• Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT
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[QUOTE=Kindlinho;43695767]That's amazing! It actually makes me wanna go out and ask her out. Except there is no "her" in my case. There's nobody in my vicinity I'm actually interested in (or at least someone interested in me). Gee, where are the girls when you finally find the courage?[/QUOTE] I got 'her' but she purposefully ignores me so I'm thinking that's not gonna work in my case. Some people get random luck, and me, well, triple atni-luck at very least. gg
I'm confused with this girl still, posted this like a good 8 months ago. [quote]So this girl at my work, she's 20/21 I think and I'm 18 and look younger. Known her for about 4 months now and she's slowly been letting onto me alot more and always smiling at me whenever we see each other. She's a really nice girl and what not but again, she is older by a bit which kind of makes me think I have no chance. What do I do~[/quote] Some stuff that's happened inbetween then. We went on a work night out, people got drunk etc, we went to a club afterwards just 6 of us. 3 older guys from the Warehouse (23-27), buff guys, etc... Me, this girl and another girl from the office who we're friends with. She gets absolutely wasted, as usual and starts grinding on my leg with her crotch, I shit my pants and literally don't know what to do. Kinda just freeze and laugh it off with one of the Warehouse guys. She does it again a bit later but this time with her ass (It's a nice ass), I kinda stand there with a '_' face on. Night ends, we all go home, Monday comes we all laugh about it, etc... The same kind of thing happens again at the Christmas party I think it was, but she came up behind me and bent me over, and I was like, ok. I don't know whether she's just being flirty because, just because, nothing behind it just doing it for the hell of it, or she's actually interested. She doesn't reply to my messages on Facebook. She still looks at me now and then and smiles across the office, but still. We have a bit of banter now and then, but I really don't know if she's actually interested. Note I'm 19 now and never had a girlfriend (or relationship close to that) [editline]28th January 2014[/editline] oh and I'm skinny as fuck and can't do much about it. I eat constantly but it's took me about 2 months to get 1 pound on. Doesn't help my self esteem.
[QUOTE=TrannyAlert;43700774]I'm confused with this girl still, posted this like a good 8 months ago. Some stuff that's happened inbetween then. We went on a work night out, people got drunk etc, we went to a club afterwards just 6 of us. 3 older guys from the Warehouse (23-27), buff guys, etc... Me, this girl and another girl from the office who we're friends with. She gets absolutely wasted, as usual and starts grinding on my leg with her crotch, I shit my pants and literally don't know what to do. Kinda just freeze and laugh it off with one of the Warehouse guys. She does it again a bit later but this time with her ass (It's a nice ass), I kinda stand there with a '_' face on. Night ends, we all go home, Monday comes we all laugh about it, etc... The same kind of thing happens again at the Christmas party I think it was, but she came up behind me and bent me over, and I was like, ok. I don't know whether she's just being flirty because, just because, nothing behind it just doing it for the hell of it, or she's actually interested. She doesn't reply to my messages on Facebook. She still looks at me now and then and smiles across the office, but still. We have a bit of banter now and then, but I really don't know if she's actually interested. Note I'm 19 now and never had a girlfriend (or relationship close to that) [editline]28th January 2014[/editline] oh and I'm skinny as fuck and can't do much about it. I eat constantly but it's took me about 2 months to get 1 pound on. Doesn't help my self esteem.[/QUOTE] heh, similar situation to mine - except it's art classmate, and we didnt have/go to a party and we are both 16. Though, my situation got a fuckton worse after I wasn't in for a week and she started to straight ignore me.
Help, this is driving me crazy. That girl in my class, since a few weeks she's just sticked in my mind. Whatever I am doing, whatever I am looking at, I'm thinking of her. That voice, that face... A few nights ago I had a kind of dream that I never had before. In fact that's the first time I had dream I remember since a few years. In that dream I was kissing her, it was not really a graphic thing, but it was full of feelings. I then woke up ( it was about 5am ) and dropped a tear, shit was so simple yet so intense. I took my phone and wrote what hapenned in the form of some song lyrics, with the firm idea of ​​doing a song out of it with my band. Yep. It was 5am. A few hours later I got out of the bed and did everything normally. Later that day I looked back at those "lyrics" :pwn: and began wondering what the flying fuck was wrong with me. That dream literally had stoned me. That girl is in my class ( we're in the grade 12 equivalent ) , and is also sitting next to me in that exam week we're into. I never talked to her, she don't seem to care about me . I just can't go "hey girl wanna hang out with me ? I'm sure you'll like it " . I've got a few cool friends and talk to some other girls of my class from time to time, once I get comfortable after a few minutes of random talking I can discuss naturally to people... But if I go to her on my own I know that, with my fabulous social skills, i'll be creepy as hell and she'll for sure think I'm mad and it'll end up as her trying to avoid me as much as possible. I don't know what to do. All I know is that it's the first time such a thing happen to me, I'm confused as hell , and that I definitly love the way she looks :suicide:
here's a solution : stop making excuses not to talk to her and talk to her!!
Should I wait until Valentine's Day to [IMG]http://puu.sh/6CJw0.png[/IMG] ? I've got relationship OCD.
[QUOTE=426_Hemi;43712584] A few nights ago I had a kind of dream that I never had before. In fact that's the first time I had dream I remember since a few years. In that dream I was kissing her, it was not really a graphic thing, but it was full of feelings. I then woke up ( it was about 5am ) and dropped a tear, shit was so simple yet so intense. I took my phone and wrote what hapenned in the form of some song lyrics, with the firm idea of ​​doing a song out of it with my band. Yep. It was 5am. A few hours later I got out of the bed and did everything normally. [/QUOTE] Weird. Last night I had a dream where I was walking along a beach with a girl which got interrupted by a fire drill, and it inspired me to write a short poem about the transcience of beauty
[QUOTE=Factemius;43713893]Should I wait until Valentine's Day to [IMG]http://puu.sh/6CJw0.png[/IMG] ? I've got relationship OCD.[/QUOTE] Do it now so valentines day can actually be a thing for you. Unfortunately i'm away then, i'm still kind of in disbelief about the whole suddenly having a girlfriend thing.
[QUOTE=Dysentery;43713868]here's a solution : stop making excuses not to talk to her and talk to her!![/QUOTE] Yeah I do know that - the "thing" is that she for now, is the only person that did such an effect on me, and I never talked to her at all. That's a hit or a miss, and I don't want to miss that one - although if it's a no, it's a no, but I do want to maximize the chances of having a yes. What I mean is that I don't want it to be ruined by that stupid akwardness that would be gone after a few conversations. But yeah, i'll try to man that up if a viable opportunity does show up .
[QUOTE=426_Hemi;43715505]Yeah I do know that - the "thing" is that she for now, is the only person that did such an effect on me, and I never talked to her at all. That's a hit or a miss, and I don't want to miss that one - although if it's a no, it's a no, but I do want to maximize the chances of having a yes. What I mean is that I don't want it to be ruined by that stupid akwardness that would be gone after a few conversations. But yeah, i'll try to man that up if a viable opportunity does show up .[/QUOTE] it's gonna be a no 100% if you don't talk to her
[QUOTE=Dysentery;43716697]it's gonna be a no 100% if you don't talk to her[/QUOTE] Damn it , you're right I'll try to give it a try tomorrow... I'll keep you guys informed.
[QUOTE=426_Hemi;43716936]Damn it , you're right I'll try to give it a try tomorrow... I'll keep you guys informed.[/QUOTE] that's the spirit! you can do it!!
Wen I realise it's Valentine's Day soon and the girl I have interest in is ignoring me on purpose is fucking killing me. [editline]29th January 2014[/editline] I didn't even do anything. I just chatted with her a bit on FB, then after the half-term it was as usual and then when I was away to Latvia for a week(post from previous page..) she ignored me on FB(messages) and then when I got back she just went full ignore. Today it went worse - in art studio she talked to some of Year 12s(we both are) and just ignored me despite looking straight at me twice but for some reason I didn't try to say hi or at least wave her. [B]why[/B]:suicide:
[QUOTE=426_Hemi;43716936]Damn it , you're right I'll try to give it a try tomorrow... I'll keep you guys informed.[/QUOTE] can i have ur fp account if u die?
I think I have fucked up really bad.momentary depression made me lash out and my girlfriend was the one who was with me and I upset her and now I feel horrible and don't know what to do.
[QUOTE=ashrobhoy;43717868]I think I have fucked up really bad.momentary depression made me lash out and my girlfriend was the one who was with me and I upset her and now I feel horrible and don't know what to do.[/QUOTE] apologizing sounds like a decent thing to do
[QUOTE=ashrobhoy;43717868]I think I have fucked up really bad.momentary depression made me lash out and my girlfriend was the one who was with me and I upset her and now I feel horrible and don't know what to do.[/QUOTE] The most important thing you can do right now is apologize.
[QUOTE=jackattack;43717908]The most important thing you can do right now is apologize.[/QUOTE] I have but she won't really accept it and she just sighs small words in responces.
My gfs birthday is just a day before valentines so Im getting 2 birds stoned at once. Wanted to get her a wooden iphone cover that Id then laser something on it, so I bought it beforehand. Last night she says she wanted to get a new phone. FUCK
[QUOTE=426_Hemi;43716936]Damn it , you're right I'll try to give it a try tomorrow... I'll keep you guys informed.[/QUOTE] I always thought that all Frenchmen are born with the ability to weaken the legs of women. So - are you an immigrant?
[QUOTE=D3TBS;43718162]My gfs birthday is just a day before valentines so Im getting 2 birds stoned at once. Wanted to get her a wooden iphone cover that Id then laser something on it, so I bought it beforehand. Last night she says she wanted to get a new phone. FUCK[/QUOTE] fuck, i thought this was the other thread
How do you know when you're being annoying or clingy?
when she calls the cops
I want a relationship fuk I never make myself clear to grils what a moron
[QUOTE=RobbL;43721351]I want a relationship fuk I never make myself clear to grils what a moron[/QUOTE] just b urself.
just say WANN SUMM FUKK they'll knee down in the spirit [editline]30th January 2014[/editline] I want to meet new girls without being strange. [editline]30th January 2014[/editline] I mean, making the situation without coming out as a creep.
ok FP i need your advice there's this one friend i haven't talked to in over a year (I'm yr10 now she's yr11) now (and for good reason we were seperated and it was impossible to talk to eachother since year 7-9 and 10-12 grades are seperated at lunch) and I want to talk to her again... problem is I think she might hate me cause I walked off on her the last time we talked (because of my anxiety I had), along with the fact that I never actually got her name. I want to go up to her and talk to her but I have no idea what to say. I'd talk to her on facebook or whatever but she doesn't have it (as far as I know) so I can only talk to her IRL and I don't know what to say cause I feel like it'll be awkward (especially if she hates me after walking off on her!!).
i want to give advice but i've never been in one so just do what you would do as best friends but be more intimate (e.g kissing fucking etc.)? i dunno
[QUOTE=343N;43722904]ok FP i need your advice there's this one friend i haven't talked to in over a year (I'm yr10 now she's yr11) now (and for good reason we were seperated and it was impossible to talk to eachother since year 7-9 and 10-12 grades are seperated at lunch) and I want to talk to her again... problem is I think she might hate me cause I walked off on her the last time we talked (because of my anxiety I had), along with the fact that I never actually got her name. I want to go up to her and talk to her but I have no idea what to say. I'd talk to her on facebook or whatever but she doesn't have it (as far as I know) so I can only talk to her IRL and I don't know what to say cause I feel like it'll be awkward (especially if she hates me after walking off on her!!).[/QUOTE] How old are you both exactly, don't recall the school system too well.
[QUOTE=343N;43722904]ok FP i need your advice there's this one friend i haven't talked to in over a year (I'm yr10 now she's yr11) now (and for good reason we were seperated and it was impossible to talk to eachother since year 7-9 and 10-12 grades are seperated at lunch) and I want to talk to her again... problem is I think she might hate me cause I walked off on her the last time we talked (because of my anxiety I had), along with the fact that I never actually got her name. I want to go up to her and talk to her but I have no idea what to say. I'd talk to her on facebook or whatever but she doesn't have it (as far as I know) so I can only talk to her IRL and I don't know what to say cause I feel like it'll be awkward (especially if she hates me after walking off on her!!).[/QUOTE] JUST FUCKING DO IT YA PUSSY
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