The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v2 - General

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dude what

Briefly, and I know it will sound like stupid shit to most of you. There's a girl at my school (highschool) who I [I]really[/I] like, can't stop thinking about her, blah blah, and all that stuff. I'm a pretty shy person but we talk at school most days. And I know at least 2 of my friends are also probably interested in her, but at this point I can't tell if she is interested in any of us (or who). And no, I'm not the kind of person who could just go up to her and ask her out tomorrow. I just need general advice on how to approach this.

[QUOTE=JoshJosh117;34395720]Briefly, and I know it will sound like stupid shit to most of you. There's a girl at my school (highschool) who I [I]really[/I] like, can't stop thinking about her, blah blah, and all that stuff. I'm a pretty shy person but we talk at school most days. And I know at least 2 of my friends are also probably interested in her, but at this point I can't tell if she is interested in any of us (or who). And no, I'm not the kind of person who could [b]just go up to her and ask her out tomorrow.[/b] I just need general advice on how to approach this.[/QUOTE] Or give up. Your choice.

How much do you talk together? How long have you been talking? How many hints that she may like you have you noticed, such as... if you were to get really close to her by some reason, whould she back off in an awkward way? Does she "fix" her hair while talking to you?

[QUOTE=JoshJosh117;34395720]And no, I'm not the kind of person who could just go up to her and ask her out tomorrow.[/QUOTE] Bullshit.

What I meant is that I dont have quite enough confidence, at least not yet. Also holy hell is this forum slow as shit for anyone else?

[QUOTE=JoshJosh117;34395720]Briefly, and I know it will sound like stupid shit to most of you. There's a girl at my school (highschool) who I [I]really[/I] like, can't stop thinking about her, blah blah, and all that stuff. I'm a pretty shy person but we talk at school most days. And I know at least 2 of my friends are also probably interested in her, but at this point I can't tell if she is interested in any of us (or who). And no, I'm not the kind of person who could just go up to her and ask her out tomorrow. I just need general advice on how to approach this.[/QUOTE] You would like advice on how to APPROACH THIS, but not HER? Any advice would require you approaching her whether by letter or face to face. You either man up, or be a loser for the rest of your life. I can't stand people who fucking believe they're mediocre at best. As if people were born fucking awesome. This sums your life, I am not fucking kidding. Choosing someone out of sheer luck and comfort, and not getting what you think you should have. Choosing a job that only pays good enough to live with, and not getting what you think you should have. Choosing a life satisfying only by others standards, and be fine with that. That is your life right now. You will be, mediocre, in everything you do unless you man up at least for once in your life. You cannot be a winner if you weren't a loser.

[QUOTE=JoshJosh117;34395720]Briefly, and I know it will sound like stupid shit to most of you. There's a girl at my school (highschool) who I [I]really[/I] like, can't stop thinking about her, blah blah, and all that stuff. I'm a pretty shy person but we talk at school most days. And I know at least 2 of my friends are also probably interested in her, but at this point I can't tell if she is interested in any of us (or who). And no, I'm not the kind of person who could just go up to her and ask her out tomorrow. I just need general advice on how to approach this.[/QUOTE] If you talk every day just try to extend that to after school, park or somewhere like that. No need to make a big thing of it, you'll be pretty aware if she's into you if she want's to tag along. Then if you get the good signals ask her out to the cinema or any other social thing. If you're worried about stepping on your friends toes over her don't be, they really won't mind. Seith - Friendly! remember!

[QUOTE=TheHypnotoad;34396602]If you talk every day just try to extend that to after school, park or somewhere like that. No need to make a big thing of it, you'll be pretty aware if she's into you if she want's to tag along. Then if you get the good signals ask her out to the cinema or any other social thing. If you're worried about stepping on your friends toes over her don't be, they really won't mind. Seith - Friendly! remember![/QUOTE] I never take it easy on people.

[QUOTE=JoshJosh117;34395720]Briefly, and I know it will sound like stupid shit to most of you. There's a girl at my school (highschool) who I [I]really[/I] like, can't stop thinking about her, blah blah, and all that stuff. I'm a pretty shy person but we talk at school most days. And I know at least 2 of my friends are also probably interested in her, but at this point I can't tell if she is interested in any of us (or who). And no, I'm not the kind of person who could just go up to her and ask her out tomorrow. I just need general advice on how to approach this.[/QUOTE] Wow really? If your not going to be that type of person than you've already lost. Have fun going to your friends wedding when they get married. :v: [editline]26th January 2012[/editline] Seith.Maverick.v2

Well gentlemen, I've been invited to a... [B]FRAT PARTY[/B] *dundundun* Do I go, or no? I have no idea.

[QUOTE=ewitwins;34397198]Well gentlemen, I've been invited to a... [B]FRAT PARTY[/B] *dundundun* Do I go, or no? I have no idea.[/QUOTE] Go. Get wrecked, practice magic.

[QUOTE=Seith;34396460]You would like advice on how to APPROACH THIS, but not HER? Any advice would require you approaching her whether by letter or face to face.[/QUOTE] What I am talking about has to do more with this: [QUOTE=TheHypnotoad;34396602]If you're worried about stepping on your friends toes over her don't be, they really won't mind.[/QUOTE] Mind you, one of my friends told me very clearly that he was interested. And another part of this is the feeling that if she says no, interaction will be awkward afterwards. Other than that I believe that at some point I will probably feel more confident and be able to ask her out, but I'm not quite there yet.

[QUOTE=JoshJosh117;34397495]What I am talking about has to do more with this: Mind you, one of my friends told me very clearly that he was interested. And another part of this is the feeling that if she says no, interaction will be awkward afterwards. Other than that I believe that at some point I will probably feel more confident and be able to ask her out, but I'm not quite there yet.[/QUOTE] Don't worry about your friends just go for it before they do. Also Re: confidence. I had this teacher in sixth form who said when we were doing prefect duty (yeah I was a prefect, playa playa) that the first three letters of [B]con[/B]fidence are con. Fake it til you make it.

[QUOTE=JoshJosh117;34395720]Briefly, and I know it will sound like stupid shit to most of you. There's a girl at my school (highschool) who I [I]really[/I] like, can't stop thinking about her, blah blah, and all that stuff. I'm a pretty shy person but we talk at school most days. And I know at least 2 of my friends are also probably interested in her, but at this point I can't tell if she is interested in any of us (or who). And no, I'm not the kind of person who could just go up to her and ask her out tomorrow. I just need general advice on how to approach this.[/QUOTE]You are just being a pansy. Walk up to her and ask her out. You wont know shit if you dont do that.

So I came home and found my dog lying on the floor, had to carry her to my car and take her to the vet. She had internal bleeding from a growth on her spleen and she had 40% chance of survival. They decided to operate on her for 3 hours (I was just sitting there for 5 hours, worst 5 hours of this year) and because they couldnt find where the growth was they had to do an exploratory which amounts to cutting her open all the way. Finally when they finished we got the news that she had done extremely well and now has an 80% chance of survival which is an amazing achievement by the vet as this dog is about 14 years old and is a larger dog. (Bigger the dog = supposedly shorter the life).

If anyone remembers my little [URL="http://www.facepunch.com/threads/1152241?p=34240126&viewfull=1#post34240126"]tale from last week[/URL] then I come with an update. We went out today. I took her to her favorite place where they sell smoothies (her friend told me of the place) and we talked for quite a few hours. In the end I asked if she had a good time and if she would like to go out again sometime and she said yes. Edit: Prior to the date she also started to text me a lot. She once started a conversation by simply saying that her hands were cold when riding her bike since she forgot her gloves. :v: So my guess was that she just wanted to talk.

Congrats on a successful date.

"cant im busy for the next two weeks" Yeah, great excuse!

[QUOTE=1chains1;34398753]So I came home and found my dog lying on the floor, had to carry her to my car and take her to the vet. She had internal bleeding from a growth on her spleen and she had 40% chance of survival. They decided to operate on her for 3 hours (I was just sitting there for 5 hours, worst 5 hours of this year) and because they couldnt find where the growth was they had to do an exploratory which amounts to cutting her open all the way. Finally when they finished we got the news that she had done extremely well and now has an 80% chance of survival which is an amazing achievement by the vet as this dog is about 14 years old and is a larger dog. (Bigger the dog = supposedly shorter the life).[/QUOTE] I had goosebumps while reading this. [editline]26th January 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Tennisball;34400816]"cant im busy for the next two weeks" Yeah, great excuse![/QUOTE] Please, elaborate further. [editline]26th January 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Dr. Disciple;34397005]Wow really? If your not going to be that type of person than you've already lost. Have fun going to your friends wedding when they get married. :v: [editline]26th January 2012[/editline] Seith.Maverick.v2[/QUOTE] No, Seith.Maverick

So after realizing I was taking it too bad, I just decided to man the fuck up and tell her I was breaking up with her and she comes crying back to me. If she does this again, I'm leaving her.

[QUOTE=geogzm;34402240]So after realizing I was taking it too bad, I just decided to man the fuck up and tell her I was breaking up with her and she comes crying back to me. [B]If she does this again, I'm leaving her.[/B][/QUOTE] no you won't. you've already pussied out by going back on your decision to break up with her and if it happens again, you'll pussy out again.

[QUOTE=Autumn;34402304]no you won't. you've already pussied out by going back on your decision to break up with her and if it happens again, you'll pussy out again.[/QUOTE] Oho, Autumn the hard ass. ..is probably right. Talk is cheap, talk on the internet is even cheaper.

[QUOTE=Autumn;34402304]no you won't. you've already[B] kabob'd[/B] out by going back on your decision to break up with her and if it happens again, you'll [B]kabob[/B] out again.[/QUOTE] Fixed.

[QUOTE=Autumn;34402304]no you won't. you've already pussied out by going back on your decision to break up with her and if it happens again, you'll pussy out again.[/QUOTE] Proved you wrong already. She just attempted to do it not even an hour later and I just told her tommorow we're breaking up in person.

good for you, i hope you go through with it

[img]http://img1.uploadscreenshot.com/images/orig/1/2506132616-orig.png[/img] Seriously, she's hung me off the edge of a cliff for too long. She's done this in the worst way possible, she's hurtful and she knows it. She's one of those people who gets a rush out of drama and I regret being so blind I couldn't realize it for myself. [b]I'm free.[/b] [editline]26th January 2012[/editline] Would you advise weed to calm me down from anger and the inevitable sadness until I'm over her? She never let me use it and my friend's been begging me to try it with him.

[QUOTE=geogzm;34403214]Would you advise weed to calm me down from anger and the inevitable sadness until I'm over her? She never let me use it and my friend's been begging me to try it with him.[/QUOTE] no, because if it does then you're going to start thinking that you need it to stay calm, when you don't.

[QUOTE=geogzm;34403214] Would you advise weed to calm me down from anger and the inevitable sadness until I'm over her? She never let me use it and my friend's been begging me to try it with him.[/QUOTE] yeah take drugs when you feel bad, what a great idea. that's how i ended up on heroin so no that's a terrible idea.