The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice Thread v2 - General

[QUOTE=CheeserCrice;34449113]If it really was just a bad week you should think about getting back with her, if its something more intergrally wrong with the relationship then I'd steer clear if I were you. But the important thing is to do what will make you both happy, not to please her alone or yourself alone.[/QUOTE] That is what I am thinking. On Thursday it will be a year since me and her started talking and I truly believe both of us have matured and changed a lot in that time. Told me yesterday that she stopped hanging out with some of her friends who I don't like. Also said how some singer was performing near her house last night when we went out but she preferred going out with me than go see this singer. And some other stuff like how I always make her laugh.. The only thing that was integrally wrong with the relationship at the time was me, like I said I was just over-protective and shit...I had too much pride and arrogance at the time and thought all her feelings should be for me. Thinking back on it, I was so fucked up but I truly believe I have changed for the better. From what I've said, do you guys think that she still has feelings for me?

Say yay for FRIENDZONE. For uhh, sixth or seventh time? Fuck me, im off to the depression thread thingy.

[QUOTE=Str4fe;34449737]Say yay for FRIENDZONE. For uhh, sixth or seventh time? Fuck me, im off to the depression thread thingy.[/QUOTE] Godspeed.

Okay, I've asked this question several times now, because honestly I can't wait to talk to this girl. But anyway, what's the worst that can come from talking to a girl (that to be honest, I don't know better than to say hi) over Facebook with the intention of the conversation leading to me asking her out on a small date. Is it honestly that big of a deal?

It's not a big deal. Asking anyone out usually isn't a big deal but people tend to blow it out of proportion and start speculating about what happens if it goes wrong, which leads to nervousness and anxiety. If Facebook is the only way you can contact her, then go for it. Otherwise, if you have another method of contacting her, either face to face or via phone call, I'd opt for that.

Do not invite women to dates over Facebook. You can engage in some very basic conversation, but nothing more than that. Hold your horses.

I can wait two weeks until we go back to school, but in teenage drama years, that's such a long time.

Yeah two weeks isn't very long. You'll be fine.

Get her number over facebook then call her?

Hey guys, I just need help understanding this situation I'm stuck in. I broke up with my girlfriend because I started losing interest, but I didn't want it to get to the point where I'd be lying to her by saying I still loved her. Now I realized I still did love and that I just needed a break for a bit. As much as I tried to tell her how sorry I am, and how it was the biggest mistake of my life (so far, I consider this true, she was really the only person I cared for), but she said she only wanted to be friends, which I understand because I hurt her so much. The only problem now is that one day she was PMS-ing, and out of nowhere decides to kiss me on the lips. I took this as a hint that she wanted to go back out with me in the future. Days later, she tells me that she only wants to be friends. At this point I'm just frustrated because she basically led me on when I tried not to lead her on in the first place. So now I'm stuck with the choice of just being friends with her, or completely ignoring her. Right now I'm just so angry I don't want to see her again, but I don't want to act on impulse, so I just want to know what I should do about all of this. Sorry for the long and awkward post :v:

[QUOTE=huntingrifle;34450815]Hey guys, I just need help understanding this situation I'm stuck in. I broke up with my girlfriend because I started losing interest, but I didn't want it to get to the point where I'd be lying to her by saying I still loved her. Now I realized I still did love and that I just needed a break for a bit. As much as I tried to tell her how sorry I am, and how it was the biggest mistake of my life (so far, I consider this true, she was really the only person I cared for), but she said she only wanted to be friends, which I understand because I hurt her so much. The only problem now is that one day she was PMS-ing, and out of nowhere decides to kiss me on the lips. I took this as a hint that she wanted to go back out with me in the future. Days later, she tells me that she only wants to be in a relationship. At this point I'm just frustrated because she basically led me on when I tried not to lead her on in the first place. So now I'm stuck with the choice of just being friends with her, or completely ignoring her. Right now I'm just so angry I don't want to see her again, but I don't want to act on impulse, so I just want to know what I should do about all of this. Sorry for the long and awkward post :v:[/QUOTE] "she tells me that she only wants to be in a relationship." So she wants a relationship or to be just friends? or is my english broekn?

Fixed. Too stressed out about the relationship and a bunch of other things in my life to notice :v:

I remember when I was young, about the age of 9 or so I would sit alone in a field at my playground thinking if I acted like a meditating karate master everyone would think I was badass and I would pull all the bitches. I usually just got leftover food from lunch thrown at me. FUCK THE 4TH GRADE.

so for some reason my social skills have upped and shot themselves in the past couple of days, and i'm feeling low as hell i have no idea why, but this happens every winter what can a suave and successful man do to fix this

[QUOTE=Mon;34455058]so for some reason my social skills have upped and shot themselves in the past couple of days, and i'm feeling low as hell i have no idea why, but this happens every winter what can a suave and successful man do to fix this[/QUOTE] Look women in the eyes and smile, be genuine. But if you have bad teeth and ugly eyes dont do that. You could also try hugging everyone, but make sure you smell nice.' Or pretend like youre dying so you get sympathy sex. Then move away.

The winter tends to fuck with peoples chemistry. Just try staying active and always have something to do.

[QUOTE=Dr. Disciple;34455183]The winter tends to fuck with peoples chemistry. Just try staying active and always have something to do.[/QUOTE] Or I could sleep in and eat a whole bag of chips plus a 6 pack of coke while playing battlefield 3.

[QUOTE=Dr. Disciple;34455183]The winter tends to fuck with peoples chemistry. Just try staying active and always have something to do.[/QUOTE] Way too true. Winter ruins all of my relationships, mainly by being the time of year where all my break-ups and arguments occur.

[QUOTE=Dr. Disciple;34455183]The winter tends to fuck with peoples chemistry. Just try staying active and always have something to do.[/QUOTE] sounds like a plan i need a vacation, my mind is too fragile for canadian winters

Fuck winter. I loved the fact that there was no snow where I lived.

I think I'm overly critical of stupid things For instance, I was chilling in my girlfriend's dorm doing homework while gf was on the computer reading something for class and her roommate was present. I would often look up from my homework hoping that she would glance over at me or something but it never happened and it just bugs me so much. Half the time I tell myself she's focused on her homework and the other half I'm thinking she has no interest in me simply due to the fact she wont look up at me from her work. but theres more, she is a naturally quiet/shy person and this may factor in. Hell, I would probably be better off dating her roommate as we communicate a whole lot better. we went together to pick up the gf from her house and we had an engaged conversation for practically 75% of the ride there. I just need to chill the fuck out. I mean I'm a sophmore in college who has a moderate school work load, I really shouldn't be worried about finding a good girlfriend and just go with the flow.

Yeah you pretty much answered your own question

[QUOTE=Jmir 54;34456168]For instance, I was chilling in my girlfriend's dorm doing homework while gf was on the computer reading something for class and her roommate was present. I would often look up from my homework hoping that she would glance over at me or something but it never happened and it just bugs me so much. Half the time I tell myself she's focused on her homework and the other half I'm thinking she has no interest in me simply due to the fact she wont look up at me from her work.[/QUOTE] In all fairness to your girlfriend, when I take the time to sit down and study, I tend to ignore everyone else in the room. Hell, one time my freshman year, a guy named Dotun came by and basically sat down at the television next to me to play GoW and then like 3 others joined in soon after. It wasn't until after I finished reading that I noticed any of them.

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There's this girl that I like, and she likes me, we play Borderlands and Portal 2 and stuff like that together. But when we're at school, she likes to playfully beat up on me. Not that I have a problem with it, but i'm not sure how to react. What do?

Beat the shit out of her. How have you been reacting to it?

I've been simply laughing, or tossing back objects that she throws at me. This sounds a bit odd, doesn't it?

guys you can't blame the weather for your failed relationships, that's just stupid

There's this thing called Seasonal Affective Disorder that makes people sad in the winter. They have treatments like artificial sunlight LED lamps that perk people up a bit, so it is a thing. My old psychology teacher had it. I don't think everyone has it though, like how everyone seems to self diagnose themselves with aspergers and things like that. But I think most of us get a bit down in the winter, cos everything outside looks dull and shit and cold.

you can blame the weather for shifting weight onto your anemic conflict resolution skills though besides SAD is a real thing, albeit a stupid stupid acronym [editline]31st January 2012[/editline] No, humans are pretty susceptible to seasonal changes. The incidence rate has been established at anywhere from 10-20% of the population, and subsyndromal (not severe enough symptoms) SAD is pretty prevalent