Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT

[Zar]

ask them anything really. i like cats and a lot of people do... so i ask them if they like cats.

or you can always do the "so.... Giraffes..... too tall?"

[editline]21st August 2014[/editline]

this girl i have been hanging out with a lot is so nice. never been happier tbh

[Loopoo]

if some dude I didn't know came up to me during induction week and broke the ice by asking me if I like cats, or cracking the ol "so... giraffes... too tall?" randomness joke, I'd end up avoiding you. that's pretty weird.

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=loopoo;45755510]if some dude I didn't know came up to me during induction week and broke the ice by asking me if I like cats, or cracking the ol "so... giraffes... too tall?" randomness joke, I'd end up avoiding you. that's pretty weird.[/QUOTE]

I think they can work as an ice breaker, provided conversation after that point is pretty average, not continual weird random things

[Squidman]

[QUOTE=Rhenae;45747191]What the hell did you do man, its not that hard to keep hair dye off things wow.
Is it a temporary or permanent dye? If its permanent your pretty much screwed, bleach anything you can I guess[/QUOTE]

We decided to take a bath together in a very small tub. The dye is temporary but still lasts for a few months. I got it mostly off my skin but some of my clothes and towels look like a crack team of smurfs ejaculated on them. Pretty much the only time in my life that I wished I owned more Blue's Clues apparel.

[Kindlinho]

I swear this fellow is like a real-life version of Fallout's "Wild Wasteland" perk!

[Jo The Shmo]

[QUOTE=Rhenae;45755688]I think they can work as an ice breaker, provided conversation after that point is pretty average, not continual weird random things[/QUOTE]

it can work if you're a normal person who knows how to make conversation, but keep in mind the target demographic of this advice

[Loopoo]

Just got my acceptance letter to the university I wanted, so happy right now. Really can't wait to meet a tonne of new people this September. I'm feeling a bit socially desperate, since this past year has consisted of being with lots of Chinese / Malaysian / Indonesian students who have English as their second language. It's been really tough, cause of the whole different cultural mindset and stuff.

[Zar]

[QUOTE=loopoo;45768203]Just got my acceptance letter to the university I wanted, so happy right now. Really can't wait to meet a tonne of new people this September. I'm feeling a bit socially desperate, since this past year has consisted of being with lots of Chinese / Malaysian / Indonesian students who have English as their second language. It's been really tough, cause of the whole different cultural mindset and stuff.[/QUOTE]

Man I'm so happy for you right now. Seriously, going to a new school (where I'm living) and meeting so many new people has really made my life better. I'm dead serious when I say I have NEVER been this happy before. Goal is pretty clear for me right now. I'm just gonna improve myself, and I feel good about it. Our school is pretty strict, and swearing is frowned upon, I've realized how terrible I sound when I talk normally. It's already gotten a lot better. This is also good since it's an international school.... and if people from other countries overheard us speaking danish they would hear blabla FUCKING FUCKER blabla fuck blabla fucking blabla. I'm home this weekend and I already miss all my new friends

[FlashMarsh]

my norwegian friend said how fucked up danish sounds then I didn't realise until I heard it again and jesus christ isnt it painful to speak like that all the time

[Zar]

norwegian is danish's retarded and autistic stepbrother

[editline]22nd August 2014[/editline]

[QUOTE=loopoo;45755510]if some dude I didn't know came up to me during induction week and broke the ice by asking me if I like cats, or cracking the ol "so... giraffes... too tall?" randomness joke, I'd end up avoiding you. that's pretty weird.[/QUOTE]

the giraffes one was a joke but seriously who doesnt love cats??? talk about cats to me please

[Guy Mannly]

So I don't know where to ask this (fitness subforum too scary) and it's only tangentially related to "social advice", but I've decided I need to start going to a gym again instead of working out at home and I'm super nervous about it. The part that's most intimidating for me is that I'll probably have to start by using my campus weight room for at least a few weeks, which has limited hours, might be crowded, and I could end up seeing people that I know from class etc. I've never been in there so I have no idea. I'm planning to do SL 5x5 and am kind of worried about having improper form or generally looking like an idiot seeing as I haven't used a barbell before.

Also, I know there are a few people who visit this thread who lift, I'd love to chat with some of you on Steam or something! My boyfriend isn't really interested and I have a few questions and could use some advice on some things.

[Big D Duchovny]

[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;45770885]So I don't know where to ask this (fitness subforum too scary) and it's only tangentially related to "social advice", but I've decided I need to start going to a gym again instead of working out at home and I'm super nervous about it. The part that's most intimidating for me is that I'll probably have to start by using my campus weight room for at least a few weeks, which has limited hours, might be crowded, and I could end up seeing people that I know from class etc. I've never been in there so I have no idea. I'm planning to do SL 5x5 and am kind of worried about having improper form or generally looking like an idiot seeing as I haven't used a barbell before.

Also, I know there are a few people who visit this thread who lift, I'd love to chat with some of you on Steam or something! My boyfriend isn't really interested and I have a few questions and could use some advice on some things.[/QUOTE]

From my experience with gyms (though it isn't extensive by any meaning of the word), literally no one cares if you look dumb/sweaty and can't lift any weight at all (not that this would in any way reflect me). If you have improper form, I think it's more likely that you're gonna get a heads up than a snide remark.

[Zar]

I really like this girl so much. I think she likes me too. We have been spending a lot of time together, and my roomies said they think that she likes me back. . I've already been alone with her a couple of times, we left the schools area and went for a walk alone, sat on a bench just the two of us all alone and looked at the nature for some time which was nice. Later I was gonna say goodnight to her so I kinda did a hug gesture since everyone did it on the hall, we both jokingly agreed it was a little awkward but not so bad and the next day she went up and hugged me before I went home for the weekend. I think we actually have a thing but I don't want to misinterpret anything, she is very down to earth and is such a quiet and relaxed person.

[fruxodaily]

This girl really likes me and we only know each other through tinder, she's got a great personality and is very attractive in my mind

Problem is she's 71km away, I'm filled to the brim with assignments and I won't see her until October because she's going to Perth to see some concert for a week or two

It feels good knowing someone cares about me despite being a fair distance or even if they're a stranger, but it feels odd cause I normally steer clear from these sort of Internet things

I guess it's different cause we live in the same state but only just very further up the road

[Magic Scrumpy]

snip

[Loopoo]

-snip cause you snipped aww man-

[FlashMarsh]

I know you snipped but I think you have social anxiety. Even for socially awkward people, that's not normal.

[TrannyAlert]

I posted about some girl a while ago but it got overlooked

I ended up FUCKING ASKING HER OUT

Like the thread title says and we've been out 4 times now and it's pretty cool.

I really like her and I think/hope the feeling is mutual but I keep having that voice in the back of my head telling me I'm not good enough or she'll find someone else or she'll lose interest. So annoying.

This is my first relationship of sorts with a girl so

[LoneWolf_Recon]

[QUOTE=TrannyAlert;45789024]I posted about some girl a while ago but it got overlooked

I ended up FUCKING ASKING HER OUT

Like the thread title says and we've been out 4 times now and it's pretty cool.

I really like her and I think/hope the feeling is mutual but I keep having that voice in the back of my head telling me I'm not good enough or she'll find someone else or she'll lose interest. So annoying.

This is my first relationship of sorts with a girl so[/QUOTE]

I know what you mean, that little voice is irritating but normal. Don't let your self doubts eat you, take the reins and you'll accomplish alot in your first relationship.

I'm about to ask out a close friend of mine and getting over the first hurdle and past the 'notice-me-senpai' part was weird, but doable.

[junker154]

[QUOTE=TrannyAlert;45789024]I posted about some girl a while ago but it got overlooked

I ended up FUCKING ASKING HER OUT

Like the thread title says and we've been out 4 times now and it's pretty cool.

I really like her and I think/hope the feeling is mutual but I keep having that voice in the back of my head telling me I'm not good enough or she'll find someone else or she'll lose interest. So annoying.

This is my first relationship of sorts with a girl so[/QUOTE]

That's awesome, enjoy the time together and have a great time.

[TrannyAlert]

Thanks guys.

These feelings are getting to be a pain though. I can't see her that much due to us working totally different shifts so I usually have to book a half-day off work to see her. All I wanna do is see her and it just grinds at me more that I gotta wait so long.

[RocketRacer]

So the girl that added me on FB from my school after seeing me once on the bus - we're still chatting pretty much everyday(it's been 20 days or so) and I'm waiting for her to return from her holiday so we can finally meet properly in person. Only 5 days left aksdhasjd,

Also since we're in same school and same year group I expect that we'll be able to meet in-school really often.

[TrannyAlert]

[QUOTE=RocketRacer;45803422]So the girl that added me on FB from my school after seeing me once on the bus - we're still chatting pretty much everyday(it's been 20 days or so) and I'm waiting for her to return from her holiday so we can finally meet properly in person. Only 5 days left aksdhasjd,

Also since we're in same school and same year group I expect that we'll be able to meet in-school really often.[/QUOTE]

It looks promising. How far have you got with talking and I hope you haven't talked too much since conversation will be dry by the time you meet in person.

[Intenso]

[I]I toss and turn and think of her,
Her ebon locks, her pale flesh,
Her smile and the fire of her heart.
She was my light of day,
Now my night of strife,
Forever changing my life.[/I]

She was a crazy bitch... but she was [I]my[/I] crazy bitch. It's been two months now and I still think of her every single day. So much so that I think of verses like these ones when I'm trying to sleep.

[RocketRacer]

[QUOTE=TrannyAlert;45803521]It looks promising. How far have you got with talking and I hope you haven't talked too much since conversation will be dry by the time you meet in person.[/QUOTE]

nah she likes to change the subject while on text quite often, so it should be fine in person.

[haloguy234]

So I decided to man up and tell my [sp]stepsister[/sp] how I feel and everything went better than expected. Now I wish I had said something when she was still here, but oh well.

And I just want to clarify, [sp]I do not want to stick my dick in her holy shit guys that's really weird.[/sp] We're just really close and a big contributing factor to that was how I just immediately started really, really liking her in the sweetest most caring, non-sexual way ever.

[PuduEbooks]

So, I need some help.
I can say that I'm pretty smart because I am very confident on my own abilites, I can understand easily and fast anything you put in front of me, I can perfectly comprehend physics and maths in a quite difficult way to explain, but it works for me, and in everything else, I can understand it perfectly. But my grades are going to hell for some reason, on every single test I just fail in a lot of stupid shit, and it's really, REALLY frustrating, and it destroys my mood for a while knowing that I can't do anything to fix my terrible concentration issues, and it's stressing me a lot lately, since grades are pretty damn important for your future.
Second, the fact that everyone in my house starts fighting the second I get there doesn't help at all.
I think I'm starting to have some serious stress issues, but I don't really think it's just because those two things, and I really don't want to use my girlfriend as an emotional crutch, since she is the only person I can talk to, and she's had enough for a while (we've had some problems lately, but it's good now).
I just need a rest for a while, I can safely say that my girlfriend makes me the happiest person alive, but I feel so stressed lately, specially when I'm not with her, that it's becoming very hard to handle, and it's kind of affecting my daily life and my relationship with her.
Any ideas on what can I do?

[editline]26th August 2014[/editline]

Also, I forgot the fact that my parents don't want to take me to the doctor to view the results of the exams I took due to some serious balance issues I have, it had something to do with my inner ear, and the fucking dizziness is constant and it isn't helping to cope with the stress.

[Ruso]

-snip because ridiculous-

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=Cosa8888;45810386]So, I need some help.
I can say that I'm pretty smart because I am very confident on my own abilites, I can understand easily and fast anything you put in front of me, I can perfectly comprehend physics and maths in a quite difficult way to explain, but it works for me, and in everything else, I can understand it perfectly. But my grades are going to hell for some reason, on every single test I just fail in a lot of stupid shit, and it's really, REALLY frustrating, and it destroys my mood for a while knowing that I can't do anything to fix my terrible concentration issues, and it's stressing me a lot lately, since grades are pretty damn important for your future.
Second, the fact that everyone in my house starts fighting the second I get there doesn't help at all.
I think I'm starting to have some serious stress issues, but I don't really think it's just because those two things, and I really don't want to use my girlfriend as an emotional crutch, since she is the only person I can talk to, and she's had enough for a while (we've had some problems lately, but it's good now).
I just need a rest for a while, I can safely say that my girlfriend makes me the happiest person alive, but I feel so stressed lately, specially when I'm not with her, that it's becoming very hard to handle, and it's kind of affecting my daily life and my relationship with her.
Any ideas on what can I do?

[editline]26th August 2014[/editline]

Also, I forgot the fact that my parents don't want to take me to the doctor to view the results of the exams I took due to some serious balance issues I have, it had something to do with my inner ear, and the fucking dizziness is constant and it isn't helping to cope with the stress.[/QUOTE]

What were the exams for?

[Metallics]

[QUOTE=haloguy234;45809867]So I decided to man up and tell my [sp]stepsister[/sp] how I feel and everything went better than expected. Now I wish I had said something when she was still here, but oh well.

And I just want to clarify, [sp]I do not want to stick my dick in her holy shit guys that's really weird.[/sp] We're just really close and a big contributing factor to that was how I just immediately started really, really liking her in the sweetest most caring, non-sexual way ever.[/QUOTE]

So... have you ploughed her yet?