• I always get really shy and nervous for no reason.
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[QUOTE=FFStudios;17924208]I'm not socially inept, I'm usually very good with adults and such. I CAN however make sexist jokes at the girl that sits across from me in another class. That doesn't bother me at all[/QUOTE] It's common that people with problems interacting with their peers find it easier to interact with adults.
Yeah I get really fucking embarrassed when I go out in public. I start to stutter and shit. It's really putting a limit on my activities.
[QUOTE=FFStudios;17924019][b]Yeah, I read through the GD rules. No, this isn't in violation of any of them[/b] For some reason I get really shy and nervous for absolutely no reason. For example, I was in science today and I needed a calculator. The girl next to me was using a calculator and I got really nervous asking for it. It's annoying as fuck because it inhibits my "man" function to just go out and do crazy shit. Does anyone else feel like this/have a solution? Good lord it's for no reason.[/QUOTE] I'm not like this. If I need to borrow something I'll just ask the person next to me if I can borrow whatever it is I need. Just fucking do it, man. Seriously. Just get in there, and don't even think about how fucking hot that chick is with the calculator you need. Just say as nonchalantly and cool as you can "Can I borrow your calculator for a second?" And then compliment her shoes for the hell of it. If you do it right you could get a date. :smug: And besides, the more you start talking to random people the easier it becomes. Like they say, practice makes perfect.
My only problem is that I can't think of anything to say, making me look shy and quiet, when really I have no activity in my brain at all.
It's probably that you unconsciously are afraid of saying something stupid, so your brain kind of blocks off. If it happens kinda often, try talking with yourself on a mirror. Yes, it's odd, do it somewhere private so you're not bothered by it, and don't do it loudly. Practice some lines for that idle chit chat so you don't get anxious.
[QUOTE=haloguy234;17924264]I'm not like this. If I need to borrow something I'll just ask the person next to me if I can borrow whatever it is I need. Just fucking do it, man. Seriously. Just get in there, and don't even think about how fucking hot that chick is with the calculator you need. Just say as nonchalantly and cool as you can "Can I borrow your calculator for a second?" And then compliment her shoes for the hell of it. If you do it right you could get a date. :smug:[/QUOTE] And you'd be just like the other 200 guys that approach her and compliment her on a daily basis.
[QUOTE=haloguy234;17924264]I'm not like this. If I need to borrow something I'll just ask the person next to me if I can borrow whatever it is I need. Just fucking do it, man. Seriously. Just get in there, and don't even think about how fucking hot that chick is with the calculator you need. Just say as nonchalantly and cool as you can "Can I borrow your calculator for a second?" And then compliment her shoes for the hell of it. If you do it right you could get a date. :smug: And besides, the more you start talking to random people the easier it becomes. Like they say, practice makes perfect.[/QUOTE] Thanks for the tips, but I'd rather compliment her tits.
[QUOTE=FFStudios;17924309]Thanks for the tips, but I'd rather compliment her tits.[/QUOTE] That right there. When you ask for her calculator don't look at her tits, look at her eyes. Those beautiful things that occupy a persons face. Maybe that's why you were so nervous in the first place. You knew you would pull a George Castanza and stare at her cleavage for too long and then you'd get bit in the ass for it.
[QUOTE=FFStudios;17924309]Thanks for the tips, but I'd rather compliment her tits.[/QUOTE] And then get the admins involved for sexual harassment. I don't know how it works wherever you live, but here in Cali I've seen an obese, repulsive kid expelled for saying he liked a girl because "it was unwanted."
[QUOTE=haloguy234;17924365]That right there. When you ask for her calculator don't look at her tits, look at her eyes. Those beautiful things that occupy a persons face. Maybe that's why you were so nervous in the first place. You knew you would pull a George Castanza and stare at her cleavage for too long and then you'd get bit in the ass for it.[/QUOTE] Someone's sarcasm meter is broken. But actually, she's got the fucking craziest awesome eyes in my opinion. I just kinda stared at the calculator. I hate it when you get caught staring.
[QUOTE=FFStudios;17924019][b]Yeah, I read through the GD rules. No, this isn't in violation of any of them[/b] For some reason I get really shy and nervous for absolutely no reason. For example, I was in science today and I needed a calculator. The girl next to me was using a calculator and I got really nervous asking for it. It's annoying as fuck because it inhibits my "man" function to just go out and do crazy shit. Does anyone else feel like this/have a solution? Good lord it's for no reason.[/QUOTE] You remind me of me when I was in 7th grade.
[QUOTE=The golden;17924414]Once again: If it was as easy as you say it is, we would have all done it by now, trust me.[/QUOTE] Dewd, you're making it seem like you have some kind of uncurable aids or something. It isn't aids. It's all in your head.
[QUOTE=FFStudios;17924389]Someone's sarcasm meter is broken. But actually, she's got the fucking craziest awesome eyes in my opinion. I just kinda stared at the calculator. I hate it when you get caught staring.[/QUOTE] Just look at her in the eyes. Don't think about how you'll appear to her, don't think about how you look, don't even think about how you sound. I would highly suggest talking to yourself in a mirror, as mentioned earlier in this thread. That really helps if you need to get comfortable with yourself.
[QUOTE=whenisitover;17924426]Dewd, you're making it seem like you have some kind of uncurable aids or something. It isn't aids. It's all in your head.[/QUOTE] Wastin' away again because of aids and stuff.... But seriously, for you it may be easy, but it's actually a lot harder to get over mental issues then physical (in most cases, there are those that aren't)
Today, a girl said "hi" to me and I ignored her. I had no idea she was even talking to me because I wasn't facing her. She then came up to me and called me an asshole for not responding to her. There goes my chance of talking to a girl.
You sound really self-conscious, OP.
[QUOTE=hl2poo;17924448]Today, a girl said "hi" to me and I ignored her. I had no idea she was even talking to me because I wasn't facing her. She then came up to me and called me an asshole for not responding to her. There goes my chance of talking to a girl.[/QUOTE] You will have plenty of other opportunities once you get out of middle school.
[QUOTE=hl2poo;17924448]Today, a girl said "hi" to me and I ignored her. I had no idea she was even talking to me because I wasn't facing her. She then came up to me and called me an asshole for not responding to her. There goes my chance of talking to a girl.[/QUOTE] Don't you hate it when people try to talk to you as you're walking away. Then they call you the asshole because you weren't paying attention. [b]goddamn people[/b]
A hot girl sits across from me in psychology and the teacher lectures between us so we end up locking eyes. It's weird. Now I have the lyrics to jizz in my pants stuck in my head.
Broke mah automerge :argh:
It's called avoidant personality. Feels bad, man.
If you like her eyes, tell her she has pretty eyes or something. As long as you put it in a decent way, they won't be offended. Pretty sure just about everyone is shy in one way or the other at one point in their life and if you don't do something about it now, how are you ever going to get laid ?
[QUOTE=ThatDamnGrei;17924474]Feels bad, man.[/QUOTE] [b][highlight]This.[/highlight][/b]
[QUOTE=FFStudios;17924459]Don't you hate it when people try to talk to you as you're walking away. Then they call you the asshole because you weren't paying attention. [b]goddamn people[/b][/QUOTE] That's when you go and make a determined effort to find that person and tell them why you didn't say hi back. Not making that effort will just make matters worse and then you'll be deemed an asshole.
[QUOTE=hl2poo;17924448]Today, a girl said "hi" to me and I ignored her. I had no idea she was even talking to me because I wasn't facing her. She then came up to me and called me an asshole for not responding to her. There goes my chance of talking to a girl.[/QUOTE] One time that happened, and the girl was like, "why do people ignore me like that"? And then I said, "Wait, were you talking to me?" and then she ignored me. :argh:
Have a couple drinks before Science?
[QUOTE=haloguy234;17924495]That's when you go and make a determined effort to find that person and tell them why you didn't say hi back. Not making that effort will just make matters worse and then you'll be deemed an asshole.[/QUOTE] "Hey I followed you home. I didn't say hi to you earlier because I didn't know you were talking to me. Well I better get going bye."
[QUOTE=Plasticnoob;17924521]"Hey I followed you home. I didn't say hi to you earlier because I didn't know you were talking to me. Well I better get going bye."[/QUOTE] Following someone home just to say "Hi" sounds a little creepy to me.
Drinking alcohol helps, smoking too but the best is just to get used to members of the opposite sex. Try not to think about how how it would be to have sex with them. Treat them like your sister or mom or whomever you are open with
Rape her. Then take the calculator. Problem solved.
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