• Gay Chat V12 - Even More Optimistic
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[QUOTE=Batmoutarde;47225535]Advice Shiba strikes again. He's got shades and a coat so you know he's legit[/QUOTE] Nobody is safe from my self-indulgent wordy backlash.
What if I throw you a bone (mensweardog is awesome)
How are his glasses even staying on? They're resting under his ears. Maybe they just want to stick around.
his head is bigger than his glasses, just like my dick.
They could be sitting somewhat tight on his face. I wish I had more reason to post here. Feels weird lurking around reading every post.
[QUOTE=Ax3l;47227786]They could be sitting somewhat tight on his face. I wish I had more reason to post here. Feels weird lurking around reading every post.[/QUOTE] What is your favourite flavour of lemonade?
lemon
Correct.
Lemon and melon are anagrams
Lemon juice is awesome. Especially with sugar and water.
[QUOTE=Zeke129;47228171]Lemon and melon are anagrams[/QUOTE] um what [editline]lol[/editline] excuse me
[QUOTE=Teto;47227794]What is your favourite flavour of lemonade?[/QUOTE] Strawberry, of course.
Parents are away until tomorrow afternoon, my nan is being handled by my aunt so I'm entirely left alone for a day. I get to walk around the house alone in bike shorts and skirts without feeling gross. Yay.
Anyone know what might be wrong with me? I need 12-13 hours of sleep in order to feel rested. I remember taking a blood test before but I'm not even sure what the fuck that was for, it might have been for my stomach problems but I was given B12 injections. Could it have something to do with a lack of B12 because my blood test was taken after I took a B12 shot so it naturally said I had too much B12 in me. [editline]27th February 2015[/editline] I am feeling a bit down today from yesterday, right now I'm just really tired at its 6pm even though I ent to bed at 1AM and woke up at 12:30pm
When I was depressed I'd be epping for 12-13 hours a day while still being really sleepy
Really that, mental states can heavily influence sleeping patterns and the efficacy of sleep.
Sometimes I really hate being gay because of other gays. Everyone is so obsessed with looks and status.
[QUOTE=jp_rsardeto;47229231]Sometimes I really hate being gay because of other gays. Everyone is so obsessed with looks and status.[/QUOTE] I didn't want to really identify as gay or be gay because homosexuals can be absolute shit to eachother.
Most gays I know are so full of themselves and think they are so above everyone. I'm so sick of how narcissistic they are. Or better saying: we are. Because sometimes I get so self-aware of my appearance that when I realize about it I'm like "Wtf when did I become so selfish?". I open Facebook sometimes and it's like I'm arriving at a butcher shop fair where everyone is showing off their meat hoping that someone will take it. Call it envy or lack of confidence, I don't care I'm just so over this kind of thing.
The only people who care for that kinda of think are the same people who would just fuck you once and pretend you're a random stranger the next day
You guys talk about gays being shitty to each-other like that's unique to us. Sometimes people are crappy to each-other, doesn't matter what your sexuality, gender, religion, ethnicity, or whatever is. Everyone is narcissistic at times, everyone can be selfish, etc. The only way to guarantee nothing nice will happen to you is to stop trying, and the simplest way to justify doing so is to say something along the lines of "everyone sucks."
[QUOTE=Smashmaster;47229415]You guys talk about gays being shitty to each-other like that's unique to us. Sometimes people are crappy to each-other, doesn't matter what your sexuality, gender, religion, ethnicity, or whatever is. Everyone is narcissistic at times, everyone can be selfish, etc. The only way to guarantee nothing nice will happen to you is to stop trying, and the simplest way to justify doing so is to say something along the lines of "everyone sucks."[/QUOTE] It's not exclusive to us but it's a lot more common.
Well, everyone is shitty. I just think we faggots have our own, not-unique but much more prevalent ways of being shitty?
People love to hound on these segments of the gay community. The sooner you stop letting them get to you, you ignore those who have that attitude, the sooner you'll be happy. The ugliest person I met on my Europe trip was the physically most attractive. I never said anything about him before now because I'd completely forgotten about it. We were at a club and we were drunk and I mentioned how his boyfriend and him were cute because I was upset they hadn't kissed once the whole night. He turned to me and said "yeah but I'm the more attractive one, right?" And I didn't see him after that. I didn't think about him either. Don't dwell on what other people do or say if it's ugly or how all the gays are like this or that and how it's deterimental. That's how you let the same status and appearance that they're obsessed with consume you. The two people in my life I have really felt a relationship could work with... I've had comments about both of them and how I can "do better" because physically they think I'm way better looking or something. Yet those two people are the most beautiful people I've ever met. Don't evade identifying as gay or generalise the whole gay community when all you have to do to change what you're complaining about is ignore them, find something you love doing and do it. If you run into those people, pity them. They're probably constantly horrified they're not more attractive than their boyfriend.
[QUOTE=jp_rsardeto;47229231]Sometimes I really hate being gay because of other gays. Everyone is so obsessed with looks and status.[/QUOTE] Straight people do that too, don't worry about it.
[QUOTE=jp_rsardeto;47229231]Sometimes I really hate being gay because of other gays. Everyone is so obsessed with looks and status.[/QUOTE] This is true for all cliques/interests/etc tbh The solution is to stop associating yourself/being around those that are obsessed with looks and status Everyone certainly is not like that at all. At least out of high school. There still are some, though. [editline]28th February 2015[/editline] [QUOTE=jp_rsardeto;47229311]Most gays I know are so full of themselves and think they are so above everyone. I'm so sick of how narcissistic they are. Or better saying: we are. Because sometimes I get so self-aware of my appearance that when I realize about it I'm like "Wtf when did I become so selfish?". I open Facebook sometimes and it's like I'm arriving at a butcher shop fair where everyone is showing off their meat hoping that someone will take it. Call it envy or lack of confidence, I don't care I'm just so over this kind of thing.[/QUOTE] Almost nobody I know is like this lol And I've gotten to know a ton of gay people over the past couple of years Also there is nothing wrong or "selfish" about being concerned with self appearance? Everyone should have some concern for their self image. Being unbalanced about it is a problem (where you can never appreciate any good qualities you have or always think you are amazing), but I really doubt you are like that.
[QUOTE=jp_rsardeto;47229231]Sometimes I really hate being gay because of other gays. Everyone is so obsessed with looks and status.[/QUOTE] What's wrong with caring a lot about how you look? That's how you get a hot partner, good looking people will only date other good looking people.
[QUOTE=Roll_Program;47230575]What's wrong with caring a lot about how you look? That's how you get a hot partner, good looking people will only date other good looking people.[/QUOTE] I'm not going to say it's [I]wrong[/I] to care a lot about how you look because it's just part of being human to look for an attractive partner, but there are definitely floors and ceilings of attractiveness based on who you were born and that might frustrate some (as well as the effort required to attain their ceiling).
Anyone can go to a gym and get a really great body after a year to compensate for an ugly face, going to the gym is like the easiest and best thing you can do for how you look and for confidence.
I hate how much do my grandma and grand-auntie request that i should behave like this and this. FUCK OFF, I KNOW YOU LIVED IN A HARSHER WORLD, BUT STOP ANNOYING ME PLEASE.
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