Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT

[Taepodong-2]

[QUOTE=Slowbro;42542151]yeah because that'll help you meet new people[/QUOTE]

That's not the point. The point is it's a few less people I can compare my lack of a life to.

[Slowbro]

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;42542251]That's not the point. The point is it's a few less people I can compare my lack of a life to.[/QUOTE]

Here's an idea.

Instead of cutting all these people out of your life, why not do what we've been telling you to do all along and [i]fucking talk to them?[/i] If you want people to put the effort in with you, you need to put some effort in yourself.

[Taepodong-2]

[QUOTE=Slowbro;42542332]Here's an idea.

Instead of cutting all these people out of your life, why not do what we've been telling you to do all along and [i]fucking talk to them?[/i] If you want people to put the effort in with you, you need to put some effort in yourself.[/QUOTE]
Because all of them were people I went to high school with and I have nothing to do with them anymore because I don't live in the same place as them anymore. Half of them are douchenozzles anyway.

[Slowbro]

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;42542455]Because all of them were people I went to high school with and I have nothing to do with them anymore because I don't live in the same place as them anymore. Half of them are douchenozzles anyway.[/QUOTE]

Well if you never see them anymore and they're all douchenozzles why are you comparing your life to theirs?

[Taepodong-2]

[QUOTE=Slowbro;42542575]Well if you never see them anymore and they're all douchenozzles why are you comparing your life to theirs?[/QUOTE]
It's just something that happens. I go on Facebook, see everyone having fun, feel like I'm not as good as them.

[Slowbro]

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;42542584]It's just something that happens. I go on Facebook, see everyone having fun, feel like I'm not as good as them.[/QUOTE]

That shit happens to everyone man. It sucks but you just have to deal with it really.

[SaintBonkers]

[QUOTE=Slowbro;42542631]That shit happens to everyone man. It sucks but you just have to deal with it really.[/QUOTE]

Yeah, people lives are never as interesting as they seem on Facebook.
Facebook is master supression techniques in a box.

[Bobie]

[QUOTE=hunterNormandy;42542827]You can only get a good idea about a person if you actually spend alot of time with them.

everyone on Facebook and alike most likely aren't telling the full story.
like me, I always try to keep my past to myself, its just too depressing and I alone should carry its burden on my shoulders. No one else should know my pain.[/QUOTE]

didnt you kinda uh break that rule about yourself by telling us all you have a depressing past

[Metallics]

[QUOTE=hunterNormandy;42543042]I haven't told you all everything.

and I'm glad I haven't. But its not always easy to keep so much inside.

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Honestly the only thing that makes me happy anymore is helping others out, making sure they're happy and safe...
no matter how miserable and broken I am deep down inside...[/QUOTE]

Feel free to wallow in self pity some more

[Slowbro]

[QUOTE=hunterNormandy;42543042]I haven't told you all everything.

and I'm glad I haven't. But its not always easy to keep so much inside.

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Honestly the only thing that makes me happy anymore is helping others out, making sure they're happy and safe...
no matter how miserable and broken I am deep down inside...[/QUOTE]

This reads like the lyrics to an emo song

[zukriuchen]

how pretentious can you be

[Bobie]

NEW **leaked** script for next sonic title 2014

[UncouthJungle]

I actually have a question which to i wonder: What kind of men do women like? Do they like fat, skinny, mean, funny etc.

[Taepodong-2]

[QUOTE=UncouthJungle;42543203]I actually have a question which to i wonder: What kind of men do women like? Do they like fat, skinny, mean, funny etc.[/QUOTE]

I don't even know. I was in line at Tim Horton's just now and there was this really attractive girl and she was all over this fat guy with a double chin and a neckbeard. It made me mad enough that I just said fuck it and went home.

[Bobie]

[QUOTE=UncouthJungle;42543203]I actually have a question which to i wonder: What kind of men do women like? Do they like fat, skinny, mean, funny etc.[/QUOTE]

women like all kinds of men

if there's hope for a [URL="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jq-jPBupkuo"]male adult baby[/URL] then you don't need to shape yourself to appeal to women. you just need to be confident in yourself.

[UncouthJungle]

Oh well, i'm around girls whenever i'm at school and some of them appear to be mean towards me but others friendly...

[Bobie]

[QUOTE=UncouthJungle;42543261]Oh well, i'm around girls whenever i'm at school and some of them appear to be mean towards me but others friendly...[/QUOTE]

how old are you? just as a point of reference

[Linda.]

[QUOTE=UncouthJungle;42543261]Oh well, i'm around girls whenever i'm at school and some of them appear to be mean towards me but others friendly...[/QUOTE]
Are you really surprised? Women are people too and have different tastes and personalities, like what did you expect

[zukriuchen]

[QUOTE=UncouthJungle;42543203]I actually have a question which to i wonder: What kind of men do women like? Do they like fat, skinny, mean, funny etc.[/QUOTE]

I don't know man, women have been keeping that secret from us men for a pretty long time! Nobody will ever know! I tried infiltrating one of their meetings where they state specifically what type of men all women around the world should like, but they caught me!

[Taepodong-2]

So just for reference, how can I talk to girls about my interests without coming off as a total sperglord and potential mass murderer? I'm super embarrassed to talk about anything personal about myself as you're all aware and I want to know how I can talk about my interests without them sounding embarrassing and spergy.

[Omniskull]

[QUOTE=hunterNormandy;42543042]I haven't told you all everything.

and I'm glad I haven't. But its not always easy to keep so much inside.

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Honestly the only thing that makes me happy anymore is helping others out, making sure they're happy and safe...
no matter how miserable and broken I am deep down inside...[/QUOTE]

what a baby, you have no idea how ridiculous you sound!
How old are you seriously, I bet you just got grounded last month and missed prom leaving your soul tormented and broken right?

[Bobie]

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;42543320]So just for reference, how can I talk to girls about my interests without coming off as a total sperglord and potential mass murderer? I'm super embarrassed to talk about anything personal about myself as you're all aware and I want to know how I can talk about my interests without them sounding embarrassing and spergy.[/QUOTE]

just talk about it happily, with confidence. you wont have anything in common with like 50% of people you meet anyway so if it turns out you cant make any magic happen in conversation, move on and try again.

[Taepodong-2]

[QUOTE=hunterNormandy;42543349]I may be wrong, but dont some girls actually like shy individuals?
[/QUOTE]

This is 100% wrong.

But it's not necessarily talking about personal things. It's not like I have some awful traumatic past I'm hiding from people. It's just a matter of making the conversation more personal instead of just saying the same stuff I could say to anyone. I'm embarrassed to talk about my interests, therefore cannot take a conversation to a more personal level and make those connections you need for a girl to like you.

[UncouthJungle]

g

[Taepodong-2]

[QUOTE=Bobie;42543371]just talk about it happily, with confidence. you wont have anything in common with like 50% of people you meet anyway so if it turns out you cant make any magic happen in conversation, move on and try again.[/QUOTE]

So basically just act like a neckbeard talking about MLP but replace MLP with airsoft guns or something.

[Slowbro]

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;42543320]So just for reference, how can I talk to girls about my interests without coming off as a total sperglord and potential mass murderer? I'm super embarrassed to talk about anything personal about myself as you're all aware and I want to know how I can talk about my interests without them sounding embarrassing and spergy.[/QUOTE]

First off, stop saying shit like "sperg". Like, right now.

Second, don't talk [i]to[/i] them, talk [i]with[/i] them. Make sure you involve them in the conversation. Don't just ramble on about whatever it is that you're interested in, ask them questions and shit about it.

[UncouthJungle]

[QUOTE=Dirtie;42543285]Are you really surprised? Women are people too and have different tastes and personalities, like what did you expect[/QUOTE]

You don't have to jump on my face..tyhmä ruottalaine.

[Funky Mummy]

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;42543375]This is 100% wrong.

But it's not necessarily talking about personal things. It's not like I have some awful traumatic past I'm hiding from people. It's just a matter of making the conversation more personal instead of just saying the same stuff I could say to anyone. I'm embarrassed to talk about my interests, therefore cannot take a conversation to a more personal level and make those connections you need for a girl to like you.[/QUOTE]

You can't possibly have such strange interests that make them embarrassing to talk about.

I play a pen and paper game that is basically Dungeons & Dragons in the Warhammer 40k universe. I buy tiny plastic soldiers and paint them. I'm not ashamed of that, it is fucking fun. I'll say that to anyone if it fits the conversation. I might not tell them that my character was too poor to hook up with a space hooker and I could only afford a hug (Space hug?) but you get the idea. :v:

[Taepodong-2]

[QUOTE=Slowbro;42543415]First off, stop saying shit like "sperg". Like, right now.

Second, don't talk [i]to[/i] them, talk [i]with[/i] them. Make sure you involve them in the conversation. Don't just ramble on about whatever it is that you're interested in, ask them questions and shit about it.[/QUOTE]

I literally don't know how to get a conversation to that point anyway. I'm afraid to ask girls questions about their interests because I know it will get to a point where she asks about mine, and then the inner neckbearded loser comes out and starts ranting about tanks and guns and military aircraft.

[Bobie]

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;42543397]So basically just act like a neckbeard talking about MLP but replace MLP with airsoft guns or something.[/QUOTE]

there's a difference between talking about something confidently and acting like a 'neckbeard', definitely.

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pretty much what slowbro said lol