Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT
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[QUOTE=Ast_risk;40386984]Why's it cringey? Posterboards and puns are the norms around here. Keep in mind this is prom, not a date, so high school girls want something a bit more creative or you're deemed "lame".[/QUOTE]
it's not really creative when you're just copying something you saw on the internet
lots of people go to reddit. i doubt she would be impressed if she knew it wasn't your own idea
[QUOTE=martijnp3000;40388981]So when I asked this girl to go get some ice cream sometime when it is good weather, she replied "If you don't mean anything with it, ok." So essentially I got friend-zoned right? What is there to do? Or just tough luck?[/QUOTE]
but what if you mean to do it as friends
then maybe you've been [i]RELATIONSHIP-ZONED[/i]
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;40390585]it's not really creative when you're just copying something you saw on the internet
lots of people go to reddit. i doubt she would be impressed if she knew it wasn't your own idea[/QUOTE]
I decided you guys were right. I'm just gonna go with classic flowers and asking. Thanks!
I have a question/sort of comment I guess. I've been texting this girl I like for a while, and we're going out on a date very soon. Whenever I text her though I feel that I always have to include a smileyface or exclamation mark or some shit to sound like I'm a million percent excited and/or interested in every message that I send. Am I the only one who does this? She pretty much texts me the same so I feel like if I don't respond happily like that she'll be offended.
I like texting her of course, but I have a pressure to text this way. :/
[QUOTE=Prez;40395466]I have a question/sort of comment I guess. I've been texting this girl I like for a while, and we're going out on a date very soon. Whenever I text her though I feel that I always have to include a smileyface or exclamation mark or some shit to sound like I'm a million percent excited and/or interested in every message that I send. Am I the only one who does this? She pretty much texts me the same so I feel like if I don't respond happily like that she'll be offended.[/QUOTE]
I tend to be overly dramatic when I text other people. It makes it more interesting to read I guess. :L
[editline]23rd April 2013[/editline]
You shouldnt feel pressured though.
[QUOTE=Splash Attack;40395809]I tend to be overly dramatic when I text other people. It makes it more interesting to read I guess. :L
[editline]23rd April 2013[/editline]
You shouldnt feel pressured though.[/QUOTE]
Glad to know I'm not the only one haha. Yeah, I don't know but since we're still just getting to know each other I think that if I look disinterested at all she might be put off.
[QUOTE=Deadman123;40386400]So guys, I've become really good friends with this girl over the past few months, helped her through some tough shit with this other guy, and I've started to develop feelings for her, but I know she probably only likes me as a friend.
What do?[/QUOTE]
Give it a bit more time and get closer with her, you like her, start to take it to the next level little by little.
Don't take too long, there is still hope for you. Keep talking to her and also the thread title, ask her out on a date, a date where the two of you can get closer ans sort things out.
[QUOTE=Prez;40395466]I have a question/sort of comment I guess. I've been texting this girl I like for a while, and we're going out on a date very soon. Whenever I text her though I feel that I always have to include a smileyface or exclamation mark or some shit to sound like I'm a million percent excited and/or interested in every message that I send. Am I the only one who does this? She pretty much texts me the same so I feel like if I don't respond happily like that she'll be offended.
I like texting her of course, but I have a pressure to text this way. :/[/QUOTE]
I usually put a smileyface of any kind because it makes me feel that it helps with showing some feeling and lightening things up.
My favorites are ._. (: o.O :D I noticed I wrote them A LOT back then, so I stopped and controlled myself, one every now in then isn't bad.
Try it, just try putting a (: every 3 texts or something. Same thing applies for exclamation marks and other things.
It's all bout dem emojis. Girls love emojis.
[QUOTE=martijnp3000;40388981]I got friend-zoned right?[/QUOTE]
The friend-zone doesn't exist.
[QUOTE=NicoleEmilid;40397184]The friend-zone doesn't exist.[/QUOTE]
so what are you saying, it doesn't matter if you get into the non-existent 'friend-zone', because there isn't any?
[QUOTE=martijnp3000;40388981]So when I asked this girl to go get some ice cream sometime when it is good weather, she replied "If you don't mean anything with it, ok." So essentially I got friend-zoned right? What is there to do? Or just tough luck?[/QUOTE]
She essentially told you she will go just as friends yes, she probably doesn't want to date you. Depending on how long you have known her (if it isn't very long) just hang out as friends and maybe later try again. Don't be her friend just for that though.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;40397460]She essentially told you she will go just as friends yes, she probably doesn't want to date you. Depending on how long you have known her (if it isn't very long) just hang out as friends and maybe later try again. Don't be her friend just for that though.[/QUOTE]
Should I still keep in contact (messages), or should I do it less.
[QUOTE=martijnp3000;40397488]Should I still keep in contact (messages), or should I do it less.[/QUOTE]
Be her friend if you want to be her friend, if not then stop talking to her. No reason to pretend to be her friend in the hopes of getting further if that's not what she wants.
[QUOTE=martijnp3000;40397422]so what are you saying, it doesn't matter if you get into the non-existent 'friend-zone', because there isn't any?[/QUOTE]
You aren't compatible for her. Either reevaluate yourself or move on. Don't blame her or some non-existent phenomenon for your rejection.
[QUOTE=NicoleEmilid;40397184]The friend-zone doesn't exist.[/QUOTE]
The friendzone definitely exists. Getting friendzoned doesn't. You're either in it from the start or not.
[QUOTE=Disseminate;40397941]The friendzone definitely exists. Getting friendzoned doesn't. You're either in it from the start or not.[/QUOTE]
Not the second she sees you, but like once you know each other well enough.
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Just adding that cause your sentence sounds like the second you first meet all guys are evaluated for relationship material and classified immediately :v:
its not that the friend zone exists or doesnt exist its that its a meaningless term that means something completely different to each person that uses it
[QUOTE=thisispain;40398051]its not that the friend zone exists or doesnt exist its that its a meaningless term that means something completely different to each person that uses it[/QUOTE]
It really don't mean that different for everyone. It in base means "she wants to be my friend not date me"
I have a shit personality so I make up for it by lifting heavy things up and putting them back down.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;40398026]Just adding that cause your sentence sounds like the second you first meet all guys are evaluated for relationship material and classified immediately :v:[/QUOTE]
You mean they're not? Why do people put so much emphasis on first impressions, then?
Oh joy! It's time for rejection soon. :(
[editline]24th April 2013[/editline]
FYI
I'm being the one doing the rejecting.
Shit's just gonna be rather awkward as she's in drama-class with me.
And it's a fun class which I really need for my graduation.
Well, luckily it won't be that hard as I'll just explain that I'm already seeing someone.
The sting of rejection is to be expected in the battlefield of love, you don't join a battlefield fearing the sting of the enemy's arrows.
~~sodeep~~
[QUOTE=Heigou;40407350]The sting of rejection is to be expected in the battlefield of love, you don't join a battlefield fearing the sting of the enemy's arrows.
~~sodeep~~[/QUOTE]
2deep4u?
Went with flowers in front of class. She said yes!
[QUOTE=Disseminate;40397941]The friendzone definitely exists. Getting friendzoned doesn't. You're either in it from the start or not.[/QUOTE]
I disagree the friendzone is an idiotic concept
[QUOTE=killerteacup;40412661]I disagree the friendzone is an idiotic concept[/QUOTE]
It is when you put it like "Dude, shit, I got friendzoned!", but I mean, it's an actual thing. It's not just with girls, either, I have female friends that I simply would not consider dating, and if they asked me out, it just wouldn't be right. There IS a sort of line you cross into being totally friends. I don't really think it [I]entirely[/I] has to do with time, just with the people themselves.
[QUOTE=killerteacup;40412661]I disagree the friendzone is an idiotic concept[/QUOTE]
I feel like it really unjustifiably sounds like it puts all the blame on the girl and that all she had to do was just categorize you under "Friendzone."
[QUOTE=Rammaster;40412852]I feel like it really unjustifiably sounds like it puts all the blame on the girl and that all she had to do was just categorize you under "Friendzone."[/QUOTE]
Well, yeah, that's basically what happens after you talk to someone for a bit. You either think, "I'd date them" or "I wouldn't date them" and it's as simple as that.
[QUOTE=Disseminate;40412884]Well, yeah, that's basically what happens after you talk to someone for a bit. You either think, "I'd date them" or "I wouldn't date them" and it's as simple as that.[/QUOTE]
Exactly so why does the friendzone stay so popular
it literally creates a ridiculously big structure out of such a simple concept that doesn't need to be thought about
What's so big about it?
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