Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT

[Jacob_sword]

Speaking of online dating does any one know a good site? I'm hesitant to try but am really sick of being alone.

[Fire Kracker]

[QUOTE=Jacob_sword;44384361]Speaking of online dating does any one know a good site? I'm hesitant to try but am really sick of being alone.[/QUOTE]

a lot of people i know use okcupid(a lot of them do it to meet friends though)

[Inspector Jones]

[QUOTE=Jacob_sword;44384361]Speaking of online dating does any one know a good site? I'm hesitant to try but am really sick of being alone.[/QUOTE]

Your best bet is to not stick to one. The more time you put into it, the more people will contact you. I'm sure your mileage will vary with how attractive you are though.

OKcupid seems to be the best one; imo. I've met with 3 girls on that site.

Plenty of Fish was recommended to me in this thread a day or two ago. I'm liking it so far; but I've only just begun using it.

Evow is like a sister site to Plenty of Fish; it seems to have a lot of the same users, but they claim their user base is 60% female. From my understanding though, Evow is supposed to be more selective about who can sign up, and they only want people who are looking for Long term relationships or marriage.

The best thing about these sites is that you can actually use them quite effectively if you don't pay money.

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Some ones I had negative experiences with.

Match.Com; BOO! I actually was suckered in and paid for Match.com; but the site is so lacking compared to even the basic features you get on the websites I listed above. Maybe I'm missing something, but seriously, I have no luck talking to anyone on this site.

Eharmony; Maybe someone can tell me how this site is, they turned me down when I applied to join them!

EDIT:

And spontaneously, I just made plans with someone else for tomorrow evening. I'm kind of going through an exciting period of ups and downs in my life.

[kaine123]

My Girlfriend and I were looking through all her old Facebook photos on my tablet, and I honestly felt really weird. On one hand I'm like "hey she's super cute and stuff" on the other hand I'm like "oh no I feel like a pedophile right now."

[BigJoeyLemons]

Hey, I haven't really posted here in like a year, but trust me, I've moved on a bit from my old woes.

So prom is coming up, and there's a senior girl I've been fancying (I'm a junior, in high school, but that's kind of irrelevant). I think she might've liked me earlier in the school year, but because of scheduling we haven't really talked much since November. I used to snapchat her all the time, but over time she sort of stopped responding. She's nothing close to a hateful person, so I don't think she hates me or anything, but now I've reached the point that I'm afraid of talking to her because I don't want her to react negatively. I want to ask her to prom, but I hardly see her during school and I don't know how to do it comfortably. She seems like she'd value heartfelt words more than just a simple box of chocolates or something, but ever since my last attempt to ask someone out I've had a horrible fear of rejection. How do I get the guts, and how do I convince myself not to feel shitty about it all?

(I posted this at 1:30 am on my iPod, so chances are it's a rambling wall of text that makes me look like an idiot. I apologize in advance.)

[Zar]

well I got drunk for the first time ever yesterday. really drunk. the hangover isnt THAT bad but it feels really weird to be drunk. really dizzy and barely and balance.

[Guy Mannly]

[QUOTE=Zar;44398726]well I got drunk for the first time ever yesterday. really drunk. the hangover isnt THAT bad but it feels really weird to be drunk. really dizzy and barely and balance.[/QUOTE]

If you actually had a hangover, trust me, you'd know it.

[Zar]

[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;44398939]If you actually had a hangover, trust me, you'd know it.[/QUOTE]

i'm not dying is what i'm saying

[titopei]

[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;44398939]If you actually had a hangover, trust me, you'd know it.[/QUOTE]

I remember I was like "man why does everyone say hangovers suck, I don't feel that bad" after getting drunk the first couple of times thinking I would always get a hangover. Then I guess I either didn't drink as much water or drank a lot more alcohol, but when I woke up in the morning I had a killer migraine for 2 hours and couldn't go back to sleep, felt like absolute shit. I realized "oh so I guess this is my first hangover"

[Zar]

[QUOTE=titopei;44400150]I remember I was like "man why does everyone say hangovers suck, I don't feel that bad" after getting drunk the first couple of times thinking I would always get a hangover. Then I guess I either didn't drink as much water or drank a lot more alcohol, but when I woke up in the morning I had a killer migraine for 2 hours and couldn't go back to sleep, felt like absolute shit. I realized "oh so I guess this is my first hangover"[/QUOTE]
I had a killer headache but at no point yesterday or today have I been getting the feeling of puking. I was pretty hammered yesterday, it's kinda weird being drunk actually. i'm 16 btw so yeah. decided it was time to try it out. filled the fridge with all kinda things for a party.

[chinatown]

My worst hangovers are always around the Oktoberfest time. One time I drank so much I went home in the afternoon and just fell asleep. Woke up the next day completely dehydrated and all, feeling sick most of the day before puking at night

[knoxed]

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[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=BigJoeyLemons;44398045]Hey, I haven't really posted here in like a year, but trust me, I've moved on a bit from my old woes.

So prom is coming up, and there's a senior girl I've been fancying (I'm a junior, in high school, but that's kind of irrelevant).
[/QUOTE]

Is it just me or does it seem weird to anyone else to be asking a girl to prom when its not even your prom year?

[Big Dumb Patriot]

[QUOTE=kaine123;44397465]My Girlfriend and I were looking through all her old Facebook photos on my tablet, and I honestly felt really weird. On one hand I'm like "hey she's super cute and stuff" on the other hand I'm like "oh no I feel like a pedophile right now."[/QUOTE]

I know the feeling! I'm 23, and Itty Bitty Girlfriend is only 18. Every time I look at one of her older pictures, I check the date, and it's like, "wow, she was fifteen there."

I had a disturbing thought the other day: when I left for basic training with the army, she was only 13. Oi! She's eighteen now, and the age difference doesn't bother me at all now that we're both adults, it's just weird to think that I was crawling around in the mud and shooting machine guns when she was in middle school. Heh.

[BigJoeyLemons]

[QUOTE=Rhenae;44401896]Is it just me or does it seem weird to anyone else to be asking a girl to prom when its not even your prom year?[/QUOTE]

Junior prom.

(I admit, I could've made that more clear)

[Zar]

I feel really lonely even though I'm surrounded by friends. I feel depressed.

[Guy Mannly]

[QUOTE=titopei;44400150]I remember I was like "man why does everyone say hangovers suck, I don't feel that bad" after getting drunk the first couple of times thinking I would always get a hangover. Then I guess I either didn't drink as much water or drank a lot more alcohol, but when I woke up in the morning I had a killer migraine for 2 hours and couldn't go back to sleep, felt like absolute shit. I realized "oh so I guess this is my first hangover"[/QUOTE]

I had one that lasted an entire weekend once. Just lay in bed the entire weekend feeling too nauseous to move.

I've only had two hangovers in the past, both were only because of very poor decision-making. One night I chugged the same amount of vodka I'd usually drink over an entire night in the span of about 30 seconds. Two hours later I drank the same amount again. Of course, I swore off alcohol for good at that point (that lasted about 2 weeks).

[editline]30th March 2014[/editline]

[QUOTE=Zar;44400422]I had a killer headache[/QUOTE]

Next time you drink, make sure you're drinking water regularly. Alcohol dehydrates you, which is why it causes headaches if you aren't drinking water in between.

[disseminate]

[QUOTE=Zar;44402889]I feel really lonely even though I'm surrounded by friends. I feel depressed.[/QUOTE]

i know what you mean

sometimes i feel like everyone's friend and nobody's best friend

#deep

[Zar]

I didnt want to drink water, people did that to avoid getting too drunk. Also 15-16 year old girls who think theyre drunk are sooo cringe worthy. You dont become autistic from drinking two cans of cider

[Guy Mannly]

[QUOTE=Zar;44403249]I didnt want to drink water, people did that to avoid getting too drunk.[/QUOTE]

That's not how that works.

[Zar]

As i said.... I didnt do it. Smokin hot chicks did thinking it would work. They still ended up drunk and thats how not so good looking me sort of kissed a 9 out of 10

[editline]30th March 2014[/editline]

two 9 out of 10s. worth

[Taepodong-2]

Well there's two weeks left of classes. I guess it's now or never for me to just be honest with this girl and tell her I like her if I don't want to be left wondering if I had a chance for the whole summer.

[disseminate]

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;44406569]tell her I like her[/QUOTE]

why

[Taepodong-2]

[QUOTE=Disseminate;44407587]why[/QUOTE]
Just to make it 100% clear what my intentions are. I'm new to all of this shit and have no idea what the fuck I'm doing.

[Zar]

[QUOTE=Disseminate;44403239]i know what you mean

sometimes i feel like everyone's friend and nobody's best friend

#deep[/QUOTE]

Nobody cares about me. I'm just accepted.

[Rævskjegg]

I'm not quite sure if this is the right thread for it, but I think it can be classified as a social issue.

Today I got to know that my dad is gonna move out, away from me and my mother to his own mother until he can get a place for himself apparently... His mother also lives over 210 km away so it's like way over three hours each way with a car.

I've never believed that this was going to happen and I don't know how to deal with it even though I'm 22 years old. I normally do a lot of mechanic stuff with my dad where he helps me with my car problems and I help him out with his car problems. He did things I didn't know how to, and I helped him with whatever he needed and that won't be possible from the near future then.

I think my mom doesn't know that I know this though since she seems pretty depressed and whenever she sees me she forces a smile and tries to act normal.

The atmosphere in this house sucks pretty bad now

[chinatown]

Just push through it. Its going to happen, but its not worth being depressed about it. You can still see him every once in a while

[Zar]

my life just sucks at the moment. If I'm with my friends, I'm just reminded how everyone but me are way closer than I am with them. And I'm tired of constantly being the one to start every single conversation. Nobody ever tries to get in touch with me.

[Rævskjegg]

[QUOTE=Zar;44410415]my life just sucks at the moment. If I'm with my friends, I'm just reminded how everyone but me are way closer than I am with them. And I'm tired of constantly being the one to start every single conversation. Nobody ever tries to get in touch with me.[/QUOTE]

I got the exact same problem

[Squidman]

About to engage in a radical self-improvement program. Using equipment obtained from Craigslist, some rope, and a few tarps I constructed a gym in my backyard. I would have rather had it inside but the basement is full of plants, fertilizer and electrical equipment from another one of my roomies' failed pot cultivation projects.

It's been a year since I've lifted mostly because I couldn't afford a gym membership, food, and beer all at the same time but now I have a better job and my very own gym. So what exactly does this have to do with super friendly social and love advice? Well basically all I'm saying is that meeting people and talking with them has everything to do with your confidence level, and I highly suggest doing whatever will make you feel more confident in yourself*

Even if you are a reprehensible pile of flesh that happens to be genetically identical to a human being and your sole merit is not actually being Hitler, if you act confident enough people you interact with will assume you have something to be confident about, because nobody could be that delusional, right?

The key to fooling other people is to first fool yourself**

*note that I am not a trained professional with a degree in communications or human psychology, just a man with some Craigslist gym equipment and a tenuous grip on reality.

**[U]Turning Tricks: A guide to fooling your way through life[/U] please buy my book it's on amazon for $10 not refundable