Crossdressing & Transgender & A̲L̲L̲I̲E̲S̲ Discussion v. Thread Reassignment Surgery - General

[QUOTE=Zero_;49155870]Just came from a party with karaoke It's the first time I hear my feminine voice, and it's AWFUL. I'm still terrible at singing, but nothing new there[/QUOTE] It's all about practising and progressing. Pretty much every dialect and language out there have at least [I]some[/I] differences between how males and females pronounce things, even excluding pitch. One thing I've found generally useful (at least in English) is to try and speak the words from a further 'forward' place in your mouth. But really, all you can do is keep trying. I've been trying to speak in a feminine voice for about 18 months and I still have a 'maleness' to it, but I think people listening to me might not always be able to tell.

[QUOTE=Vaught;49156197]I know what I want, I just do it in private. Lord help me if my parents somehow caught wind.[/QUOTE] I'd do it in private but I want a more feminine body...and breasts....girl body I guess. This is confusing, so you peeps think I should tell my Mom? How can I go about it? She was fine with it in 2012 and seems to still be fine, just awkward. [editline]21st November 2015[/editline] Also I am not entirely sure, it's weird, one min I will feel like I am a girl, next I don't.

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[QUOTE=Xonax;49156779]I'd do it in private but I want a more feminine body...and breasts....girl body I guess. This is confusing, so you peeps think I should tell my Mom? How can I go about it? She was fine with it in 2012 and seems to still be fine, just awkward. [editline]21st November 2015[/editline] Also I am not entirely sure, it's weird, one min I will feel like I am a girl, next I don't.[/QUOTE] Gender fluid maybe?

[QUOTE=KOS-MOS;49156900]Gender fluid maybe?[/QUOTE] Gender fluid is where one person might feel male or female randomly, I assume the appearence of themselves usually fits them, I don't think my body does, i see girls walking around and I feel jealous, their clothes and body is something that activates that. Then I think about how cool being a guy in his 50s looks. If that makes sense. I felt that when i saw posters of Peter Capaldi earlier.

today is my birthday I got a dvd of kirk cameron's saving christmas

[QUOTE=Judas;49158176]today is my birthday I got a dvd of kirk cameron's saving christmas[/QUOTE] yesss

What do you ladies think about thongs. My ex who was trans wore them around a lot. It made her feel attractive. I didn't mind her wearing them either lol

I have been speaking with my mom again, after she told me I looked like a prostitute back in July. She now accepts me, calls me by Zoe, and is happy to have a daughter to bond with. We will shop for a dress together in January! This is like, everything I could ever dream to have with her. I'm still dumbfounded by her u-turn, but I'm not complaining. Now I just need to speak with my 14 years old brother. I hope that goes well.

A friend of mine accidentally came out to his parents and it's "kinda a shit show" and he's looking for advice. I can't help but has anyone else had that experience?

What exactly happened? :saddowns:

[QUOTE=Baboo00;49159958]A friend of mine accidentally came out to his parents and it's "kinda a shit show" and he's looking for advice. I can't help but has anyone else had that experience?[/QUOTE] I had a shit show experience so I'll share with what I did. Told my sister to tell them that I was actually more unsure of being trans and that I need time to figure it out. Then weeks later we basically went back to pretending it never happened and it stuck like that for a few months up until 2 weeks ago I was asked if I still felt like I was trans and I lied to them and said no, I can't guarantee it'll go over the same for their parents but it's what I've done. Right now I sit with 2 parents who don't think im trans at all whilst I go to the doctors about gender stuff without them knowing, they'll find out eventually but I'm running it as far as I can.

[t]https://scontent-iad3-1.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xtp1/v/t1.0-9/12246816_515073081997517_8332692515909896785_n.jpg?oh=582acd5d30cc2cc31c05e30273141a32&oe=56B05848[/t] I got another hole in my face (nostril piercing) Also I cant stop taking pictures of bae 24/7 [t]https://scontent-iad3-1.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xpt1/v/t1.0-9/11254224_515084021996423_8987481219870667932_n.jpg?oh=aece9ab5b48f57e85ee317d25e46bcf3&oe=56B2E372[/t]

you two are fucking cute as heck

[QUOTE=Zero_;49158822]I have been speaking with my mom again, after she told me I looked like a prostitute back in July. She now accepts me, calls me by Zoe, and is happy to have a daughter to bond with. We will shop for a dress together in January! This is like, everything I could ever dream to have with her. I'm still dumbfounded by her u-turn, but I'm not complaining. Now I just need to speak with my 14 years old brother. I hope that goes well.[/QUOTE] That is awesome, and good luck with your brother.

[QUOTE=dennistrane;49158423]What do you ladies think about thongs. My ex who was trans wore them around a lot. It made her feel attractive. I didn't mind her wearing them either lol[/QUOTE] i got a couple pairs i don't really have a preference tbh, it's just underwear that fits.

I am worried about my looks for when I get older. If I do figure out I am Trans, then I don't know if I will like the look of being an Old Woman. I am fine with looking like and Old guy. I wish I could somehow look feminine enough to pass as a flatchested girl, but still have control over my hormones so if I want I can be a guy.

[QUOTE=Xonax;49169948]I am worried about my looks for when I get older. If I do figure out I am Trans, then I don't know if I will like the look of being an Old Woman. I am fine with looking like and Old guy. I wish I could somehow look feminine enough to pass as a flatchested girl, but still have control over my hormones so if I want I can be a guy.[/QUOTE] 100% of old women look like old women and if you're not comfortable with that i can't recommend transitioning.

[QUOTE=Qaus;49170106]100% of old women look like old women and if you're not comfortable with that i can't recommend transitioning.[/QUOTE] It's not that I don't like the look of Old Women, it's just the look of me being an Old Woman. [editline]23rd November 2015[/editline] Does anyone have any idea's as to what I can do to look more female...besides the obvious shaving, losing weight and wearing clothes?

[QUOTE=Xonax;49170181] Does anyone have any idea's as to what I can do to look more female...besides the obvious shaving, losing weight and wearing clothes?[/QUOTE] Skin care. Good skin is obvious to everyone. Additionally, exercising and building muscle on your legs, I think.

[QUOTE=Gray001;49170352]Skin care. Good skin is obvious to everyone. Additionally, exercising and building muscle on your legs, I think.[/QUOTE] Squats, lunges, bike-riding, walking, running, calf raises, so on. Calf raises and butt kicks will make you want to give back shit you didn't steal, though, so be careful around those.

Anything else? Also I realized I am not Trans, I just want a feminine body so I can alternate w/e. I guess Gender Fluid? Is that even an actual thing? [editline]24th November 2015[/editline] It is, actual term is Gender Queer tho so w/e. I have a weird question, is it possible to have breasts without them being permanent and fake?

So for people who don't know about Veet, I just tried it for the first time and it is an amazing product. It's hair removal cream. I suck at shaving really and usually am hairy because I'm lazy. I just covered myself in this Veet (a bottle cost me about 8 bucks) and waited 3-6 minutes then took a shower and as I wiped the Veet off all of the hair came off relatively seamlessly. It's amazing! I am so very pleased and may be a lifelong customer. (Any hair that you miss wiping off will be super brittle and will just fall off with minor pulling effort afterwords). [url]https://gyazo.com/8b46c0451a9480a8e1c1dc9c0422d075[/url] **Don't put this on your genitals, butthole, or face. **While it didn't hurt me, I read that it burns people with sensitive skin. Be warned.

[QUOTE=Xonax;49175385]Anything else? Also I realized I am not Trans, I just want a feminine body so I can alternate w/e. I guess Gender Fluid? Is that even an actual thing? [editline]24th November 2015[/editline] It is, actual term is Gender Queer tho so w/e. I have a weird question, is it possible to have breasts without them being permanent and fake?[/QUOTE] Unless you mean the kind you wear under shirts to simulate it, no.

[QUOTE=Vaught;49175893]Unless you mean the kind you wear under shirts to simulate it, no.[/QUOTE] I am so confused, I wish I could add someone here to talk to about this but I dunno who and if they'd be okay with it. Asking here is fine but it takes ages for a reply.

[QUOTE=FlutterRaeg;49175808]So for people who don't know about Veet, I just tried it for the first time and it is an amazing product. It's hair removal cream. I suck at shaving really and usually am hairy because I'm lazy. I just covered myself in this Veet (a bottle cost me about 8 bucks) and waited 3-6 minutes then took a shower and as I wiped the Veet off all of the hair came off relatively seamlessly. It's amazing! I am so very pleased and may be a lifelong customer. (Any hair that you miss wiping off will be super brittle and will just fall off with minor pulling effort afterwords). [url]https://gyazo.com/8b46c0451a9480a8e1c1dc9c0422d075[/url] **Don't put this on your genitals, butthole, or face. **While it didn't hurt me, I read that it burns people with sensitive skin. Be warned.[/QUOTE] While I won't be able to use it in places I'd want to, this review is gold: [t]http://i.imgur.com/c4adbl7.png[/t] [editline]24th November 2015[/editline] [QUOTE=Xonax;49175937]I am so confused, I wish I could add someone here to talk to about this but I dunno who and if they'd be okay with it. Asking here is fine but it takes ages for a reply.[/QUOTE] It is night time for the states so getting a reply now may take a while, unless we have some european lurkers about. I can do my best to answer but feel free to ask any questions you have. There's no rush!

It's really weird, I want to be a "trap", a Male who looks a lot like a Female, enough to pass as one. And I want to have breasts, but I want the option to revert to a Man after a while, and with breasts, that can't be done. I don't even know what to do. This is real confusing.

[QUOTE=Xonax;49176008]It's really weird, I want to be a "trap", a Male who looks a lot like a Female, enough to pass as one. And I want to have breasts, but I want the option to revert to a Man after a while, and with breasts, that can't be done. I don't even know what to do. This is real confusing.[/QUOTE] A common factor among traps is that they have androgynous features. It becomes more difficult to lacking that but still doable. That said, perhaps its casual crossdressing that you're thinking of?

[QUOTE=Vaught;49175942]While I won't be able to use it in places I'd want to, this review is gold: [t]http://i.imgur.com/c4adbl7.png[/t] [editline]24th November 2015[/editline] [/QUOTE] I didn't feel any burning. But like I said, I have read that people with sensitive skin do. Be careful everyone!

[QUOTE=FlutterRaeg;49176069]I didn't feel any burning. But like I said, I have read that people with sensitive skin do. Be careful everyone![/QUOTE] You used it on your buttchute?