxiety i have it and it hits hard with strange things from time to time[/QUOTE] ok so why did you post in an advice thread if you were confident that it was just your "anxiety acting up again" if you knew that none of our advice could help then there's no reason to ask for it is there?

[QUOTE=KingofWaffie;34345270]I don't know how to describe this but: Its like I've changed personalities. My thought has changed, I went from being very social, to being very abstract and philosophical. It's not like I don't like it but, I feel very spaced out and its pissing me off, espcially since my life used to be partying and hooking up with chicks 24/7. fuck.[/QUOTE] i know that feel truth is i really haven't snapped out of it, which gets really annoying

[QUOTE=1chains1;34342254]I still stand by my theory all the women of facepunch are closet homosexes. You should date a mature woman professor.[/QUOTE] no women suck I want a tall intelligent man with good looks and the capacity to put up with my insanity

well at least you're narrowing your margins significantly

[QUOTE=SaWAH;34344536]you don't really get what i said tbh it's anxiety i have it and it hits hard with strange things from time to time[/QUOTE] You keep going on and on with your uncertainties. Don't complicate your life with "what if's", it's making you more anxious and I don't thing you deserve to be like that. There's only one simple thing to do: Just live your life and deal with your problems one day at a time. That's the only way to know how and who you really are and how you act.