Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT

[RobbL]

Some guy kept coming onto me tonight and felt my dick through my jeans
have i been molested?

[Fire Kracker]

[QUOTE=Jacob_sword;43645760]We basically got kinda of intimate online last night. And I think she wants to break up with him but I really don't know. I also knew she had a boyfriend befor last night so guess it's part my fault too for not stoping her. She's just really awesome. Like guys I'm not even joking this chick is into deadpool old video games like the N64 and everything. I really want her but at the same time it would mean destroying everything I believe in like for one not stealing another guys girl.[/QUOTE]
you can't steal someone

they make the decision

[JackAttack]

[QUOTE=RobbL;43651102]Some guy kept coming onto me tonight and felt my dick through my jeans
have i been molested?[/QUOTE]

Did he do it on purpose? If so then yes.

More importantly, did you like it?

[Breakfast Buddy]

No family / no friends in my area / no relationship / bad job has started taking a toll on my lately.

My self confidence is high, but I just feel wasted because I'm always alone

[Daniel Smith]

My psychiatrist doubled my anti psychotic and now I'm feeling constantly bored and on edge and I can't talk to him until Monday. What can I do to keep busy and calm down?

[RocketRacer]

I was out of the country for last week, visiting my grandmother in hospital, she was in a critical condition days ago before we visited her, but dad found a medicine that helped her a lot, she felt way better but still was quite ill. She started to teach me english when I was 5 years old, which was 2 years before school, and now I'm in England, studying, so she is one of the most important people in my life.

And today, half an hour, [B]she died.[/B] Might be a wrong thread and apologies for that, but I just need to share with someone. I don't and not going to cry because I need to control my emotions and not to let them overflow.

[editline]25th January 2014[/editline]

I must remain unaffected by this fact, I know I must. I might sound egoistic or something, but it's how I see it - I should not get overlown by emotions, especially these.

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=RocketRacer;43667954]I was out of the country for last week, visiting my grandmother in hospital, she was in a critical condition days ago before we visited her, but dad found a medicine that helped her a lot, she felt way better but still was quite ill. She started to teach me english when I was 5 years old, which was 2 years before school, and now I'm in England, studying, so she is one of the most important people in my life.

And today, half an hour, [B]she died.[/B] Might be a wrong thread and apologies for that, but I just need to share with someone. I don't and not going to cry because I need to control my emotions and not to let them overflow.

[editline]25th January 2014[/editline]

I must remain unaffected by this fact, I know I must. I might sound egoistic or something, but it's how I see it - I should not get overlown by emotions, especially these.[/QUOTE]

What are you a vulcan or something? Dude, its ok to cry. In a lot of ways its better too, its how your body calms down if your really upset.

[killerteacup]

[QUOTE=RocketRacer;43667954]I was out of the country for last week, visiting my grandmother in hospital, she was in a critical condition days ago before we visited her, but dad found a medicine that helped her a lot, she felt way better but still was quite ill. She started to teach me english when I was 5 years old, which was 2 years before school, and now I'm in England, studying, so she is one of the most important people in my life.

And today, half an hour, [B]she died.[/B] Might be a wrong thread and apologies for that, but I just need to share with someone. I don't and not going to cry because I need to control my emotions and not to let them overflow.

[editline]25th January 2014[/editline]

I must remain unaffected by this fact, I know I must. I might sound egoistic or something, but it's how I see it - I should not get overlown by emotions, especially these.[/QUOTE]

that sucks man. But you shouldn't try and withhold your emotions on this. Also talk to your dad about it as well. He would want you to help you be ok

[Heigou]

I'm not really one for birthday parties but since I also have no friends it's not like I could really throw anything big. Anyway, went for dinner with my parents for my birthday and my sister couldn't come because she had a dinner with her friend instead, good stuff.

It's weird sharing blood with someone when you literally know nothing of them. She moved in with her boyfriend when I was really young and in the hospital since I spent the better half my life in a hospital so we never got to know each others as siblings.

[gerbile3]

Hello thread
I have come across a girl who is one year below me (I'm a sophomore) in college. Besides for her being really cute and knowing her name, I don't really know anything about her. What's the best course of action for possibly trying to get a date with her? I don't have her phone number, but she literally lives 20 ft down the hall from me. I'm not sure if I should just strike up a few conversations with her and then be like "Hey, you know, I don't know much about you. Would you like to go out sometime and get to know each other?"
Of course now I've come to realize I've never actually been in this situation and I would rather not screw it up (or at least just get rejected and get the experience! Which is a good way to look at it i suppose)

(it's funny how people come asking me for advice on what to do, but following you own advice seems like such a terrible idea)

[JackAttack]

[QUOTE=gerbile3;43677347]Hello thread
I have come across a girl who is one year below me (I'm a sophomore) in college. Besides for her being really cute and knowing her name, I don't really know anything about her. What's the best course of action for possibly trying to get a date with her? I don't have her phone number, but she literally lives 20 ft down the hall from me. I'm not sure if I should just strike up a few conversations with her and then be like "Hey, you know, I don't know much about you. Would you like to go out sometime and get to know each other?"
Of course now I've come to realize I've never actually been in this situation and I would rather not screw it up (or at least just get rejected and get the experience! Which is a good way to look at it i suppose)

(it's funny how people come asking me for advice on what to do, but following you own advice seems like such a terrible idea)[/QUOTE]

I'd say strike up a few conversations and ask her a few things about herself during said conversations. Learn a little first and then try your thing.

[Squidman]

Alright everyone, I've been having a problem and I'm wondering if any of you fine folks have experience with it. So, the past two parties I've been to (which have been the only two I've been to this entire year, alas for being a full-time employee and student) I've talked to numerous women who seem interested in me, but oddly they always ask me if I have somebody taking care of me. When I assure them that I am in the tender hands of most excellent friends, they usually find some way to slyly exit the conversation. This is distressing to me because I'm 21 and I seem to have the same affect on women as waif-like orphans do, and there is no record of whether Oliver Twist ever got laid. I know I'm thin, have no facial hair, have hollow cheeks and big eyes, but really? Next time I'm asked this question I'm going to answer "no" to see what happens. I guess it bothers me so much because I've waited so long for adulthood to bestow me with manly chest hair and a glorious beard but I've ended up as an anime protagonist instead.

[gerbile3]

[QUOTE=jackattack;43677789]I'd say strike up a few conversations and ask her a few things about herself during said conversations. Learn a little first and then try your thing.[/QUOTE]

Well I've just gotten back from hanging out with her and some of my friends. Turns out we like some of the same TV shows, we are both gamer types, we are both interneters, we are both studying toward the same degree, both of us are smart. It was a fucking laughfest but I'm not gonna say my mind is made up at the moment, but it's looking good so far.

The only problem was that she mentioned she broke up with her boyfriend a few weeks ago so I'm not sure how that factors into things, whether she may not want to date at the moment. But I suppose the best way to find out is just to ask her out right?

[JackAttack]

[QUOTE=gerbile3;43682139]Well I've just gotten back from hanging out with her and some of my friends. Turns out we like some of the same TV shows, we are both gamer types, we are both interneters, we are both studying toward the same degree, both of us are smart. It was a fucking laughfest but I'm not gonna say my mind is made up at the moment, but it's looking good so far.

The only problem was that she mentioned she broke up with her boyfriend a few weeks ago so I'm not sure how that factors into things, whether she may not want to date at the moment. But I suppose the best way to find out is just to ask her out right?[/QUOTE]

If you have the balls to man up and ask her then go ahead.

[gerbile3]

[QUOTE=jackattack;43682818]If you have the balls to man up and ask her then go ahead.[/QUOTE]

I don't just have the balls.

[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2rAjily7rME[/media]

[JackAttack]

You are truly a man.

Go get 'er tiger.

[TheSheezie]

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[NoDachi]

maybe she got a real boyfriend

ps don't kill yourself over an internet girlfriend

[TheSheezie]

snip

[JackAttack]

Whats the point of going in an advice thread and then just removing your posts before anyone can help you?

[RocketRacer]

I got hugge today by the same girl(she has a boyfriend), one after another when I approached her and she said sorry about grandmother. She also said "I'm aleays here if you need me". It feels so great that I mean [I]something[/I] to someone in this new world of Britland.

[gerbile3]

I've been challenged by the girl I'm talking to to get her number from her in the smoothest way possible. I need a funny and cool line or something like that that I can execute. Any ideas?

This is mostly for a joke by the way. It's only semi serious because it will actually involve getting her number when i use it, but its sort of part of a running joke (if that makes sense)

[JackAttack]

[QUOTE=gerbile3;43690691]I've been challenged by the girl I'm talking to to get her number from her in the smoothest way possible. I need a funny and cool line or something like that that I can execute. Any ideas?

This is mostly for a joke by the way. It's only semi serious because it will actually involve getting her number when i use it, but its sort of part of a running joke (if that makes sense)[/QUOTE]

People call me (your name), but you can call me Tonight!

[gerbile3]

[QUOTE=jackattack;43692886]People call me (your name), but you can call me Tonight![/QUOTE]

oh god man that is fucking perfect. I'm gonna couple that with something else and ask her out on a date

Actually here's an update
>5 minutes ago
>reschedule something that we were supposed to do today to tomorrow
>she asks "wait is that a date?"

If that isn't a signal that I'm I don't know what is.

[JackAttack]

Everyone, if i could have a minute of your time i would like to tell a little story about today.

So as i have previously mentioned i thought i liked this girl but then thought i didn't, usual stuff you know. But anyway, today i decided to go into college a little early for whatever reason and ran into a friend of mine, lets call him A, who asked if i would walk up to the nearby KFC so he could eat something. On our way out we ran into the aforementioned girl, lets call her J, and she decided to walk over too. On the way there i realised that i was wrong and i clearly did have feelings for this girl, and on top of that i think i noticed some flirting coming from her. Before we went back A wanted to grab a few things so he went into a shop, it was kind of packed so me and J waited outside.

Now let me tell you about the hero of my week, i don't know his name so i'll just call him random old guy.

Now i was talking with J and i thought to myself "I have to ask her out", but naturally didn't have the balls. I said something amusing and she laughed and hugged me, during said hug random old guy walked out of the shop and said "Love is grand isn't it" and laughed. Upon this J blushed and giggled a bit and i replied "Yes it certainly is". I knew it was now or never so i worked up my courage and said "Hey do you want to go out someti-" but before i could finish she enthusiastically cut me of with a sudden yes and then kissed me. Kissed me hard. Thank you random old guy for giving me that courage. A lot more kissing followed.

She told me she had been waiting for that for almost 2 weeks, so guys seriously, the thread title rings true. Just do it.

TLDR: I scored (Or, how i learned to stop worrying and love the bomb)

[BuffaloHops]

That is quite some luck you have there! Congrats!

[OogalaBoogal]

Hey guys, if any of you are free can you hop on Love advice steam chat? I've got this sinking feeling that some one is watching this and I really need to vent right now.

[editline]27th January 2014[/editline]

[url]http://steamcommunity.com/gid/103582791433756842[/url]

[Doomevil]

Guys, one of my friends is stressing out lately at high school. It's been happening for 2 weeks now and she's usually happy. One of my friends said she's not talking about anything going on now and I'm getting worried. I have this feeling she's just stressed out over her school work and how she has to keep up with stuff.

What should I do?

[nox]

[QUOTE=jackattack;43693419]Everyone, if i could have a minute of your time i would like to tell a little story about today.

So as i have previously mentioned i thought i liked this girl but then thought i didn't, usual stuff you know. But anyway, today i decided to go into college a little early for whatever reason and ran into a friend of mine, lets call him A, who asked if i would walk up to the nearby KFC so he could eat something. On our way out we ran into the aforementioned girl, lets call her J, and she decided to walk over too. On the way there i realised that i was wrong and i clearly did have feelings for this girl, and on top of that i think i noticed some flirting coming from her. Before we went back A wanted to grab a few things so he went into a shop, it was kind of packed so me and J waited outside.

Now let me tell you about the hero of my week, i don't know his name so i'll just call him random old guy.

Now i was talking with J and i thought to myself "I have to ask her out", but naturally didn't have the balls. I said something amusing and she laughed and hugged me, during said hug random old guy walked out of the shop and said "Love is grand isn't it" and laughed. Upon this J blushed and giggled a bit and i replied "Yes it certainly is". I knew it was now or never so i worked up my courage and said "Hey do you want to go out someti-" but before i could finish she enthusiastically cut me of with a sudden yes and then kissed me. Kissed me hard. Thank you random old guy for giving me that courage. A lot more kissing followed.

She told me she had been waiting for that for almost 2 weeks, so guys seriously, the thread title rings true. Just do it.

TLDR: I scored (Or, how i learned to stop worrying and love the bomb)[/QUOTE]

I always read really demotivating shit in this thread like relationships going sour/fading/cheating etc, so it's quite uplifting to hear your success.

[Kindlinho]

[QUOTE=jackattack;43693419]Everyone, if i could have a minute of your time i would like to tell a little story about today...
TLDR: I scored (Or, how i learned to stop worrying and love the bomb)[/QUOTE]
That's amazing! It actually makes me wanna go out and ask her out.

Except there is no "her" in my case. There's nobody in my vicinity I'm actually interested in (or at least someone interested in me). Gee, where are the girls when you finally find the courage?