Crossdressing & Transgender & A̲L̲L̲I̲E̲S̲ Discussion v. Thread Reassignment Surgery
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i got 2 skirts for $0.99 once.
free shipping too. and they're not half bad, though i would probably wear them over leggings because of how thin and light the material is.
I saw Finding Dory, it was really cute.
The whale shark character is almost literally me.
[QUOTE=Liliana_L;50622059]I haven't been outside in days. Wouldn't know.[/QUOTE]
There's an outside?
what is this outside you speak of
I've been just sitting outside for hours tanning. My rich tone grows richer. I am stronger every day
[QUOTE=Ms. Gyroscope;50631758]I've been just sitting outside for hours tanning. My rich tone grows richer. I am stronger every day[/QUOTE]
I like being pale.
that's probably bad but i like it better
I wish that it was possible to give yourself an untan instead of a suntan.
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;50649278]Hey I wanted to ask about genderfluid. I know a basic understanding of what it is but I don't quite understand the feelings and emotions if that makes sense. Would really help if someone could explain it a bit better.[/QUOTE]
what exactly do you already understand? i'm bigender and that's fairly close to genderfluid, maybe i'd be able to fill in the gaps.
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;50649625]from what ive read its on a basic level you may identify as a male, female and any non binary genders but i feel like i don't understand it fully[/QUOTE]
for some genderfluid people the gender they might currently identify as might be tied to their mood or social state. for others it's seemingly random. and rarely, some genderfluid people claim to have voluntary control over it. the shifts can happen very quickly and frequently (multiple times in the same day) or could happen very rarely (months apart). many genderfluid people choose to express both genders or to be androgynous so they feel as comfortable as possible at all times, others will pick either an effeminate or masculine form of expression to stick with, and more rarely some will try to switch their expression with whichever they currently identify with.
the shifts cannot be concretely explained in the current state of research, much in the same vein as gender as a whole. it's easier to simply take genderfluid people's word for it than to try and hypothesize or ask questions when there's no solid way of doing tests.
definitely, but not exclusively.
Hi guys. I'm new and my saw the trans thread right at the top as I first signed in so I thought I'd check in here with you guys. Trans girl, been on hormones 11 months as of tomorrow. Been presenting as female 3 years. I hope you're all as proud of yourselves for being cool people however you identify!
i can't tell you how you feel, i'm not a psychologist or psychiatrist.
even in shitty circumstances you should try explore yourself, ask yourself questions, and come to your own conclusions of who you are and how you function. what you do in your own privacy is your business.
don't worry about the circumstances until you figure out who you are and what you need to do to be happy.
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;50649981]But then I'd spend most if my time there crying over what I am and why I don't know[/QUOTE]
if there's anyone that knows how to help with this, it would be counselors.
[QUOTE=Qaus;50649952]i can't tell you how you feel, i'm not a psychologist or psychiatrist.
even in shitty circumstances you should try explore yourself, ask yourself questions, and come to your own conclusions of who you are and how you function. what you do in your own privacy is your business.
don't worry about the circumstances until you figure out who you are and what you need to do to be happy.[/QUOTE]
A psychiatrist can't tell you how you feel either. They rely on how you respond in order to get an idea for how you might be feeling and are generally there to ask questions that help guide you towards realising yourself.
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;50649981]As an adult I can't come to any conclusion about myself.
I know that I got as good of an answer as much as the people I've asked around.
Hell I can't even figure out what it means to be happy.
I appreciate the replies though.
Makes me wonder if talking to a professional counselor would help. But then I'd spend most if my time there crying over what I am and why I don't know[/QUOTE]
Yeah like Qaus said, if there's anyone you can do that with it's with counselors or therapists. Should be anyway, sometimes you do meet counselors who don't do their job properly, but when you land a proper one it is really great to have someone to spew your heart out at someone listening, who may or not tangle it out for you later on. Still, having someone you can legitimately cry out at/with is great to have if you already don't.
Give it a try! :)
I never post here but sometimes lurk this thread. This thread and all of you are supergreat!! <3
[QUOTE=Mooe94;50651741]Yeah like Qaus said, if there's anyone you can do that with it's with counselors or therapists. Should be anyway, sometimes you do meet counselors who don't do their job properly, but when you land a proper one it is really great to have someone to spew your heart out at someone listening, who may or not tangle it out for you later on. Still, having someone you can legitimately cry out at/with is great to have if you already don't.
Give it a try! :)
I never post here but sometimes lurk this thread. This thread and all of you are supergreat!! <3[/QUOTE]
<3
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;50651848]This is what I'm hoping. I'll find a decent counselor who can talk to me and help figure out this.
Thanks for the replies about this issue and you're all lovelies.[/QUOTE]
I try my best when I'm not busy shitposting fake nationalism.
I sincerely hope you find a good counsellor or therapist.
Some of us non cis folks need one, others don't. It just kinda depends.
God I hate days like these. All I wanna do is dress up really pretty and play with traffic.
Feeling a bit better today. Ugh, yesterday was shit.
[QUOTE=Sylvie;50655917]God I hate days like these. All I wanna do is dress up really pretty and play with traffic.
Feeling a bit better today. Ugh, yesterday was shit.[/QUOTE]
It'll turn around. I have no doubts :D
[editline]7th July 2016[/editline]
I think I'm going to leave Facepunch.
I cannot leave because of an Ancient Pact that prevents me from ever leaving completely until a certain stage in the Prophecy comes to pass.
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