• Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT
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[QUOTE=Yahnich;40361413]spray her back[/QUOTE] Like do you mean tease her back, or?
[QUOTE=LokiStormbringr;40361446]Like do you mean tease her back, or?[/QUOTE] No he means with your piss.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;40361696]yeah sure piss[/QUOTE] What if I get charged with misconduct?
[QUOTE=LokiStormbringr;40361706]What if I get charged with misconduct?[/QUOTE] You wont, spray n pray.
Tease her back. I tried that once I can't necessarily vouch for how well it works though. [sp]The girl I tried that with told me she was moving around the time I was ready to make a move, so I held back. Thought things might get awkward being that she'd only be around for another month, she's somewhere out there in North Carolina now. Wish I'd gotten an E-Mail or something to keep in touch.[/sp]
So what do I do about this girl, we'll text and stuff all day and a lot of the times she'll put "lol" a lot of the times but sometimes she'll post longer sentences and get a bit flirty. But when I asked her on a date she said "idk" and that she'd think about it. When do I bring it up again and what do I do in the meantime?
[QUOTE=Zerokateo;40362715]So what do I do about this girl, we'll text and stuff all day and a lot of the times she'll put "lol" a lot of the times but sometimes she'll post longer sentences and get a bit flirty. But when I asked her on a date she said "idk" and that she'd think about it. When do I bring it up again and what do I do in the meantime?[/QUOTE] Doesn't sound like she's so interested.
[QUOTE=Zerokateo;40362715]So what do I do about this girl, we'll text and stuff all day and a lot of the times she'll put "lol" a lot of the times but sometimes she'll post longer sentences and get a bit flirty. But when I asked her on a date she said "idk" and that she'd think about it. When do I bring it up again and what do I do in the meantime?[/QUOTE] idk and she'll think about it means she probably isn't that interested.
Well fuck... I've never met her in person, so do I just slowly stop talking to her or what?
[QUOTE=Zerokateo;40362735]Well fuck... I've never met her in person, so do I just slowly stop talking to her or what?[/QUOTE] How are you asking her out if you've never met in person? If the only reason you were talking to her was to get a gf then yes, or if you want to be friends keep talking and invite her to some friend gathering (aka not just you two) some time. edit: Maybe if you got to know eachother in person in non relationship ways she might re-consider the dating thing. Don't put your hopes on it or anything but I mean I doubt I would agree to go on a date with someone i've never met? (unless I was online dating or a hook up through a friend thing)
The distance is like 10 miles, and I met her on a "Social media website with dating thrown in" so it was kinda to be expected. Also it's just a mild crush I have, I can get over her. It just sucks cause they seem interested at first for like the first week and then shit just kinda goes bleh.
[QUOTE=Zerokateo;40362735]Well fuck... I've never met her in person, so do I just slowly stop talking to her or what?[/QUOTE] Does she live close? If so, you should try to meet her in person sometime at least. I mean, I wouldn't be interested in someone whom I've never actually met. Ninjas. :I
I tried to set up a date with her, said I'd meet her up at starbucks and she said she'd think about it. I mean, is it possible she is just her being nervous about meeting someone over the internet?
[QUOTE=Zerokateo;40362793]I tried to set up a date with her, said I'd meet her up at starbucks and she said she'd think about it. I mean, is it possible she is just her being nervous about meeting someone over the internet?[/QUOTE] Yes it is possible. Try inviting her to a group event instead, would probably make her more comfortable if that were the problem.
[QUOTE=Zerokateo;40362793]I tried to set up a date with her, said I'd meet her up at starbucks and she said she'd think about it. I mean, is it possible she is just her being nervous about meeting someone over the internet?[/QUOTE] When you ask her to meet somewhere, I would be specific about time and place. As in, "Hey, do you want to meet up at Starbucks today/tomorrow/etc.?" just so she is forced to make a decision. That way, she can't pussy-foot around it. If she keeps making excuses, then something's probably up.
I'll figure something out I guess, should I say she could bring a friend or 2?
Also, what rhenae said. Automerge. :/
[QUOTE=Splash Attack;40362855]When you ask her to meet somewhere, I would be specific about time and place. As in, "Hey, do you want to meet up at Starbucks today/tomorrow/etc.?" just so she is forced to make a decision. That way, she can't pussy-foot around it. If she keeps making excuses, then something's probably up.[/QUOTE] I had said Starbucks next week whenever she had a free day. I guess next week I'll ask her if she wants to meet up there on Friday, obviously I'll ask her a day before. [editline]20th April 2013[/editline] And fuck, my merge too...
I'll ask her out for the 2nd time tomorrow, if she says no then I'll just call it quits. I'll move on and find someone else.
Random chick texts me yesterday, flirting and stuff, shes from my school but I'm not sure who she is (only told me her first name) Do I keep texting? Do I try to find out who exactly she is first? Do I not text her today and wait until Monday to talk to her personally?
[QUOTE=Zukriuchen;40366716]Random chick texts me yesterday, flirting and stuff, shes from my school but I'm not sure who she is (only told me her first name) Do I keep texting? Do I try to find out who exactly she is first? Do I not text her today and wait until Monday to talk to her personally?[/QUOTE] Your just texting stop fussing so much.
My bad its just that some random chick likes me and I don't want to fuck it up
[QUOTE=Zukriuchen;40367311]My bad its just that some random chick likes me and I don't want to fuck it up[/QUOTE] There is nothing to fuck up .
[QUOTE=Zukriuchen;40367311]My bad its just that some random chick likes me and I don't want to fuck it up[/QUOTE] ask her last name
[QUOTE=greendevil;40368166]ask her last name[/QUOTE] Better idea, if it isn't likely to be a last name like "smith" ask her how to spell her full name so you can find her on facebook (assuming you don't already have her on there) I'm terrible with names, I've discovered every way there is to get someone to tell you their name without asking directly. :v:
It's been one month being single. We occasionally talk. I wrote her a note telling her thanks for the two years and that I'll miss talking to her. I probably screwed up my chances having her as a friend, but in all honesty it's okay. I'm just happy to get out of high school soon. I am transferring from the university I plan to attend because originally I thought I was going to be close by to her because she is a Junior and what not. So go there for a semester and move to Cincinnati in January. I wanted to go there for the mass amount of clubs, research opportunities, internships and co-ops. Plus to study abroad. I'm just worried that housing might be an issue and meeting people will be hard because everyone has settled in. Am I being stupid transferring out to second semester or should I stick it out for a year at my original school?
So I've been going out with a girl, usually just weekly, for over a month now. It's been great, the two of us are able to talk about any topic that comes up, we both make each other laugh, we've talked deeper stuff too and some mutual flirtation is slowly starting to emerge. Only things is: it's complicated if anything, due to some circumstances.
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;40369896]So I've been going out with a girl, usually just weekly, for over a month now. It's been great, the two of us are able to talk about any topic that comes up, we both make each other laugh, we've talked deeper stuff too and some mutual flirtation is slowly starting to emerge. Only things is: it's complicated if anything, due to some circumstances.[/QUOTE] And what are you asking or telling us with such vague details? " we get along but it's complicated" yes and?
She's a hologram of an AI
It's his sister the list goes on
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