• Gay Chat V12 - Even More Optimistic
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[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;47342573]your first relationship will never work out unless you live in a romance novel or a furry porn comic[/QUOTE] But to have a second relationship, you need a first.
[QUOTE=NoOnE#235;47342592]But to have a second relationship, you need a first.[/QUOTE] yeah but don't force it actually i don't even know what i'm talking about, i never had an actual irl relationship before
[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;47342573]your first relationship will never work out unless you live in a romance novel or a furry porn comic[/QUOTE] I live in a romance novel then I guess.
[QUOTE=Nintendo-Guy;47342618]I live in a romance novel then I guess.[/QUOTE] It's sort of an arbitrary statement, first relationships generally aren't likely to work out, but that doesn't mean they can't.
[QUOTE=Nintendo-Guy;47342618]I live in a romance novel then I guess.[/QUOTE] You mean with reagy ?
Well yeah.
didnt you guys post in this thread not knowing what to do when you first met up wouldnt really call that a first relationship working out
[QUOTE=Batmoutarde;47342681]didnt you guys post in this thread not knowing what to do when you first met up wouldnt really call that a first relationship working out[/QUOTE] We got over it. It was silly yeah but seriously.
[QUOTE=Batmoutarde;47342681]didnt you guys post in this thread not knowing what to do when you first met up wouldnt really call that a first relationship working out[/QUOTE] Being shy when meeting for the first time means it's not working out?
If you go from the UK to sweden to meet someone or vice versa you cant really afford being shy and I wouldnt go as far as calling a long distance relationship a "success" until you end up living together or close to each other
[QUOTE=Nintendo-Guy;47342700]Being shy when meeting for the first time means it's not working out?[/QUOTE] If you're not banging on the coffee table within 30 seconds of meeting someone new then it's going to inevitably crash and burn
[QUOTE=Batmoutarde;47342705]If you go from the UK to sweden to meet someone or vice versa you cant really afford being shy and I wouldnt go as far as calling a long distance relationship a "success" until you end up living together or close to each other[/QUOTE] Just having a longterm good relationship with someone you love is completely invalidated if you don't live together? 'scuuuuuuze me Like, it seems really abritrary, a relationship "working out" means living together the rest of your lives? Or just some arbitrary amount of time?
Yeah it pretty much is. I mean physical contact is pretty damn important in a relationship. getting some every 5 months isnt a successful relationship. The online part should only be temporary
[QUOTE=Batmoutarde;47342705]If you go from the UK to sweden to meet someone or vice versa you cant really afford being shy and I wouldnt go as far as calling a long distance relationship a "success" until you end up living together or close to each other[/QUOTE] I get what you mean but there are other factors like incomes and current education which limit that ability for the current time, something of which we both need to consider and work around. Anyway I'm gonna stop giving details about whats going on between us two because you always act like a bit of a dick and bring it up when it really has nothing to do with you.
[QUOTE=Batmoutarde;47342758]Yeah it pretty much is. I mean physical contact is pretty damn important in a relationship. getting some every 5 months isnt a successful relationship. The online part should only be temporary[/QUOTE] It is temporary, though. A lot of people can't get together for a long time for different reasons. I don't consider some of my previous relationships a waste just because it didn't last long enough to get to living together.
[QUOTE=Reagy;47342764]I get what you mean but there are other factors like incomes and current education which limit that ability for the current time, something of which we both need to consider and work around. Anyway I'm gonna stop giving details about whats going on between us two because you always act like a bit of a dick and bring it up [B]when it really has nothing to do with you.[/B][/QUOTE] I aint the one going around saying my first relationship worked out because i'm e-dating a dude in a different country tho. [editline]17th March 2015[/editline] [QUOTE=NoOnE#235;47342772]It is temporary, though. A lot of people can't get together for a long time for different reasons.[/QUOTE] Yeah and after 1-2+ years you realize most of it was lost time that couldve been spent with someone else
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;47342786]You need to shut it.[/QUOTE] Thanks for the input you're really showing me youre the better person by telling me to shut up
[QUOTE=Batmoutarde;47342791]Thanks for the input you're really showing me youre the better person by telling me to shut up[/QUOTE] You're pushing your own opinion as fact, it's kinda dickish to tell you to shut it, sure. But you aren't much better?
[QUOTE=NoOnE#235;47342812]You're pushing your own opinion as fact, it's kinda dickish to tell you to shut it, sure. But you aren't much better?[/QUOTE] when have i ever pushed my opinion as a fact. do I need to put OPINION---> before every post [editline]17th March 2015[/editline] [QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;47342827]Giving someone relationship advice telling them what's what when you don't even know. Good input on your end eh?[/QUOTE] I'm sorry but I dont think nintendo guy going around saying his first relationship is working fine to prove first relationships can work when hes in an online thing while people are trying to help a dude whos saying he doesnt want a relationship is definiteyl not fucking helpful
[QUOTE=Batmoutarde;47342829]when have i ever pushed my opinion as a fact. do I need to put OPINION---> before every post[/QUOTE] You don't have to state so directly either way for it to be aparrent, usually. Either way, you're pushing your opinion pretty hard.
Long distance doesn't really count, 99% of the "relationship" isn't spent together.
[QUOTE=NoOnE#235;47342849]You don't have to state so directly either way for it to be aparrent, usually. Either way, you're pushing your opinion pretty hard.[/QUOTE] yeah it's an internet forum. thats kinda what they are for.
[QUOTE=Batmoutarde;47342829] [editline]17th March 2015[/editline] I'm sorry but I dont think nintendo guy going around saying his first relationship is working fine to prove first relationships can work when hes in an online thing while people are trying to help a dude whos saying he doesnt want a relationship is definiteyl not fucking helpful[/QUOTE] What does that matter to you? It doesn't harm anyone and you're just calling them out and being a dick over nothing. Aah fuck posting too fast [QUOTE=kimr120;47342878]I kinda agree with batmoutarde but seriously don't keep talking about it forever, it's a discussion that does not lead anywhere.[/QUOTE] Yeah, let's just end it now then. Isn't going to change anyone's opinion.
I kinda agree with batmoutarde but seriously don't keep talking about it forever, it's a discussion that does not lead anywhere.
Can I be the best person and change the topic going through my birthday, christmas, and graduation cards, I noticed that my parents gave me the same type of card two years in a row for christmas
[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;47342898]Can I be the best person and change the topic going through my birthday, christmas, and graduation cards, I noticed that my parents gave me the same type of card two years in a row for christmas[/QUOTE] "it's a boy"
[QUOTE=NoOnE#235;47342561]Have you ever actually been in a relationship? You gain a lot. [/QUOTE] What is it exactly that you gain by being in a relationship, though? This is what baffles me. There's no materialistic gain to begin with, which makes sense, but I'm not sure what kind of other gains there are. Personal growth? It just sounds like to me that in a relationship, you spend a lot of time with a person, which for someone like me who finds it exhausting to be around others, isn't all that enticing. It's difficult to think about it because it implies pulling a complete 180° in how I relate to others. edit: Done talkin' about it now though.
You sound like an alien studying relationships between homosapiens. "why do these advanced apes enjoy spending time with each other it's baffling they get no material gain from it and their productivity doesn't increase"
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[QUOTE=bitches;47336408][url=http://i.imgur.com/SL4PhkW.png]nsfw but cropped[/url] [editline]16th March 2015[/editline] kiwi is next[/QUOTE] I'm going to need a source on this... for reasons...
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