Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT

[Rhenae]

We should get the girl on this. Get all the views. All the shit to be dealt with and discussed. :v:
No Yahnich, this is a good learning experience and is definitely something we can refer back to later. Since these situations arn't particularly uncommon in this thread.

[Naptime]

[QUOTE=Yahnich;40267941]please take this to the pm system this drama is boring me[/QUOTE]
I'm pretty sure I'm done. I'm pretty tired at this point as well.

I apologize. I've always been far more fond of reading threads rather than posting in them.

[QUOTE=Zukriuchen;40267940]From my point of view, Jaric hates himself enough for all those mistakes

And it's understandable that Robert is mad, really understandable

If I had to give you guys advice it'd be something like "yeah, shit happened, just try to prevent it from happening in the future and move on"

But then again, we're only getting the two opposite views on a really complex story so not much we can say about it[/QUOTE]
I'm trying my best to prevent shitty things from happening.

[QUOTE=Dunsparce;40267959]Well i thought it was stupid for the both of us to leave the group. One's enough. I thought it should have been me since I did the damage.

I don't see what's wrong with letting her know I care.

Honestly, I'm just some guy that asked a forum their opinion on what I should do next. They gave me an answer, and I did what they told me to do. I don't see anything wrong with that. It just seems like you want to make me look stupid in front of everyone. Which I guess it's understandable. Yeah, I'm the bad guy. What I did was wrong and I'm not asking for forgiveness because I know that's impossible at this point. All I want to do now is move on. That's why I asked around for advice. I needed help to move on. So yeah, bye. I honestly hope you both have a happy life together. But as of right now I'm just trying get by, and I'd appreciate it if you stopped rubbing my mistakes in my face. I'm not doing that to you, and there are definitely some things that I can attack. I just don't see the point in doing that since we can both just continue to ignore each other and live on with our lives.

I'm sorry. I didn't mean to start a show.[/QUOTE]
I'd love to see what you come up with as far as attacking me. I'd probably find it hilarious. You're the bad guy? There are no bad guys. Such a fucking stupid thing to say to your mom too, oh "I'm a bad person." I'm nitpicking at this point because I didn't give myself the chance to because I favored pretending you didn't exist.

You asked the forums for advice, how is moving on coming along for you?

You have asked for forgiveness.

You don't need to ask me to stop rubbing shit in your face because we don't talk and I don't speak of you unless I have to.

[QUOTE=Rhenae;40267965]We should get the girl on this. Get all the views. All the shit to be dealt with and discussed. :v:
No Yahnich, this is a good learning experience and is definitely something we can refer back to later. Since these situations arn't particularly uncommon in this thread.[/QUOTE]
She's actually read everything aside from a few of the latest post. She fell asleep.

This is pretty much done, I really want to be done with this.

[James]

Someone gave me the title "Very Friendly". In my opinion, they are friendlier.

[Guy Mannly]

not getting too involved in this but this is fucking hilarious to me:
[QUOTE=Dunsparce;40266827]"Evil boyfriend that's keeping his girlfriend from other guys woooOOoooOOoooo, makes for such good drama, eh Jarc?"
I never said you were keeping her from other guys, nor that you were evil. I even said that it was understandable if you were keeping her away from me, and people agreed with it. Nobody thinks you're the bad guy here Robert.[/QUOTE]

literally every post you've made here has been "well i truly ~love~ this girl that i keep harassing but her big bad boyfriend won't let me be there for her anymore!"

and do you keep calling kissing her "the biggest mistake of your life" because you actually recognize it was a fucking dumb thing to do or just because of the consequences of it?

[MindMuncher]

Yahnich, make sure to remember to give disseminate the title saying "biggest homosex." Don't forget.

[DaFreshLemon]

So guys, I've a question for you. I met a girl at a party some weeks ago. We made out, and she gave me her number. We texted each other for a week and then we were supposed to meet at a bar, but ended up going to her friend's house. The only people there was this girl, her friend, the friend's bf and me. I was feeling awkward as hell as I barely knew those people, so I got a bit drunk to lighten things up. She drank some aswell. When the other two left the room we started making out and I reached third base with her. I didn't get laid only because she was on her period. Anyway, this was two weeks ago, and in that timeframe we barely spoke to each other. And I don't know the reason, it's like she seems uninterested. It's not that she completely ignores me, if I talk to her she answers back, but she doesn't start the conversation anymore, and we keep talking about trivial stuff. Can someone tell me what happened? Between the party and that night at her friend's she was all over me, telling me I was cute, that sorta stuff, but now she seems like another person. I need help guys. What do I do? Is there anything I can do to change things back to how they were before?

[OogalaBoogal]

[QUOTE=DaFreshLemon;40271623]So guys, I've a question for you. I met a girl at a party some weeks ago. We made out, and she gave me her number. We texted each other for a week and then we were supposed to meet at a bar, but ended up going to her friend's house. The only people there was this girl, her friend, the friend's bf and me. I was feeling awkward as hell as I barely knew those people, so I got a bit drunk to lighten things up. She drank some aswell. When the other two left the room we started making out and I reached third base with her. I didn't get laid only because she was on her period. Anyway, this was two weeks ago, and in that timeframe we barely spoke to each other. And I don't know the reason, it's like she seems uninterested. It's not that she completely ignores me, if I talk to her she answers back, but she doesn't start the conversation anymore, and we keep talking about trivial stuff. Can someone tell me what happened? Between the party and that night at her friend's she was all over me, telling me I was cute, that sorta stuff, but now she seems like another person. I need help guys. What do I do? Is there anything I can do to change things back to how they were before?[/QUOTE]

Ask her to go do something with you! Be proactive and see what happens!

[kaine123]

Just me and a ladyfriend are hanging out and having dinner around our local waterfront. It's going to be nice. Also there's a good chance of casual sex afterwards.

[Crpto2007]

Ok so i have a bit of a problem. My girl refuses to let me use my money to take her out and she won't eat anything from my house. I tell her i don't mind grabbing some chips or water something from my kitchen but she still declines. She won't let me buy her anything

[OogalaBoogal]

[QUOTE=Crpto2007;40273501]Ok so i have a bit of a problem. My girl refuses to let me use my money to take her out and she won't eat anything from my house. I tell her i don't mind grabbing some chips or water something from my kitchen but she still declines. She won't let me buy her anything[/QUOTE]

The stuff from your house is odd, but most ~modern couple~ pay for their own meals and stuff now-a-day.

[Behemoth_PT]

[QUOTE=Crpto2007;40273501]Ok so i have a bit of a problem. My girl refuses to let me use my money to take her out and she won't eat anything from my house. I tell her i don't mind grabbing some chips or water something from my kitchen but she still declines. She won't let me buy her anything[/QUOTE]
What the fuck. What if you want to cook her something nice or invite her over for dinner? is she still going to refuse?

If so, that's odd and you should really talk to her about it.

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=Crpto2007;40273501]Ok so i have a bit of a problem. My girl refuses to let me use my money to take her out and she won't eat anything from my house. I tell her i don't mind grabbing some chips or water something from my kitchen but she still declines. She won't let me buy her anything[/QUOTE]

She might feel obligated to not be the sort of gf who mooches all their stuff from the bf, and going a bit overboard. Talk to her about it and ask her why?

[JakeRose]

[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;40270289]
literally every post you've made here has been "well i truly ~love~ this girl that i keep harassing but her big bad boyfriend won't let me be there for her anymore!"

and do you keep calling kissing her "the biggest mistake of your life" because you actually recognize it was a fucking dumb thing to do or just because of the consequences of it?[/QUOTE]
I never said that he was bad. I never said that anything he did in regards to this situation was wrong. I've always said that what he's done makes sense.

Both? I mean I certainly don't like the consequences. I'd be lying if I said that that doesn't play a part on why I'm really bummed about this. But yeah, it was a fucking dumb thing to do.

[zukriuchen]

I want to ask this girl to go to prom, but we're just friends, and I hope it stays that way. The thing is that I'm scared she might misunderstand it and see it as me having a romantic interest on her. Any tips?

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=Zukriuchen;40273696]I want to ask this girl to go to prom, but we're just friends, and I hope it stays that way. The thing is that I'm scared she might misunderstand it and see it as me having a romantic interest on her. Any tips?[/QUOTE]

"Want to go to prom as just friends?"

[♠️♥️♦️♣️]

"i do not think you are attractive. let's go to prom."

[killerteacup]

God fucking dammit I keep missing movie night

[lum1naire]

this page should forever be archived in SFSAL thread history

classic page very intense 10/10 would read again for teen drama luv it better then vampire diaries

[killerteacup]

To be honest I scrolled right through it

I'm going to read it like a novel before I go to bed tonight

[dmillerw]

Friend and I are mutually interested in each other, which is awesome. Unfortunately she's just not looking for a relationship at the moment while she sorts out her life. But it's a start in a positive direction for me again.

Is it silly to keep her in mind for the future though?

[Bobie]

[QUOTE=dmillerw;40276032]Friend and I are mutually interested in each other, which is awesome. Unfortunately she's just not looking for a relationship at the moment while she sorts out her life. But it's a start in a positive direction for me again.

Is it silly to keep her in mind for the future though?[/QUOTE]

don't get comfortable with the idea of having a relationship with her.

[johnsten]

is it weird to really want a girlfriend? i feel like i'd probably be overall more happy, i don't really have low self-esteem

it's just like i work better when i have a partner??

[disseminate]

[QUOTE=johnsten;40276499]is it weird to really want a girlfriend? i feel like i'd probably be overall more happy, i don't really have low self-esteem

it's just like i work better when i have a partner??[/QUOTE]

Relationships are icing on the cake, not the cake itself.

[OogalaBoogal]

[QUOTE=killerteacup;40274186]God fucking dammit I keep missing movie night[/QUOTE]

We have movie night whenever Diss gets in chat with loads of people and he says that he wants to watch a movie. Just hang around in chat more often!

[blacksam]

I threw a party last night just to hang out with people. We watched airplane and chilled out with kinect and battle front II. Someone told my ex I threw a party, she texted me "So you threw a party?" And I wasn't going to have it, I texted her back if she cared about me she would've at least responded to me the two times I tried talking to her and that I was sorry that I couldn't make her happy/even tried to make her happy, and that if she was an adult she would have at least called me, so next time grow up. I told her about my dad being really sick and my mom feeling awful. She asked if they were alright, I said she wouldn't care either way. I was just so upset by her, I saw her at school friday get a ride home with another guy I never even seen before and I just got so physically and mentally upset that I had to remind myself she was a liar while we dated, she hated a lot of my friends, and she had to gossip about everyone behind their backs. I never told her off like that even while we were dating and now I apologized via text and facebook message. I know she has a twitter but I blocked her because I didn't want to follow her or be tempted to see what she is saying to other guys.
To be honest, I accept that it's over, I stayed up with my best friend until 3 am just talking about how I thought I could be the guy for her that fixed everything and I could teach her to love the things that I love like philosophy and hipster music and good books. Then he mentioned all the times when she was bad off I was there for her, but when my little brother was depressed she ran the other way, or when I moved my older brother to kansas city she got jealous. That she was only there to leech off of my success and blame me for when I screwed up. He was right in a way, it was oddly comforting. I had to apologize to her though for what I said, I just got mad that she thought she can pick and choose when to come.into my life, and in no reality does that work.
I'm venting, I really appreciate the feedback from you guys. I know I was harsh, but I had to apologize because it didn't feel right.

[DeathFrogg]

Major issue, kinda urgent guys.
Me n GF almost going out for 3 months things are better than great etc we met on friday after not seeing each other for 3 weeks (she had exams) and like she was so happy to see me she ran up to me hugged me etc we had a really fun night (it was an outdoor party). I took her virginity a few wks ago and we were chatting about her coming to college for the obvious to relax after her exams etc we agreed for this afternoon.

The day after friday i txt her and shes suddenly giving rly wierd short responses and eventually says she wants to talk at a cafe instead of college. I ask if its The Talk and she says something generic "not necessarily. To have a talk"

Its sounds like a breakup is impending but i dunno.. Any ideas?
Its just so sudden...

[mblunk]

[QUOTE=Dunsparce;40273692]I never said that he was bad. I never said that anything he did in regards to this situation was wrong. I've always said that what he's done makes sense.

Both? I mean I certainly don't like the consequences. I'd be lying if I said that that doesn't play a part on why I'm really bummed about this. But yeah, it was a fucking dumb thing to do.[/QUOTE]

Hey man, you tried your best, and you lost. It happens, don't let it get to you. Only you choose how long and hard you want to suffer over this, so you might as well let the end be right now, and use what happened as inspiration to make yourself a better man for your next opportunity. Smooth seas never made a skilled sailor.

Robert: I don't get why you're so bitter, you got the girl, what else do you want? To put Jaric into a time of shame, anxiety, and depression? Don't you think he's (and you've) had enough?

[ardosos]

Alright, quick question to those of you with significant others - where/how did you meet them?

[Splash Attack]

[QUOTE=Ardosos;40283128]Alright, quick question to those of you with significant others - where/how did you meet them?[/QUOTE]

My girlfriend shares 4 out of my 6 classes with me. We started talking in class and then she started walking and eating lunch with me. So, I took the hint and asked her out.

[killerteacup]

[QUOTE=DeathFrogg;40281369]Major issue, kinda urgent guys.
Me n GF almost going out for 3 months things are better than great etc we met on friday after not seeing each other for 3 weeks (she had exams) and like she was so happy to see me she ran up to me hugged me etc we had a really fun night (it was an outdoor party). I took her virginity a few wks ago and we were chatting about her coming to college for the obvious to relax after her exams etc we agreed for this afternoon.

The day after friday i txt her and shes suddenly giving rly wierd short responses and eventually says she wants to talk at a cafe instead of college. I ask if its The Talk and she says something generic "not necessarily. To have a talk"

Its sounds like a breakup is impending but i dunno.. Any ideas?
Its just so sudden...[/QUOTE]

Hey man, if thats whats going to happen, that sucks. but there's no guarantee until you get there - try not to worry too much or panic in the meantime.

And if she does just remember that you are a cool guy and other girls will be around the corner to date you almost immediately

I imagine you think this girl is all you want but if she's dumping you it means she doesn't see the value that you have and if she can't see that she dumb