Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT
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Find a nice cologne, one that no one else really uses. Since I'm Arab, I get the nicest Arab shit ever (which no one else has). Literally get people coming up to me asking if they can hug me just to get their daily fix of my cologne lol
1 Million isn't nice imo. Even worse when some dude has sprayed himself with fucktonnes of Axe.
Smell has a lot of meaning, so don't buy some random cheap shit, and don't just choose something expensive, but try to find something that fits you. It's great when people start associating a certain perfume with you in a good way, especially if a girl starts sleeping with a Tshirt with your perfume on, that stuff is cute as shit.
Before I found my current perfume I've probably thrown away four different perfumes because some shitlord used the same, and people told me "you smell nice, but it reminds me of x/y/z"
I wouldn't throw it away. I keep stuff like that for days when I'm not doing anything, just sitting around the house.
I remember I used to give my ex my sweater and she'd keep it for days until the smell faded. Damn you Oscar.
Or just use some nice Deodorant? I really don't think the extra scent is necessary (If you do pick a cologne make sure the two don't clash)
Bf has Old Spice deodorant, "Wolfthorne" it smells like candy. Sexy sexy candy.
Cologne use isn't that uncommon in high school, but it was 90% axe and there were some hallways you literally couldn't breath in because someone decided to put on some axe. Axe is literally the worst "cologne" ever, if it even deserves to be called that.
Even nice perfumes are pretty unnecessary. Just don't smell like sweat and garbage and I don't think it matters much. Only thing adding perfumes really does it make life kinda sucks for scent sensitive people.
my rule: apply it so people can't smell it until they get close to you. as in, face to face, with your shoes almost touching.
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i hate it when someone walks past me and i can get a super strong scent right up my nostrils
[QUOTE=Duskling;45495669]So, I kind of need some advice. I asked this girl out back in February, but her parents found out and wouldn't let her date anybody. So we just flirted for the rest of the school year. I haven't talked to her since then, which was about a month and a half ago. I tried to call her not too long ago, but she was grounded.
Anyway, I was invited to a birthday party/picnic tomorrow afternoon and she is going to be there. This is going to be the first time that we have seen each other or talked in a while, and according to her best friend, she is still interested in me. What do I do? Do I hug her when we greet? What should we talk about? Parties are already pretty awkward for me. I don't want to miss a good opportunity to catch up and let her know that I am still interested.
Also, what's the deal with cologne? How are you supposed to spray the stuff because I usually do two sprays on either side of my neck, whenever i'm going to be around girls, and I never really notice a difference ( Unless I'm not supposed to smell it and it's actually working ).[/QUOTE]
you don't need cologne
just use deodorant
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[QUOTE=Cosa8888;45496726]I thought everyone wore cologne but me, and I don't wear it because the smell is fucking awful.[/QUOTE]
cologne doesn't smell awful
cologne doesn't even have one type of smell, you have to actually [I]choose[/I] a type of cologne and they have test strips if you didn't know that
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[QUOTE=loopoo;45497085]Find a nice cologne, one that no one else really uses. Since I'm Arab, I get the nicest Arab shit ever (which no one else has). Literally get people coming up to me asking if they can hug me just to get their daily fix of my cologne lol
1 Million isn't nice imo. Even worse when some dude has sprayed himself with fucktonnes of Axe.[/QUOTE]
the smell of a fresh camel
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[QUOTE=Rhenae;45497883]Or just use some nice Deodorant? I really don't think the extra scent is necessary (If you do pick a cologne make sure the two don't clash)
Bf has Old Spice deodorant, "Wolfthorne" it smells like candy. Sexy sexy candy.
Cologne use isn't that uncommon in high school, but it was 90% axe and there were some hallways you literally couldn't breath in because someone decided to put on some axe. Axe is literally the worst "cologne" ever, if it even deserves to be called that.
Even nice perfumes are pretty unnecessary. Just don't smell like sweat and garbage and I don't think it matters much. Only thing adding perfumes really does it make life kinda sucks for scent sensitive people.[/QUOTE]
perfumes can make someone smell beautiful
sometimes ladies walk by and then i smell the most beautiful perfume so i turn my head to look
only they aren't as beautiful as they smell
So the girl that added me after seeing on bus. I message her today and we kept chatting until apprently she fell asleep or something be uase it's 23:30 now. Feels good to have someone I can talk, as she said.
(no I got some people I can talk to but what I mean is people who I know I can meet and have seen before)
[QUOTE=Duskling;45495669]So, I kind of need some advice. I asked this girl out back in February, but her parents found out and wouldn't let her date anybody. So we just flirted for the rest of the school year. I haven't talked to her since then, which was about a month and a half ago. I tried to call her not too long ago, but she was grounded.
Anyway, I was invited to a birthday party/picnic tomorrow afternoon and she is going to be there. This is going to be the first time that we have seen each other or talked in a while, and according to her best friend, she is still interested in me. What do I do? Do I hug her when we greet? What should we talk about? Parties are already pretty awkward for me. I don't want to miss a good opportunity to catch up and let her know that I am still interested.
Also, what's the deal with cologne? How are you supposed to spray the stuff because I usually do two sprays on either side of my neck, whenever i'm going to be around girls, and I never really notice a difference ( Unless I'm not supposed to smell it and it's actually working ).[/QUOTE]
Legit advice? Avoid cologne entirely. If you want smell-good stuff, shave and use good aftershave.
Legit advice my ass.
[QUOTE=loopoo;45500637]Legit advice my ass.[/QUOTE]
Aftershave closes pores, makes your skin feel nice and smooth, and it smells awesome. It's leaps and bounds better than using cologne. And it's cheaper too.
You're sweeping cologne under the carpet by using logic that's comparing two completely different things? Aftershave is aftershave, cologne is cologne. One isn't better than the other, they're both used for different purposes.
Most people use both aftershave and cologne. You can get smell-good stuff that way, too.
Legit advice: wear whatever makes you happy, whether it's cologne, aftershave, or even axe. More power to you.
Aftershave generally has a less powerful smell so it's more safe IMO (as someone who knows very little about man-scents).
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All I know is I'd rather not be able to smell someone I'm not up close and personal with.
It's a good rule of thumb that you should only smell it within arms reach. Girl dominant classes smell like shit because nobody is allowed to tell each other they smell like shit, while guys here get ridiculed if they overdo it.
There are several floors dedicated to "women" classes, and you can't breathe in there.
[QUOTE=loopoo;45490662]Fuck group assignments. We have a project due in tomorrow worth 5% overall. I put so much effort into my part of the project, because I really want to get as close to full marks as possible (I need it badly to progress, and every little percent will help). I did so much, formatted the whole project, put an awesome table of contents and headings and graphs and tables, spent a good 3 days at the library doing my questions... And then 2 of the 4 teammates hand in their section that they literally put 10 minutes into. The other dude and me are kinda bummed, cause now we're gonna get a shitty grade.
I should have hassled them more to send it in a week ago, rather than trusting them. People suck.[/QUOTE]
At my school you get individual grades, its to prevent people from doing jackshit and getting A's
I did a group assignment with a guy who didn't jack shit but we drove around and he took photos on his expensive camera just to use it for the website we were making, I got like a B overall and he got a D.
I had some pretty good documentation where he didn't, if I did it solo my marks would of been higher, group assignments can definitely lower your expected mark
Going to start highschool exactly one month from now. All I know about high school is from shitty teen movies like "Mean Girls". Rewire my brain with info.
[QUOTE=Radical Rebel;45502651]Going to start highschool exactly one month from now. All I know about high school is from shitty teen movies like "Mean Girls". Rewire my brain with info.[/QUOTE]
High school is nothing like what movies make it out to be. People don't get shoved in lockers, kids don't get stuffed in trash cans, and teachers (usually) don't get involved with students. There's also rarely any gangs or gang-related activity.
There are these things called cliques. They're social classifications that kids in a high school group themselves into. Most high schools have a multitude of easily identifiable cliques. These range from jocks and preps to skater kids and nerds, and they always stick out. Want to find nerds in your high school? At lunch look for a table full of pasty white kids. They're the nerds. If you want to find people who like video games, that will be way more difficult since we vary in apperance. I've noticed that people with similar interests have a tendency to come together naturally, so chances are, on your first or second day you'll already have a few friends (or at least acquaintances).
People don't actually care about dances or who gets voted for prom king or queen. "Popularity" isn't really a thing. I mean, yes it is. But it's not how it's portrayed in movies. At my high school there wasn't a single girl or guy who was followed by a legion of mooks who just wanted to ruin someone's day. In my high school, the "popular" girls and guys were actually very friendly and approachable.
Contrary to popular belief, high school is not like prison and it's nothing to worry about. For me it was the best 4 years of my life. Before you know it you'll be making good friends, people you'll be talking to years after graduating. It's a nice experience.
But this all depends on where you are. And that's the sad truth.
High school may suck your freshman year because you're not used to the workload, you get talked down to in sports(in my experience), and you usually arent the same general maturity level as most of the kids in the other grades, but the rest of high school is actually pretty fun. From sophomore year on, it's just felt a lot more enjoyable over all, since you usually find a clique you can fit into in your first year of it.
Basically, if it sucks the first year, don't worry because it gets a lot better.
Okay so I have a problem, and I think this is the place to ask for advice.
I have a girlfriend who keeps trying to change who I am. She tells me to stop when I make stupid faces on Skype, tells me I shouldn't put on wigs to mess with her, and that I need to be more passionate to her. This in itself isn't a problem for me, she's nice and we get along good in person. But I have another issue.
She's stupid as hell. Like, she's the kind of person that makes you feel like a scholar when you talk to them. She's asked me things like, "What does passive-aggressive mean?", "What does > mean?", and tons of other shit like that. I'm honestly on my last leg here. Having to constantly explain what you just said to someone gets tiring.
I don't want to break up with her, but I also can't stand it much longer. Am I just being a petty douchebag?
[QUOTE=Radical Rebel;45502651]Going to start highschool exactly one month from now. All I know about high school is from shitty teen movies like "Mean Girls". Rewire my brain with info.[/QUOTE]
I'd help you but I know Australia high school systems is very different to America
But here, the first years are kinda shit but once you find a group of mates you're covered. Also another thing is that the workload you get will gradually increase as the years go on (I'm finding this out since I'm in year 12)
If the movies are true, America high schools have cliques or whatever where groups are made throughout the school (Jocks, cheerleaders/asshole girls, nerds, inbetweeners etc.) I don't know. I find that shit ridiculous. In Australia everyone is friends and if anyone starts that "I'm too good for you" bullshit they normally get shit on because that's not how we roll
[QUOTE=fruxodaily;45502869]If the movies are true, America high schools have cliques or whatever where groups are made throughout the school (Jocks, cheerleaders/asshole girls, nerds, inbetweeners etc.) I don't know. I find that shit ridiculous.[/quote]
The cliques are pretty much the one and only thing that high schools and a prison have in common. It's actually really interesting to see how students classify themselves and divide amongst one another.
Radical Rebel, if you're lucky you'll end up in the clique that has no clique. It's objectively the best one there is.
Bank account took a hit recently as my doctor informed me that what I assumed was just syphilis turned out to actually be a friction burn on my dick, much like an Indian burn that Ricoh used to give me (he's not even Indian). So after my enormous co-pay apparently now I have to buy lube as well, so basically what I'm trying to say here is that with a friction affliction you'll want an interdiction or conviction for the restriction of constriction upon your jurisdicktion
[QUOTE=Squidman;45502923]Bank account took a hit recently as my doctor informed me that what I assumed was just syphilis turned out to actually be a friction burn on my dick, much like an Indian burn that Ricoh used to give me (he's not even Indian). So after my enormous co-pay apparently now I have to buy lube as well, so basically what I'm trying to say here is that with a friction affliction you'll want an interdiction or conviction for the restriction of constriction upon your jurisdicktion[/QUOTE]
This is the remix to ignition, hot and fresh from the kitchen, pop tarts for breakfast because I can't afford college tuition.
[sp] I'm sorry to hear about your dick [/sp]
[QUOTE=haloguy234;45502885]The cliques are pretty much the one and only thing that high schools and a prison have in common. It's actually really interesting to see how students classify themselves and divide amongst one another.
Radical Rebel, if you're lucky you'll end up in the clique that has no clique. It's objectively the best one there is.[/QUOTE]
This never happens in Australia, I socialise with just about every group in the school and so does everyone else, we never divide ourselves because we have strong school spirit. I'm pretty sure British high schools also follow this path as well.
When I hear about American education it just seems so fucked up from my perspective
My American high school had groups of friends, but we didn't really have cliques. Probably because it was a small school. There weren't enough of the same kinds of people to form a stereotypical clique.
Also people didn't have enough of an identity to do that. Everyone tried to be exactly the same. Again, probably because it was a small school in a small town.
Never had that experience you see in the movies/tv shows.
[QUOTE=Radical Rebel;45502651]Going to start highschool exactly one month from now. All I know about high school is from shitty teen movies like "Mean Girls". Rewire my brain with info.[/QUOTE]
High school: "We're preparing you for becoming an adult and entering the workforce! No, you're not allowed to go to the bathroom. No, you can't take sick days. Make sure you stay in a single file line so we don't lose any of you during the 10 foot trek across the hall."
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Other than that, it's fine if you don't mind being stuck in a cesspool of angry emotions with a ton of pubescent teenagers who think anything that you like and they don't like is dorky.
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;45503205]High school: "We're preparing you for becoming an adult and entering the workforce! No, you're not allowed to go to the bathroom. No, you can't take sick days. Make sure you stay in a single file line so we don't lose any of you during the 10 foot trek across the hall."
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Other than that, it's fine if you don't mind being stuck in a cesspool of angry emotions with a ton of pubescent teenagers who think anything that you like and they don't like is dorky.[/QUOTE]
Well damn, we could do all that shit once we got past 5th grade.
Second part is pretty much universally true though.
[QUOTE=Meller Yeller;45503249]Well damn, we could do all that shit once we got past 5th grade.
Second part is pretty much universally true though.[/QUOTE]
We had 10 sick days across an entire school year in HS. Each student had a planner issued to them and had to get a fucking signature every time they needed to pee, with a limit of 10 for the year (usually each teacher would only allow you one or two throughout the year).
I dropped out early in 10th grade because I was getting regular migraines and my school system wouldn't accommodate it in any way. Still really glad I got a GED and got an early start on college instead.
[QUOTE=MilkBiscuit;45502857]Okay so I have a problem, and I think this is the place to ask for advice.
I have a girlfriend who keeps trying to change who I am. She tells me to stop when I make stupid faces on Skype, tells me I shouldn't put on wigs to mess with her, and that I need to be more passionate to her. This in itself isn't a problem for me, she's nice and we get along good in person. But I have another issue.
She's stupid as hell. Like, she's the kind of person that makes you feel like a scholar when you talk to them. She's asked me things like, "What does passive-aggressive mean?", "What does > mean?", and tons of other shit like that. I'm honestly on my last leg here. Having to constantly explain what you just said to someone gets tiring.
I don't want to break up with her, but I also can't stand it much longer. Am I just being a petty douchebag?[/QUOTE]
You shouldn't be dating someone you look down on.
[QUOTE=MilkBiscuit;45502857]Okay so I have a problem, and I think this is the place to ask for advice.
I have a girlfriend who keeps trying to change who I am. She tells me to stop when I make stupid faces on Skype, tells me I shouldn't put on wigs to mess with her, and that I need to be more passionate to her. This in itself isn't a problem for me, she's nice and we get along good in person. But I have another issue.
She's stupid as hell. Like, she's the kind of person that makes you feel like a scholar when you talk to them. She's asked me things like, "What does passive-aggressive mean?", "What does > mean?", and tons of other shit like that. I'm honestly on my last leg here. Having to constantly explain what you just said to someone gets tiring.
I don't want to break up with her, but I also can't stand it much longer. Am I just being a petty douchebag?[/QUOTE]
Don't cling onto something just because it's easy.
Well fuck I went to work today and was told at the end of my shift I was fired because I wasn't able to get my head around my job
Supposedly I took a long time dicking around getting orders finalised before I made it out the door to deliver it despite the fact I was always on time except for a few rare occasions
I really wasn't trained either in customer service and only delivery but even so I didn't get a lot of time to get my head around it was quite sudden
But hell, for a first job I'm rather proud I got that far and now I'm going to try and find better work just to get some income pumping into my bank account
Just wanted to post this somewhere that's all
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