Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT
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The only social interaction I get is when someone asks how many sets I have left at the gym, I'll try festivals and shit, I have no problem with social interaction and I'm more handsome than Matt so it should be good.
My problem isn't that I suck at social interactions, it's literally my life circumstances left me with no friends, notably spending more than half my life in a hospital.
oh shit well I knew nothing about the hospital part. eh I just feel like a fly on the wall but at least I'm there
fite me nerd
[QUOTE=Heigou;44622914]As a 22 years old person with little to not social life as I didn't get in college/university after high school because I'm a poor sod, absolutely.
This brings me to a quick question, where are good places to meet people? Since I live the city and there's fucking nobody to meet, I'm thinking about just driving up to the city simply for socializing or some shit. I know Bars and clubs but I'm not much of a drinker.[/QUOTE]
Starbucks is an easy place to meet new people at. Any place you go to outside of the FP forum really, you just have to show interest in others and start conversations if meeting people is your goal.
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;44612881]My boyfriend and I are doing great right now - better than before we had issues, honestly. We've been spending a lot more time together and are working on our communication.[/QUOTE]
Well, just know that I truly am happy you're working this out. I hope you guys can be happy together for a long time... no more bullshit you know. Something's gotta give eventually.
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;44612418]So after all this happened last week... Today I lost a close friend of mine who has been a big support system for me for the past 4 years, as well as being the only person I'm close with who hasn't caused drama due to being attracted to me at some point or another. Over stupid bullshit drama related to a video game. I tried to talk it over with him and he won't even answer my messages.[/QUOTE]
You know it's funny, drama and bullshit with other people in a videogame was a big contributing factor to why my girlfriend ended things with me I think. It still stuns me that some little shits somewhere out there on the internet could actually affect one's love for another person. Absolutely incredible. I'm really sorry :(
[editline]now[/editline]
Oh and what's going on with BDA, he still with itty bitty girl?
@Heigou cant you make friends at the gym? I mean most of the time I get that people just want to do their sets and go home, but sometimes theres some friendly faces around if you go often enough.
[QUOTE=Heigou;44623167]The only social interaction I get is when someone asks how many sets I have left at the gym, I'll try festivals and shit, I have no problem with social interaction and I'm more handsome than Matt so it should be good.
My problem isn't that I suck at social interactions, it's literally my life circumstances left me with no friends, notably spending more than half my life in a hospital.[/QUOTE]
If you wait long enough, your life circumstances will perhaps hand you some opportunities for social interaction, namely waiting in the urologist's office to get your catheter put in.
Seriously, there is no force that can break down the economic, social and political walls that divide us as human beings quite like the indignity of waiting to get a tube shoved in your dick/vagina. Patients in the urologist's office leave their real world distinctions behind and are reduced to being simple humans with malfunctioning genitals.
The urologist's waiting room is a safe place, a place where you can laugh, joke, and toast to the cruelty of life with fellow unfortunate human beings.
Only downside is that if you meet a nice woman/man there and start seeing each other, you'll already know why your sex is bad.
[QUOTE=D3TBS;44625681]@Heigou cant you make friends at the gym? I mean most of the time I get that people just want to do their sets and go home, but sometimes theres some friendly faces around if you go often enough.[/QUOTE]
I go at like 7 in the morning so the little people there is are all old and so they talk about their grown up shit that I don't know anything about.
[QUOTE=D3TBS;44625681]@Heigou cant you make friends at the gym? I mean most of the time I get that people just want to do their sets and go home, but sometimes theres some friendly faces around if you go often enough.[/QUOTE]
People talking to me at the gym is my worst nightmare. In every other context, I'm a very polite person, but if someone tried to start a conversation with me at the gym, I would probably ask "why are you talking to me?" or something to that effect.
I'm pretty sure most people would be uncomfortable having someone try to initiate conversation with them when they're working out.
[QUOTE=Squidman;44626404]If you wait long enough, your life circumstances will perhaps hand you some opportunities for social interaction, namely waiting in the urologist's office to get your catheter put in.
Seriously, there is no force that can break down the economic, social and political walls that divide us as human beings quite like the indignity of waiting to get a tube shoved in your dick/vagina. Patients in the urologist's office leave their real world distinctions behind and are reduced to being simple humans with malfunctioning genitals.
The urologist's waiting room is a safe place, a place where you can laugh, joke, and toast to the cruelty of life with fellow unfortunate human beings.
Only downside is that if you meet a nice woman/man there and start seeing each other, you'll already know why your sex is bad.[/QUOTE]
idk man you wont meet anyone at the urologists office.
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;44626748]People talking to me at the gym is my worst nightmare. In every other context, I'm a very polite person, but if someone tried to start a conversation with me at the gym, I would probably ask "why are you talking to me?" or something to that effect.
I'm pretty sure most people would be uncomfortable having someone try to initiate conversation with them when they're working out.[/QUOTE]
I know, Ive had it happen to me before too. This guy would come in and try to talk to everybody. Stuff like "That must be good for your back aint it buddy?". Pretty forced, pretty awkward.
On the other hand, there was another guy who would ask me to spot him on the bench. I would spot him, he would then offer to spot me, we talked a bit about getting it better and how much rest time etc, but nothing too personal. Still he greets me warmly every time we see each other. It would be pretty easy to go on from there I guess.
I squat naked so nobody talks to me
So I've been in a relationship with this girl for like a week now. She is 22, I'm 19. She's been acting like an emotional roller coaster the past couple days being all annoyed at me at random times and the next being all lovey dovey. She called me randomly on her break all up in arms about things. She was saying that I've been annoying her lately and she didn't know why. Then she was saying how she feels like I don't treat her like an independent woman and things like that. Now I feel like I'm just walking on thin ice all of the time and that any wrong move I make will blow up in my face.
The whole situation is just frustrating because I'm willing to make things work and she is just really wishy washy on this whole situation. Right now, I'm considering taking things a step back and figuring out what we both want before making any efforts at a serious relationship.
Sorry, I know this all sounds really vague, but it would take a lot of effort for me to lay out everything clearly and concisely right now.
[QUOTE=Splash Attack;44628160]So I've been in a relationship with this girl for like a week now. She is 22, I'm 19. She's been acting like an emotional roller coaster the past couple days being all annoyed at me at random times and the next being all lovey dovey. She called me randomly on her break all up in arms about things. She was saying that I've been annoying her lately and she didn't know why. Then she was saying how she feels like I don't treat her like an independent woman and things like that. Now I feel like I'm just walking on thin ice all of the time and that any wrong move I make will blow up in my face.
The whole situation is just frustrating because I'm willing to make things work and she is just really wishy washy on this whole situation. Right now, I'm considering taking things a step back and figuring out what we both want before making any efforts at a serious relationship.
Sorry, I know this all sounds really vague, but it would take a lot of effort for me to lay out everything clearly and concisely right now.[/QUOTE]
She shouldn't really be dumping drama on you after only a week of dating. If she already has so many issues within a week, then I wouldn't expect to keep dating for much longer.
Yeah, I just wish I had a sign before we hopped into this. It's like we started dating and all of this shit came out of nowhere.
I feel like I've wasted opportunity though, because I stopped seeing this other girl to see how this one would fair. Now it seems like both opportunities are flying out the window.
[editline]23rd April 2014[/editline]
Well that changed quickly. We both decided to take a step back and downgrade from a relationship to "just seeing each other".
One thing that had us both stressed out was the pressure of a relationship and the fact that we kinda rushed into one. I feel a lot less tense now.
do you want to know what i find weird
is that my ex's boyfriend is friends with david cameron
and boris johnson went to his wedding (he's married to some other women but shhh)
she's gone from one extreme to the other
Guys i gotta voice my frustration right now because i think the world is very unfair and i think my ex girlfriend is totally wrong. the last days I'm living in depression as you have already guessed she is my ex girlfriend because we have broken up recently. well i had finally find a perfect woman to my life I tell you the sight of her smile and eyes put me in state of ecstacy i couldn't even think straight.
She broke up with me because she said im [B]cheating[/B] and now that is making me really mad i am a LOYAL boyfriend i will never do that to anyone because when i'm with someone i'm gonna be gentleman and give backrub and make her smile all day long so you think it is cheating if i'm having dirty talk in chatroom? how is that cheating its the same as jerking it to porn I'm sorry for explicit words but I'm a guy and I do that i dont show these girl my picture or my name it is nothing like that. I even told her if you want to talk in chatrooms like that its fine with me of course i'm not cheating with her and she doesn't listen at all. I just want a girlfriend who is smart will not use me because I'm nice. I don't even play video games right now because I'm in depression
[QUOTE=Sindri335;44629021]Guys i gotta voice my frustration right now because i think the world is very unfair and i think my ex girlfriend is totally wrong. the last days I'm living in depression as you have already guessed she is my ex girlfriend because we have broken up recently. well i had finally find a perfect woman to my life I tell you the sight of her smile and eyes put me in state of ecstacy i couldn't even think straight.
She broke up with me because she said im [B]cheating[/B] and now that is making me really mad i am a LOYAL boyfriend i will never do that to anyone because when i'm with someone i'm gonna be gentleman and give backrub and make her smile all day long so you think it is cheating if i'm having dirty talk in chatroom? how is that cheating its the same as jerking it to porn I'm sorry for explicit words but I'm a guy and I do that i dont show these girl my picture or my name it is nothing like that. I even told her if you want to talk in chatrooms like that its fine with me of course i'm not cheating with her and she doesn't listen at all. I just want a girlfriend who is smart will not use me because I'm nice. I don't even play video games right now because I'm in depression[/QUOTE]
what ever happened to loveletter girl
also you're amazingly weird
[QUOTE=Sindri335;44629021]Guys i gotta voice my frustration right now because i think the world is very unfair and i think my ex girlfriend is totally wrong. the last days I'm living in depression as you have already guessed she is my ex girlfriend because we have broken up recently. well i had finally find a perfect woman to my life I tell you the sight of her smile and eyes put me in state of ecstacy i couldn't even think straight.
She broke up with me because she said im [B]cheating[/B] and now that is making me really mad i am a LOYAL boyfriend i will never do that to anyone because when i'm with someone i'm gonna be gentleman and give backrub and make her smile all day long so you think it is cheating if i'm having dirty talk in chatroom? how is that cheating its the same as jerking it to porn I'm sorry for explicit words but I'm a guy and I do that i dont show these girl my picture or my name it is nothing like that. I even told her if you want to talk in chatrooms like that its fine with me of course i'm not cheating with her and she doesn't listen at all. I just want a girlfriend who is smart will not use me because I'm nice. I don't even play video games right now because I'm in depression[/QUOTE]
It's probably not gonna help you at all and it is what it is but I can kinda see the issue with dirty talking in a chatroom, depending on how in depth it is. On the other hand it isn't something that would bother me personally but it's up to an individual person.
Ya kind have to work out what boundaries you guys have in a relationship and respect each other on that, if she isn't comfortable with that then it's something you gotta consider. To some people that is "Cheating" and hell some people arn't even comfortable with their partner looking at porn of other people. If your opinions are too different for you to reconcile them then it's just for the best, unfortunately.
Just give it time. It might take a bit but you just gotta remember she isn't the perfect girl for you it feels like. Your obviously not that compatible. You'll find someone else who doesn't have an issue with your chat room talk.
[QUOTE=LordCrypto;44629037]what ever happened to loveletter girl
also you're amazingly weird[/QUOTE]
Eh she never contacted me at all. On my walking routine 1-2 times a week i make an effort to walk past her house in hopes that she has been wanting to talk to me or that she needs something when I walk past but I have only seen her once and she didn't see me but honestly I don't even care there are so many beautiful woman out there just need find one with brains
[QUOTE=Rhenae;44629076]It's probably not gonna help you at all and it is what it is but I can kinda see the issue with dirty talking in a chatroom, depending on how in depth it is. On the other hand it isn't something that would bother me personally but it's up to an individual person.
Ya kind have to work out what boundaries you guys have in a relationship and respect each other on that, if she isn't comfortable with that then it's something you gotta consider. To some people that is "Cheating" and hell some people arn't even comfortable with their partner looking at porn of other people. If your opinions are too different for you to reconcile them then it's just for the best, unfortunately.
Just give it time. It might take a bit but you just gotta remember she isn't the perfect girl for you it feels like. Your obviously not that compatible. You'll find someone else who doesn't have an issue with your chat room talk.[/QUOTE]
Thank you now I know im not crazy i dont think it is cheating sometimes women can get on my nerves, I think i will have to move on
[QUOTE=Sindri335;44629081]Eh she never contacted me at all. On my walking routine 1-2 times a week i make an effort to walk past her house in hopes that she has been wanting to talk to me or that she needs something when I walk past but I have only seen her once and she didn't see me but honestly I don't even care there are so many beautiful woman out there just need find one with brains[/QUOTE]
so you're telling me that in the space of four weeks you were like "omg i love d-how girl" to possibly a new girl and breaking up with her
there's no way you're real
well I met her on a chatroom and we have been long-distance dating until tuesday night when she broke up with me
[QUOTE=Sindri335;44629168]well I met her on a chatroom and we have been long-distance dating until tuesday night when she broke up with me[/QUOTE]
hahahahahahahaha
hah
i just cried a little from laughing so hard
sindri do these women even know they're going out with you
[QUOTE=Sindri335;44629168]well I met her on a chatroom and we have been long-distance dating until tuesday night when she broke up with me[/QUOTE]
Chatroom dirty talk seems a fair bit more cheat-y if you guys were only chatrooms dating too. I mean, its basically the same level :v:
just so every1 knows the 411
this is the same person that brought you this fantastic statistical analysis of MH370
[QUOTE=Sindri335;44225150]why cant they find the plane? im 99% sure it fell into the ocean while flying, [B]stop wasting time on the land and put a submarine there and boats[/B], pretty stupid that they haven't found it already if you ask me. im studying statistics at university so i know what im talking about. here is a picture with crash zones and calculations that i make with complex program excel that i use my statistics knowledge on
[IMG]http://i.imgur.com/wFQBQHq.jpg[/IMG]
well you can see that m1 m2 m3 m4 is MOST LIKELY location for the plane it have a 25% each to go there so have the boats search that VERY well because that is 100% that the plane is likely there . and well if there was a problems and it go off track there a CHANCE that its in m6 m5 m7 m8 a very low chance . its biggest chance that its in m6 i calculate that using statistics and wind speeds that they have info on , i think its 19% chance that its in m6 so look at that area well . and then finally there is the circle at a5 that is where plane [B]should have highest chance to be in because that where it was going when it dissapeer[/B] so that is 77% chance that the plane is there using statistics[/QUOTE]
I feel like I don't need a relationship but at the same time feeling like I want to. Like I'm doing great being busy with school work and other hobbies, but I always get like random bouts of loneliness and being the only one in my group of friends that has never had a girlfriend before. But at the same time I still don't want one but I do at the same time. Ach... it's confusing.
[QUOTE=Rammaster;44629315]I feel like I don't need a relationship but at the same time feeling like I want to. Like I'm doing great being busy with school work and other hobbies, but I always get like random bouts of loneliness and being the only one in my group of friends that has never had a girlfriend before. But at the same time I still don't want one but I do at the same time. Ach... it's confusing.[/QUOTE]
I get the same way, except the opposite. I have a boyfriend but sometimes I wish I had other friends. Occasionally I get really lonely, then the next day I remember that I can't stand most of the people I've tried to befriend here and lose interest again.
Just realized that sounded really emo... I didn't mean it that way!
Im thinkin of starting meditation. Ive heard it does wonders to you in a lot of different ways, socially too. 20 min a day shouldn't be too much.
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