Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT

[Mr. Bleak]

[QUOTE=bdd458;43965179]-stuff-([/QUOTE]
Wait, so this girl is someone you've had a high school crush on since freshman year but you've never hung out? Don't mistake this for love, dude, and stop fucking beating yourself up over it jesus christ. Some girls are like that, some won't respond or will lose interest pretty quickly, it happens all the time. If one person that you don't even really know on a personal level is going to affect you like that, I fear for the time when you're in a committed relationship.

Case in point, I've been talking to a few girls lately, pretty casually and not expecting anything. Out of the 4 or 5 girls I've talked to, only one of them consistently has anything to say back, and I don't make an effort to talk the the rest of them as a result. Just gotta get yourself out there, man, and not obsess over one person who (most likely) isn't nearly as great as you're thinking she is.

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=fear me;43965183]Hmm, is there anything wrong with terms of endearment like hun or sweetie or such?[/QUOTE]

Not in the same way but at least to me hun and sweetie are things your mother calls you not your significant other

[fear me]

Ha, true.

[IlluminatiRex]

[QUOTE=Mr. Bleak;43965433]I fear for the time when you're in a committed relationship.[/QUOTE]
I don't think you realize how much I do as well.

[editline]18th February 2014[/editline]

Though, probably for different reasons.

[Skullivan21]

[QUOTE=Rhenae;43964047]Totally insensitive since your unhappy and just wanted to vent but Holy Fuck if anyone kept calling me baby girl I would punch them in the face. I have an extreme level of hate for any sort of nickname like that for someone your in a relationship with. Baby, baby girl, any of that bullcrap.[/QUOTE]
It was a joke name, always made her laugh and blush like mad. I'd say it because there was a time when her friend made her join a dating site and all she got was messages like Heyyo ma and baby girl. So I called her that cause it made her smile.

[CabooseRvB]

The Ball is coming up in a few days, and I'm really curious, but how do you guys managed to establish your relationships with your girls? Giving gifts? Just hanging out them in general? I'm just really hoping that this first date is a good one.

[fear me]

Why does my OKC account say I'm bad-mannered? That's mean :c

[Insulator]

-snip- Now I remember why I don't post much on Facepunch anymore. Especially when inebriated.

[NoDachi]

[QUOTE=fear me;43968641]Why does my OKC account say I'm bad-mannered? That's mean :c[/QUOTE]

you can't get away with not linking it m8

[chinatown]

[QUOTE=Insulator;43968785]Finally, after 2 years of crushing on this girl at work, she became single. I asked her out for coffee and we're (hopefully) meeting up tomorrow depending on when she gets out of her dental appointment! I was shocked when she immediately said yes when I asked her.

Now my question is, she just ended a very rocky relationship with her boyfriend and I am the exact opposite of this guy, so I'm hoping that I can use this to my advantage. My plan is not to even mention this guy or her past baggage. I want to be the guy she goes to escape all of that, to have fun with someone who doesn't care about her past, but cares about her as a person. I'm gonna try to make her laugh and have a good time without bringing up any downers. Is this a good way to approach it? She's a good person with a good family and I really care about her so I don't want to screw this up in any way.[/QUOTE]

[I]this girl is beautiful and its my only chance to get laid. I will be there for her anytime she wants and Ill take care of her. Im going to be her prince in a white horse and treat her to the most expensive luxuries in life because she deserves it after a relationship with her evil mutant exboyfriend.[/I]

Thats how you sound. Thats how anybody who puts girls high up on a pedestal sounds. It sounds disgusting.

Youre only going out for coffee, not marrying. Keep things simple

[fear me]

[QUOTE=NoDachi;43968860]you can't get away with not linking it m8[/QUOTE]

[url]http://www.okcupid.com/profile/mcgonn[/url]

[NoDachi]

79% match

fist bump

[disseminate]

87% i beat u nodachi

[editline]19th February 2014[/editline]

holy cow i cant believe we're still 95%

[NoDachi]

were ment 2 b

[fear me]

Aw someone likes me :dance:

[Merv]

u 2 are ~soul mates~

[Jo The Shmo]

[QUOTE=fear me;43963695]Just confessed to a girl that I liked her and she seems okay with it. Yays. :v:[/QUOTE]

why is "confessing" that you like someone a thing past middle school?
dont be ashamed of your feelings like some nerd

[fear me]

[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;43970918]why is "confessing" that you like someone a thing past middle school?
dont be ashamed of your feelings like some nerd[/QUOTE]

Well I am some nerd so...

Could've worded it better w/e

[CabooseRvB]

Some of my friends are saying that I should just straight up ask her to be my girlfriend. I mean we've only been hanging out often together. Isn't this jumping the gun? Apparently my friend justifies that girls like those who have confidence and there's no point in beating around the bush or whatever.

[chinatown]

to me something like " do you want to be my girlfriend" is pretty awkward, cringeworthy and middle school ish

[Uncle Fassbender]

-snip-

[Zar]

Nowadays you just keep dating until one of you gets the idea of making it Facebook official I guess.

[Akri]

remember, it isn't love or official until it's on facebook

[JackAttack]

[QUOTE=FunkyDarkKnight;43972918]What would you suggest is better? Not being hostile, I just want to know because I can't think of any other way. Is it just "Do you wanna go out?" or something like that?[/QUOTE]

Id say, literally just "Would you like to go out sometime/with me?"

Worked for me.

[ramirez!]

[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;43970918]why is "confessing" that you like someone a thing past middle school?
dont be ashamed of your feelings like some nerd[/QUOTE]

I thought I was the only word that thought even the word 'confess' sounded weird as fuck in application.

[titopei]

[QUOTE=Zar;43973048]Nowadays you just keep dating until one of you gets the idea of making it Facebook official I guess.[/QUOTE]

"ayyo girl, u wanna make dis fb official?"

[Insulator]

[QUOTE=D3TBS;43969050][I]this girl is beautiful and its my only chance to get laid. I will be there for her anytime she wants and Ill take care of her. Im going to be her prince in a white horse and treat her to the most expensive luxuries in life because she deserves it after a relationship with her evil mutant exboyfriend.[/I]

Thats how you sound. Thats how anybody who puts girls high up on a pedestal sounds. It sounds disgusting.

Youre only going out for coffee, not marrying. Keep things simple[/QUOTE]

Thanks for the super friendly advice...

[Dooskington]

[QUOTE=FunkyDarkKnight;43972918]
What would you suggest is better? Not being hostile, I just want to know because I can't think of any other way. Is it just "Do you wanna go out?" or something like that?[/QUOTE]

Asking her out on a date and then dating her until it becomes an actual relationship. I don't know too much about relationships but I am pretty sure that once you are actively dating, you are pretty much a couple. There might be more too it, though.

[titopei]

[QUOTE=Duskling;43976658]Asking her out on a date and then dating her until it becomes an actual relationship. I don't know too much about relationships but I am pretty sure that once you are actively dating, you are pretty much a couple. There might be more too it, though.[/QUOTE]

Is that all to just make it official?

[kaine123]

I found a girl who I think I could fall in love with, and it's wonderful that she feels the same way about me.