Crossdressing & Transgender & A̲L̲L̲I̲E̲S̲ Discussion v. Thread Reassignment Surgery - General

[QUOTE=Wii60;51502438]it still exists, just kept private because random non-fp peeps come in thinking its dating related for some reason when it was public (never really figured that out tbh). if people want access to it, let me, biodude, or missingglitch know via pm and we will send ya a link :ok:[/QUOTE] Never forget Doug, ever [IMG]http://shotzpotz.xyz/ss/3UhoEB.png[/IMG]o7

[QUOTE=Shotz;51504292]Never forget Doug, ever [IMG]http://shotzpotz.xyz/ss/3UhoEB.png[/IMG]o7[/QUOTE] Daw, he seemed nice enough, mistaken about the whole "Not a dating thing", but nice enough.

I miss Doug :(

[QUOTE=Wii60;51502438]it still exists, just kept private because [B]random non-fp peeps come in [/B]thinking its dating related for some reason when it was public (never really figured that out tbh). if people want access to it, let me, biodude, or missingglitch know via pm and we will send ya a link :ok:[/QUOTE] I'm curious to know as to how random non-fp users stumble upon it.

[QUOTE=Zelle;51504701]I'm curious to know as to how random non-fp users stumble upon it.[/QUOTE] no clue honestly and neither does anyone else it just happened

[QUOTE=Zelle;51504701]I'm curious to know as to how random non-fp users stumble upon it.[/QUOTE] My best guess is that GD isn't limited to login like Fast Threads, so anyone can stumble into the thread and find the link and join without any sort of confirmation. And then they can just repost the link around elsewhere.

[QUOTE=biodude94566;51505691]My best guess is that GD isn't limited to login like Fast Threads, so anyone can stumble into the thread and find the link and join without any sort of confirmation. And then they can just repost the link around elsewhere.[/QUOTE] Correct, GD isn't. I'm not surprised people would use this as dating, as we do have some successful couples here... :V

[QUOTE=BlackMageMari;51505738]Correct, GD isn't. I'm not surprised people would use this as dating, as we do have some successful couples here... :V[/QUOTE] Hey now, I met my girlfriend in the [B]dragon[/B] thread, not here!

I met my ex in the dragon thread and it was the first step into my self esteem and my self-worth being completely shattered over successive, horrible break ups. I'm really looking forward to dying cold and alone on the couch in front of the TV, like my uncle did!!

Wow that went from 0 to 100 real quick.

I met mine as a joke. Then it got serious. I don't know.

[QUOTE=Levithan;51505822]I met my ex in the dragon thread and it was the first step into my self esteem and my self-worth being completely shattered over successive, horrible break ups. I'm really looking forward to dying cold and alone on the couch in front of the TV, like my uncle did!![/QUOTE] same but hey at least ive got this sick computer set up am i right

[QUOTE=Reagy;51507277]I met mine as a joke. Then it got serious. I don't know.[/QUOTE] Whoops

So I'm not sure if this is exactly the right place for this type of stuff but /shrug. About two years ago I told my mom that I thought I was trans. Her response was basically "wait until you're 18. Maybe figure yourself out a bit more." I thought it was pretty sound advice but I never acted on it, never did any research or anything. Anyways, I felt really embarrassed about the whole thing, so two weeks after, I told her it was a phase and she didn't have to worry about it. Ever since then I've tried to push the thoughts out of my mind, but they've been nagging at my head every so often for the past two years. Shit like "man, it'd be nice to be able to wear a dress," "why'd I have to be born a male," and "it'd be so much better if you were a woman." I've never cross-dressed or done anything of that sort as I always had seen it as perverted and weird, I was terrified of what other people would think. I'm 17 now and for whatever reasons, I've been feeling especially shitty about it all for the past week. Before it was bearable but now I've been staying up late, crying in bed. And I really just don't know what to do. I told a friend about it in passing a couple months ago, hoping for some advice but all he could offer was "get some help, man." (not in the way of "god, you're a nutcase" but more like "I don't know too much about this type of thing, so I'm probably not the best one to ask advice from.") What really kills me though is two nights ago I snuck some dresses from my mom's closet (stuff I thought she wouldn't wear anytime soon) and I tried them on. Though I felt like a gigantic weirdo and freak, part of me also felt really good about it and now because of that I feel 10x worse. I really don't know what to do now. I don't know if I'm just some weirdo who like wearing women's clothing or if I'm genuinely trans and I should undergo treatment. I want to talk to someone but I'm too scared. I have that friend I mentioned earlier, but I don't want to seem to clingy. I have a bunch of online friends who, from what I understand at least, are extremely LGBT friendly, but I don't want to sound creepy. And god, my parents would be especially bad to talk to right now (though I get the feeling that they're probably the most important). My mom's currently suffering from depression and she's about to quit her job, the last thing I'd want to do is add more stress to her plate (and of course the whole dress thing might come across as invasive). And my dad, ever since I can remember has always been so proud of me being his SON, and how he was "cursed with daughters and blessed with a son." My dad and I are fairly close and I would hate more than ever for him to feel as if I was taking something away from him by being a woman as opposed to a man. All my options just have me terribly scared and confused. Can anyone here offer advice?

[QUOTE=Luafox;51523531]Telling your online friends would probably be easiest, why would it come off as creepy if they are all lgbt friendly?[/QUOTE] I've always been the quite one in the group and I can't recall ever being serious about anything ever. I don't know why, but I feel like telling them I'm trans may come across as uncharacteristic of me and strange.

Btw for those who want to join, we are doing a random possibly-daily christmas raffle on the discord. if people want to try to get some free games while meeting cool peeps then ask me, biodude, or missingglitch for a invite to the discord. all the games are from my stockpile of humble bundle mostly so it will all b guud.

[QUOTE=Firecat;51526021]i know most takes place on discord, and not that its bad at all, i love discord, but sometimes i miss this thread being semi-active and a good amount of people posting :'( helped me out a lot from lurking and was easy to check up on at the end of the day and see new posts[/QUOTE] sorry if the discord kinda did that, i didnt mean to kill the place that i first came out on :v:

Heeeeey so how do I get in on the discord action? I normally just lurk, but if everybody's hanging out elsewhere I might as well come chat and be sociable or something

So, some news from my end- I'm now on HRT! I put my first patch on last night. I can't believe that over the course of this year, I've gone from my first assessment all the way to finally being prescribed. I'm just glad it's finally happened!

[QUOTE=Jamsponge;51528884]So, some news from my end- I'm now on HRT! I put my first patch on last night. I can't believe that over the course of this year, I've gone from my first assessment all the way to finally being prescribed. I'm just glad it's finally happened![/QUOTE] Meanwhile, waiting again yay. :v:

I've moved further away, so getting to Copenhagen is even tougher now. At the same time I had to postpone a meeting, never heard about it for about a month until I got a letter saying that I wasn't present without cancelling.

This is my kinda thread

well the name does fit welcome to the club, you aint leaving.

[QUOTE=TrannyAlert;51538605]This is my kinda thread[/QUOTE] Was wondering if you were ever going to post in here.

[IMG]https://4st.me/cWvNx.png[/IMG] how do i look

W-Well. Okay.

First time posting here. Statocon is State of Confusion, for those of you who care. As I am in this state constantly.

If you want to hug me that's ok

[QUOTE=Statocon;51544806]First time posting here. Statocon is State of Confusion, for those of you who care. As I am in this state constantly.[/QUOTE] Welcome to the thread Statocon!

[QUOTE=gtanoofa;51545667]Made a small thing. I think i look very different from when i was in the military both pysically and mentally :smile: [t]http://i.cubeupload.com/02NqkS.jpg[/t][/QUOTE] You look great!