Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT

[chinatown]

[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;44196837]I don't know how the heck this happened, but I have somehow found myself in a classic sitcom-style "multiple dates in the same time period" scenario. I'm seeing Cute Weeaboo Girl on Saturday, which I'm quite excited for, but out of left-field, an old crush looked me up on Facebook and told me that she regretted not going on a second date with me (two years ago), and has been thinking about me ever since. I'd be lying if I'd said that I hadn't been a bit bummed out by her rejection, because she's absolutely gorgeous, and so now we're going out this Friday.

I'm a lot more interested in Cute Weeaboo Girl, but that "what-if?" thing with my one-time date has me really curious. Going out on a single date hardly makes us boyfriend and girlfriend, and I doubt we'll even hit it off, but I'm still feeling a certain level of guilt over having back-to-back dates with two women! I've never been in this kind of situation before. I'm feeling a bit conflicted!

Is this sleazy, scheduling two dates before I've gone out with either woman, or am I making mountains out of molehills? If I had to pick one, I'd go with CWG, but, you know. What if, right?

[editline]10th March 2014[/editline]

I actually had a third date planned, too, with a random Tinder girl, but I'm gonna go ahead and cancel that one, since we were probably only looking at a fling, anyway, and I'm legitimately interested in CWG and the What-If Crush. I feel like the cool uncle from Full House.[/QUOTE]

Its like when you're looking for a job. You can't reject an interview because you're waiting for the response of another company who you contacted first. You just go to any interview you get and see where it leads you. As soon as you get the job, you just cancel the other interviews. Unless you want to have 2 jobs, then you keep going

[editline]11th March 2014[/editline]

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;44198502]So I'm planning to ask this girl out again for later this week or early next week when I have class with her tomorrow. Only problem is I don't know what's a good date idea for two poor college students who don't own cars and I don't want to ask her to go for coffee again for the second date.[/QUOTE]
ask her out for a drink then

[NoDachi]

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;44198502]So I'm planning to ask this girl out again for later this week or early next week when I have class with her tomorrow. Only problem is I don't know what's a good date idea for two poor college students who don't own cars and I don't want to ask her to go for coffee again for the second date.[/QUOTE]

take her to a cheap dive bar, get drunk and smooch

[OogalaBoogal]

[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;44197601]I must just be getting very handsome.[/QUOTE]

You always were, BDA.

[IlluminatiRex]

[QUOTE=Glitchman;44191382][img]http://25.media.tumblr.com/d0f7d96753461bad08942692afd1b402/tumblr_n1envvAfHJ1qfdwsio1_500.png[/img][/QUOTE]
yeah it was the same with my crush [I]at first[/I] but it turns out we're both huge history nerds.

:D

edit: what a great way to start a page btw.

[Boozy&Bitter]

[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;44196837]I don't know how the heck this happened, but I have somehow found myself in a classic sitcom-style "multiple dates in the same time period" scenario. I'm seeing Cute Weeaboo Girl on Saturday, which I'm quite excited for, but out of left-field, an old crush looked me up on Facebook and told me that she regretted not going on a second date with me (two years ago), and has been thinking about me ever since. I'd be lying if I'd said that I hadn't been a bit bummed out by her rejection, because she's absolutely gorgeous, and so now we're going out this Friday.

I'm a lot more interested in Cute Weeaboo Girl, but that "what-if?" thing with my one-time date has me really curious. Going out on a single date hardly makes us boyfriend and girlfriend, and I doubt we'll even hit it off, but I'm still feeling a certain level of guilt over having back-to-back dates with two women! I've never been in this kind of situation before. I'm feeling a bit conflicted!

Is this sleazy, scheduling two dates before I've gone out with either woman, or am I making mountains out of molehills? If I had to pick one, I'd go with CWG, but, you know. What if, right?

[editline]10th March 2014[/editline]

I actually had a third date planned, too, with a random Tinder girl, but I'm gonna go ahead and cancel that one, since we were probably only looking at a fling, anyway, and I'm legitimately interested in CWG and the What-If Crush. I feel like the cool uncle from Full House.[/QUOTE]

I've been in that situation.
It can make the other person feel bad if they find out.

Intuitively, it shouldn't matter, that's totally true. And these kinds of things usually aren't based off of intuition.

[Zethiwag]

Has anyone here actually had success with tinder? I know one girl who did but the guy wet the bed later in the night.

[Big Dumb Patriot]

I met weeaboo girl on there, but that's shaping up to potentially more than a one night fling. There's another girl who who I was supposed to see this Friday, but I'm gonna have to cancel or reschedule, to make way for more legit options. Otherwise, not really! But I haven't been at it long. Nice way to get in touch with folks, though. I almost prefer it to the "real" dating apps, cause it puts you right in touch with people who you think are attractive, and vice versa.

[Breakfast Buddy]

I told the girl I was seeing "we'd make an awesome couple"

she stopped responding immediately and hasn't talked since

lol

[chinatown]

tell her you want to die with her

[It's crispy]

I wonder if being creator of Senpai Club and somewhat popular in Japan because of that makes me incredibly attractive to weaboo girls

[Big Dumb Patriot]

I'm not even sure what you just said, to be honest.

[Aries]

[QUOTE=Eric95;44212306]I wonder if being creator of Senpai Club and somewhat popular in Japan because of that makes me incredibly attractive to weaboo girls[/QUOTE]
dear god i am talking to a celebrity
baka baka baka baka baka

BDA shape up like me if you want to attract CWG

[Zonesylvania]

[QUOTE=Eric95;44212306]I wonder if being creator of Senpai Club and somewhat popular in Japan because of that makes me incredibly attractive to weaboo girls[/QUOTE]
Being a complete outsider, this sounds like some shit out of a visual novel, to be honest.

Taking it as what it says on the tin, however, I probably would say, no, they wouldn't be incredibly attracted. Somebody's got to hand out a reality check now and then.

[It's crispy]

[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;44212334]I'm not even sure what you just said, to be honest.[/QUOTE]

I'm half of the duo that made an anime parody called "Senpai Club" and it went semi-viral in Japan about a month and a half ago

weeaboos like things that are popular in japan so maybe they would like me

[URL="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_1rbcjevPA"]here[/URL]

[Big Dumb Patriot]

I am at work, and thus do not want to be caught dead Googling "Senpai Club." I would rather be caught on a rough porn website, I think.

Given my limited appreciation for Animes, please tell me what this is? Help!

[editline]12th March 2014[/editline]

[QUOTE=Eric95;44212389]I'm half of the duo that made an anime parody called "Senpai Club" and it went semi-viral in Japan about a month and a half ago

weeaboos like things that are popular in japan so maybe they would like me

[URL="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_1rbcjevPA"]here[/URL][/QUOTE]

Oh. I wouldn't put all your eggs in that basket, buddy!

[It's crispy]

Just you see, i'll have a panel at a con in July and the cute girls will surely be touching me all over

[Whomobile]

What if they're gross weeaboos? What if they're all wearing really bad cosplay?

[alexgrist]

Literally the best thing to do is just don't get friend zoned like I did.

[Breakfast Buddy]

Honestly I wish I got friend zoned more

I could use some female friends

instead I get NOPE-zoned

[Whomobile]

TBH I prefer female friends to guy friends.

[Big Dumb Patriot]

Lady friends have lady friends. Networking.

[chinatown]

weaboos usually are attracted to me because theyre more into asians. One of my gf was a total weeaboo and another one certainly was kinda there too.

sadly im not really into that whole thing now and i find some extreme cases creepy. but whatever makes them happy i guess.

Doesnt help that im kawaii as fuck either

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=D3TBS;44212799]
Doesnt help that im kowai as fuck either[/QUOTE]

Fixed that for ya :v:

[sp]Na I'm kidding your totally not creepy[/sp]

[Heigou]

[QUOTE=Glitchman;44212558]Honestly I wish I got friend zoned more

I could use some female friends

instead I get NOPE-zoned[/QUOTE]

NOPE-zoned is better for you anyway, you don't want to be a spineless faggot stuck in some sort of platonic relationship with a girl you love and usually the best way to get out of this shit is to just quit, they just cut your job short by quitting first and that's actually a great thing.

[IlluminatiRex]

[QUOTE=Heigou;44214129]NOPE-zoned is better for you anyway, you don't want to be a spineless faggot stuck in some sort of platonic relationship with a girl you love and usually the best way to get out of this shit is to just quit, they just cut your job short by quitting first and that's actually a great thing.[/QUOTE]
I'm not going to lie that's stupid advice.

If someone would rather be friends with me, it still means they enjoy your company in some sort of fashion and like you as a person. I'd rather have that than nothing.

[chinatown]

he means he'd rather not hang out with a girl hed like to bang that friendzoned him because then hed still be hopeful something would happen. Solution: Move on, simple as that. But that doesnt mean you can find someone else and still be ok with her.

[editline]12th March 2014[/editline]

[QUOTE=bdd458;44214297]If someone would rather be friends with me, it still means they enjoy your company in some sort of fashion and like you as a person. I'd rather have that than nothing.[/QUOTE]

Sure but you should think about it from a girls perspective.

[titopei]

Damn, so right when I ask her out, the bus turns the corner and she has to get on. I got mixed messages when I asked her out because at first she was like "oh I'm busy that Saturday, but maybe we can do it next Saturday" but then she started telling me, "or maybe you can just come over and play video games with me and my friend" and this all happened in the span of about a minute. Then when she was about to walk away I asked for her number and she just said "why not message me on facebook" before leaving, so I'm not even sure if it's a yes or a no.

I feel like I fucked up really hard by doing it so suddenly, but I feel a lot better now that I have it off my chest since this is the first time I asked a girl out in more than a couple of years.

[Ignatius]

[QUOTE=titopei;44215569]Damn, so right when I ask her out, the bus turns the corner and she has to get on. I got mixed messages when I asked her out because at first she was like "oh I'm busy that Saturday, but maybe we can do it next Saturday" but then she started telling me, "or maybe you can just come over and play video games with me and my friend" and this all happened in the span of about a minute. Then when she was about to walk away I asked for her number and she just said "why not message me on facebook" before leaving, so I'm not even sure if it's a yes or a no.

I feel like I fucked up really hard by doing it so suddenly, but I feel a lot better now that I have it off my chest since this is the first time I asked a girl out in more than a couple of years.[/QUOTE]

You did well it sounds like. It sounds like she's interested.

[Taepodong-2]

How long should I wait after texting a girl for her to respond before I should be worried that she's ignoring me? Because I texted her yesterday and she still hasn't gotten back to me.

[Heigou]

[QUOTE=bdd458;44214297]I'm not going to lie that's stupid advice.

If someone would rather be friends with me, it still means they enjoy your company in some sort of fashion and like you as a person. I'd rather have that than nothing.[/QUOTE]

I might have worded that badly, D3TBS had it a bit better than me, being friends with a girl is not bad, I'm just saying if you end up having deep feelings for a girl that does not love you back that way, more often than not you'll feel fucking miserable being her friend but stay her friend in the hope that she'll one day want to go for you and that's a terrible thing to be stuck in. As such, she might have prevented such a story to unfold by doing it first rather than Glitchman having to find the courage to do just that a year down the line.