Crossdressing & Transgender & A̲L̲L̲I̲E̲S̲ Discussion v. Thread Reassignment Surgery - General

[QUOTE=Luafox;49152073]isn't it transgender day of rememberance today :o[/QUOTE] I forgot.

every day should be tbh

I will not rest until all cis people are forgotten

[QUOTE=Qaus;49151888]sounds like you want to be gender non-conforming, but you still identify as male[/QUOTE] Any ideas as to what I should do?

[QUOTE=Qaus;49152152]every day should be tbh[/QUOTE] minus tuesdays i don't like tuesdays

[QUOTE=Xonax;49152958]Any ideas as to what I should do?[/QUOTE] Maybe go see the doctor/gender therapist and see what they say.

[QUOTE=Shotz;49152980]Maybe go see the doctor/gender therapist and see what they say.[/QUOTE] What should I say to my Mom? I'm 16 btw

[QUOTE=Xonax;49152991]What should I say to my Mom? I'm 16 btw[/QUOTE] Tell her that you feel confused about your gender and that you want to go see the doctor about it to check it out, doesn't tell her that you're defo 100% trans and she'll probably understand easy too.

[QUOTE=Shotz;49153004]Tell her that you feel confused about your gender and that you want to go see the doctor about it to check it out, doesn't tell her that you're defo 100% trans and she'll probably understand easy too.[/QUOTE] Okay, Thanks

I'm not having my next appointment until April, my blood work is all good and my mental health history checks out; but the appointment waiting list is long as fuck. I decided to make the decision to try to self medicate- until I found I literally couldn't find testosterone to buy absolutely anywhere. Even steroid selling websites don't do it. Apparently, you can drink horse jizz to get extra testosterone, but I ain't about that, no way. So that was a short lived attempt, back to waiting until April/May. In lighter news, I'm doing Uni work and watching Jojo's Bizarre Adventure because all of my house mates are obsessed with it.

My breasts are sore, even though I'm not wearing my super tight bra atm. Anyone knows a tip on how to ease the pain? I need to be on my best condition for TDoR.

[QUOTE=Xonax;49152958]Any ideas as to what I should do?[/QUOTE] I'd say hold off for a wee bit and have a good think about it for a while too, just to make sure as well and all.

[QUOTE=Zero_;49153078]My breasts are sore, even though I'm not wearing my super tight bra atm. Anyone knows a tip on how to ease the pain? I need to be on my best condition for TDoR.[/QUOTE] Pain is good. That means they growing. Welcome to the club. Ibuprofen?

[QUOTE=Zero_;49153078]My breasts are sore, even though I'm not wearing my super tight bra atm. Anyone knows a tip on how to ease the pain? I need to be on my best condition for TDoR.[/QUOTE] massage [editline]20th November 2015[/editline] ayy: [url]http://strawpoll.me/6054720[/url]

[QUOTE=Sobotnik;49153089]I'd say hold off for a wee bit and have a good think about it for a while too, just to make sure as well and all.[/QUOTE] So hold off on telling my Mom? Also I wanna add. I have had feelings about being a girl for a couple months now.

[QUOTE=Xonax;49153201]So hold off on telling my Mom? Also I wanna add. I have had feelings about being a girl for a couple months now.[/QUOTE] Unless it's something that's really eating away then I suggest holding off yeah. There's never enough importance placed upon reflecting upon something seriously for a good period of time.

[QUOTE=Xonax;49153201]So hold off on telling my Mom? Also I wanna add. I have had feelings about being a girl for a couple months now.[/QUOTE] No sense in not talking to a specialist. That way you can know for sure, and you won't have this gross uncertainty hanging over you. Unless it would be dangerous for you of course. I'm assuming your parents are cool enough to not kick you out or anything.

[QUOTE=Foobagooba;49153422]No sense in not talking to a specialist. That way you can know for sure, and you won't have this gross uncertainty hanging over you. Unless it would be dangerous for you of course. I'm assuming your parents are cool enough to not kick you out or anything.[/QUOTE] Id go for a specialist tbh denial is strong i had it for 5yrs and am only now getting my shit together and wish i did see one years ago (also got a appointment for a endo in january eeek titspills)

[QUOTE=Levithan;49152192]I will not rest until all cis people are forgotten[/QUOTE] wow [i]rude[/i]

[QUOTE=Levithan;49152192]I will not rest until all cis people are forgotten[/QUOTE] Would you settle for a long nap then?

How can I not worry about not passing 100% so much? I seem to have a unhealthy obsession of wanting to pass and I managed to temporarily scare myself out of transitioning at the thought of not 100% passing, it pisses me off that I'm like this because I just want to be happy and stuff and of course that all comes with transitioning, but if I don't pass then I won't ever be happy with myself or overrall. I don't want to be different to other people, I just want to look like a normal regular girl but I know deep down that won't ever happen because I know I've got pretty fucked up male features that have doomed me already, is there really anything I can do to get around all of this shit and just not give a fuck?

[QUOTE=Shotz;49154992]How can I not worry about not passing 100% so much? I seem to have a unhealthy obsession of wanting to pass and I managed to temporarily scare myself out of transitioning at the thought of not 100% passing, it pisses me off that I'm like this because I just want to be happy and stuff and of course that all comes with transitioning, but if I don't pass then I won't ever be happy with myself or overrall. I don't want to be different to other people, I just want to look like a normal regular girl but I know deep down that won't ever happen because I know I've got pretty fucked up male features that have doomed me already, is there really anything I can do to get around all of this shit and just not give a fuck?[/QUOTE] little infographic that applies to literally everything: [X==========@==========+] placement on this scale is 90% how you view yourself and 10% how others view you (because the latter effects the former, but you can effectively control this) X = inhuman nobody is this low on the scale. nobody is even close. this is basically gargoyles and eldritch horrors. @ = comfort most people are relatively close to this with the majority leaning to the left mainly due to self image issues and not how other people perceive them. this point is within every human being's reach. + = perfection nobody is this high on the scale. the idea is to pursue this ONLY if you know you cannot achieve it, because in the most likely case the thing between you and perfection is comfort and THAT is the point you want to be. how you view yourself is far far far more important than how others view you. don't give up on working towards making you how you want to be just because you know it won't be EXACTLY how you want it. there might be bumps in the road, there might be detours or stops, but you'll get there.

Just came from a party with karaoke It's the first time I hear my feminine voice, and it's AWFUL. I'm still terrible at singing, but nothing new there

[QUOTE=Xonax;49151515]I'm confused, I'm Male and in 2012 I thought I was Trans, then I thought I wasn't. I wanna be in a female body but my mindset is still Male. Any ideas?[/QUOTE] This. My mind is never sure about what it wants to be. It's a thought in my brain, but it's not like an overwhelming thought. I just wonder how thats going to play out once I move out of Indiana.

I know what I want I'm just afraid of doing it.

proposing thread theme music [video=youtube;tQPNredrDO0]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tQPNredrDO0[/video] y/n :v:

[QUOTE=Megadave;49155879]This. My mind is never sure about what it wants to be. It's a thought in my brain, but it's not like an overwhelming thought. I just wonder how thats going to play out once I move out of Indiana.[/QUOTE] I know what I want, I just do it in private. Lord help me if my parents somehow caught wind.

[QUOTE=Zero_;49155870]Just came from a party with karaoke It's the first time I hear my feminine voice, and it's AWFUL. I'm still terrible at singing, but nothing new there[/QUOTE] Should have just sang some cannibal corpse

[QUOTE=fear me;49156146]proposing thread theme music [video=youtube;tQPNredrDO0]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tQPNredrDO0[/video] y/n :v:[/QUOTE] [media]https://youtu.be/1_BtlAw4trg[/media]

[QUOTE=fear me;49156146]proposing thread theme music [video=youtube;tQPNredrDO0]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tQPNredrDO0[/video] y/n :v:[/QUOTE] And for the few FtM's we have (Silver, Gecko, and a third whose name escapes me come to mind): [media]https://youtu.be/tx1mryKqvT8[/media]