[QUOTE=WolvesSoulZ;33529934]Do you really think your girlfriend will always be there to relieve your building prostate cancer? I don't think so, Mr. Right Hand is always going to be there for that, and pornography, is going to be his rhythm, let it work for you. Because in the long run, if you don't, he'll send his lovely friend, prostate cancer, right at you, seeking revenge.
On the subject, I do not think it is cheating to watch porn even if you are in a relationship, on my side, it never was an issue with any of my partners. Let's face it, everyone watch porn, well nearly since there's always exceptions.[/QUOTE]
Had a good lol at that top bit.
On topic, I fail to see how cheating can be associated with pornography. Porn is what drove the communication industry up to where it is today. its not a person or a character, its a genre. If your girl and or boyfriend has an issue with you viewing pornography, thats one thing. But to consider it cheating is a whole new level of "what?". Its simply illogical to assume that If I had to choose between the girl I love and some girl getting filled on a screen that I would choose the swiss cheese over the [I]girl I love.[/I] If she honestly thinks that the scenario there is possible, then you need to bail. Cause next you'll have to choose between your right hand and her, and thats just too far. (all of this is ignoring the fact that if you have to choose at all then there is a bigger problem at hand)
If I were married to a woman I loved and we had sex regularly, then I'd consider it unfaithful to look at porn, yes.
It never feels right, but I do it anyway.
Maybe I should try not looking at porn in my next relationship.
I don't think I would consider it cheating, but it might be a problem. Your partner might get insecure and doubt their own ability to please you sexually. And insecurity is fucking toxic in any relationship.
I can't believe this is a serious discussion. If your partner doesn't like it, they have a problem.
If fapping to porn was the same thing no one would bother with sexual partners.
My last Girlfriend was fine with me watching porn, it wasn't like I was seeing somebody else.
I can see why a girl would have problems with it.
I don't think you should do it behind their backs and not tell them. But if they say it's okay, then it's fine.
Whether or not someone watches porn when they masturbate doesn't really matter, as in that case it's not really about the specific people in the porn. I mean, consider a relationship where one person has a higher sex drive than the other (which is probably going to be most relationships, at least to some degree). If the person with a higher sex drive is gonna have a wank from time to time it's irrelevant if they watch porn or not. Cheating is when you do shit with an actual, different person.
I'd say women that are disgusted by husbands watching porn should take a finger out of their ass and piss off.
The thought of your husband cheating on you because of your own self of insecurity is absurd. Women use this "he's watching porn he's cheating" to cover their own insecurities with their own bodies. Why would a woman be affected by this when she thinks of herself as a great human being capable of giving awesome sex, or at least, will do his best to ensure satisfaction ?
Porn is available, and it's another mean of relief. If I come home, she's not home and I wanna have a wank, why would I not? She can do the same.
Even though, I strongly believe, when one is using porn while is a strong sexual relationship, the amount should reduce significantly. There are tons of ways to make a relationship sexually stimulating and fulfilling to even not want porn.
EDIT:
To the guy above, about a partners higher sexual drive, I'd say that's nonsense and bullshit reason to use porn. That mindset "I am having (the woman) a lot of fun, yet I lack the sexual drive to have more. Even though, physically, my body should want this absurdly more when in relationship because I MUST have a child" in every woman contradicts the fact this shall happen. Meaning, there's something wrong in the bed department.
Also, I don't refer to men, as it's rare for a man to have less need to have sex on a regular basis. To a woman, that makes sense, as sex needs to be in the right setting physically and mentally.
If watching porn is the same as having sex then I'm a fucking [I]sex machine[/I]
There are no rules to relationships. If the people involved agree upon no porn and one of them breaks that agreement, then that's their issue. Alternately, if they're fine with porn then it's equally OK.
What isn't OK is when you freak out at someone for watching porn when you haven't made any agreement or understanding over it.
My girlfriend finds it ok, as long as it's hentai :P She watches that stuff too with me anyway ^^
My ex always got turned on when we watched porn.
That was the catalyst of me losing my virginity.
[QUOTE=Clankio;33579903]My girlfriend finds it ok, as long as it's hentai :P She watches that stuff too with me anyway ^^[/QUOTE]Yaoi stuff? ^.^
Probably up to the couples to decide.
[QUOTE=Clankio;33579903]My girlfriend finds it ok, as long as it's hentai :P She watches that stuff too with me anyway ^^[/QUOTE]
omg
Yes, its normal. It's not going to be like you are going to have the same sex drive as your partner.
It isn't cheating, but if one partner is far more interested in porn than their partner there's something not quite right in the relationship.
I think that watching porn together is an important bonding experience.
Watching Porn? I came into this thread expecting one partner being in the porn Business actually doing porn.
Watching Porn isn't wrong though, neither is checking out your partners sister sexy ass.
Personally I don't think it is cheating but if it made the other person discomfortable I wouldn't look at it
[QUOTE=Silikone;33525490]I'm a virgin, but I don't think that I would fap to porn if i had a girlfriend. I don't see the point.[/QUOTE]
I don't think your girlfriend would be willing to have sex everytime you felt like jerking off.
I wouldn't want to be in a relationship that said that watching pornography wasn't allowed and if the woman thought it was cheating I would probably find her too dumb to even want to be with anymore. As it's been mentioned watching porn is just as much cheating as playing violent videogames is murder.
It's on a couple to couple basis.
I don't think it seems right, IMO.
Fapping to strangers when you're in a relationship seems odd.
[QUOTE=CommanderMayhem;33649330]I don't think it seems right, IMO.
Fapping to strangers when you're in a relationship seems odd.[/QUOTE]
How so?
It would be strange if your girlfriend was the hottest person on earth, even more bangable than porn actresses which are sex objects.
It's very different to want to fuck a person and want to be with a person. If either partner thinks watching porn means the person thinks the other person is unattractive or similar, then said person has a problem.
It really depends on how sure you are of yourself and your relationship that way. If the girl knows her boyfriend is fapping over porn and is cool with that chances are she is very sure of herself but if she had confidence issues she may feel she isn't enough for him and that's when misunderstandings become stepping stones in the relationship.
I finally got a girlfriend about a year ago that I feel comfortable and completely open with, and she doesn't want me to watch porn. Even if I joke about it or hint at it she gets mad. She feels that it's unfair to her because she doesn't go on the internet and look at naked men.
The thing is, I have a problem. I've been watching porn since I was 11 years old, hardcore porn. It's an addiction for me, I can't avoid it if I have internet. I just don't say anything and continue to fap to porn every now and then.
I feel bad about it a lot...
[editline]11th December 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=dgg;33649356]
It's very different to want to fuck a person and want to be with a person. [/QUOTE]
No, if I'm going to fuck someone I want to be with that person too. I hate the idea of meaningless sex.
Couples can decide to do whatever they want, it's not up to us to decide what's okay.
[QUOTE=seano12;33682776]No, if I'm going to fuck someone I want to be with that person too. I hate the idea of meaningless sex.[/QUOTE]
So you want to be with every person you wank to when watching porn?
[QUOTE=dgg;33683508]So you want to be with every person you wank to when watching porn?[/QUOTE]
No? That's just to help me cum.
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