The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v2 - General

I'm cute although I obviously insulted the shit out of you. You are a weird person, Autumn... Keep it up though, it's interesting.

[QUOTE=Seith;34375393]I'm cute although I obviously insulted the shit out of you. You are a weird person, Autumn... Keep it up though, it's interesting.[/QUOTE] are you trying to get laid over the internet

Seith you come off as extremely patronizing.

[QUOTE=geogzm;34375613]are you trying to get laid over the internet[/QUOTE] Every time a man speaks to a woman it's for sex?

[QUOTE=Seith;34375729]Every time a man speaks to a woman it's for sex?[/QUOTE] I was kidding :v:

[QUOTE=Pascall;34375622]Seith you come off as extremely patronizing.[/QUOTE] Are you afraid of it ?

How would one be afraid of a patronizing personality.

no, just annoyed by it.

Not going to break up with her yet. I've formed a plan. I'm going to push through this 'break' and at the end, I'm going to ask for a yes or no answer from her if she wants to continue this happily. I've taken quite a lot of messing around from here the past few months. This week is the last I can take.

[QUOTE=Pascall;34375796]How would one be afraid of a patronizing personality.[/QUOTE] You tell me, you've mentioned it... [editline]24th January 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Autumn;34375802]no, just annoyed by it.[/QUOTE] Surely, any person on earth would admit that on the spot.

have you set a definite "date" for when this break ends, because if it's just "somtime next week" or "whenever she feels ready" then that's not going to work

I absolutely HATE being off school. I sit in my house all day doing nothing but practicing/writing music or playing video games. Going out isn't an option because when I tell my mom, "I'm going for a walk." she automatically assumes I'm going to some chicks house to get laid. I have zero motivation to talk to anyone. Is it normal to start to get bored and annoyed with the people you currently are friends with? I hate it when they are texting me trying to start a conversation and I really don't care to speak with them at the moment. The reason I like school is because it gives me something to do and more people to interact with, instead of cringing everytime my phone vibrates to see someone trying to engage in a conversation I don't want to engage in. Urgh life is so mixed for me right now. I want to get out more and freely explore, but the weather is shit and my mom is paranoid (and she probably would get in her car and drive around just to find me). I don't feel like playing games anymore, and I don't want to sit around watching television all day. Sure, I can write music and practice all day, but that becomes rather tedious if I am doing that my entire day. It's gotten to the point where I sleep in as long as I can and take longer and more frequent showers, just to find ways to kill time.

[QUOTE=Autumn;34375802]no, just annoyed by it.[/QUOTE] Refer to this. You go out of your way to make yourself seem all-knowing in comparison to everyone else. It's very annoying and counter-productive.

[QUOTE=geogzm;34375839]Not going to break up with her yet. I've formed a plan. I'm going to push through this 'break' and at the end, I'm going to ask for a yes or no answer from her if she wants to continue this happily. I've taken quite a lot of messing around from here the past few months. This week is the last I can take.[/QUOTE] Plans never go the way your head makes them up to be. It's happened almost every time to me.

[QUOTE=Autumn;34375881]have you set a definite "date" for when this break ends, because if it's just "somtime next week" or "whenever she feels ready" then that's not going to work[/QUOTE] Tuesday next week. [editline]24th January 2012[/editline] Talked to my mother about it, she thinks it's my girlfriend changing.

seith you are one weird dude.

[QUOTE=Pascall;34375890]Refer to this. You go out of your way to make yourself seem all-knowing in comparison to everyone else. It's very annoying and counter-productive.[/QUOTE] I think the people who are annoyed by it, are probably the ones who can't keep up with it. I really didn't go out of my way, nor try at all.. it's funny when something goes out of a certain pattern in people's brain, they pull out unrelated comments to diver from the questions asked / answers given. [editline]24th January 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=GoldenGnome;34375934]seith you are one weird dude.[/QUOTE] I never felt so special in my life.

[QUOTE=Seith;34375862] Surely, any person on earth would admit that on the spot.[/QUOTE] Masochist

[QUOTE=geogzm;34375839]Not going to break up with her yet. I've formed a plan. I'm going to push through this 'break' and at the end, I'm going to ask for a yes or no answer from her if she wants to continue this happily. I've taken quite a lot of messing around from here the past few months. This week is the last I can take.[/QUOTE] Moronic. It's just your lack of will to say goodbye to a candy you love. Be real for a second, leave your feelings aside for a second. This relationship is not worth your efforts, love is everywhere, you really need to stop pushing your needs into her head. [editline]24th January 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=General Omega;34375992]Masochist[/QUOTE] Mostly I refrain from that, but when it's mutual, I won't mind.

[QUOTE=geogzm;34375914]Talked to my mother about it, she thinks it's my girlfriend changing.[/QUOTE] Hate to burst your bubble full of happiness and fun, but people don't change over the course of a few weeks. I hope for the best and that I don't see you back in this thread asking for advice again, but I don't think that will be the case. Also, shut up about Seith. He is who is and clearly he is stubborn enough to not give more than half a shit.

[QUOTE=Seith;34375972]I think the people who are annoyed by it, are probably the ones who can't keep up with it. I really didn't go out of my way, nor try at all.. it's funny when something goes out of a certain pattern in people's brain, they pull out unrelated comments to diver from the questions asked / answers given. [editline]24th January 2012[/editline] I never felt so special in my life.[/QUOTE] This is beginning to sound familiar.

[QUOTE=redBadger;34375886]I absolutely HATE being off school. I sit in my house all day doing nothing but practicing/writing music or playing video games. Going out isn't an option because when I tell my mom, "I'm going for a walk." she automatically assumes I'm going to some chicks house to get laid. I have zero motivation to talk to anyone. Is it normal to start to get bored and annoyed with the people you currently are friends with? I hate it when they are texting me trying to start a conversation and I really don't care to speak with them at the moment. The reason I like school is because it gives me something to do and more people to interact with, instead of cringing everytime my phone vibrates to see someone trying to engage in a conversation I don't want to engage in. Urgh life is so mixed for me right now. I want to get out more and freely explore, but the weather is shit and my mom is paranoid (and she probably would get in her car and drive around just to find me). I don't feel like playing games anymore, and I don't want to sit around watching television all day. Sure, I can write music and practice all day, but that becomes rather tedious if I am doing that my entire day. It's gotten to the point where I sleep in as long as I can and take longer and more frequent showers, just to find ways to kill time.[/QUOTE] get blunt and tell your mom to screw off then get blunt and tell your friends you're not in a talking mood

where do i go with to a girl (not girlfriend) in manchester (no more cinema)

So I went to the library saw a cute guy there who was shelving books tried to think of ways to talk to him Ended up asking him where a particular Andy Warhol book went because I wanted to put it back he took it and smiled but then I went back to looking and forgot what I was doing initially but when I turned around to ask if he worked there or if he was just volunteering, he disappeared. I spent another ten minutes walking around, looking for random books while trying to find him again but he was GONE I am UPSET not really but it kind of sucked lol

[QUOTE=Zethiwag;34377558]where do i go with to a girl (not girlfriend) in manchester (no more cinema)[/QUOTE] Shopping, pretend to be/genuinely be interested.

[QUOTE=geogzm;34377583]Shopping, pretend to be/genuinely be interested.[/QUOTE] Is that all there is? It's so boring and I have to wait outside bra shops.

[QUOTE=Zethiwag;34377714]Is that all there is? It's so boring and I have to wait outside bra shops.[/QUOTE] the pain of non-girlfriend girl-friends

[QUOTE=Zethiwag;34377714]Is that all there is? It's so boring and I have to wait outside bra shops.[/QUOTE] That's kind of a douche move on her part if she goes to a bra shop and knows you'll have to wait outside.

[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;34377822]That's kind of a douche move on her part if she goes to a bra shop and knows you'll have to wait outside.[/QUOTE] Yeah, the only solace I can find in that is I knew what I'd be getting into when I opted to tag along.

[QUOTE=Pascall;34377581]So I went to the library saw a cute guy there who was shelving books tried to think of ways to talk to him Ended up asking him where a particular Andy Warhol book went because I wanted to put it back he took it and smiled but then I went back to looking and forgot what I was doing initially but when I turned around to ask if he worked there or if he was just volunteering, he disappeared. I spent another ten minutes walking around, looking for random books while trying to find him again but he was GONE I am UPSET not really but it kind of sucked lol[/QUOTE] I had a girl nervously approach me in the library at community college a few years ago and start rambling about her favorite science fiction for like 10 minutes I mostly wanted her to shut up so I could keep reading Dune