Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT

[JackAttack]

[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;43777029]That's edgy bullshit. Don't be a slob in your relationship.

Come the day, ask her for dinner out, out of the blue. You'll see that "I don't care about valentine" going down the drain.

Also, just because people are extremely cheesy and consumerist on special holidays doesn't mean that the holiday itself is stupid. I mean, come on man, it's Valentines. Isn't it something to have just that one day to get out of routine and focus on your significant other?[/QUOTE]

Of course i'm going to attempt to do something special, but she just told me today that she thinks its dumb and doesn't want me to go out of my way.

At least i'll save a couple of quid on a card.

[phagocitic]

hey guys, virgin here. what condoms would you guys reccomend? my dick is pretty much average, around 6.5" hard. the gf wants me to buy lube also for handjobs so any advice on that would be good too.

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=phagocitic;43779471]hey guys, virgin here. what condoms would you guys reccomend? my dick is pretty much average, around 6.5" hard. the gf wants me to buy lube also for handjobs so any advice on that would be good too.[/QUOTE]

Grab a variety pack that comes with some lube and see what works for you guys. Preferences vary.
Avoid those trojan fire and ice things though. Frikking uncomfortable.

(condoms are sized by girth, not length by the way, theres usually just extra length at the end you can roll up or whatever)

[ardosos]

[QUOTE=phagocitic;43779471]my dick is pretty much average, around 6.5" hard. [/QUOTE]

Uh, last I checked that's not average, that's somewhat above.

[phagocitic]

[QUOTE=Ardosos;43779644]Uh, last I checked that's not average, that's somewhat above.[/QUOTE]

th-thanks~~ <3

[NoDachi]

[QUOTE=Ardosos;43779644]Uh, last I checked that's not average, that's somewhat above.[/QUOTE]

Its average for an internet forum

[RocketRacer]

[QUOTE=redBadger;43776739]I solved that problem by removing all possible contact information. Removing as friends on facebook and removing their phone number helps remove temptation.[/QUOTE]

Except I want to keep contact with her, but she apparenly doesn't.

[Dark RaveN]

[QUOTE=Rapist;43752340]just had my first kiss, was the most awkward thing in the world since I pretty much threw my face at her, but then we did it properly and we both fancy eachother woo.[/QUOTE]

It reminds me of my very first kiss with my (current) first GF.

2nd day of dating

Raven: "Hey, xxx, let's kiss?"
xxx: "Erm, okay :D"

The amount of awkwardness ensued. She hysterically laughed for 5 minutes while we "attempted" to kiss for the first time because she was so afraid of her performing poorly. That cute thing.

[RobbL]

yeah never announce you're going to kiss someone

[Kindlinho]

"Incoming kiss!"

Yeah, that's probably a good idea.

[redBadger]

[QUOTE=RocketRacer;43782289]Except I want to keep contact with her, but she apparenly doesn't.[/QUOTE]

If she doesn't you got to respect that. Trying to maintain contact will just make things worse. Believe me, it's happened to me before.

[KommunistBear]

Thank god i was blacked out for my first kiss.
God she's weird.
It was more drunkenly-sucking-face than kissing.
I don't know what it was like but i bet it was ugly to watch.

[HellSoldier]

[QUOTE=RobbL;43783027]yeah never announce you're going to kiss someone[/QUOTE]

I think it's a good way to break the tension if you do it in a creative way.

[NoDachi]

Lmao its an awful idea

How the fuck do you think announcing a kiss is anyway good

Not even the british would

"Bought that time again ay chap?"

"Righto"!

[TrannyAlert]

kiss me bb

ryt on my dik

[RocketRacer]

[QUOTE=RocketRacer;43782289]Except I want to keep contact with her, but she apparenly doesn't.[/QUOTE]

lol today on art we were standing near each other doing same thing(we were in the corner of the class using candle fire to draw on paper) and she reacted to me like nothing has EVER happened and that /ignore has never happened. And after she stopped doing that because teacher called us over to show a presentation, when I returned to continue burn paper and another guy came(we were talking while doing that) she said something about me burning the paper and was looking at me and smiling and holy shit that felt good but weird.

[editline]4th February 2014[/editline]

But really, that's fucking weird. I think I'll never know the truth, though, that gives me hope that she doesn't actually ignores me that much(anymore?) so I should try to talk to her some time, or at least say hi on every occasion.

[426_Hemi]

[QUOTE=NoDachi;43784502]Lmao its an awful idea

How the fuck do you think announcing a kiss is anyway good

Not even the british would

"Bought that time again ay chap?"

"Righto"![/QUOTE]

Well you can just throw a "c'mon" looking deep in the partner's eyes with some irrestible smile :zoid:

But honestly if you came to the point where you're about to kiss, all the hard work is already done so everything else are just formalities !

[obdob]

i am fed up of ONS
i need a proper relationship
waht do

[Behemoth_PT]

[QUOTE=jackattack;43777557]Of course i'm going to attempt to do something special, but she just told me today that she thinks its dumb and doesn't want me to go out of my way.

At least i'll save a couple of quid on a card.[/QUOTE]

That's what people say out of their mouths.

"Oh you needn't".

Do it anyway.

[Dysentery]

so apparently after about a month of no communication, me and my ex are best friends. we have about 5 things planned to do in the next 3 weeks which is really really confusing seeing as the whole entire reason she broke up with me in the first place was because she was always busy as heck and felt guilty for not being able to do things with me

she even proposed the idea of us two being roommates. like. what?

[Arrk]

So I am a bit confused. There's this chick in our school and she's amazing. She's hot as hell, super talented and god damn smart. Now what got me to notice her, was that she was super friendly with EVERYONE. Like, it's as if the whole school was her friend. Except. Except she acts like I kicked her puppy or something towards me. Like, she sometimes ignores me completely, which makes it difficult, because we're both in student council. But ok, fine, be that way. A couple of days ago we got assigned to work on a few projects together. Sure why not. So we were working, and even though she was her usual not-friendly-to-me self, she kept doing this thing that whenever we did talk, or had to do a thing together, she positioned herself so that we were in some sort of physical contact. Like, our feet were touching, or our knees or our shoulders etc. No this wouldn't be anything to post about, but what's got me confused is that I noticed that she avoids physical contact like plague from other people. Like even her best friend, she just tries to stay at least 4 feet away from anyone. Except me.

TL;DR This one chick acts like I ran over her cat, but keeps touching me, while avoiding everyone else like they got rabies.

[Hugh Janus]

[QUOTE=Arrk;43810645]So I am a bit confused. There's this chick in our school and she's amazing. She's hot as hell, super talented and god damn smart. Now what got me to notice her, was that she was super friendly with EVERYONE. Like, it's as if the whole school was her friend. Except. Except she acts like I kicked her puppy or something towards me. Like, she sometimes ignores me completely, which makes it difficult, because we're both in student council. But ok, fine, be that way. A couple of days ago we got assigned to work on a few projects together. Sure why not. So we were working, and even though she was her usual not-friendly-to-me self, she kept doing this thing that whenever we did talk, or had to do a thing together, she positioned herself so that we were in some sort of physical contact. Like, our feet were touching, or our knees or our shoulders etc. No this wouldn't be anything to post about, but what's got me confused is that I noticed that she avoids physical contact like plague from other people. Like even her best friend, she just tries to stay at least 4 feet away from anyone. Except me.

TL;DR This one chick acts like I ran over her cat, but keeps touching me, while avoiding everyone else like they got rabies.[/QUOTE]

sorry bro, u probably did kill her cat

[RobbL]

She's trying to kill you very inefficiently

[ramirez!]

[QUOTE=Arrk;43810645]So I am a bit confused. There's this chick in our school and she's amazing. She's hot as hell, super talented and god damn smart. Now what got me to notice her, was that she was super friendly with EVERYONE. Like, it's as if the whole school was her friend. Except. Except she acts like I kicked her puppy or something towards me. Like, she sometimes ignores me completely, which makes it difficult, because we're both in student council. But ok, fine, be that way. A couple of days ago we got assigned to work on a few projects together. Sure why not. So we were working, and even though she was her usual not-friendly-to-me self, she kept doing this thing that whenever we did talk, or had to do a thing together, she positioned herself so that we were in some sort of physical contact. Like, our feet were touching, or our knees or our shoulders etc. No this wouldn't be anything to post about, but what's got me confused is that I noticed that she avoids physical contact like plague from other people. Like even her best friend, she just tries to stay at least 4 feet away from anyone. Except me.

TL;DR This one chick acts like I ran over her cat, but keeps touching me, while avoiding everyone else like they got rabies.[/QUOTE]

You could just, you know, ask her.

[Arrk]

[QUOTE=ramirez!;43810807]You could just, you know, ask her.[/QUOTE]
I did. She did the " I have no idea what you're talking about" and went about like nothing happened.

[ramirez!]

Well, if you're telling the truth and it's not just her accidentally bumping into you, you might as well continue to be friendly even if she is giving you the cold shoulder. Who knows, maybe you just make her uncomfortable.

[redBadger]

SO update on that asking out a stranger thing...well I haven't seen her in a week so hope is diminishing.. Maybe things will change, I dunno.

[Dooskington]

I was finally able to ask out this girl, and she said yes.

When I got home, I got a facebook message saying that she would be more comfortable being just friends.

Damn.

EDIT:
After being upset for a few hours, I realized that It was still good, at least, that I broke that barrier for the first time. Hopefully I am more comfortable in situations like this in the future.

[redBadger]

Moving on, I found a chick sitting by herself today and I decided to try and make a move.

Awkward as FUCK. She was focused on something on her computer so I made an excuse and bailed. I wasn't even that upset afterward which is good. I might try this more often see if I can't get one.

[ardosos]

What's the social etiquette for people on their phones? Like if there's someone sitting next to me in the union and I see that they're just lazily browsing facebook or playing candy crush or whatever, is it rude to try and start up a conversation with them?