Crossdressing & Transgender & A̲L̲L̲I̲E̲S̲ Discussion v. Thread Reassignment Surgery - General

[QUOTE=slayer20;50427122]Anyone ever buy/try fake boobs? I'm thinking about getting some B/C cups, but they're kind of pricey and I don't know how good they are. I'm tired of being literally flat chested. I want some lovely lady lumps.[/QUOTE] I usually just put silicon bra inserts in a bra and wear that. Do you mean like actual breast implants? Or something you can just take off whenever?

With the advent of FP 2.0, custom subforms will be a thing. in a effort to try to talk to the gay thread to see how to form LGBT subform right, we made a discord that i have posted in their thread to discuss how to create the theme/ratings/who to mod/etc. the link is here: [url]https://discord.gg/012m2dsYupV30jfQw[/url] feel free to discuss how to create the LGBT forum there with the rest of the cd/tg and gay thread. (Reminder, The link to the official FP CD/TG discord is in the op!)

[QUOTE=GhostProject;50427265]I usually just put silicon bra inserts in a bra and wear that. Do you mean like actual breast implants? Or something you can just take off whenever?[/QUOTE] Something you can take off whenever. I have a couple of breast enhancements, but those are used for people who actually have breasts, and they don't blend very well.

[QUOTE=slayer20;50427335]Something you can take off whenever. I have a couple of breast enhancements, but those are used for people who actually have breasts, and they don't blend very well.[/QUOTE] I've heard good things about breast forms purchased from theatrical supply stores, but I haven't tried them. I don't even know where I'd find a store like that or how I'd be able to walk in and ask for them. I live in the south, and I consider every business I visit to be an unsafe space until demonstrated otherwise. I came out to my mom today; she was a lot more understanding than I ever would have expected. I guess I learned some lessons from when I previously came out to my dad, because I freaked the hell out of him, but my mom never seemed very alarmed about the whole thing. She told me that it's my body and that I've got one life, and that she'd rather that I figure things out and do what I want with it rather than waiting until I'm old and resentful. This is a huge weight off my shoulders. I don't think anyone's going to be comfortable with me practicing makeup or crossdressing at home just yet, but that's what I have my college apartment for. I'll start with small amounts of expression and work my way up. Gonna paint my nails tomorrow and wear it home for the first time.

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Can someone please tell me what my sexual orientation is called? So romantically I'm only attracted to females and sexually I prefer vaginas. However I often find myself fantasizing about dicks and get off to the idea of what it would feel like getting fucked in the ass or sucking a dick, mostly being in a woman's body or dressing as one while getting fucked. I usually watch porn and enjoy trying to feel what the woman in porn is feeling. I can totally embrace a transexual female or convincing crossdresser in sex but I'm extremely repulsed by guys. I can probably only have sex with a guy if faces were covered. I would only care about dick area of guy in sex. I'm extremely repulsed by the idea of having sex with any of the guys I know and there has never been a case where I would see a guy and consider them hot or get aroused - quite the opposite. Now just because I would love to try being a bottom in sex doesn't mean I like acting feminine in real life - it is strictly sexual thing. In real life I act or try to act extremely masculine and wouldn't ever want it to be any other way. I don't want to call myself bisexual because that would imply that I have attraction to guys. So is there a name for my orientation? What do you guys think would suit me best? I just want a label so I can stop thinking about it. I also have this kinda weird question: Do you think me trying out being bottom would turn my demeanor to a more feminine one in real life?

Bisexual would technically be accurate even if it's under specific circumstances. It's obvious you have a feminine or female preference, and you're heteroromantic. And easy answer to say when people ask is "I'm straight" though, because under typical circumstances you wouldn't be in a sexual encounter with a guy. Don't feel pressured into having sex with anyone you're not comfortable with. If [I]you personally[/I] feel like to better understand yourself you must have sex with a guy then don't suppress that feeling. Personally I suggest getting butt toys so you know the general idea of what it feels like.

My sexual orientation is "I gave the fuck up about trying to label my orientation so I said fuck it"

yeah i'm fairly the same for convenience sake i say i'm bi but it's really just "if you're hot, you're hot."

I see sales on women's clothing, and I [I]want to start a wardrobe[/I] but I just have no clue when it comes to female fashion sense and I have no idea when I'll wear any of it [editline]6th June 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=NotHomoISwear;50467957]Can someone please tell me what my sexual orientation is called? So romantically I'm only attracted to females and sexually I prefer vaginas. However I often find myself fantasizing about dicks and get off to the idea of what it would feel like getting fucked in the ass or sucking a dick, mostly being in a woman's body or dressing as one while getting fucked. I usually watch porn and enjoy trying to feel what the woman in porn is feeling. I can totally embrace a transexual female or convincing crossdresser in sex but I'm extremely repulsed by guys. I can probably only have sex with a guy if faces were covered. I would only care about dick area of guy in sex. I'm extremely repulsed by the idea of having sex with any of the guys I know and there has never been a case where I would see a guy and consider them hot or get aroused - quite the opposite. Now just because I would love to try being a bottom in sex doesn't mean I like acting feminine in real life - it is strictly sexual thing. In real life I act or try to act extremely masculine and wouldn't ever want it to be any other way. I don't want to call myself bisexual because that would imply that I have attraction to guys. So is there a name for my orientation? What do you guys think would suit me best? I just want a label so I can stop thinking about it. I also have this kinda weird question: Do you think me trying out being bottom would turn my demeanor to a more feminine one in real life?[/QUOTE] Going by the information given, you're straight. To me, sexual orientation is more based along andro- and gynephilia. If you're a man and have gynephilia, that is, attracted to femininity, you're straight. Beyond that is just how you like to have sex, while sexual orientation is who you'd potentially have sex with. Just like seeing a cis-man who looks convincingly like a girl, and getting turned on by it, doesn't make you gay. You're getting turned on by the femininity. Genitals are a whole different ball game. Like I pop my head up and say all the time, I'm similar. I'm straight, but have a bit of a preference to be a bottom, sexual wise. I enjoy the idea of a woman or at least satisfyingly feminine person topping me. Which is extremely contradictory for me, since I'm also attracted to more masculine women (see: soft-butch, or women with muscular tonality), but that's my selfishly digressing. Personally, I call you straight because you're (assuming) a man, and exhibit gynephilia. Would bottoming turn you more feminine? I mean, it can. Just depends on how you approach it. My keenness for bottoming seemed to grow along with my keenness for feminine expression, so, maybe. I toss that up to you.

[QUOTE=Qaus;50468417]yeah i'm fairly the same for convenience sake i say i'm bi but it's really just "if you're hot, you're hot."[/QUOTE] Absolutely. People seem to have such a strong need to label this like gender and orientation with such narrow description. I personally tell rigid people that I'm bi. if they're a bit more open minded I just say"not straight" and leave them to their own conclusions.

[QUOTE=NotHomoISwear;50467957] I also have this kinda weird question: Do you think me trying out being bottom would turn my demeanor to a more feminine one in real life?[/QUOTE] If I can speak from experience here, some of the manliest men I know love taking it in the ass. What you do in bed doesn't dictate who you are in the slightest, even if you do walk a little funny after the first couple times.

I think it's time to make a snap decision and change everything up. I'm at a real cross roads and it's time to be gutsy, I think. It's been too long since I've done something gutsy.

happy roughly one-month anniversary of me starting hrt nothing's changed ;-; [img]https://scontent-lga3-1.xx.fbcdn.net/t31.0-8/13433242_655151337974995_2875776162472080935_o.jpg[/img]

Hey. I’m a transgender who had undergone an ftm top surgery in Mississauga. Here is an article which says about the famous examples of successful FTM surgeries. [url]http://www.ftmtopsurgery.ca/blog/ftm-surgery/famous-examples-successful-ftm-surgeries/[/url] [highlight](User was permabanned for this post ("Advertising gimmick" - postal))[/highlight]

Hey so I've posted like once or twice in this thread thinking I was trans but now at this point I think I might just be confused about the whole thing instead. I like the thought of actually crossdressing sometime, enjoy being called a female name by one of my friends, like acting more girl like and etc. But at the same time I have a thought in the back of my head thinking "oh I have a doubt I actually would be" or that it could just be a really long phase. I've been like this for almost an entire year now as well though so How do I know if I'm actually trans or if its something else? Thanks

Back. Managed to sort of tell my mother about the whole transgender thing. Turns out the guy I was interviewed by in the second Charin Cross appointment was a bit of a bastard. For starters, he refered to me as "he" and such throughout the letter he sent to my GP, and pointlessly added hayfever to his diagnosis. He refered to my germophobia as "German phobia" (unless I made that pun myself, I can't remember), he also didn't expand on the reason that I don't wear lady clothes being that I don't have the money to buy any and it just depresses me that I'll just need to take them off after a few hours at most to keep them hidden. He also seems to think lady clothes are just dresses and high heels. All in all, he just made me seem like a poser who's using transgenderism as an excuse to procrastinate on other things which is total bollocks.

Gotta love having to move an appointment weeks away because the only clinic is halfway across the country and you have trouble taking an entire day out of your schedule. They couldn't even move it to a better time, they had to cancel it and will let me know later apparently.

Oh, I should point out that I have been allowed facial hair removal on the NHS, so that's good at least.

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[QUOTE=gtanoofa;50508905]Well i hope i wont dissapoint you by saying that we are not trained to give you a yes or a no and that there is no Trans-O-Meter. Do you feel dysphoric when others refer to you as a male? Do you feel bad when you see yourself in the mirror and think that living as a female would make you feel happy compared to being male? If you don't have these, it doesn't mean you are not trans. They are just very indicative and might point you to the right direction [editline]13th June 2016[/editline] You can add me on steam if you want so that we can discuss these things in private. Trans people usually have the same experiences and can relate to other trans people very easily.[/QUOTE] Wouldn't say I really feel dysphoric when people refer to me as a male but a lot of the time I would prefer female. But yeah I do see myself being a lot more happier as a female than a dude. I probably would talk to an actual therapist or whatever but it's just that if I were to my family would find out and I'd much prefer them not to know about all this. but yeah if you still want to talk about this on steam then I'd be cool with that, up to you really.

A queer peer of mine shared this. Pretty interesting, it's basically about trans men's body insecurities. Tame nudity: [url]http://mbodiment.ca/videos/[/url] [editline]13th June 2016[/editline] Sidenote: there's an astoundingly large community of LGBQT advocates in the Ottawa Design community. Queer graphic designers, bloggers, etc

I finally got my letter of confirmation, just gotta pick up the prescription and hope my dad doesnt force me to see more therapists, hooray.

What a very manly skirt to wear? I am not transgender nor crossdresser. It just gets muggy and hot where I live and want something to wear around the house. To help air out.

[QUOTE=Dayzofwinter;50541396]What a very manly skirt to wear? I am not transgender nor crossdresser. It just gets muggy and hot where I live and want something to wear around the house. To help air out.[/QUOTE] [URL="https://www.utilikilts.com"]https://www.utilikilts.com[/URL]

lists them to be 200 to 300 dollars. I am guessing regular kilt will do.

Huzzah, I was birthed today

[QUOTE=Shark Bones;50565950]Huzzah, I was birthed today[/QUOTE] Happiest of birthing days!

Got a skirt. Went shopping with my mother. Got one for 15 dollars. She was laughing her ass off. Guess that a plus.