• Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT
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If all you're doing is sitting in your room on the PC and reminiscing, you're not getting over it any time soon. I did that and it was so stupid of me. You said you dread nighttime the most because you can't help but think about her: that's because nighttime has nothing going on. Daytime keeps you preoccupied. Start spending loads of time with friends, out and about. It'll really keep your mind off of things and make it a tonne easier.
yeah, there's a reason i said you should surround yourself with some friends and try to be active, being alone with your thoughts is never a good idea
I only have about 2 friends and all they do is league all day.
well now is an excellent time to go make some new friends then
[QUOTE=Zinayzen;45442045]well now is an excellent time to go make some new friends then[/QUOTE] I think it may be a little hard to do that since he said he's been having suicidal thoughts and depressed.
i didn't say it would be easy, i'm just saying now is a good time to do it the nice thing about being so depressed you want to kill yourself is that you generally stop caring about what anyone thinks because how could anything get worse
[QUOTE=GURREN LAGANN;45441473]This is such a shitty ride. I did so much with her that pretty much everything reminds me of her. I feel as worst if not worst than I did 2 days ago. the fight is really tough[/QUOTE] Seriously, try to find some way to be productive that doesn't require a lot of focus. Cleaning your room or house might be a good way to get your mind off things, and you'll feel better later for having less clutter. I used to go running when I felt down. Exercise can make you feel a bit better and will help you deal with it long term (though being sad about a breakup is unavoidable). Sitting around and letting your mind wander is going to make everything hit at once. If you can keep yourself preoccupied, the pain will dull.
i think this girl really likes me and i do too but there's one problem she asked me what my sign is and i think she's serious i'm not sure if that's a dealbreaker or not
[QUOTE=Zinayzen;45444425]i think this girl really likes me and i do too but there's one problem she asked me what my sign is and i think she's serious i'm not sure if that's a dealbreaker or not[/QUOTE] I would consider it strike 1 of 3
it's currently the only strike but it's a big one, there's no way i won't make fun of it
[QUOTE=Zinayzen;45444454]it's currently the only strike but it's a big one, there's no way i won't make fun of it[/QUOTE] Her taking offense would be strike 2 in my book.
she has a good sense of humor so i doubt she'd take offense she's also smart so (assuming she's serious) i'm very confused oh well i'll deal with that later i suppose
maybe she is setting up a really good joke
if so that's an elaborate joke which would impress me i'm heading across the country for a week on thursday but once i get back i'll ask her out, i know she'll say yes which takes a lot of pressure off [editline]20th July 2014[/editline] At least our signs are apparently compatible, so that's good I guess
maybe shes trying to find a compatible mate, and then she'll be like that bug that eats the males head during intercourse and has his babies
[QUOTE=Zinayzen;45444491]she has a good sense of humor so i doubt she'd take offense she's also smart so (assuming she's serious) i'm very confused oh well i'll deal with that later i suppose[/QUOTE] I dont believe they actually effect anything but I do enjoy seeing peoples signs and how they may or may not overlap with personality. Its fun, even if it is silly [editline]20th July 2014[/editline] [QUOTE=Zinayzen;45444593][editline]20th July 2014[/editline] At least our signs are apparently compatible, so that's good I guess[/QUOTE] It also might have been a very obvious hint to ask her out already because shes waiting
My ex girlfriend texted me on accident and I didn't answer back. I want to text her but idk I doubt she did it on purpose
[QUOTE=Crpto2007;45446967]My ex girlfriend texted me on accident and I didn't answer back. I want to text her but idk I doubt she did it on purpose[/QUOTE] Reply with "Who is this ? I lost my contact numbers recently."
[QUOTE=Rhenae;45446739] It also might have been a very obvious hint to ask her out already because shes waiting[/QUOTE] It's probably that, yes
[QUOTE=Crpto2007;45446967]My ex girlfriend texted me on accident and I didn't answer back. I want to text her but idk I doubt she did it on purpose[/QUOTE] Just delete it and move on dude.
lol asked out a girl at work and I only just discovered she's 17, considering i'm 20 I can't help but feel that's maybe bad????
Depends on if she's mature for her age. I'm 21 and there's 18 year old girls I know who seem too naive and childish, that if I were to ask them out it'd make me feel like I'm a creep. Then there are others that are really mature and seem older than they are, I'd be alright going out with them if that was the case.
the clincher is that i'd be 21 before she turned 18 by a couple of months idk we'll see
[QUOTE=fritzel;45447044]Reply with "Who is this ? I lost my contact numbers recently."[/QUOTE] Holy shit could you stop pushing these immature and misunderstood views of yours? [editline]20th July 2014[/editline] Besides who the fuck loses their contacts since Andriod/iPhone
[QUOTE=Zar;45445147]maybe shes trying to find a compatible mate, and then she'll be like that bug that eats the males head during intercourse and has his babies[/QUOTE] Black Widow spider? idk [editline]20th July 2014[/editline] [QUOTE=Oscar Lima Echo;45449094]Holy shit could you stop pushing these immature and misunderstood views of yours? [editline]20th July 2014[/editline] Besides who the fuck loses their contacts since Andriod/iPhone[/QUOTE] Surprisingly not so long ago I saw a post saying "lost my contacts pls pm your numbers"
I haven't backed my phone up in approximately 56 weeks, if I lose my phone I'm fucked
[QUOTE=Zinayzen;45449494]I haven't backed my phone up in approximately 56 weeks, if I lose my phone I'm fucked[/QUOTE] Do you actually have to back it up though? All my contacts just save to my google account.
I've been trying to play some online games to help and it does take my mind off her when during the game. I've also been cleaning like Guy suggested. It still hurts a truck ton if I think about her, or if I do as something as to open my fridge and see a food that she loved it just tears me apart. Suicide still exists as a very nice option too, which I can't get out of my mind. I should probably see a psychiatrist later seeing how many of you said that it's abnormal. I really miss her right now and I want her back talking to me and doing stuff we usually would do. I often wonder about her during the middle of something and wonder she's doing and what kind of a guy she'll get with in the future. How she'll be a shit. I've also googled for some addition advice and I ran into people never forgetting about their ex for over year spans and still feel shit about it, and that scares me to death. [editline]20th July 2014[/editline] Also any tips on eating? I haven't been hungry still and I've tried eating my favorite foods or something simple but I just start feeling insanely nauseated and sick after a bite.
[QUOTE=fritzel;45447044]Reply with "Who is this ? I lost my contact numbers recently."[/QUOTE] ffs stop giving such awful condescending advice
[QUOTE=GURREN LAGANN;45450284] I've also googled for some addition advice and I ran into people never forgetting about their ex for over year spans and still feel shit about it, and that scares me to death. [/QUOTE] Sometimes those are the kinds of people who never actually choose to move on. Remind yourself you're moving forward. So the next guy she's with finds out she's terrible, so what? It's not going to affect you. Don't let the thought of her own you. You're moving forward. Don't forget that.
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