• Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT
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[QUOTE=D3TBS;44248030]i think id just ask her out and introduce her when youre already out.[/QUOTE] So following up on what I did, I think I fucked it up a little bit. Basically I sent her a message asking something about her and she replied. I said Good Night and she saw the message. The next morning I started by saying "hey how are you". However, despite appearing online, she hasn't seen my Facebook message and replied to it. What should I do? She's always with these group of people I don't wanna mingle around much although I have no negative feelings for them.
[QUOTE=Deathhunter;44254077]So following up on what I did, I think I fucked it up a little bit. Basically I sent her a message asking something about her and she replied. I said Good Night and she saw the message. The next morning I started by saying "hey how are you". However, despite appearing online, she hasn't seen my Facebook message and replied to it. What should I do? She's always with these group of people I don't wanna mingle around much although I have no negative feelings for them.[/QUOTE] Stop freaking out? Just because they are online doesnt mean they are actually at their computer or looking for messages.
[QUOTE=Sobek-;44252270]I don't know the history between you two, but it sure does sound like nervousness. Sounds cute actually, trembling in your arms haha. I'm sure it was nothing bad at all.[/QUOTE] She almost fell asleep too so it definitely wasn't because she was uncomfortable. But now even though it's kind of obvious that we both like each other I'm not sure where I want to go with this. The school year ends in a few weeks and she lives really far away, like almost a 20 hour drive and I'm not sure if I want to start something but then immediately end up with four months of a long distance relationship.
One, you could give it a try. Just remember that there's the possibility that one of you will want to stop because it will be a bit difficult or having a run into someone else that's around them. Two, It'd be better to just be friends because you're both in high school right ? IDK maybe that's just me but I'm a bit more skeptical. I've never actually done long distance relationship kind of thing before. If you're fine with hearing just her voice, i guess it could work.
[QUOTE=edmyoshi;44255404]One, you could give it a try. Just remember that there's the possibility that one of you will want to stop because it will be a bit difficult or having a run into someone else that's around them. Two, It'd be better to just be friends because you're both in high school right ? IDK maybe that's just me but I'm a bit more skeptical. I've never actually done long distance relationship kind of thing before. If you're fine with hearing just her voice, i guess it could work.[/QUOTE] We're both in college. I'm 20 and she's 21. I guess I could see how it works out though, my roommate had the same thing with his girlfriend. They started spending more time together and realizing they liked each other close to the end of the school year last year, had a long distance relationship over the summer and they're still together now so maybe it could be the same thing for me. Not saying it will be, but it could be worth a shot.
It could work, give it a shot if she's willing to too.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;44252358]My Friday night date with my old college crush was a terrific mismatch. She was a nice girl, and super hot, and we talked easily enough, but there was just no zest to it at all. Of course, I was a bit preoccupied thinking about Cute Weeaboo Girl, so it may not have been a totally fair shake, bit either way, we just weren't able to click. I ended up leaving early. Today, however, was a different story. Cute Weeaboo Girl and I met for the first time and went on our first date, and it was great from start to finish-- all seven hours of it. She is flippin adorable. It may be a bit weird, seeing as how I'm 6'6", but I am very attracted to short, petite girls. She's 4'9, and barely 90lbs, and totally bonkers cute. We probably look like an odd pair, but none of my previous dates or girlfriends have been this solidly "my type," and I feel a bit like dancing when I look at her. She's a riot, too. We had a blast swapping stories and teasing each other, and the conversation was never dull. Our first stop was lunch, pizza, and after we went to the theater to catch the first thing showing (Monuments Men). A few minutes in, I take her hand, and a few minutes after that, her thigh. When I kissed her hand, she caught me by surprise by quickly pulling herself up and kissing [I]me![/I] Afterwards, she wrapped her entire body around my arm (which is about the length of her entire body, anyway!) and spent the rest of the film with her head on my shoulder. It was very sweet. The movie was my favorite part of the night, but afterwards we went for coffee and talked for another hour or so. Still a blast, but unfortunately lacking in arm-hugging, which is now one of my favorite things. I haven't clicked like this with a first date in ages, so I'm feeling pretty damn optimistic about things. But, I'm also a bit worried. Before the end of summer, I'm moving halfway across the country. I haven't mentioned that to her yet, because I'm having a great time. I hadn't planned on actually starting a legitimate relationship with anyone, just some casual dating for fun, but this one is accidentally turning into the real deal. I'm scared to tell her for fear that if will end now, but know I have to soon, because it's doomed to end in only a couple of months anyway, and it's not right to let her get any more emotionally invested without telling her first.[/QUOTE] I swear some people get lucky, and I never don't :v:
[QUOTE=RocketRacer;44259260]I swear some people get lucky, and I never don't :v:[/QUOTE] Yeah, she's kind of perfect. Aside from being adorable, sweet, and a hell of a lot of fun, she's really opening my imagination to some interesting new sexual possibilities. She wants me to be her "daddy dom," which isn't as disturbing as it sounds like at first, and I'm much better at this freaky deaky stuff than I thought I'd be. I'm a bit surprised in myself, and she seems to be giddy with it. She sent me a little present from her camera earlier. I was really tickled about it, because none of my girlfriends have ever sent me little presents before. I'm feeling pretty damn content with my current situation, save for the looming storm of my upcoming move. That's bumming me out a little bit more every day, since she and I started talking. [editline]16th March 2014[/editline] Big Daddy American
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;44259962]Yeah, she's kind of perfect. Aside from being adorable, sweet, and a hell of a lot of fun, she's really opening my imagination to some interesting new sexual possibilities. She wants me to be her "daddy dom," which isn't as disturbing as it sounds like at first, and I'm much better at this freaky deaky stuff than I thought I'd be. I'm a bit surprised in myself, and she seems to be giddy with it. She sent me a little present from her camera earlier. I was really tickled about it, because none of my girlfriends have ever sent me little presents before. I'm feeling pretty damn content with my current situation, save for the looming storm of my upcoming move. That's bumming me out a little bit more every day, since she and I started talking. [editline]16th March 2014[/editline] Big Daddy American[/QUOTE] did you txt her bda?
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;44254757]She almost fell asleep too so it definitely wasn't because she was uncomfortable. But now even though it's kind of obvious that we both like each other I'm not sure where I want to go with this. The school year ends in a few weeks and she lives really far away, like almost a 20 hour drive and I'm not sure if I want to start something but then immediately end up with four months of a long distance relationship.[/QUOTE] I see, maybe she just trembles for other reasons - something as simple as an asthma puffer medication can give you the shakes, you could always ask her! I can understand not wanting to try the long distance thing though, it just doesn't work for some people. Ultimately though, that's something you need to talk with her about, see how she feels and whether or not that matches with your thoughts. 20 hours isn't so bad, I'm about 14 or 15 hours drive from my girl, but a plane flight would cost about the same as a tank of petrol, so it's not entirely a problem I feel.
[QUOTE=Sobek-;44260608]I see, maybe she just trembles for other reasons - something as simple as an asthma puffer medication can give you the shakes, you could always ask her! I can understand not wanting to try the long distance thing though, it just doesn't work for some people. Ultimately though, that's something you need to talk with her about, see how she feels and whether or not that matches with your thoughts. 20 hours isn't so bad, I'm about 14 or 15 hours drive from my girl, but a plane flight would cost about the same as a tank of petrol, so it's not entirely a problem I feel.[/QUOTE] I'll probably give it a few more dates before I bring up the relationship thing. Although I feel like I'm just going to end up rushing things, as much as I don't want to, so I don't have to spend the whole summer wondering if she wants a relationship or not.
So one of my old crushes texted me saying that she works at the job I just got hired at and that she saw my application on the top of a stack. I got nervous considering I'm about as timid as a fawn during an earth quake around most gal pals that I like, was made worse when she said she was excited to see me a again which I probably mistook the hell out of but still, like I said, I'm a big dumbo around girls. I looked her up on facebook and she's a hambeast now! Kind of a relief. I mean it's sad to see but it's gonna make my job easier, I guess... little victories :v:
Just feeling, not sad, but just looking back at my life and seeing I've never really had a relationship. I've had little things but nothing has ever lasted more than 2 weeks. I haven't had anything in like 2 years now and I've just become complacent with it. Whenever I do have something it's weird and I think it weirds me out since being single is the norm. Now I'm in the military which makes a relationship even more impossible. I'm not moping or sad, I've pretty okay with my life and there's nothing wrong in my life, I rarely even have these thoughts as I've got a lot in my life going on right now, it's just one of those nights where I see friends on Facebook with their girlfriend and I just think "well that'd be nice"
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;44259962]Yeah, she's kind of perfect. Aside from being adorable, sweet, and a hell of a lot of fun, she's really opening my imagination to some interesting new sexual possibilities. She wants me to be her "daddy dom," which isn't as disturbing as it sounds like at first, and I'm much better at this freaky deaky stuff than I thought I'd be. I'm a bit surprised in myself, and she seems to be giddy with it. She sent me a little present from her camera earlier. I was really tickled about it, because none of my girlfriends have ever sent me little presents before. I'm feeling pretty damn content with my current situation, save for the looming storm of my upcoming move. That's bumming me out a little bit more every day, since she and I started talking. [editline]16th March 2014[/editline] Big Daddy American[/QUOTE] The way you speak makes everything sound so dandy, cracks me up all the time.
[QUOTE=ramirez!;44268842]The way you speak makes everything sound so dandy, cracks me up all the time.[/QUOTE] I'm just a very cheery fellow, and for once I have a perfectly good reason to be chipper: I have my very own banglady! After years of pent up sexual frustration, for both of us, we've decided to pork each other silly. She wants to be tied down and diddled until her brain stops working, and I would like very much to do that, and so we are quickly becoming very good friends. We rented a hotel for this Friday, but after some further discussion, decided that one night probably wouldn't be enough. So, we booked it for the whole weekend instead. We like a lot more about each other than our similar dispositions towards freaky sex, so we're undoubtedly going to have lots of sweet moments of emotional connection and relationship building over this this weekend getaway, but mostly, we're going to be ruining a hotel room. It's BDA's time to shine! Eat it, suckers! Will literally cut my head off if this falls through somehow.
Have you made mention of your moving, yet?
No. I'm still trying to figure out how to broach that subject. We started talking about three weeks ago, and I didn't mention it at first because I didn't think she and I were going to actually end up together. We met on Tinder and made some friendly chit-chat, but then she had a sudden crash into some kind of depression/anxiety breakdown. I figured I'd quit trying to do a casual hookup with her, and just talk to her instead, because she obviously needed a friend, and she said that she had nobody else to talk to. I convinced her to go see a psychiatrist, which she did, and then her attitude started proving immensely. Now she's really, really taken with me, and, whoops, I'm taken with her too! It has been a short, but intense emotional journey. In just a couple of weeks, she and I have shared more openly than I have with any of my previous girlfriends. Obviously I have to tell her I'm leaving soon, because neither of us is looking at this as "just a fling," but I don't know how without making her feel like I betrayed or mislead her. I never brought it up because it was never important, until it suddenly was! [editline]17th March 2014[/editline] I will talk with her over the weekend. It's decided.
Hope you still have both your kidneys when this is all over... God speed mate! It's interesting actually, everything you've said so closely mirrors what I'm experiencing with my girl right now. Only we're going for a full week, not just a weekend :)
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[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;44259962]Yeah, she's kind of perfect. Aside from being adorable, sweet, and a hell of a lot of fun, she's really opening my imagination to some interesting new sexual possibilities. She wants me to be her "daddy dom," which isn't as disturbing as it sounds like at first, and I'm much better at this freaky deaky stuff than I thought I'd be. I'm a bit surprised in myself, and she seems to be giddy with it. She sent me a little present from her camera earlier. I was really tickled about it, because none of my girlfriends have ever sent me little presents before. I'm feeling pretty damn content with my current situation, save for the looming storm of my upcoming move. That's bumming me out a little bit more every day, since she and I started talking. [editline]16th March 2014[/editline] Big Daddy American[/QUOTE] i always thought the ddlg stuff was weird until i got introduced to the dark side of tumblr by one of my lady friends now i kinda sorta maybe would like to try it v:v:v i hope you can feel the jealousy bda
[QUOTE=Dysentery;44272760]i always thought the ddlg stuff was weird until i got introduced to the dark side of tumblr by one of my lady friends now i kinda sorta maybe would like to try it v:v:v i hope you can feel the jealousy bda[/QUOTE] I thought it sounded weird too. Now I'm not sure if I want to go back. Even ignoring the obvious sexual benefits, the emotional intimacy is like nothin' I've been in. This girl is completely open to me. As somebody who needs to be needed, I find it extremely touching.
you lucky s.o.b.
The girl I met on OkCupid just ended things with me. I didn't see it coming; I thought we were doing great. The girl who gave me my first kiss. DAMNIT! (Crying)
BDA can I borrow your kinkyadoribruweeaboomeet.net account? ty in advance
This is the best place I could find, what do you guys use to keep your skin nice? My face is kind of "oily". I've washed it with water and some "cleansing" soap stuff for some time but it really doesn't work. It's not like, terribly bad or anything, I just wish I had nicer skin.
Outside of cleaning it with a proper face cleansing soap every day, and keeping the hair out of your face, there's not a whole lot you can do. I mean, washing your pillowcases couldn't hurt (oil and sweat gets soaked up in them, and can then be smeared back onto your face), but that's probably not going to make a massive difference.
Personally I've found if you exercise a bit before showering (say running for half an hour), it clears up oily skin pretty fast.
well I'm fairly young so I guess it's normal.
[QUOTE=Deathhunter;44245731]Hi guys, So I have this situation going on here. I've been thinking and fantasizing about this girl on my university campus. I am a recent freshman student. Same as her. However I did not have these feelings for last semester. It was only at the end of semester, I met her somewhere and talked to her for a bit but indirectly because there was a lot of people. I hope you understood that. After getting to know very little info about her, I kinda had feelings. It's now the 6th week of the second semester and I saw this girl at a gathering. I couldn't talk to her much because he was organizing the event and she was busy. Even though I did talk for her a bit, she generally seemed responsive and found what I said quite funny, since I say funny things a lot. So I would like to ask Facepunch, I am planning to send her a Facebook message and introduce myself a little bit, since I only asked her questions, I never said much about me. Do you think this is a good idea? Hopefully I will talk a little bit online, try to avoid getting to know her through Facebook and meet later to officially know her better (ask her out). Hope to hear some opinions! :smile:[/QUOTE] let me talk to her
I'm the opposite, the skin of my face is EXTREMELY dry so my skin looks kinda bad, I looked like one huge crater when I was younger, now it's just redness and one or two pimple, I really dont take care of my skin but it's nothing bad anymore so yeah.
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