[QUOTE=LuaChobo;47276347]"4 months of experience isnt enough to judge it by"
just sayin' ive seen enough of it to never want anything to do with it again in any scenario
since i assume you are a furry im not really gonna go into it anymore because its like punching a wall and hoping it flinches[/QUOTE]
It still sounds like your own unreasonable reactions were the fuel to the drama. I couldn't possibly get mad if a boyfriend were to show me his sex toys or joke about his interests. I feel that you're very biased and that I can't really trust you to present the whole situation.
I know I'm being harsh but I'd break up with you too if in a relationship where I can't even be open about my sexual interests or, /gasp/, ask you facetiously to join in, without you becoming bitchy.
edit: elaboration:
Instead of acknowledging your relationship with him like a reasonable person and understanding that you both had issues and incompatibilities that led to you being a poor match, you're [B]dead certain[/B] that it was [B]all his fault[/B] that he [B]broke up with you[/B], and what's more, it is allll because he's a [I]furry[/I], and clearly because he's a furry, [I]his particular group of friends that obviously are similar to him because they're his friends [/I] must represent all furries.
You really sound like you've held an irrational slant against anything furry for a very long time and can't handle anyone questioning it, so you blame everyone else.
I remember when one guy from FP added me and asked me if I am furry. After I admited it, he began questioning me on if I do stuff that could be considered almost meta for most furries, which I answered to practically everything with 'no'. And, hell take me if I am lying, he said "You are the weirdest furry I've ever met." :v:
He even asked me if I am sure I am one because I seemed to be nothing like most of other furries he talked to.
[editline]7th March 2015[/editline]
Funny, the most furry thing I've ever did to this day is setting my avatar here to my current one :v:
[QUOTE=bitches;47276794]It still sounds like your own unreasonable reactions were the fuel to the drama. I couldn't possibly get mad if a boyfriend were to show me his sex toys or joke about his interests. I feel that you're very biased and that I can't really trust you to present the whole situation.[/QUOTE]
While I agree with the sentiment, I think it was his boyfriend's friends who wanted to show him their toy collections, which I agree is more than a tad weird.
I should get non-furry avatar... and change my name while at it
[QUOTE=Dom Pyroshark;47276973]I should get non-furry avatar... and change my name while at it[/QUOTE]
only if i get to make you your next avatar
[QUOTE=bitches;47276987]only if i get to make you your next avatar[/QUOTE]
Unless you take CSGO and TF2 items as a payment, that won't happen, friend :(
[QUOTE=Dom Pyroshark;47276973]I should get non-furry avatar... and change my name while at it[/QUOTE]
Why, though?
[QUOTE=NoOnE#235;47277102]Why, though?[/QUOTE]
Iunno, had this one for pretty long
And Pyrosharking is now practically a TF2 meme and I want to stay away from that even though I don't play TF2 at all these days.
Can't change your username anymore, you'd have to make a new account.
I wanted to change my name but i barely missed out on it.
[QUOTE=Nintendo-Guy;47277154]Can't change your username anymore, you'd have to make a new account.
I wanted to change my name but i barely missed out on it.[/QUOTE]
I wanted to move my gold account, but they don't do that anymore.
FFS.
God dammit :(
[QUOTE=bitches;47276794]It still sounds like your own unreasonable reactions were the fuel to the drama. I couldn't possibly get mad if a boyfriend were to show me his sex toys or joke about his interests. I feel that you're very biased and that I can't really trust you to present the whole situation.
I know I'm being harsh but I'd break up with you too if in a relationship where I can't even be open about my sexual interests or, /gasp/, ask you facetiously to join in, without you becoming bitchy.
edit: elaboration:
Instead of acknowledging your relationship with him like a reasonable person and understanding that you both had issues and incompatibilities that led to you being a poor match, you're [B]dead certain[/B] that it was [B]all his fault[/B] that he [B]broke up with you[/B], and what's more, it is allll because he's a [I]furry[/I], and clearly because he's a furry, [I]his particular group of friends that obviously are similar to him because they're his friends [/I] must represent all furries.
You really sound like you've held an irrational slant against anything furry for a very long time and can't handle anyone questioning it, so you blame everyone else.[/QUOTE]
idk when your current bf's friends try convincing you that you're trash just because he doesn't give a shit about furries then there is something terribly wrong with the other party.
Gonna go to Sam Ash today, hope they got some good shit there
[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;47277269]idk when your current bf's friends try convincing you that you're trash just because he doesn't give a shit about furries then there is something terribly wrong with the other party.[/QUOTE]
I sort of agree, but we don't really know the full story - He could've been a major dick about it too.
Either way, it isn't okay to just project that hate across a whole community.
When someone with certain interests that you don't share dumps you, maybe they just did so because [i]you didn't share interests[/i] and not because of some massive conspiracy that goes all the way to the top of x community
[QUOTE=Zeke129;47277290]When someone with certain interests that you don't share dumps you, maybe they just did so because [i]you didn't share interests[/i] and not because of some massive conspiracy that goes all the way to the top of x community[/QUOTE]
Maybe we shouldn't get too much into why he dumped him, it's really between them. The only thing I took issue with was that he took it as evidence that the whole community is shit. Leave the rest alone, it's uncalled for.
[QUOTE=NoOnE#235;47277281]I sort of agree, but we don't really know the full story - He could've been a major dick about it too.
Either way, it isn't okay to just project that hate across a whole community.[/QUOTE]
idk honestly it's pretty annoying when people shove their sexual interests that you want no part of in your face. I admittedly shoved a lot of sexual shit in my friend's faces (like i used to be the biggest faggot) and it they found it irritating so I had to smarten up, I've also had it happen to me so I know how annoying it can be for "normies".
I don't blame him when he just has this distrust for the furry fandom, it seems irrational but I don't think the fact that someone is a furry won't be a [B]massive[/B] turn off when he's trying to date someone. even when i was a massive dumbfuck who didn't like furries because of a few really bad experiences I had, I still hung around with people who like the yiff.
[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;47277269]idk when your current bf's friends try convincing you that you're trash just because he doesn't give a shit about furries then there is something terribly wrong with the other party.[/QUOTE]
because you were there, right?
that has very little to do with what i actually said, which was to point out what we [I]don't[/I] know and how it appears that the context can be that he's just being a dick to a whole community because he didn't like it in the first place
[QUOTE=Zeke129;47277290]When someone with certain interests that you don't share dumps you, maybe they just did so because [i]you didn't share interests[/i] and not because of some massive conspiracy that goes all the way to the top of x community[/QUOTE]
seems like a silly way to breakup with someone
it's like i collect trainsets and I don't like the other person because they don't collect trainsets
[QUOTE=Dom Pyroshark;47277004]Unless you take CSGO and TF2 items as a payment, that won't happen, friend :([/QUOTE]
[img]http://foxcock.me/web/images/photoshop/dompyroshark1.png[/img]
[img]http://foxcock.me/web/images/photoshop/dompyroshark2.png[/img]
I separated the arms, sleeves, torso, and jaws into separate layers for manipulation with puppet warp, and repaired the layers carved from.
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[QUOTE=bitches;47277350]because you were there, right?
that has very little to do with what i actually said, which was to point out what we [I]don't[/I] know and how it appears that the context can be that he's just being a dick to a whole community because he didn't like it in the first place[/QUOTE]
idk were you there too or
[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;47277349]idk honestly it's pretty annoying when people shove their sexual interests that you want no part of in your face. I admittedly shoved a lot of sexual shit in my friend's faces (like i used to be the biggest faggot) and it they found it irritating so I had to smarten up, I've also had it happen to me so I know how annoying it can be for "normies".
I don't blame him when he just has this distrust for the furry fandom, it seems irrational but I don't think the fact that someone is a furry won't be a [B]massive[/B] turn off when he's trying to date someone. even when i was a massive dumbfuck who didn't like furries because of a few really bad experiences I had, I still hung around with people who like the yiff.[/QUOTE]
I'm not advocating "shoving your sexuality in other people's faces", but I think it's sort of a dickish move [I]if[/I] he was being completely dismissive of furries when it's obviously something his boyfriend cares about. But we don't know, so let's not begin assuming and judging him on things we don't know.
What the shit??
Uuuuuuuuh, thanks?
[editline]7th March 2015[/editline]
Fucking A
[QUOTE=LuaChobo;47277354]you are assuming quite a bit there
fuckup #1: didnt even touch on this lmao, but il go into it, outside of his involvement with the community we were pretty darn compatible, merged fairly well into each others interests.
fuckup #2: you are assuming that im just bitching and whining and apparently it never went through your mind that the breakup ~could have been very open~ where we both acted like reasonable humans and explained whats up
And here is fuckup #3: you have just injected yourself into being a defense of the australian community, when you yourself are not part of it or have any real idea how it acts.
Listen here m8y, i get that you are probably part of the american furry community and I hear good things about how the public community handles itself ya gotta realize that its different situations.
I get that im "branding your community" in a bad light but jesus fucking christ lmao, when you can google one of the more well known people in the australian community and the first result is xtube videos of him inflating himself (lmao this is real) and later find out from pretty much fucking everyone that he headed group efforts to fuck your relationship up you have to admit its reasonable animosity.
so all i can say is, good job trying to talk shit about my relationship because you are offended that the outcome of it made me dislike your community.[/QUOTE]
I can appreciate you having a personal story that you are not obligated to go into detail on with some internet nerdo, but don't act surprised when generalizing a community creates doubt in your ability to be reasonable.
sorry I mean no offense
idk literally everyone including me is making really silly assumptions so we should just stop
From his avatar I assume he's a babyfur in denial
[QUOTE=LuaChobo;47277397]lmao i never gave a shit that he was a furry, i admit i was being sensationalist at first but basically i'm going to refuse dating someone who is active in the furry community here, because it just leads to drama and i have a name there anyway now despite not being a furry
[editline]8th March 2015[/editline]
lmao well duder you are as biased if not more in the discussion so idk
you can talk shit all you want tbh, wont change shit[/QUOTE]
I'm not saying you're unreasonable to avoid starting a relationship with someone likely to end in stupid drama. Everyone has to make choices about who they're willing to get to know beter, for practicality's sake.
The trouble is when you carry the implication that all furries (or even all furries in your local area) act the same way.
[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;47277413]sorry I mean no offense
idk [B]literally everyone[/B] including me is making really silly assumptions so we should just stop[/QUOTE]
Am I invisible? :v:
[QUOTE=NoOnE#235;47277434]Am I invisible? :v:[/QUOTE]
i say literally too much because it's literally the only word i know that would help me put emphasis on something that literally needs extra emphasis
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