Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT

[Boss]

My friends on steam consists of old CSS players who used to grief on an assault 24/7 server wonder how they are all getting on from 5 years ago.

[chinatown]

[QUOTE=Daniel Smith;43744828]I'm freaking out and I can't stop having bad dreams about college. I'm hoping to go to Sheridan in September 2015 which is almost 2 years from now and I am worried that I might not be good enough to be accepted. It's literally the best art and animation college in North America and I don't know if I could be able to draw well by then, for most of my life I learned how to draw by myself and only recently I decided to get serious about it and I need help with not freaking out. I can't stop thinking about failing and its getting to me.[/QUOTE]

i dont know if this helps or anything, but I knew a cat who got into Pratt, animation and stuff. He got in without much knowledge of drawing and he still got in. He didn't get much better at drawing after 2 years though, so I wonder if its his fault or the schools fault

[Daniel Smith]

[QUOTE=D3TBS;43748659]i dont know if this helps or anything, but I knew a cat who got into Pratt, animation and stuff. He got in without much knowledge of drawing and he still got in. He didn't get much better at drawing after 2 years though, so I wonder if its his fault or the schools fault[/QUOTE]

This is Sheridan, the best on the continent. I saw examples of entry portfolios and they are really good.

[KristoferKSR]

just had my first kiss, was the most awkward thing in the world since I pretty much threw my face at her, but then we did it properly and we both fancy eachother woo.

[JackAttack]

[QUOTE=Rapist;43752340]just had my first kiss, was the most awkward thing in the world since I pretty much threw my face at her, but then we did it properly and we both fancy eachother woo.[/QUOTE]

Nice one, how'd you get to that?

[KristoferKSR]

God, I'll probably treasure this moment in the future but it was so stupid :v:
I was at her place and we were chatting, with occasional silence between, so at a silent place i sort of lunged at her with force, failing miserably, said an extremely corny line, then we sort of confirmed we both fancied eachother and then cheek then mouth and then i had to leave :v:
Best part was that she went: "Success!"

[Hugh Janus]

[QUOTE=Rapist;43752340]just had my first kiss, was the most awkward thing in the world since I pretty much threw my face at her, but then we did it properly and we both fancy eachother woo.[/QUOTE]

congrats, i'm happy for u and ur sister

[KristoferKSR]

[QUOTE=Hugh Janus;43752570]congrats, i'm happy for u and ur sister[/QUOTE]

my mama was pissed that it wasnt her

[HighdefGE]

First date, went to new york city. She lives in a town 40 minutes away, what's a good idea for a second date if I want to visit that town?

[editline]1st February 2014[/editline]

[QUOTE=Fire Kracker;43734265]if u think ur good looking enough walk up to her and be like "hey I think you're cute what's your name?"

otherwise avoid this[/QUOTE]

I've said cheesier shit and got numbers from them and I'm not the best looking guy in the world. It honestly doesn't matter what you say as long as you say it like a confident mofo.

[killerteacup]

[QUOTE=Rapist;43752340]just had my first kiss, was the most awkward thing in the world since I pretty much threw my face at her, but then we did it properly and we both fancy eachother woo.[/QUOTE]

hi5!

[redBadger]

[QUOTE=HighdefGE;43754805]
I've said cheesier shit and got numbers from them and I'm not the best looking guy in the world. It honestly doesn't matter what you say as long as you say it like a confident mofo.[/QUOTE]

that definitely helps my confidence a bit.

[killerteacup]

once i told a girl where my uncle lived and 5 minutes later she was straddling me

another time i told a girl she was such an angry person that she might as well have laser eyes and then i told her manager she had laser eyes and then we slept together

or "I do a programming degree" always goes down a treat

point is, the guy is right, it doesn't really matter what you say at all, just sort of be chill about it and don't expect too much from other people and you'll go far

[damnatus]

so there's this girl I'm trying to ask out but last time I did that she invited hella more people (our friends in general), was p cool but not exactly what I wanted, this time she is trying to pull the same shit, what do

Oh and after texting her she says to where and I just realized I have no idea where to actually invite her

[blacksam]

It just hit me. A month from now I'll have the idea to break up with my ex I had dated two years.
I am in a great relationship with someone now who doesn't belittle me and considers my feelings. I have got to wonder though, how different things would be if I stayed with my ex. Is that normal? I don't think I would want her back, but I really wonder if she thinks the same.

[KristoferKSR]

[QUOTE=blacksam;43759296]It just hit me. A month from now I'll have the idea to break up with my ex I had dated two years.
I am in a great relationship with someone now who doesn't belittle me and considers my feelings. I have got to wonder though, how different things would be if I stayed with my ex. Is that normal? I don't think I would want her back, but I really wonder if she thinks the same.[/QUOTE]

Are you a time traveler?

[KommunistBear]

What's the quickest way to get over infatuation?
That whole, "This girl is on my mind and I think I'm in love with her."

I've got some insane obsession going on and I'm tired of it because really it starts out as, "She's cool," and devolves into, "I need to change for that," which is not what I want because I like her as she is.
I figure there's no chance for us but my left-side won't let me let go of a delusion.

[Leader of Me]

That girl I like/liked is fucking over some other guy now who is my friend, she's leading both of these guys on and it's quite sad. She said to one of the guys that she really likes him yet has another guy she's getting feelings for as well. So thankful I took your guys advice and got out of there. Even though I thought I wouldn't be able to do it.

[Hugh Janus]

[QUOTE=KommunistBear;43760019]What's the quickest way to get over infatuation?
That whole, "This girl is on my mind and I think I'm in love with her."

I've got some insane obsession going on and I'm tired of it because really it starts out as, "She's cool," and devolves into, "I need to change for that," which is not what I want because I like her as she is.
I figure there's no chance for us but my left-side won't let me let go of a delusion.[/QUOTE]

what? i swear, jaden smith would be proud of the posts in this thread.

[KommunistBear]

[QUOTE=Hugh Janus;43760110]what? i swear, jaden smith would be proud of the posts in this thread.[/QUOTE]

What's that even supposed to mean?
How can i alleviate your confusion on my post?

[chinatown]

[QUOTE=KommunistBear;43760019]What's the quickest way to get over infatuation?
That whole, "This girl is on my mind and I think I'm in love with her."

I've got some insane obsession going on and I'm tired of it because really it starts out as, "She's cool," and devolves into, "I need to change for that," which is not what I want because I like her as she is.
I figure there's no chance for us but my left-side won't let me let go of a delusion.[/QUOTE]

fuck 10 other girls

[Hugh Janus]

[QUOTE=KommunistBear;43760215]What's that even supposed to mean?
How can i alleviate your confusion on my post?[/QUOTE]

can't really tell if ur serious or what exactly u want. you want to get over infatuation but the fact that you're posting in this thread kind of implies you don't and want convincing otherwise.

[editline]2nd February 2014[/editline]

[QUOTE=KommunistBear;43760019]What's the quickest way to get over infatuation?
That whole, "This girl is on my mind and I think I'm in love with her."

I've got some insane obsession going on and I'm tired of it because really it starts out as, "She's cool," and devolves into, "I need to change for that," which is not what I want because I like her as she is.
I figure there's no chance for us but my left-side won't let me let go of a delusion.[/QUOTE]

it sounds like you want to get to know her (or do u already know her?) but then you're beating yourself up saying that "there's no chance for us". from those words i get the impression you want to be convinced to try it out with her but idk.

i mean the fact that u recognize your supposed infatuation tells me you're atleast self aware and dont have an "insane obsession"

[KommunistBear]

How would it imply that? This is a social advice thread. I'm asking advice.
So yea, i was being serious, and i'll get tight on that, D3, sounds like sound advice.

[editline]2nd February 2014[/editline]

[QUOTE=Hugh Janus;43760269]
it sounds like you want to get to know her (or do u already know her?) but then you're beating yourself up saying that "there's no chance for us". from those words i get the impression you want to be convinced to try it out with her but idk.

i mean the fact that u recognize your supposed infatuation tells me you're atleast self aware and dont have an "insane obsession"[/QUOTE]

I call it an insane obsession because i don't want to, but i do.
I really enjoy her company, but i'm fairly certain that my affection for her is simply built of the fact she helped me out of a tough spot in life.
I doubt myself a lot, then i look back and think, 'why do i doubt myself? I've no reason to' but i do none-the-less.
I'm just looking for ways to move on, this is a dimb cycle i'n ready to stop. It's only on my end, y'know?

[killerteacup]

[QUOTE=Hugh Janus;43760269]can't really tell if ur serious or what exactly u want. you want to get over infatuation but the fact that you're posting in this thread kind of implies you don't and want convincing otherwise.

[editline]2nd February 2014[/editline]

it sounds like you want to get to know her (or do u already know her?) but then you're beating yourself up saying that "there's no chance for us". from those words i get the impression you want to be convinced to try it out with her but idk.

i mean the fact that u recognize your supposed infatuation tells me you're atleast self aware and dont have an "insane obsession"[/QUOTE]

no it doesn't imply that at all what on god's earth are you on about

[Fire Kracker]

[QUOTE=KommunistBear;43760019]What's the quickest way to get over infatuation?
That whole, "This girl is on my mind and I think I'm in love with her."

I've got some insane obsession going on and I'm tired of it because really it starts out as, "She's cool," and devolves into, "I need to change for that," which is not what I want because I like her as she is.
I figure there's no chance for us but my left-side won't let me let go of a delusion.[/QUOTE]
you can't until you find something you don't like about her

and to get over that infatuation is to accept that flaw about her, accept that she isn't perfect, and if you can get over that flaw, whilst acknowledging it you are over your infatuation

[editline]2nd February 2014[/editline]

pretty much you have a big fight and then get over it

[TrannyAlert]

-snip-

[KommunistBear]

shee wants the d!

e.
sorry i had to

[RocketRacer]

So randomly my brain thought of messaging the girl that ignores me for no freakin reason apologising(for nothing) and hoping something will change. What the fuck.

But really, if I sart to think about this problem I have got absolutely no idea how to fix this.

[editline]3rd February 2014[/editline]

Didn't message tho, thankfully

[editline]3rd February 2014[/editline]

Yes it was at night

[redBadger]

I solved that problem by removing all possible contact information. Removing as friends on facebook and removing their phone number helps remove temptation.

[JackAttack]

So today i found out my girlfriends view on valentines day is the same as mine, i pointless corporate holiday that only still exists for commercialism's sake.

Great, saves me some work.

[Behemoth_PT]

[QUOTE=jackattack;43776754]So today i found out my girlfriends view on valentines day is the same as mine, i pointless corporate holiday that only still exists for commercialism's sake.

Great, saves me some work.[/QUOTE]

That's edgy bullshit. Don't be a slob in your relationship.

Come the day, ask her for dinner out, out of the blue. You'll see that "I don't care about valentine" going down the drain.

Also, just because people are extremely cheesy and consumerist on special holidays doesn't mean that the holiday itself is stupid. I mean, come on man, it's Valentines. Isn't it something to have just that one day to get out of routine and focus on your significant other?