Crossdressing & Transgender & A̲L̲L̲I̲E̲S̲ Discussion v. Thread Reassignment Surgery - General

you look wonderful maxi i told you you'd look great

That's a nice uniform in the middle, do you do historical re-enactments?

[QUOTE=gtanoofa;51546985]No, i'm a reservist 2nd Lieutenant in the Greek army.[/QUOTE] Oh wow. That's quite a job and a responsibility. I have a friend who's a reserve Irish army member, I think he wants to join full time after his studies. Good luck to you!

oh sweet christ, I'm so sorry to hear that. Fucking scumbags. I didn't mean to bring up anything like that. Luckily we have managed to become very progressive when it comes to LGBT rights. It's funny, we were considered the little old Catholic country, and in 20 years we went from homosexuality to being illegal to granting gay marriage and adoption rights as well as a ton of trans rights...

So I told my mom, and though she spent an hour lecturing me on how I can't know anything because I'm only 17 and that there's no way I could be trans as I never seemed feminine in any way growing up, she did agree to help get me a therapist. So yay.

Exactly. There were plenty of moments when I was younger when I showed a feminine side, but there were immediate consequences which policed me back into masculine roles. My mother, who thankfully supports me now, used to mock me for saying or doing things which were even mildly effeminate. I was also constantly exposed to extreme homophobia in public school, living in the south. I didn't have any safe place to explore my gender identity so I learned how to behave in order to not draw attention. I feel like I wasted years of my life living in a shell, and to an extent, I still am while I wait for hormones to run their course. But at the time, I didn't realize what I was doing to myself.

that's insanely cute

So it turns out two duderinos that I've been friends with for a while are trans. Now I have people I can verbally assault with my emotions :joy:

[QUOTE=Luafox;51550762]never seemed feminine in any way growing up is the most bullshit excuse ever a lot of people know that they are trans when young, but a lot of people don't find out until later in life, would almost be surprised if thats not the most common type since we've got the "trapped in the wrong body since 7 years old" stereotype narrative so drilled in, that many trans people doubt themselves because they dont fit that narrative plus, you might be able to recall a few moments from childhood that point to it as time goes on, even if your relatives can't[/QUOTE] [B]y u p[/B] There's so much hate against AMAB people who seem actually feminine it's not even funny, so of course even people who've felt it for years are going to hide it.

[QUOTE=Clovis;51551760]On a brighter note, this came in [t]http://puu.sh/sULot/8c2aeb60c7.jpg[/t] I'm not really into crazy frilly maid stuff (like lots of people seem to be!) but i figured this was subtle enough[/QUOTE] you have cute lips

[QUOTE=Headhumpy;51556599]you have cute lips[/QUOTE] u got a purty mouth but seriously that outfit is very good

Just got the "I'm mourning the loss of my son" talk last night.

[QUOTE=Clovis;51557243]thanks a lot. i usually get girls i show suggesting i wear lipstick, which is the one cosmetic i always do without [editline]20th December 2016[/editline] i feel like lipstick is too much, if i wear too much makeup overall it draws way too much attention to my face and i feel like a drag queen or something. i just wear real neutral stuff to add a feminine touch to my face [editline]20th December 2016[/editline] foundation, blush and a bit of eyeliner goes a looooooong way[/QUOTE] Honestly thought you were wearing lipstick, but if you aren't that just makes it more impressive.

[QUOTE=Clovis;51557243]thanks a lot. i usually get girls i show suggesting i wear lipstick, which is the one cosmetic i always do without [editline]20th December 2016[/editline] i feel like lipstick is too much, if i wear too much makeup overall it draws way too much attention to my face and i feel like a drag queen or something. i just wear real neutral stuff to add a feminine touch to my face [editline]20th December 2016[/editline] foundation, blush and a bit of eyeliner goes a looooooong way[/QUOTE] the fuck, I actually thought you were wearing lipstick or at least lipgloss in that photo love your nails too but CLEAN YOUR MIRROR AAAA

[QUOTE=Sega Saturn;51557792]Just got the "I'm mourning the loss of my son" talk last night.[/QUOTE] RIP in Peace someone that never existed.

To be fair, the parents aren't really doing anything wrong.

It's super sad when parents would rather hold on to what they believe in then love and support their children no matter what.

I'm hoping she'll come around. When I first came out to her, she was highly supportive but also very uninformed of what exactly transition entailed. I had a conversation with my brother at one point in which I told him that I could transition and continue to present as male for a while since I didn't know how long it would take to find a good job and place to build a life outside the South that would accept me as a trans person, and he either misreported it to my mother or she simply misunderstood what he had passed along. Apparently, until I presented female to Orlando Pride a while back, she was under the impression that I intended to continue living as a man indefinitely despite going on HRT last month. So now she came at me with a bunch of questions, asking me whether I'd considered what would happen if I had second thoughts down the road (of course I have), whether I would be sterile and if I had planned for this (I decided before I was ever questioning that I didn't want to have kids of my own, and my girlfriend never wants to get pregnant anyway, so we both agreed that adoption was preferable), whether my girlfriend would stay with me post-transition (she's pansexual and has promised many times that she'll try her best, and that's good enough for me), and so on. She nearly broke down crying when I was confident things would work out, giving me the line about "losing her son" while also continually assuring me that she would accept me as her daughter [I]eventually.[/I] I was a bit stone faced through all of this since it played out [I]exactly[/I] like 100 other transition stories I've read on the internet. I just tried to reassure her that gender is only a single aspect of a holistic person and that she hasn't lost anything. Dylan and Lydia are the same person with the same thoughts, feelings, memories, and interests. I'll just have to hope for the best.

[QUOTE=MissingGlitch;51560907]It's super sad when parents would rather hold on to what they believe in then love and support their children no matter what.[/QUOTE] [QUOTE=Clovis;51560880]dont you think parents should support their children[/QUOTE] Plenty of parents who support their kids still mourn over it. Cause you know, they conceived you, they've known you the longest, it's a bit of a shock knowing that their Son/Daughter is actually a Daughter/Son, so it's completely reasonable for parents to mourn their kid. Give them some time, they will come through. My Mom was upset about this but she still supports me, and she has considered me her daughter before she started to mourn.

yoooo merry christmas and happy holidays to all of you!

Another Christmas in the closet. Another Christmas of ugly guy clothing and bathroom stuff. Well. I hope the rest of you had a Merry Christmas!

havent posted here in a while but my christmas gift to you all is a [url=https://68.media.tumblr.com/325eab2a6a7d5e8202601c9a93dfd741/tumblr_oirx0qRG961t5uf4fo1_540.jpg]really good topless pic that doesnt make me feel disgusting for once[/url]

Anyone get a super puffy face after they eat too much salt? It keeps happening to me and it makes it look like i have a super weak chin and im gross. :cry:

Mrery chrismana

Merry Christmas Y'all

Imsorry do for fetting som ad atyou befroe you are all nice ladied and I am very jealatous [editline]26th December 2016[/editline] I hpoe stanta mage you hapy [highlight](User was banned for this post ("PUI" - Pascall))[/highlight]

[QUOTE=Zillamaster55;51584508]Imsorry do for fetting som ad atyou befroe you are all nice ladied and I am very jealatous [editline]26th December 2016[/editline] I hpoe stanta mage you hapy[/QUOTE] why do I have to outlive two dogs in my lifetime

[QUOTE=Gordonator;51584515]why do I have to outlive two dogs in my lifetime[/QUOTE] Dog are wdonderful anminals [editline]26th December 2016[/editline] Im so sorry your dog pas away. My dog s did too

[QUOTE=Clovis;51550939] why is it girls get to wear cute clothes and makeup and I'm perceived as weird and outcast if i want to? I just thought thats straight up unfair [/QUOTE] First time posting in this thread, but I've always thought this. Women's clothing is so fashionable.

One of my close childhood friends when I told him was "yeah I figured and also let me redo your closet, women have so many great clothing options im jealous" was interesting