• Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT
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[QUOTE=orcywoo6;45254008]So my brother has been stealing stuff from me again but apparently me getting angry about it makes me the bad guy. I get the impression my parents really could care less, they seem to not want to know for the sake of an easy life yet if I step out of line I get treated like a fucking kid when I'm 20 years old. They even go as far as blaming me for not hiding things away [B]in my own fucking room.[/B] Really had enough of this.[/QUOTE] Buy a lock. Move out as soon as you can. [editline]30th June 2014[/editline] also beat your brother up. how old is he?
I threatened to buy a lock and got told to stop being silly, might just buy one and install it on the sly anyway. :v: He's 15.
[QUOTE=Zar;45252989][img]http://i.imgur.com/Wm3Pxjs.png[/img] ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ [editline]30th June 2014[/editline] i'm not sure he knows that everyone can see what you post on someones fp profile[/QUOTE] I do, but that wasn't really the point. All is good now so whatevs.
[QUOTE=orcywoo6;45255200]I threatened to buy a lock and got told to stop being silly, might just buy one and install it on the sly anyway. :v: He's 15.[/QUOTE] 15 and he wants all your shit. maybe he looks up to you in some sick way. jack off in his socks without him knowing, then when he puts them on... mm yaaaaaaaaa
[QUOTE=Zar;45258014]jack off in his socks without him knowing, then when he puts them on... mm yaaaaaaaaa[/QUOTE] what AM i reading
So I started talking to this girl a few months ago... We went on a few dates and stuff too. I started feeling a little pessimistic like it wasn't going much of anywhere. Then I met this new girl and I broke things off with girl 1. She was pretty pissed for a while. Shortly after things didn't work out with girl 2, girl 1 texts me again. She says that we could still be friends and that she's over the whole ordeal. So we start talking again. Now, here I am. I'm really starting to like girl 1 again. I talked to my cousin (girl 1's best friend). According to her, she doesn't trust me anymore and it is going to take a lot for this to go anywhere. I'm not sure what to do here. On one hand, I really don't like the idea of having to prove oneself to even start a relationship. On the other, I really like this girl and can see us really going somewhere. What do you guys think?
[QUOTE=Splash Attack;45259732]So I started talking to this girl a few months ago... We went on a few dates and stuff too. I started feeling a little pessimistic like it wasn't going much of anywhere. Then I met this new girl and I broke things off with girl 1. She was pretty pissed for a while. Shortly after things didn't work out with girl 2, girl 1 texts me again. She says that we could still be friends and that she's over the whole ordeal. So we start talking again. Now, here I am. I'm really starting to like girl 1 again. I talked to my cousin (girl 1's best friend). According to her, she doesn't trust me anymore and it is going to take a lot for this to go anywhere. I'm not sure what to do here. [I]On one hand, I really don't like the idea of having to prove oneself to even start a relationship[/I]. On the other, I really like this girl and can see us really going somewhere. What do you guys think?[/QUOTE] You did kinda just ditch her at random for some other girl, I doubt you'd want to get invested in someone who did that to you either. You didn't like her enough to stick around the first time, so what is different this time?
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;45251681]It's nice to see you seeming so much more relaxed in your past few posts. It sounds like you're handling things pretty well now.[/QUOTE] I finally got a summer job so that gives me a chance to get out of the house and do things rather than staying inside gaming, jerking off and thinking about the girl, worrying she's ignoring me on purpose. But she's not doing that, she's just a really forgetful person and always misplaces her phone. She did promise to make more of an effort for me though. I also don't have to deal with my step dad all day anymore thanks to having a summer job. He needs a liver transplant and hasn't been able to work for the last two months so naturally he's extremely frustrated. He has nobody to take it out on though except for me and my mom though so he's been making things a lot worse for me. He's also convinced that I'm gay because I'm 20 and never had a girlfriend before so I never hear the end of that either.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;45260225]You did kinda just ditch her at random for some other girl, I doubt you'd want to get invested in someone who did that to you either. You didn't like her enough to stick around the first time, so what is different this time?[/QUOTE] Yeah, I definitely understand why she would feel that way. Now that I'm coming back around, I'm really starting to feel more of a connection. The last time, I didn't really think she was interested in me and I was wasting my time. It wasn't until I moved on that I learned she saw us going somewhere and that she wanted to take her time before getting too serious. Now that we're talking again, I'm really starting to like her again. She's right to be cautious. I just don't know how to she her I'm serious about this this time. [editline]1st July 2014[/editline] Also, last night I had a minor argument with her. I was a little irritated about how she always seems to give short, dead end responses while texting. It was nothing major, but it probably didn't help my chances, at least in the short term.
^^ don't judge because of her deadpan responses. Give some time.
[QUOTE=Disseminate;45259650]what AM i reading[/QUOTE] best advice in this thread in months.
I really wouldn't bet any money on that horse, Splash. Ya kinda blew it by ditching her the second you saw somebody "better" come along. You can't expect her to take you back after that. Depending on your age range, at least. You might have a shot if she's, like, sixteen, because that kind of high school drama really only flies in highschool, when everybody is insecure and awkward. Is she sixteen? Are you? If the answer to both of these is "yes," then your chances of being with her again have at least been upgraded from "When Hell freezes over" to "in a moment of self-hatred and desperation, maybe" which is moderately better. Otherwise, consider it a lesson learned. Dumping somebody for a more attractive prospect does not make the dumped feel very warmly towards you.
She's 22 and I just turned 20 today. [IMG]http://i.somethingawful.com/forumsystem/emoticons/emot-toot.gif[/IMG] One thing that might be worth noting. We really didn't have anything serious to begin with. Yes, we went on a few dates, but there was hardly any actual romance involved. We never even kissed or anything. That was one of the contributing factors for me wanting to look elsewhere, thinking it wasn't really going anywhere. She said that I was in too much of a rush and that she didn't know whether she "like-liked" me yet, and this was after at least a moth and a half of going out on dates. I guess I can understand that now, but at the time, I felt like there was really no commitment at the time and decided to look elsewhere. Personally, I wouldn't really consider it on the same level as if we were actually in some kind of committed relationship. Regardless, I think she unfortunately interpreted it as such. Yeah, chances seem pretty slim for the time being. Saturday, we went to a mutual friend's fourth of July party together, and that went pretty well. Also, in a couple weeks we're planning to go with my cousin (her best friend) to six flags and spend a night there. So, we're still doing stuff together and we talk regularly. I think chances of another shot with at being together are pretty distant, but I wouldn't consider them impossible right now.
Which Six Flags, out of curiosity? [editline]1st July 2014[/editline] I'm parked outside Six Flags Saint Louis right this second. I'm a computer technician, and Six Flags is in my service zone.
No shit? Yeah, we're going to St. Louis. We leave late on the 19th and we're going to the park on the 20th.
Cool beans, have fun. The Batman will give you nasty whiplash, lasts about thirty seconds, and usually has an hour long line. It's fun, but violent. Skipping that one wouldn't be a terrible idea if you want to save your neck. The water park is really cool though! Super busy, but fun.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;45265423]Cool beans, have fun. The Batman will give you nasty whiplash, lasts about thirty seconds, and usually has an hour long line. It's fun, but violent. Skipping that one wouldn't be a terrible idea if you want to save your neck. The water park is really cool though! Super busy, but fun.[/QUOTE] You don't need to tell me about it. I've already been there a dozen times. :v:
Is it bad for me to have a standard of not liking larger women? I mean I'm not the smallest guy myself but I'm only 15 pounds over what I should be and I really just don't care for larger girls.
[QUOTE=Zerokateo;45273697]Is it bad for me to have a standard of not liking larger women? I mean I'm not the smallest guy myself but I'm only 15 pounds over what I should be and I really just don't care for larger girls.[/QUOTE] Uhm, no. What you're attracted to or not doesn't really say what kind of person you are. As long as you don't socially dismiss a certain type of person entirely. Personally, I can do larger women as long as it's not like obese or something. But I would almost never want to hook up with a black girl. I'm not racist and there's plenty of them I enjoy the company of, but I'm just not sexually attracted to it.
and asians, for me. I'd like a native english girl Being a foreigner myself
I'd like a fine ass. [sp]and boobs[/sp]
I went on my first actual date ever two days ago with a really cute and nice girl. Saw [del]The perks of being a wallflower[/del] The fault in our stars. I creeped my hand over throughout the movie and halfway through I got a hold of hers. She held it back. Hell yes. [editline]3rd July 2014[/editline] [QUOTE=Yahnich;45252511]aren't you like 15[/QUOTE] I feel like being a teenager is even more of an excuse to be high. You don't have any responsibilities at that age. Also I feel like Facepunch picks on people for being "too young" too much. Everyone goes through different experiences in life at different times. Everyone just be nice. This is the super friendly social thread anyways. [IMG]http://www.facepunch.com/fp/ratings/heart.png[/IMG]
[QUOTE=iggy650;45281778] I feel like being a teenager is even more of an excuse to be high. You don't have any responsibilities at that age. Also I feel like Facepunch picks on people for being "too young" too much. Everyone goes through different experiences in life at different times. Everyone just be nice. This is the super friendly social thread anyways. [IMG]http://www.facepunch.com/fp/ratings/heart.png[/IMG][/QUOTE] Thanks. People are attacking me for things 12 year olds are doing. I'm not using it as excuse, its just the fact that I find fun in doing it and people "who have solved all life's puzzles" on Facepunch are telling me I'm "too young." Maybe they're right, and that's why I've stopped acting hostile. Let us drop the argument/dibocle now.
[QUOTE=Meller Yeller;45274366]Uhm, no. What you're attracted to or not doesn't really say what kind of person you are. As long as you don't socially dismiss a certain type of person entirely. Personally, I can do larger women as long as it's not like obese or something. But I would almost never want to hook up with a black girl. I'm not racist and there's plenty of them I enjoy the company of, but I'm just not sexually attracted to it.[/QUOTE] Finally someone who gets it, everytime I reject a larger girl I get called an asshole. I mean shit I'm FRIENDS with a couple larger girls but thats it, I could never be more cause I'm not attracted to them.
[QUOTE=Zerokateo;45283209]Finally someone who gets it, everytime I reject a larger girl I get called an asshole. I mean shit I'm FRIENDS with a couple larger girls but thats it, I could never be more cause I'm not attracted to them.[/QUOTE] People always take every chance they can to judge. My GF is larger than most, she's got a cute tummy and legs that look like legs instead of the average skinny girl and my mates jokingly say that I'm attracted to fat. Now they don't mean it, but hell is it annoying.
[QUOTE=Dub!;45282513]Thanks. People are attacking me for things 12 year olds are doing. I'm not using it as excuse, its just the fact that I find fun in doing it and people "who have solved all life's puzzles" on Facepunch are telling me I'm "too young." Maybe they're right, and that's why I've stopped acting hostile. Let us drop the argument/dibocle now.[/QUOTE] First, smoking pot also does stunt brain development, so no, it's not "even more of an excuse to be high". Don't try and convince yourself there's nothing wrong with it, for all the idiots preaching "pot is a harmless drug" there are a few scientific studies showing otherwise. Part of the reason people are calling you "too young" is because as a teenager you have poor long-term decision making abilities. At 15 your brain functions quite a bit differently than it will once it's fully developed - your decisions are based heavily on emotion and you'll tend to be drawn more to reward-seeking abilities (drugs/risky behaviors). Can't speak for others, but the reason why I have an issue with it is because you're making long-term decisions for your body when you won't necessarily agree with those decisions in a few years. You're at the most likely age to get sucked into substance abuse. So how exactly are you paying for drugs? Not a lot of places hire 15 year olds, are you paying with your parents' money? Do they know? (and if you smoke indoors I can guarantee they either do know or they will shortly...)
I am not attracted to overweight women and am not judgmental of those who are, because that's really none of my damn business, but I will throw down with anybody who pulls that "thin privilege, real women, only dogs chew bones" shit my way. I'm sorry that you are uncomfortable with your body image, but please do not sit there and try to pass the guilt for your insecurity onto me for not being attracted to you, because that's going to do nothing more than make me resent your attitude.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;45283754]who pulls that "thin privilege, real women, only dogs chew bones" shit my way[/QUOTE] That "real women have curves, only dogs go for bones" thing really disgusts me. Standards of attractiveness flip regularly, being overweight used to be considered a sign of wealth - trying to make thin women look ugly in comparison is just trying to reverse beauty standards again instead of aiming for equality. Personally I think health matters more than appearance. My boyfriend works his ass off to take care of his body, even though he's a bit on the pudgy side - that alone makes him much more attractive to me. Similarly, I would find it pretty repulsive if I knew someone skinny who just ate unhealthy food and didn't exercise at all.
^^Are you a gurl ? I thought you were a guy. You give pretty good advices here.
[QUOTE=fritzel;45284667]^^Are you a gurl ? I thought you were a guy. You give pretty good advices here.[/QUOTE] Blame my edgy 16-year-old self for the confusing name.
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