Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT

[It's crispy]

[QUOTE=Heigou;44214129]NOPE-zoned is better for you anyway, you don't want to be a spineless faggot stuck in some sort of platonic relationship with a girl you love and usually the best way to get out of this shit is to just quit, they just cut your job short by quitting first and that's actually a great thing.[/QUOTE]

Well tbh I've been best friends with a girl I'm in love with for, like, a year now and it's pretty great

[chinatown]

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;44216806]How long should I wait after texting a girl for her to respond before I should be worried that she's ignoring me? Because I texted her yesterday and she still hasn't gotten back to me.[/QUOTE]

a day is enough

[Heigou]

[QUOTE=Eric95;44217625]Well tbh I've been best friends with a girl I'm in love with for, like, a year now and it's pretty great[/QUOTE]

Great for you man, not everyone has that fortitude.

[titopei]

[QUOTE=iggy650;44216748]You did well it sounds like. It sounds like she's interested.[/QUOTE]

Nahhh, she just facebook messaged me and wrote me an essay about no, but I got it off my chest so I'm so god damn happy that's over.

[Taepodong-2]

[QUOTE=D3TBS;44217936]a day is enough[/QUOTE]

So I should be assuming I'm being ignored then? Which is kind of strange because she has like no reason to be ignoring me, she seems to genuinely enjoy spending time with me. Unless she's playing hard to get or is really sick, both of which are possibilities.

[edmyoshi]

what is a weabo or whatever you guys are saying?

[chinatown]

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;44218359]So I should be assuming I'm being ignored then? Which is kind of strange because she has like no reason to be ignoring me, she seems to genuinely enjoy spending time with me. Unless she's playing hard to get or is really sick, both of which are possibilities.[/QUOTE]

i meant you can text her back after a day of no texting, ask her whats up. don't assume shes just ignoring you for the sake of it, that'll fuck your game up

[editline]13th March 2014[/editline]

[QUOTE=edmyoshi;44220709]what is a weabo or whatever you guys are saying?[/QUOTE]

weeaboo are super hot models that are underaged.

the name itself comes from the sound guys make when they find out they fucked an underaged girl.

[Genericenemy]

[QUOTE=Eric95;44217625]Well tbh I've been best friends with a girl I'm in love with for, like, a year now and it's pretty great[/QUOTE]

Same here, we don't see each other that much due to distance but we keep in contact. Well I say distance I suppose its a two hour bus journey there and back to see her, not sure if I'm up for four hours of travel but I'm hoping to see her where she lives come Easter and see if I can cope with the journey time. If I do I may make an effort to ask her out but if nothing comes of it I don't really mind, I feel fortunate enough to know someone who I can really trust and spend time just enjoying each others company.

[Big Dumb Patriot]

[QUOTE=edmyoshi;44220709]what is a weabo or whatever you guys are saying?[/QUOTE]

A weeaboo is a non-Japanese person who's extremely interested in anime, manga, and Japanese culture in general. It usually implies that they've taken a running leap at the line separating "a healthy interest and hobby" from "a creepy obsession."

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;44223000]A weeaboo is a non-Japanese person who's extremely interested in anime, manga, and Japanese culture in general. It usually implies that they've taken a running leap at the line separating "a healthy interest and hobby" from "a creepy obsession."[/QUOTE]

The sterotype usually also insinuates that although they are obsessed with japan and japanese things they actually know very little about japanese culture or language even though they usually claim otherwise

[Gnomerz]

So I just took some personality tests, due to me and a friend being bored. We both pretty much got the same results, but they kind of bothered me. Like it genuinely has made me upset that these labels may be true..
[IMG]http://i.imgur.com/imJ7C3I.png[/IMG]

Me and my friend are currently in a deep discussion. Like we've never talked like this before. I don't know, after thinking about it, we're both pretty unhappy with our lives at the moment. Feels bad.

[Heigou]

What test is this?

[Gnomerz]

MOTIV.

I mean, after talking to my friend about, we've come to the conclusion, it does seem like us.

It really bothers me that I blatantly look down upon people. I guess in my mind it makes be feel superior over them, yet I don't like viewing it that way. I've tried being nicer to people, and it's just hard in a way. I know a probably seem really whiny right now, but idk, it just really gets to me.

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=Exigent;44229288]MOTIV.

I mean, after talking to my friend about, we've come to the conclusion, it does seem like us.

It really bothers me that I blatantly look down upon people. I guess in my mind it makes be feel superior over them, yet I don't like viewing it that way. I've tried being nicer to people, and it's just hard in a way. I know a probably seem really whiny right now, but idk, it just really gets to me.[/QUOTE]

Link? I enjoy doing personality quizzes. At least they get you thinking about your own personality, although I really would take it with a grain of salt dude. If you have an issue with your personality though try to fix it.

[HellSoldier]

[QUOTE=Rhenae;44229460]Link? I enjoy doing personality quizzes. At least they get you thinking about your own personality, although I really would take it with a grain of salt dude. If you have an issue with your personality though try to fix it.[/QUOTE]

[URL="http://similarminds.com/motiv.html"]http://similarminds.com/motiv.html[/URL]

I just did it myself and I was really put off by the fact I was a ~30% intimate person.

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE]18) In the context of the Star Wars world, I can't understand the personality of anyone who would willingly be a storm trooper.[/QUOTE]

... I haven't seen Star Wars how am I supposed to answer this.
(Also don't ask me how I haven't seen Star Wars I don't know either)

edit: and the results are in
[IMG]http://i.imgur.com/Mo5R6zi.png[/IMG]
I'm a selfish prick I knew this already :v:

Got my bf to do it as well

[IMG]http://i.imgur.com/eLWStw9.png[/IMG]
Boring old conformist that he is~

[Splash Attack]

So my cousin set me up with one of her friends I met at her house. We've been texting almost constantly the best day and a half. I don't usually like it when people try to play matchmaker, but damn this worked out really well.

[lordcrypto]

[img]https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-YabcmZeLi3c/UyJ7jb2cQAI/AAAAAAAAHQE/GFR348DJGsA/s0/2014-03-13_20-46-09.png[/img]

yep that sounds right, "cold hearted, selfish, asshole"

[zenby]

I got around 75% on all five

[lordcrypto]

also apparently i'm prone to poor mental health

spoilers i am already in poor mental health state no need to tell me

[Sindri335]

my heart is like basketball
it doesnt pump, it does dribbling
other people are my team
help the people in your life to get assists
follow your dream and goal
and you will get points!!
but without you my love
there is no air to my basketball!!

how is this poem? i was to scared to tell it to her on womens day so i put in the post thing into her apartment. i still havent heard from her and i left my number on the note so i dont know what the problem is. she cant be that dumb not to realize i left my number on? well she is very beautiful and smart but that pisses me off

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=Sindri335;44230609]my heart is like basketball
it doesnt pump, it does dribbling
other people are my team
help the people in your life to get assists
follow your dream and goal
and you will get points!!
but without you my love
there is no air to my basketball!!

how is this poem? i was to scared to tell it to her on womens day so i put in the post thing into her apartment. i still havent heard from her and i left my number on the note so i dont know what the problem is. she cant be that dumb not to realize i left my number on? well she is very beautiful and smart but that pisses me off[/QUOTE]

Well two things,
A) it's not that good the whole metaphor seems pretty forced and you have no flow or rhythm (which while not necessary is what the average person wants and appreciates from a poem)
B) Confessing love is never a good idea. If you don't know them well you don't love them and saying you do is coming on way too strong.

Total honesty if someone left a love letter on my apartment door I would not call them back. Pretty much irrelevant of content.

[Sindri335]

[QUOTE=Rhenae;44230630]Well two things,
A) it's not that good the whole metaphor seems pretty forced and you have no flow or rhythm (which while not necessary is what the average person wants and appreciates from a poem)
B) Confessing love is never a good idea. If you don't know them well you don't love them and saying you do is coming on way too strong.

Total honesty if someone left a love letter on my apartment door I would not call them back. Pretty much irrelevant of content.[/QUOTE]

man no one believe in romance anymore ?? fuck this earth sometimes i lose all faith in humanity . so what im supposed to send her a message on facebook i guess thats what people think are romantic these days ........

[lordcrypto]

[QUOTE=Sindri335;44230654]man no one believe in romance anymore ?? fuck this earth sometimes i lose all faith in humanity . so what im supposed to send her a message on facebook i guess thats what people think are romantic these days ........[/QUOTE]
um if you're indeed an actual person and not an art project

you don't send her a message on facebook, ever.

that poem has solidified you in the massive creep category to her

[Sindri335]

not like you can get a girlfriend unless you are justin bieber anyways

im a huge fan of nba basketball .. how is that creepy

[lordcrypto]

ok you've got to be a gimmick

every other post of yours has been anti-corporation or anti-justin bieber

sometimes both at the same time

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=Sindri335;44230654]man no one believe in romance anymore ?? fuck this earth sometimes i lose all faith in humanity . so what im supposed to send her a message on facebook i guess thats what people think are romantic these days ........[/QUOTE]

No actually you [I]talk[/I] to her and ask her out on a date. Not profess your undying love for someone you appear to not even talk to.
If you want romance go for a picnic(not suitable this time of year but were it summer) or some fine candle lit dinner or something.

Romance isn't in superflous words and exaggerated gestures.

Please attempt to imagine being on the receiving end of a random note left on your door by someone you haven't even met/talked to?

[editline]14th March 2014[/editline]

[QUOTE=Sindri335;44230682]im a huge fan of nba basketball .. how is that creepy[/QUOTE]

Does/would she know this? No I imagine not. Unless she is a fan also it's really not a good choice

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;44230731]Is this where everyone from Sex, Girlfriends, and Shit went?[/QUOTE]

Pretty much the same people between both anyway save a few exceptions. Regulars in both threads seem to be less active at the moment

[Taepodong-2]

Well she wasn't ignoring me on purpose, she was just really sick and on a shitload of medication. But now we're probably going to hang out on Saturday, which is also my birthday.

[zenby]

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;44231042]Well she wasn't ignoring me on purpose, she was just really sick and on a shitload of medication. But now we're probably going to hang out on Saturday, which is also my birthday.[/QUOTE]

In any situation like this the best thing to do is stay as optimistic as possible
Because every bit of anxiety you give in to, it'll take a greater hold of you
And almost all the time there's a simple answer rather than an elaborate conspiracy (e.g. being sick/busy instead of ignoring purposefully)