Crossdressing & Transgender & A̲L̲L̲I̲E̲S̲ Discussion v. Thread Reassignment Surgery - General

[QUOTE=Vaught;49176050]A common factor among traps is that they have androgynous features. It becomes more difficult to lacking that but still doable. That said, perhaps its casual crossdressing that you're thinking of?[/QUOTE] I want to have androgynous features. Also I don't know the difference between Casual Crossdressing and the other one.

[QUOTE=Xonax;49176083]I want to have androgynous features. Also I don't know the difference between Casual Crossdressing and the other one.[/QUOTE] That's something I don't think anyone but a surgeon can help you with. Or a geneshifter. It comes down to genetics and sometimes you get lucky or you don't. I'd kill for more feminine features but gotta make due with whatcha got. Also, other one?

[QUOTE=Vaught;49176097]That's something I don't think anyone but a surgeon can help you with. Or a geneshifter. It comes down to genetics and sometimes you get lucky or you don't. I'd kill for more feminine features but gotta make due with whatcha got. Also, other one?[/QUOTE] The one that traps do or whatever, I only know of Crossdressing in general, not other types.

[QUOTE=Xonax;49176121]The one that traps do or whatever, I only know of Crossdressing in general, not other types.[/QUOTE] Well, I guess drag would also be a form of crossdressing, but I really can't say much about that since I'm not totally educated in that aspect. Traps crossdress too, but its their physical features that give them a more feminine appearance. (I'm not an expert on this stuff so take it as you will. Not trying to start a debate :c ) [editline]24th November 2015[/editline] Anyway, I'm headed to bed. I hope I helped answer some questions you had!

After talking to Chaos for a while, I think I figured out what I want. I want to have a female body with the option of looking Male, and the best way to do that is to do Hormone Therapy and T-Blockers, and later on if I wanna be Male again, just stop, talk normally and wear Male clothes, simple as that. Not complicated at all.

[QUOTE=Vaught;49176079]You used it on your buttchute?[/QUOTE] No I meant it didn't burn my skin.

i wish i had some lemon juice to make some of that sugaring stuff and the time and privacy to do it lol

[QUOTE=Xonax;49176520]After talking to Chaos for a while, I think I figured out what I want. I want to have a female body with the option of looking Male, and the best way to do that is to do Hormone Therapy and T-Blockers, and later on if I wanna be Male again, just stop, talk normally and wear Male clothes, simple as that. Not complicated at all.[/QUOTE] I'm not sure if hormones are the best thing to go on considering what you've told us in the thread Remember that both hormones and the blockers are both with side effects and some of what they do is permanent too, so it's not very easy to switch back if you change your mind

[QUOTE=Sobotnik;49176684]I'm not sure if hormones are the best thing to go on considering what you've told us in the thread Remember that both hormones and the blockers are both with side effects and some of what they do is permanent too, so it's not very easy to switch back if you change your mind[/QUOTE] Since I was talking to Chaos, I was talking about other things that I didn't bring up in the thread.

[QUOTE=Xonax;49176712]Since I was talking to Chaos, I was talking about other things that I didn't bring up in the thread.[/QUOTE] I'd still suggest waiting for now before you make a decision since hormones have permanent effects that you can't exactly reverse

[QUOTE=Sobotnik;49176721]I'd still suggest waiting for now before you make a decision since hormones have permanent effects that you can't exactly reverse[/QUOTE] I know, I am going to a Therapist like I said earlier, tho I am not sure when. [editline]24th November 2015[/editline] Also, what type of effects? I know Breasts is one and Sterility is another.

[QUOTE=Xonax;49176728]I know, I am going to a Therapist like I said earlier, tho I am not sure when. [editline]24th November 2015[/editline] Also, what type of effects? I know Breasts is one and Sterility is another.[/QUOTE] [IMG]http://i.imgur.com/OBjQy5Z.png[/IMG] [editline]24th November 2015[/editline] It'll vary between people but this is a sorta baseline

[QUOTE=RedStar;49176607]i wish i had some lemon juice to make some of that sugaring stuff and the time and privacy to do it lol[/QUOTE] they sell that for like a doller at most grocery stores.

Gahhh I'm so nervous about going to the doctors about my gender identity issues, thanks anxiety I don't know how long I can keep this hidden from my parents, as soon as they find out im as good as disowned :/ At least my best friend will let me crash at his house if worst comes to worst

[QUOTE=Ms. Gyroscope;49177864]they sell that for like a doller at most grocery stores.[/QUOTE] actually i have some of that lemon juice that comes in the lemon shaped bottle and i completely forgot about it lol now i just need the time, privacy, and an excuse to use when someone asks "uh dude why did you shave your legs?"

Well, doctor stuff went fine, I'm probably gonna be expecting a letter eventually for the gender clinic and stuff, doctor recommended I try to come out again to my parents which I'm planning on doing soon by saying something like "hey you know when i said the trans stuff is over well these feelings are coming back and i don't know what to do about them and I've been telling the doctor about them too and he's told me to tell you again so you can help get me through this etc etc." Even if she does "side" with me she still won't like the outcome because it'll end in the gender therapist saying im experiencing gender dspyhoria just don't know what to do really

Been a long time lurker (?), anyways I feel like I've made a mistake. Kind of felt different around the age of 12 but never really told anyone, and it's been getting worse. It's kind of hard to explain how I feel you know, but I guess you guys and gals would understand best. Now I'm nearly 19 is it too late? I have super broad shoulders, skinny hips and a strong jaw; a real mans man, and everyone sees me like that. Part of me feels like me being a grill is just a phase but the other half doesn't, and even the thought of liking men turns me away. I'm not asking for reaffirmation or anything but just some honest advice to think about.

[QUOTE=tbh_fram_tru;49183777]Kind of felt different around the age of 12 but never really told anyone, and it's been getting worse.[/QUOTE] 6 - 7 years is a fairly long time to be having these thoughts. [QUOTE=tbh_fram_tru;49183777]Now I'm nearly 19 is it too late?[/QUOTE] No, 19 is still young. [QUOTE=tbh_fram_tru;49183777]even the thought of liking men turns me away.[/QUOTE] Your gender doesn't affect your sexuality, you don't have to like men to be a girl. You should probably consider seeing a gender therapist, they'll be able to help you work out if it's a phase or not and where to go from there.

[QUOTE=Hark;49183842]6 - 7 years is a fairly long time to be having these thoughts. No, 19 is still young. Your gender doesn't affect your sexuality, you don't have to like men to be a girl. You should probably consider seeing a gender therapist, they'll be able to help you work out if it's a phase or not and where to go from there.[/QUOTE] Thanks for the honest advice, it's just that I feel this late in life I would conform to a stereotype; the exact reason I didn't say anything when I was younger. Doing dance and being just another person conforming was literally the only reason I didn't say anything; considering I was known for not confirming to the already established feminine points in dance, it would feel like a massive copout to what I worked years at proving. Also, sorry to the people in this thread who have had this conversation to someone in a similar situation a plethora times before. I feel like with my build I would look like a freak in drag :(, I'm 82kg at 10%bf, everything I worked at proving would be a joke almost if I did decide to all of a sudden come out.

Don't you pre-HTR peeps get worried about how you will look at the age of 60+ as the opposite gender? I am fine with looking 60+ as a Man, but looking 60+ as a Woman irks me. When I think about it I just picture the stereotypical Old Woman, wrinkles, Grey Hair, slow body, needing glasses, that sorta thing.

[QUOTE=Xonax;49183939]Don't you pre-HTR peeps get worried about how you will look at the age of 60+ as the opposite gender? I am fine with looking 60+ as a Man, but looking 60+ as a Woman irks me. When I think about it I just picture the stereotypical Old Woman, wrinkles, Grey Hair, slow body, needing glasses, that sorta thing.[/QUOTE] Old men also get wrinkles, grey hair, and slow bodies. Some old men need glasses too. (and glasses aren't even an age thing, i wear them and i'm 22 :frown:) Not all old men look like movie stars, and some women look stunning even after 60. No matter what gender you are, you'll eventually get old and frail. [sp]and if you don't you're a god damn vampire[/sp]

[QUOTE=Xonax;49183939]wrinkles, Grey Hair, slow body, needing glasses, that sorta thing.[/QUOTE] Last time I checked old men had those too :v:, except minus the hair

[QUOTE=RedStar;49183985]Old men also get wrinkles, grey hair, and slow bodies. Some old men need glasses too. (and glasses aren't even an age thing, i wear them and i'm 22 :frown:) Not all old men look like movie stars, and some women look stunning even after 60. No matter what gender you are, you'll eventually get old and frail. [sp]and if you don't you're a god damn vampire[/sp][/QUOTE] I guess, my Dad is in his 60s and he looks real good for his age. I guess I haven't seen any women in their 60s+ that look good for their age.

[QUOTE=Xonax;49183995]I guess, my Dad is in his 60s and he looks real good for his age. I guess I haven't seen any women in their 60s+ that look good for their age.[/QUOTE] I work in retail and I barely even notice people and their genders, I only notice their personalities, if you understand what I mean. As in at that age, you are who you are, not who you think you are, unless you are suspiciously disingenuous. You can notice if they're happy or not, even if they don't outwardly appear that way, and so do many other people I work with agree with that (Bunnings life lmao) Btw, if someone could pm me a good gender therapist in the ipswich/brisbane region that would be amazing, money really isn't an issue, I don't care spending it to find out out who I am.

[QUOTE=Xonax;49183939]Don't you pre-HTR peeps get worried about how you will look at the age of 60+ as the opposite gender? I am fine with looking 60+ as a Man, but looking 60+ as a Woman irks me. When I think about it I just picture the stereotypical Old Woman, wrinkles, Grey Hair, slow body, needing glasses, that sorta thing.[/QUOTE] Why give a shit about 40 years in the future?

[QUOTE=Ms. Gyroscope;49188041]Why give a shit about 40 years in the future?[/QUOTE] To be honest, I don't know.

[QUOTE=Ms. Gyroscope;49188041]Why give a shit about 40 years in the future?[/QUOTE] Because you'll be there eventually? It's smart to think ahead. Planning for the future is essential. I wouldn't worry about my appearance at that age though, that'd be a little pointless.

[QUOTE=reedbo;49189545]Because you'll be there eventually? It's smart to think ahead. Planning for the future is essential. I wouldn't worry about my appearance at that age though, that'd be a little pointless.[/QUOTE] I mean Shit the last thing im gonna worry about by then is how i look. When Im 60 I doubt ill even give a shit cus ill be 60. I'd be worrying about my carreer or my cash. How I look is like #345 on the list of shit to worry about when Im 60. Dont let such a tiny thing detail. Surely we'll all be dead before that due to the inevitable apocalypse.

[QUOTE=reedbo;49189545]Because you'll be there eventually? It's smart to think ahead. Planning for the future is essential. I wouldn't worry about my appearance at that age though, that'd be a little pointless.[/QUOTE] i dont know what it's like to have a future because ive always assumed from a young age that I'd eventually kill myself. it's like ive somehow lived too long and I have no idea what to do with myself

[QUOTE=Levithan;49191662]i dont know what it's like to have a future because ive always assumed from a young age that I'd eventually kill myself. it's like ive somehow lived too long and I have no idea what to do with myself[/QUOTE] This pretty much i mean we survived now what? Goto college ? get a job? a family? I mean do whatever you want todo in life i guess cash money is important though as most of us will live till 50ish unless the new world order comes and wipes us out.