Crossdressing & Transgender & A̲L̲L̲I̲E̲S̲ Discussion v. Thread Reassignment Surgery - General

[QUOTE=Hark;49074984]u pretty as heck That's lovely, how long did it take?[/QUOTE] The knee? Not very long, but its the worst pain I've ever felt. There's a reason it's not finished, I paid for the whole thing already. :v:

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Uhh, why the shotgun?

Because America duh

[QUOTE=Luafox;49068498]y'know what would be neato if people wouldn't be ashamed of their attraction of transgirls and wouldn't try to keep it hidden[/QUOTE] I don't like talking about it because I know its pretty much explicitly what transgirls [I]don't[/I] want but you know how for gay men, there are tops and bottoms? Well, I'm pretty much a bottom, but heterosexual. Well, shit, right? There's still plenty of stuff a woman can do, with pegging, but to me, its like "yeah but I'm not directly stimulating you, now am I." And that's where my being attracted to transgirls come in: it's pretty much being attracted to girls with penises. It's not [I]"wow so exotic"[/I] but more "wow you fit my sexuality, and I can physically pleasure you with it." I keep that hidden though for sake of so many people going the [I]"wow so exotic"[/I] route and just fetishizing transgirls, and I like to think I'm far from that but don't want to come off of that, and the fact that obviously sex that emphasizes her penis can be very dysphoric and uncomfortable for a transgirl.

the way I end up handling it is pretty much if it comes up as relevant to the conversation. for all intents and purposes I'm dating a girl/woman and have a girlfriend. it's never "oh yeah I'm dating a transwoman". but, like, I dated my current girlfriend before when she hadn't come out as trans (this was, like, 8 or so years ago?), so if it gets brought up I bring up that "he" was my first "boyfriend" because at the time "he" was, but now she's my girlfriend (and we're coming up on 2 years together :D). [editline]9th November 2015[/editline] it's not really about hiding it, it's more of just not bringing it up unless it's pertinent

My SO has recently started to identify as gender fluid (I'll use female pronouns for the sake of consistency), so today we went out and got some sports bras to help her compress her chest and men's jeans for when she feels more male. It absolutely made her day to be able to dress how she felt, and when I called her my boyfriend/used male pronouns/etc. Makes me super glad to see her so happy. Anyone here gender fluid or gender queer, or deal with people who identify as such? I just want to ensure my SO is as comfortable and happy as possible.

I'm bigender, it's pretty comparable. But basically as the name "gender fluid" implies, you go with the flow. Whatever they feel like at that particular moment, just go with it.

The West is really full of degenerates nowadays. Incase you genuinely mentally ill people (Google: gender dysorphia) didn't get it, degenerates: you. [highlight](User was permabanned for this post ("Gimmick" - Big Dumb American))[/highlight]

[QUOTE=Akhenaten;49089734]The West is really full of degenerates nowadays. Incase you genuinely mentally ill people (Google: gender dysorphia) didn't get it, degenerates: you.[/QUOTE] if you're wanting support for your transition you've come to the right place i don't know where you would be able to get clothes from but i'm sure we can find a way to help you smuggle them in and express your gender identity confidently

[QUOTE=Akhenaten;49089734]The West is really full of degenerates nowadays. Incase you genuinely mentally ill people (Google: gender dysorphia) didn't get it, degenerates: you. [highlight](User was permabanned for this post ("Gimmick" - Big Dumb American))[/highlight][/QUOTE] hold your tongue, wastrel

[QUOTE=Akhenaten;49089734]The West is really full of degenerates nowadays. Incase you [B]genuinely mentally ill[/B] people (Google: gender dysorphia) didn't get it, degenerates: you. [highlight](User was permabanned for this post ("Gimmick" - Big Dumb American))[/highlight][/QUOTE] I googled it for you, because clearly you didn't do it yourself. [quote]Gender dysphoria used to be called “gender identity disorder.” But the mismatch between body and internal sense of gender is [B]not a mental illness[/B]. Instead, what need to be addressed are the stress, anxiety, and depression that go along with it. [url=http://www.webmd.com/mental-health/gender-dysphoria]Gender Dysphoria: What It Is and How It's Treated - WebMD[/url][/quote] Too bad you'll never come back to read this though, I really like teaching people new things.

[QUOTE=Akhenaten;49089734]The West is really full of degenerates nowadays. Incase you genuinely mentally ill people (Google: gender dysorphia) didn't get it, degenerates: you. [highlight](User was permabanned for this post ("Gimmick" - Big Dumb American))[/highlight][/QUOTE] I often noticed those who are the most repulsed tend to have repressed desires for the object of adversion. Why else would they scream so loudly about it? I mean ever seen the Howard Stern movie where the quote the people who hated him the most where the biggest share of his listeners? I believe you are here because you are looking for something you secretly like.

[QUOTE=Qaus;49091127]I googled it for you, because clearly you didn't do it yourself. Too bad you'll never come back to read this though, I really like teaching people new things.[/QUOTE] And here I thought it was that "gender dysphoria is a mental illness, and the cure is helping them through their transition."

God forbid being who you are is an illness!... Some narrow-minded butt-heads in this world. It sucks you guys have to jump through so many hurdles to even attempt to be who you are on the inside, and in most cases literally fighting to be accepted. Remember you got nothing to prove to anyone. Carry on doing what you're all doing. Don't let it get you down, you're all awesome. And I promise you there is someone out there for all of you that will love you for who you are. (Sorry for poking my nose in your thread)

[QUOTE=Judas;49087199]makupless salem for ur viewing pleasure [t]https://scontent-iad3-1.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xlp1/v/l/t1.0-9/12193455_565768160246647_1644468640182049993_n.jpg?oh=6c791f08ed7583a5a8432c9046887f35&oe=56F15D67[/t][/QUOTE] Why is it you always seem to be going for the badass vibe? Just wondering.

[QUOTE=Qaus;49091127]I googled it for you, because clearly you didn't do it yourself. Too bad you'll never come back to read this though, I really like teaching people new things.[/QUOTE] It's probably just an alt of Cluckmoo or one of those other trolls and if that's the case they don't care whether they're right or wrong. Though I am kinda curious what the point is of coming here and repeatedly saying stuff like that when basically no one here ever takes them seriously anymore.

if you're going to attempt to troll someone, don't ask people to do research that will directly refute the point(s) you attempt to make.

He's either a troll or is just unable to think rationally Either way doesn't speak well of the future of his sanity [editline]10th November 2015[/editline] [QUOTE=JohhnyCarson;49091351]Why is it you always seem to be going for the badass vibe? Just wondering.[/QUOTE] Idk but Judas definitely pulls it off :v:

[QUOTE=fear me;49091561]He's either a troll or is just unable to think rationally Either way doesn't speak well of the future of his sanity [editline]10th November 2015[/editline] Idk but Judas definitely pulls it off :v:[/QUOTE] What you consider "rational" is merely considered that way due to the virtue of it being familiar and agreeable with you. For example, I know you agree with Leftist ideals for it seems to be working in your interests (as a transsexual). It is not.

[QUOTE=JohhnyCarson;49091577]For example, I know you agree with Leftist ideals for it seems to be working in your interests (as a transsexual). It is not.[/QUOTE] ... :what: I'm just saying, if you go around calling strangers who are different from you mentally ill degenerates, you probably aren't all there.

[QUOTE=fear me;49091608]... :what: [/QUOTE] I'll PM you and see if I can list my line of reasoning. [QUOTE]I'm just saying, if you go around calling strangers who are different from you mentally ill degenerates, you probably aren't all there.[/QUOTE] agreed.

[QUOTE=JohhnyCarson;49091577]What you consider "rational" is merely considered that way due to the virtue of it being familiar and agreeable with you. For example, I know you agree with Leftist ideals for it seems to be working in your interests (as a transsexual). It is not.[/QUOTE] Leftist ideals? Like what, not being a giant dick to people? I'd like to think that's pretty universal.

it's entirely possible to be very right wing and still be very pro-lgbt rights.

[QUOTE=Qaus;49091518]if you're going to attempt to troll someone, don't ask people to do research that will directly refute the point(s) you attempt to make.[/QUOTE] Your first mistake was going the "uh, actually, you're wrong, nice try :^)" route. They [I]know[/I] they're wrong. Or at the very least, they don't care if they are. In fact, you gave them what they wanted. Report, don't reply, move on.

i thought the idea of trolling was to induce anger or sadness, not make me laugh at poor attempts of offending me. if the latter is the case bring on the trolling, i'm very under-entertained.

[QUOTE=Qaus;49091900]i thought the idea of trolling was to induce anger or sadness, not make me laugh at poor attempts of offending me. if the latter is the case bring on the trolling, i'm very under-entertained.[/QUOTE] it's called bait [editline]f[/editline] there's good and bad bait

keep baiting me then i guess

Hey guys, I'm just about to start this new chapter in my life where I enter the world of being a woman. You guys got any tips on how to deal with intense social pressure and that stuff?

lots of crying and alcohol on a serious note, try to make trustworthy and understanding friends who can help you out. surrounding yourself by positive people creates a positive attitude