[QUOTE=Yamotha;47422562][IMG]http://hugelolcdn.com/i460/330310.jpg[/IMG][/QUOTE]
WHYYYY
WHY WOULD ANYONE DO THAT
[QUOTE=Yamotha;47422562][IMG]http://hugelolcdn.com/i460/330310.jpg[/IMG][/QUOTE]
What the fuck can the blood still move in those legs?
It's too cold here in Oxford :c
[QUOTE=gerbe1;47422082]Meanwhile I have a question about the above mentioned guy. If he is all over me when we're together, kissing me on the cheek, hugging me, holding my hand etc and I reciprocate, is it possible he isn't actually interested in me as a person? He just finds me attractive?
He's always super reluctant to talk about what he does and that kind of thing. I stayed at his house last night and slept on his floor much to my chagrin because I felt that I definitely didn't know him enough to be there. It's hard to enjoy being with someone who is essentially a stranger.
Also I am unsure if his friends like me or not.
[editline]30th March 2015[/editline]
They don't really talk to me? Just ignore me and talk to him and when he was in the bathroom or whatever and I tried to talk to them they didn't engage at all.
[editline]30th March 2015[/editline]
Also I think I am way too clingy but at the same time he can't keep his hands off me so why can't I keep texting him? Or is that too off putting.
Is it a bad technique to wait until he contacts me as a form of self-control, or does that just come across as disinterest.[/QUOTE]
Straight guys get like that around 17 too
You best way to know for sure what he wants would be just to honestly ask, but alternately just see if he engages with you talking and doing things other than physical stuff with eachother
He might just be someone who has a bit more trouble opening up
I probably wouldnt worry about his friends too much for the time being, you could ask him about it but frankly it wont change much either way. Id deal with him first, thats the important bit, then see about working into the group.
Generally in an even relationship both sides should be doing contacting, if one person is always messaging first and doing the engaging it seems like whoever isnt doesnt really have that much of an interest, they arnt putting in an equal effort. A good rule of thumb if you want to make sure you dont over do it is 2 messages before waiting for a response. You can send one for whatever your talking about and one to change the topic if that doesnt seem to be going anywhere then wait for a responce before sending more.
[QUOTE=Yamotha;47422562][IMG]http://hugelolcdn.com/i460/330310.jpg[/IMG][/QUOTE]
Don't worry, it's just a mic wire!
Finland's always cold.
Except when we get those 3 months of summer, then it's on-par with a tropical country.
I can't cross my legs like most people do, I don't claim to have a large... Limb, and my balls aren't crushed [I]per-se[/I] but it's really uncomfortable for me unless I do a weird <> thing with my legs.
[QUOTE=NoOnE#235;47422649]I can't cross my legs like most people do, I don't claim to have a large... Limb, and my balls aren't crushed [I]per-se[/I] but it's really uncomfortable for me unless I do a weird <> thing with my legs.[/QUOTE]
I have my legs wide too. People consider it as me trying to be all "tough" and "lad" ish but i'm just like... no.... this is how i sit.
My legs are always crossed while I'm sitting.
Only exception would be while I'm driving, because obviously I need them to do stuff.
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;47422652]Well Greeley you are a tough lad.[/QUOTE]
The toughest.
I threaten all the people.
[sp](im literally a teddy bear)[/sp]
Did they remove the 'Happy birthdy' banner thingy?
Crossed legs are pretty cute if it's done like thigh over thigh. If it's just like at the ankles it's pretty boring.
I cross mine mostly out of a need to keep them doing something. If I just sit normally my legs start aching.
I always bounce my legs.
All this reminded me.
I participated pub openings at Saturday, which is basically that everyone who wants take their bike for a ride through some villages around the city and visit pubs that opens on that day.
Point is. So many manly butts in skin tight sports wear. Hnnnng!
If I am sat in a normal chair I mostly cross my legs thigh to thigh. However when in a large lazy sitting chair or a comfy couch I'd earlier cross my ankle over my leg.
[QUOTE=Tomo Takino;47422687]Crossed legs are pretty cute if it's done like thigh over thigh. If it's just like at the ankles it's pretty boring.
I cross mine mostly out of a need to keep them doing something. If I just sit normally my legs start aching.[/QUOTE]
I cross mine almost always
Then the pins and needles happen
I [I]sometimes[/I] sit on my right leg. or at least put it under my left theigh.
[QUOTE=Dom Pyroshark;47422710]All this reminded me.
I participated pub openings at Saturday, which is basically that everyone who wants take their bike for a ride through some villages around the city and visit pubs that opens on that day.
Point is. So many manly butts in skin tight sports wear. Hnnnng![/QUOTE]
Take me with you.
[QUOTE=Thomo_UK;47422725]I cross mine almost always
Then the pins and needles happen[/QUOTE]
I end up hobbling around the house running into everything because I sit on my legs or I cross them too long.
Even now I am just sitting here bouncing them up and down and they are still sore.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;47422614]Straight guys get like that around 17 too
You best way to know for sure what he wants would be just to honestly ask, but alternately just see if he engages with you talking and doing things other than physical stuff with eachother
He might just be someone who has a bit more trouble opening up
I probably wouldnt worry about his friends too much for the time being, you could ask him about it but frankly it wont change much either way. Id deal with him first, thats the important bit, then see about working into the group.
Generally in an even relationship both sides should be doing contacting, if one person is always messaging first and doing the engaging it seems like whoever isnt doesnt really have that much of an interest, they arnt putting in an equal effort. A good rule of thumb if you want to make sure you dont over do it is 2 messages before waiting for a response. You can send one for whatever your talking about and one to change the topic if that doesnt seem to be going anywhere then wait for a responce before sending more.[/QUOTE]
That's what I tend to do on the messaging front but I spend the next day or two waiting for a response. I have put up with that though twice now and both times he has messaged me but he waits for a legitimate reason whereas I would totally want to message him about a cool flower I saw or something.
I like putting my thoughts at people. I love doing conscious thought streams into steam chat boxes and stuff and the way I talk one message can come out as three etc..
I am just weird so.
[editline]30th March 2015[/editline]
And like just waiting for him, especially after spending the night at his house on the floor maybe he'll think I am not interested?
Dillema.
Gotten a work trial at a bar, on Friday!!
It's gonna be packed, nervous but lookin forward to it
[QUOTE=AntontheFox;47420009]So, I told you about my friend a while ago who was afraid to "come out" to her parents. Well she did it the other day, but sadly it didnt end well. For those who didnt see my last post, it was about my friend who is a lesbian & her parents are super religious wich is why she was afraid of how they would react when she told them about it.
Her dad more or less just told her to pack her stuff & she was no longer welcome in their home & her mother became furious because "they didnt raise her this way". Me & my brother helped her move her things out today.
It quite literally makes me shake from anger on how people can even do that to their own daughter & considering she is my closest & pretty much only friend it hits extra hard.
She is going to stay at my house until she can find a place of her own, but it really makes me furious how people can be so cruel, if thats a way to put it.[/QUOTE]
i'm sorta in the same boat. my parents are very religiously conservative but i've always wanted to tell them the truth because i hate lying to them. i've always been a really good son both behaviorally and religiously and they've given me the "no matter what you'll always be our son" talk but i don't know how they would react.
plus they hold me up to a higher standard religiously because my older brother basically said fuck religion when he moved out.
[QUOTE=Thomo_UK;47423028]Gotten a work trial at a bar, on Friday!!
It's gonna be packed, nervous but lookin forward to it[/QUOTE]
As long as you're not utter shit and actively cause disaster, they should be cool with ya. Just have fun and relax, its mostly personality based.
People who can't cross their legs have shower. Growers are best! Still, I'd rather sit like a monk.
[QUOTE=LuaChobo;47423855]yay my parents think im gonna kill myself or something because i sent a few messages to them while i had a panic attack
nice![/QUOTE]
Saying what exactly?
[QUOTE=kimr120;47423529]People who can't cross their legs have shower. Growers are best! Still, I'd rather sit like a monk.[/QUOTE]
I can cross my legs and my penis practically doubles in size
[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;47424566]I can cross my legs and my penis practically doubles in size[/QUOTE]
1 inch to 2 inches isn't that impressive :/
He's Canadian so you should use the metric system
1 to 2 centimeters
inches is great when used together with centimeter. Same for feet.
Go from 2inches to 7. Kinda cool.
Is it normal to think I was straight for most of my life, but now am now way more interested in being with a male partner than a female? I'm like 18 right now and started thinking about this quite a few months ago, I was less sure then but am a bit more certain that I'd be happier this way.
[QUOTE=cheetahben;47424727]1 inch to 2 inches isn't that impressive :/[/QUOTE]
not what your mom said
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