• I always get really shy and nervous for no reason.
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[QUOTE=absinthe;17924113]it's even worse when you start stuttering when you do say something[/QUOTE] Don't evben geut me stuartd
[QUOTE=Mr_Proudfoot;17927604]Don't evben geut me stuartd[/QUOTE] You-you-you're doing it-it wrong.
I used to be shy, but eventually got tired of it and just started to enjoy it. Enjoyed it because it was awesome beating it! I use humor to break my own nervousity, maybe you should try the same? If I have to ask a girl for something I normally say things along these lines. "I know you actually want me to get down on my knee and ask you to marry me, but I would really need that calculator for a while so maybe I can do it when I'm done with it? Ok honey?" Gives them a laugh, which makes me getting what I want arrr! :D
I'm pretty shy too. If I ask someone a question, I always repeat the question in my head and think it sounds stupid... But you guys know what really sucks? If a girl ignores you for about 5 months and you don't know the damn reason :saddowns:
Don't you have your own calculator?
i used to be shy not anymore
Gimme the fuckin calculatah bitch
[QUOTE=The golden;17924074]I hate it when people say: "Just do it". It's not that fucking easy. If it was, don't you think we would have done it by now?[/QUOTE] I have a lot of problems with shyness and yes it is that easy. Saying "it's not that easy" isn't a good excuse because it is actually really easy, you just have to allow yourself to get uncomfortable. [editline]11:12AM[/editline] [QUOTE=Smells Like;17926893]Actually, (depends on age and school) if you do get caught while staring at her cleavage, just say something nice about them. (Big, nice shaped, etc). As dumb as that sounds it actually works. Well at least when I was in school it did. [editline]09:08AM[/editline] You'll probably get bitch slapped for it but worth a try.[/QUOTE] Or a suspension. Maybe my school was strict.
I lol'd when my best friend got bitchslapped by the hottestr girl in our class.
Meh I get that, eventually (usually a few lessons after I actually needed it the most) I ask for it and she'll give it no problem (usually with a smile too) and then I don't have a problem asking her again. It's just shy-ness.
My voice croaks. At the worst fucking times.
General anxiety. I think you can get some sort of medication that blocks inhibitors that trigger this sort of stuff. Or you can just get some alcohol.
[QUOTE=5tolognadriS;17929461]My voice croaks. At the worst fucking times.[/QUOTE] I choke, like literally choke. No idea why I get that reaction when I get nervous, but my body language really shows I'm shitting bricks at times. Great impression there :v: Shyness is so hard to get past when you have mental disorders that make you unsociable :frown: I usually wait to be approached, easier to make conversation that way.
Wow a huge amount of FP is very shy. Not really surprising. [sp]I'm only shy when I'm new to a school, and I've gone through that experience atleast 6 times now. Otherwise I'll just say whatever I want to say with no problems[/sp]
I am shy. I don't talk to people. Neither I want to meet people.
my advice get wasted often and after a while you won't be shy sober, worked for me
[QUOTE=FFStudios;17924019][b]Yeah, I read through the GD rules. No, this isn't in violation of any of them[/b] For some reason I get really shy and nervous for absolutely no reason. For example, I was in science today and I needed a calculator. The girl next to me was using a calculator and I got really nervous asking for it. It's annoying as fuck because it inhibits my "man" function to just go out and do crazy shit. Does anyone else feel like this/have a solution? Good lord it's for no reason.[/QUOTE] It will go away once you go to college or get a job, or just with aging, I was once like that too, now I do just fine.
I often get nervous about small everyday things. Just the other day it took me about 20 minutes to call my work to check my schedule because I thought they'd think I was stupid for not knowing it.
[url]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_anxiety[/url] OP has social anxiety. Maybe it is bad enough to be SAD (Social Anxiety Disorder) maybe not. Before trying prescription drugs and shit, just start recognizing when you get all anxious and nervous, and then try to take a couple deep breaths and then say "[i][b]FUCK YOU, ME!!! FUCK YOU AND YOUR NERVOUS BULLSHIT!!![/i] I am gonna do this thing and you are not gonna fucking stop me!!![/b]" And then do whatever the hell it is that is making you so nervous. I would even suggest going out of your way to try to do things that make you nervous and uncomfortable on purpose. Forcing yourself to do those things repeatedly will help you get rid of your nervousness.
Shit, I'm always nervous about everything. But that's because I have an anxiety problem. :|
You have no confidence... That's the problem.
I'm kind of shy aswell. Really annyoing when you're going to say something to a person (mostly girls for me), so you sit and think about what to say for 10 minutes, only to have them walk away the moment you're going to say it.
You are getting nervous when talking to pretty girls. My advice is to practice chatting with some average looking one, but friendly enough to accept you. And talk with them just like with men, just without all the "manly" topics. I wish you the best of luck with this case, godspeed. :patriot:
[QUOTE=Carne;17930403]I'm kind of shy aswell. Really annyoing when you're going to say something to a person (mostly girls for me), so you sit and think about what to say for 10 minutes, only to have them walk away the moment you're going to say it.[/QUOTE] I get the same thing except with insults. Say I'm at a party, then somone insults me, then I insult him back. (Nothing big, sometimes its a lame comeback, sometimes its an average one, happens to everyone) Then 5 minutes later I come up with the most crippling, humiliating comeback but then it's too late.
[QUOTE=Fullsteel;17926854]I have no friends because I'm shy. I regret it so fucking much, because now all I do is sit in my room doing nothing except doing retarded shit on my computer.[/QUOTE]This. Goddamn feel like shooting myself over how much i've fucked over my life because of it.
[QUOTE=phill977;17926960]My teacher was away today for IST, so we where in the class and i sat with the girls at my own free will and i talked to them like they where any of my other friends and it was all fine. And i sit with the girls in some other classes; it feels weird if you're with males all the time.[/QUOTE] Hey friend (let's stay friends, nothing more okey?), you're obviously gay.
Threads like this makes me glad I've never had major issues with shyness :downs: +3 points to confidence
I dont understand this whole shy thing. How hard can it be to just approach someone and talk to them?
you are on facepunch, everyone has complexes here
It's normal. I'm 22 and I still get that way around new women. You just have to wrap your head around the fact that you're being dumb. Works for me.
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