• I always get really shy and nervous for no reason.
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I don't get shy when talking to a single person. I'm probably the most confident in the world. My only problem comes when I have to speak such as telling a story or presenting a project in front of the class. My faces turns very red which inturn makes me more nervous.
[QUOTE=gerbils_alt_2;17932305]I get nervous about the most mundane tasks. (Such as calling people)[/QUOTE] Same, even when I play The Sims I don't want the people to call their friend's because I think their friends will be annoyed.
I never really had this problem since i just don't ask for things, i just take them and return them unnoticed. Pickpocketing backpacks is fun too, small stuff like pencils and pens.
[QUOTE=Takkun10;17952220]I never really had this problem since i just don't ask for things, i just take them and return them unnoticed. Pickpocketing backpacks is fun too, small stuff like pencils and pens.[/QUOTE] Stop right ther- Nah I'm just fucking around. I'm glad I"m not the only one that has these problems.
[QUOTE=FFStudios;17924019][b]Yeah, I read through the GD rules. No, this isn't in violation of any of them[/b] For some reason I get really shy and nervous for absolutely no reason. For example, I was in science today and I needed a calculator. The girl next to me was using a calculator and I got really nervous asking for it. It's annoying as fuck because it inhibits my "man" function to just go out and do crazy shit. Does anyone else feel like this/have a solution? Good lord it's for no reason.[/QUOTE] Just do the thing you're afraid to do. Force yourself. The more you do it, the easier it'll become and the less you'll care/feel fear. My wife has this problem. She'll try to back out of doing something, but I'll make her do it and afterward she realises how easy it is and how silly it is to be afraid.
You chaps spend way too much time speaking on the internet. It's a different thing when you can't edit what you're going to say, you just have to blurt it out. You can reprogram your mind to remove that shyness and anxiety, just do it. There's no magic, or anything, just think that you succeed and work towards it, and you will. =)
Social interactions are annoying. At least with 90% of people I know.
How hard can it be to go and talk to a girl? She won't bight your dick off.
It's not the gender that's the difference. It's just in general sometimes I get shy and nervous for no reason. EDIT: And if she's a succubus she will bite your dick off
[QUOTE=Sasupoika;17930077]I am shy. I don't talk to people. Neither I want to meet people.[/QUOTE] That right there will not help you in life. I just smile, says hello to everyone and ask how their day is, not to everyone i see though. Some do actually responds back and ask me the same. Smile and the world smiles back.
okay guys, lets come up with a formula to help us, i am walking out of my shyness but still, some remains so, any ideas on how to..
[QUOTE=YoMother;17929593]I'm guessing your relationship with your parents was emotionally distant and you liked your dad more than your mom. I love having psych class.[/QUOTE] Craziness, and truth.
The solution is actually really simple: Spend less time on the internet, and go socialize with people (not represented by an avatar or username). Then come back in a couple of months and tell us of the results.
[QUOTE=Talishmar;17957726]Social interactions are annoying. At least with 90% of people I know.[/QUOTE] Wow.
I'm the exact same. When I went to Nando's with my friends for my birthday I had to give one of them the money to pay for it.
[QUOTE=Heinrich!;17961842]The solution is actually really simple: Spend less time on the internet, and go socialize with people (not represented by an avatar or username). Then come back in a couple of months and tell us of the results.[/QUOTE] Stop generalizing.
I used to be shy when I was really short. I don't know, I felt inferior. Now I tower over everyone so it's all good :smile:
Grow a penis.
[QUOTE=Shaggy-h;17967593]Grow a penis.[/QUOTE] I'm not Spongebob.
Imagine shes naked.
learn to talk to fucking girls son
You suffer from anxiety and a combination of anti social behavior.
Start off by doing things out of your comfort zone with strangers. Start lifting or something - no one knows you, you can start fresh with a bunch of...men.
[QUOTE=Plasticnoob;17924186]It actually is 'that fucking easy.' You are not being physically restrained in any way, the problem is only inside your head. Stop thinking about it.[/QUOTE] This man speaks the truth, you just have to not be so analytical and take some many aspects of what's going on into considerations and be more spontaneous about the situation.
Sorry to bump this back up, but one more question. When you ask someone out and they say yes, what do you say after that? It's not like I'm going to ask her to the movies because it'd have to be planned beforehand, and in that case if you have it planned and she says no you're screwed
[QUOTE=FFStudios;18081011]Sorry to bump this back up, but one more question. When you ask someone out and they say yes, what do you say after that? It's not like I'm going to ask her to the movies because it'd have to be planned beforehand, and in that case if you have it planned and she says no you're screwed[/QUOTE] How are you screwed? You don't buy the tickets to a movie before you ask her. And you should have something in mind of what you're going to do. Just don't book it or anything. Plus you don't have to go out the next day, it can be later that week.
[QUOTE=FFStudios;18081011]Sorry to bump this back up, but one more question. When you ask someone out and they say yes, what do you say after that? It's not like I'm going to ask her to the movies because it'd have to be planned beforehand, and in that case if you have it planned and she says no you're screwed[/QUOTE] Just say "Hey want to go out sometime?"
[QUOTE=rb_pk;18081050]Just say "Hey want to go out sometime?"[/QUOTE] My question was what do you say after she says yes
I used to be kind of introverted in middle school but now that I've been in high school a few years I've become more extroverted. The problem is when I try to talk to people they just assume I'm the same I was in middle school so, as a result, I get more introverted. I'm moving soon so the first week at my new school I'm going to try to be as outgoing as possible and be friends with as many people as possible. I'm going to try to force myself to talk to new people without spending minutes thinking about what bad things they might say in response and what could go wrong and basically introduce myself to as many people as possible. Also I'm not going to worry about what other people think. I don't know why I do that I just do.
Ask her when you feel it's right. Love is a song and without timing and steady rhythm, it won't feel right.
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