Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT

[Zar]

oh holy shit i got a 12 (highest grade) guess im gonna celebrate with my friends this friday then

[orcywoo6]

[QUOTE=orcywoo6;45129897]Just got back from this, it was much more of an assessment than an interview, it really wasn't formal at all. They took me into a room and told me they'd let the dog in shortly and they wanted me to completely ignore it, not even look at it to see if I could follow their instructions. They then showed me a video relating to the job, talked stuff over with me and that kind of thing. After that a quick demonstration with the dog and after that it was my turn to copy exactly what they did :v: Gotta hand it to the dog she cooperated with me thank god, she was a bit iffy at one point because she was eager to get some treats but she behaved.

The other assessment to see how I coped with pressure was showing me how they tie the leashes up and throwing loads of them on the floor and asking me to do it whilst they timed me, I must admit I couldn't do it but they only timed me for a minute, I think they were mostly seeing if I would freak out or not.

All the other stuff was discussing about their company, myself and the implications and commitment the job requires which all sounded fine.

Hopefully I gave them a good impression, they seemed very friendly and Brenda the dog was absolutely lovely :v: I'm really excited about this, its time to bite my nails and wait for a result![/QUOTE]
Didn't fucking get it, dream successfully shattered.

[Plattack]

Thought about asking a friend out but my summer vacation officially starts after my last final exam tomorrow. With me not able to drive on my own yet and them living on the other side of town, I knew nothing would come of it even if they said yes. Didn't even ask for their number since my phone only got service back a couple weeks ago and I forgot texting was a thing. But then I got a text on the last full day of classes from a random number I didn't recognize. It turns out they got my number from a friend. Maybe something will come of this in the fall, but I'm perfectly happy with this so far.

[lordcrypto]

hi i'd just like to point out that i just lost a friend (and will be ending it with another because of the first one) over the term pansexual

don't argue about gender identities kids

[Dub!]

[QUOTE=Plattack;45143388]Thought about asking a friend out but my summer vacation officially starts after my last final exam tomorrow. With me not able to drive on my own yet and them living on the other side of town, I knew nothing would come of it even if they said yes. Didn't even ask for their number since my phone only got service back a couple weeks ago and I forgot texting was a thing. But then I got a text on the last full day of classes from a random number I didn't recognize. It turns out they got my number from a friend. Maybe something will come of this in the fall, but I'm perfectly happy with this so far.[/QUOTE]

Don't wait until the last day of school to ask someone out. It's off putting.

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=LordCrypto;45145651]hi i'd just like to point out that i just lost a friend (and will be ending it with another because of the first one) over the term pansexual

don't argue about gender identities kids[/QUOTE]

Pansexual isnt a gender identity but ok.

[Guy Mannly]

[QUOTE=Rhenae;45147220]Pansexual isnt a gender identity but ok.[/QUOTE]

Now we know what he was arguing about.

[Zar]

I've been snapchatting quite a bit with a girl who will be at the same school as me next year. this summer just gets more and more exciting aww yiss.

[Plattack]

[QUOTE=Dub!;45145838]Don't wait until the last day of school to ask someone out. It's off putting.[/QUOTE]

I didn't ask her out, I knew summer was coming soon and I didn't want to do it at such a weird time.

[Ruso]

-snip-

[killerteacup]

[QUOTE=Ruso;45152602]How do you help a person feel better whenever they are sad or in a depressed[/QUOTE]

Just be a good friend to them, don't push them and be there if they need you to be

[Ruso]

-snip-

[killerteacup]

[QUOTE=Ruso;45152623]How do you help a person feel better whenever they are sad or in a depressed

mostly my girlfriend[/QUOTE]

Be a good boyfriend to them, don't push them, and be there if they need you to be

[Ruso]

-snip-

[Big D Duchovny]

[QUOTE=Zar;45147925]I've been snapchatting quite a bit with a girl who will be at the same school as me next year. this summer just gets more and more exciting aww yiss.[/QUOTE]

Which Gymnaisum are you starting at?

[Zar]

[QUOTE=GoDong-DK;45154075]Which Gymnaisum are you starting at?[/QUOTE]

None yet, gonna take 10th grade

[RocketRacer]

The girl that is probably the most friendly to me in the school has a bday today and will be having a 'party' at her home with her circle of friends, who I had a lot of fun with today on lunchtime. Shame I couldn't come to school earlier, I'd like to go there. :(

[editline]19th June 2014[/editline]

Earlier as in to get more to know her and be an actual 'friend' as it stands and be eligible for a birthday 'party' invite.

[Zar]

[QUOTE=RocketRacer;45156498]The girl that is probably the most friendly to me in the school has a bday today and will be having a 'party' at her home with her circle of friends, who I had a lot of fun with today on lunchtime. Shame I couldn't come to school earlier, I'd like to go there. :(

[editline]19th June 2014[/editline]

Earlier as in to get more to know her and be an actual 'friend' as it stands and be eligible for a birthday 'party' invite.[/QUOTE]

Try asking her. Just make sure she knows you understand that it might not be a good idea, as you're not one of her close friends. yolo

[RocketRacer]

Well she might understand because she's like the closest I can get to a friend while being in this community only since September.

[editline]19th June 2014[/editline]

In theory it could work but wouldn't it be incredibly dumb to just go 'eh i got no friends you are my only one can i pls go to your bday party'

[editline]19th June 2014[/editline]

Even that is technically wrong, everyone from her circle of friends knows me now and I've spent some time with them so not like it's first time they see me

[Zar]

well it doesn't seem like they don't want your company, and it's not like you're inviting yourself over to get piss drunk and throw you pants off and break vases. just be reasonable, worst case scenario, she says no.

that's it.

[blacksam]

So I've had my transcripts sent and finished my application for one school. Now it's a matter of doing it once more for another. I know it's so late in the game to transfer, but it feels necessary to do this.

Everyone has asked me the same question," Are you moving because of your breakup?"

And I guess that she was the catalyst for this, but I have always felt disconnected from what my "college experience" is supposed to be. I've asked everyone who's been through their college years what that college experience was and all I've gotten from it is," [I]it's what you make of it[/I]".

This first year has been nothing but school from Monday - Friday and a girlfriend on the weekends MAYBE if she wasn't busy. I've always felt like I was missing something though. I didn't mind that until now that she's gone.

But even during these past few months, I wanted to build something with a group of people. Whether it be school/volunteer/club related or life long friendships that other colleges always boast about, I just feel like I'm not getting those same opportunities that my friends are getting at other colleges. I know to take those pictures and statuses with a grain of salt, but when I look at myself, I haven't been apart of anything. I just don’t want to look back on my college years and say,” That was the longest summer camp of my life.”

I wrote her this epic message. She never wrote me back. Yeah that hurts like hell. But at least I know where I stand. I guess the real pain isn't that I never got a response from her, it's just that I haven't had friends to hang out with because they have been either vacationing somewhere or working.

I'm sick of being lonely.
I'm worried about starting over academically and socially.

[RocketRacer]

[QUOTE=Zar;45160562]well it doesn't seem like they don't want your company, and it's not like you're inviting yourself over to get piss drunk and throw you pants off and break vases. just be reasonable, worst case scenario, she says no.

that's it.[/QUOTE]
nah I didn't do it. Only possible chance was on last lesson(the one we had in common - art, others we both had different lessons) and I couldn't because I had my own stuff to do and by the end of lesson teacher asked me to go to her classroom so she could show me some artists on my subject. So the only option would be FB but that would be even worse than face-to-face asking so I just passed that idea.

[Rofl_copter]

Shit man, a woman's thighs might be the nicest, softest things to walk this planet. Just thinking about it makes me happy.

I'm pissed that I never got to go any further with these particular thighs. She did have a boyfriend, though, even though I didn't care one bit at the time since he sounded like a prick. Guess it wasn't meant to be. My bro Buddha once said, "In the end only three things matter: how much you loved, how gently you lived, and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you."

[fritzel]

That some serious brotha buddha

[Guy Mannly]

[QUOTE=Rofl_copter;45171535]She did have a boyfriend, though, even though I didn't care one bit at the time since he sounded like a prick.[/QUOTE]

Nice way to make yourself feel better about your actions.

[Rofl_copter]

[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;45172168]Nice way to make yourself feel better about your actions.[/QUOTE]

We didn't exactly hook up. There was touching involved, that's about it.

I probably should also mention that I was anything but sober and she kind of started it, not that it excused me from being a cock. Still, I liked this girl a lot and it's making me a little mad at the moment.

[editline]d[/editline]

ok so maybe I shouldn't have touched her/touch me.

[Big D Duchovny]

[QUOTE=Rofl_copter;45172316]We didn't exactly hook up. There was touching involved, that's about it.

I probably should also mention that I was anything but sober and she kind of started it, not that it excused me from being a cock. Still, I liked this girl a lot and it's making me a little mad at the moment.

[editline]d[/editline]

ok so maybe I shouldn't have touched her/touch me.[/QUOTE]

Honestly, it's the girl's responsibility if she has a boyfriend. If you were drunk and she initiated the contact, there's really no fault on your part.

[Meller Yeller]

Sometimes I Facetime my girlfriend because I'm away for a while and can't see her and she'll look at Facebook and Pinterest while I'm doing nothing else and trying to have a conversation. And typically she is not good at holding a conversation while doing this. Would you consider that pretty rude?

I don't want to rush into complaining about it since I know this sudden time apart has me all needy and I know my judgement is messed up.

[orcywoo6]

Had this weird urge to talk to this girl I haven't spoken to in forever lately and I really know I shouldn't, it's weird I go through spells like this where I feel social but I can guarantee next week I'll want to just recede into my shell and hide from all contact. :v:

[Heigou]

Hold me guys, I'm lost as fuk, 22 years old and I'm still not fully sure what to do with my life. A part of me doesn't value my life enough and wants to go to the army to do something "honorable" of it. However I might get accepted into a job all the way in Florida (I'm from Quebec), does anyone have experience working outside of their country?