• Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT
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[QUOTE=Rhenae;45811381]What were the exams for?[/QUOTE] Audition and balance exams, mainly pouring cold/hot water on each of your ears, wich is supposed to make you feel very dizzy, but I didn't feel a thing when they did that on my right ear, so there's clearly something wrong. My audition is perfect, though.
Hey guys. I got this story here, its gonna be a wall of text, so grab your storyhearing sitting chair, and hold on to your butts... So I've been chatting up this girl I met on facebook a few years ago. Was back when I was going through some emotional BS because of you guessed it, girls, and back then, to get up and start a new "thingamajig or watchamacallit", I just started randomly chatting girls on facebook. This one showed up. She was pretty odd in comparison to other girls. Most girls are all about swagger hip boys and fashion and "being skinny"(you'll get it in a bit) and all that usual crap you can expect girls nowadays to be attracted to. She, on the other hand, is the kind of girl who likes to play games every now and then, sort of an introvert, and the kind of girl that would made the other girls look at her and go "splugh look at her, not ONE OF US ONE OF US". She isn't extremely fucking fashionable but hangs it pretty ok, shes not extremely hot but is pretty cute, maybe a 6 or 7/10, and she'd prefer talking about cars and introvert guys with their heads straight than fashion and swagger boys. [b]At the time that I met her, this felt a bit odd to me, so I gave her a 3/10 on the crazy scale. You'll get why I'm talking about this in a while aswell[/b]. We chatted up, but didn't go far. Very casual stuff, she didn't give much interest, and neither did I, since I started talking to another "sheila" which was a huge fucking whore, and interest died down. Also stopped talking to her because she was just kind of "not giving a fuck at all" about me. To a more present setting... I had an epiphany while going out at night, finally, telling me that the kind of girl that I wanted (sheilas) was literaly SHIT, and maybe I should look for something else. My friend told me this countless times, but I always dismissed it because where the fuck would I get someone like me who didn't look like a shoe and didn't have the most fucked up life ever? (and fuck you, appearance does matter, if not just a bit) So I added her again and started chatting her up again. Curiously enough, she still remembered me, and she was mad at me for doing so. Didn't expect that. Told her I was sorry and why I did it, and she accepted it. Something that happened till then was that she didn't give a fuck about me whatsoever, but after that, that changed. We talk about random stuff thats actually pretty interesting, and I find out she isn't as strong and as "fuck everything :D" as I thought. Because her family has a couple of dicks that boss her around a whole fucking lot and because of a few other reasons, she has barely any friends and she can't go out all that much. This reminded me of myself, since I aswell only have a couple of good friends and up until I was 17 or 18, I could barely go out. I also find out her personality sort of works a bit like mine. Both of us hate most people we see as idiots, or egotistical cunts, or sheilas, for the same reasons. On top of that, I find out she prefers guys like me (more or less skinny instead of more or less buffed, or any kind of buffed at all) and that she has all these weird quirks to her, like wanting a whole body full of tatoos and piercings and shit. Almost no one her age likes stuff that way unless they aren't the usual kind of 18y old girl. At first, I kind of looked at her the wrong way because of that, like I don't really like piercings and shit, but then I just remembered I'm giving too much attention to stuff that doesn't really matters. Heres where the stuff gets more or less weird. After she told me about her hardships with her family in a conversation up to 5 in the morning, she seems to be more open to me. She doesn't goes "lol who cares fuck you :D" like she used to, and she talks and talks, and talks some more now. Then stuff got weird. She started talking about things that she really likes, like vampires(the old kind, not the Twilight shit) even going so far as saying she has a fetish for it. I found it weird, but then she went on, and explained it, and I went into "holy shit what have I found" overdrive. What she REALLY likes about vampires is all the sexual teasing part, or whatever... The bitting on the neck, and bla bla bla. Then she went further with it, and showed a more sadistic side, on how she finds it "fucking hot" to get all tied up with rope or with S&M gear and masks and shit, and even goes as far as going "what, imagine me with that corset, a collar, a gasmask and some black lace, fucking hot!". At that point, I just don't know what to think. Ofc I question her if she's fooling me in some kind of printscreen prank or just creeping me out, but whenever I asked her if she liked it, she'd never answer a yes or no. Maybe a "safeguard" from a facebook printscreen prank aswell? I just keep asking her if she's telling me the truth because... Well, despite me finding the whole S&M thing kind of weird... Yeah... You get what I'm trying to tell you... I joke about it and send a picture of a bunch of sheilas to her, and she just goes "what the fuck, you must be blind and fucked in the head if you'd rather have that over a submissive girl", which MAYBE proves it, but I'm still kind of questioning the whole thing myself. It sounds too UNGODLY GREAT to be true... On to the problems... I don't know what to do with her. She never has the chance of going out with me because of her cuntish family(or maybe she doesn't wants to go out with me, but I don't think thats the case...) and she MIGHT go to college away from me, and that would be really really crappy. I could see her on weekends but... I also don't know if I'm 100% sure on the whole sadistic business. It sounds like a "triple A+" thing on paper right now, but... would it really be? And, I kind of like her. She challenges me. She doesn't stumps up herself. She goes "that one idea of yours is crappy" and that makes me talk back to her when I see fit, and thats where I MIGHT have found her interest in me aswell, when she keeps asking "why I'd want someone like her if I keep dating blond sheilas?", and she's all around different from everything else, and the crazy meter in her is like at an 8/10, despite being (maybe?) an healthy 8 and not a psycho 8.
[QUOTE=Rocâ„¢;45817448]words[/QUOTE] I'm not getting the whole crazy bit, I've got to be honest, you haven't described anything that is scary, dangerous oreven massively out of the ordinary, more people are into that kind of thing than you'd think. Obviously it doesn't sound like your kind of thing, but I feel it's incredibly unfair to label her as crazy just because she doesn't like what you expect women to like...
[QUOTE=metallics;45817589]I'm not getting the whole crazy bit, I've got to be honest, you haven't described anything that is scary, dangerous oreven massively out of the ordinary, more people are into that kind of thing than you'd think. Obviously it doesn't sound like your kind of thing, but I feel it's incredibly unfair to label her as crazy just because she doesn't like what you expect women to like...[/QUOTE] It isn't? Never thought that kind of stuff would be anywhere near normal for anyone... I think she even likes candles and stuff. I don't mind her not looking like the kind of women I usually like, thats actually good imo. The problem here was what I mentioned as problems, and the crazy stuff, which apparently isn't that crazy at all.
Woah, not the candles. I was literally talking about the things you mentioned, not her appearance. You are labelling her as crazy because she does not fit your expectations. Think about it. "and she'd prefer talking about cars and introvert guys with their heads straight than fashion and swagger boys. At the time that I met her, this felt a bit odd to me, so I gave her a 3/10 on the crazy scale. You'll get why I'm talking about this in a while aswell." I don't see how this is at all crazy? What's to stop her wanting to talk about cars? or.. people?
[QUOTE=metallics;45818101]Woah, not the candles. I was literally talking about the things you mentioned, not her appearance. You are labelling her as crazy because she does not fit your expectations. Think about it. "and she'd prefer talking about cars and introvert guys with their heads straight than fashion and swagger boys. At the time that I met her, this felt a bit odd to me, so I gave her a 3/10 on the crazy scale. You'll get why I'm talking about this in a while aswell." I don't see how this is at all crazy? What's to stop her wanting to talk about cars? or.. people?[/QUOTE] No, I'm labelling her crazy because she likes crazy stuff, not because she likes stuff other girls don't usually like. The 3/10 I gave her was an overall from the whole kind of person she is, not related to anything in particular, as in "everyone's a bit crazy and everyone has a crazy rating", which means she didn't sound all that crazy at all. Someone starting to sound crazy would be like a 5 or something, while that 3 of hers would be a "different than usual" kind of person, which tbh is kind of crazy of finding since it feels like everyone my age is the same nowadays... But... what about the candles?
hi hello so one of my best friends is seeing some girl and i was really happy for him, i was talking to my girlfriend about it and said i was happy for him because shes a pretty girl (you can guess the tone, i was only being nice) and she wont leave it what do, obviously im not attracted to her or anything
[QUOTE=Rocâ„¢;45817448]Hey guys. I got this story here, its gonna be a wall of text, so grab your storyhearing sitting chair, and hold on to your butts... [/QUOTE] What an excruciating read, and I'm not referring to your grammar at all, I thought you were in middle school till you pointed out your age. If you think this girl's crazy, bud, you got some problems yourself. What I mostly got out of your post was that any guy that's different from you is inferior and/or a douchebag. Christ, you probably think anyone who's good-looking, athletic or built is a douchebag. I bet you throw the word sheeple around a lot. I'm not really giving advice, but geeze, just take a step back and evaluate yourself first, man. I'm not kidding when I thought a kid wrote what you wrote.
[QUOTE=drutehtkehs;45819002]What an excruciating read, and I'm not referring to your grammar at all, I thought you were in middle school till you pointed out your age. If you think this girl's crazy, bud, you got some problems yourself. What I mostly got out of your post was that any guy that's different from you is inferior and/or a douchebag. Christ, you probably think anyone who's good-looking, athletic or built is a douchebag. I bet you throw the word sheeple around a lot. I'm not really giving advice, but geeze, just take a step back and evaluate yourself first, man. I'm not kidding when I thought a kid wrote what you wrote.[/QUOTE] You probably didn't read all that well then. Where do I say that any guy that's different from me is inferior and/or a douchebag? I won't deny, there are a lot of douchebags around here, but I honestly fail to see where did I say everyone different from me is inferior. All I said is that she prefers guys like me, instead of the type of guys other girls like, some of said types being swagger boys, [B]which has nothing to do with being athletic or built or even good looking[/B]. Where the hell did I ever talk about someone being inferior or a douchebag? Or do you mean the part of "looking like a shoe"? Ever heard someone saying "its the inside that counts"? Well, first off, that would matter if blindness was a common attribute of humans, and what I meant with that phrase was that I wouldn't want the most awful looking person in the world even if she was the kindest and most perfect person inside, and thats very damn reasonable, unless you aren't an average human person. I don't know where you pulled off all of that. Oh and no, I've never described anyone as sheeple, mainly because I'm not all edgy like you're trying to be. (or anti/counter-edgy, for that matter)
It's called reading between the lines. Try it out once if you ever develop the capacity for it in your head. I didn't get that from what you explicitly said, but what your point seemed. Your post seemed really ranty with you constantly bringing up the fact that most girls like "swagger hip boys and fashion" and you boasting about not being "buff". It sounds like you're frustrated with what most girls like or what you think they like, because of you constantly bringing it up in your post. You overall sound immature tbh.
[QUOTE=drutehtkehs;45819346]It's called reading between the lines. Try it out once if you ever develop the capacity for it in your head. I didn't get that from what you explicitly said, but what your point seemed. Your post seemed really ranty with you constantly bringing up the fact that most girls like "swagger hip boys and fashion" and you boasting about not being "buff". It sounds like you're frustrated with what most girls like or what you think they like, because of you constantly bringing it up in your post. You overall sound immature tbh.[/QUOTE] You apparently didn't read my post at all then, because theres blank between the lines. You're just looking for things that aren't there, making yourself out to be an analyst. Boasting? Oh thats new... I guess this girl's so awesome that saying that I'm skinny and that she likes skinny guys is boasting now!... Yeah, you're analysing pretty badly... Just because I mention something lots of times, doesn't means I have a beef with it. Nope, can't use examples anymore, its obviously obcession and frustration. Guess that's one capacity that didn't develop all that well in your head then. And I guess you're kind of not very friendly at all either, seeing one of your bans.
alright, guys, roca's 10 year old brother obv stumbled into his fp account and started posting, nothing to see here
[QUOTE=drutehtkehs;45819516]alright, guys, roca's 10 year old brother obv stumbled into his fp account and started posting, nothing to see here[/QUOTE] Yup. I was right. Just rude AND unhelpful. Why do you keep posting anyway?
[QUOTE=Rocâ„¢;45819435]You apparently didn't read my post at all then, because theres blank between the lines. You're just looking for things that aren't there, making yourself out to be an analyst. Boasting? Oh thats new... I guess this girl's so awesome that saying that I'm skinny and that she likes skinny guys is boasting now!... Yeah, you're analysing pretty badly... Just because I mention something lots of times, doesn't means I have a beef with it. Nope, can't use examples anymore, its obviously obcession and frustration. Guess that's one capacity that didn't develop all that well in your head then. And I guess you're kind of not very friendly at all either, seeing one of your bans.[/QUOTE] I have to second what he said, but maybe in a less aggressive tone - you sound really immature from the big post above. Stuff like [quote]Most girls are all about swagger hip boys and fashion and "being skinny"(you'll get it in a bit) and all that usual crap you can expect girls nowadays to be attracted to[/quote] [quote]since I started talking to another "sheila" which was a huge fucking whore[/quote] [quote]where the fuck would I get someone like me who didn't look like a shoe and didn't have the most fucked up life ever[/quote] really makes you sound like you're halfway through high school and don't have a great grasp on how people work. The fact that you think family problems and fetishes for neck biting and S&M makes her 8/10 weird (whatever that means) just adds to that. I wouldn't bother trying to enter a relationship with her, not because of her, but because from your post, you seem too immature for it.
[QUOTE=Disseminate;45819654]I have to second what he said, but maybe in a less aggressive tone - you sound really immature from the big post above. Stuff like really makes you sound like you're halfway through high school and don't have a great grasp on how people work. The fact that you think family problems and fetishes for neck biting and S&M makes her 8/10 weird (whatever that means) just adds to that. I wouldn't bother trying to enter a relationship with her, not because of her, but because from your post, you seem too immature for it.[/QUOTE] Actually... You wouldn't believe how right I am until you knew a good few people who live around here... Think of it as "uptown girls born in silver spoon cribs with the icandobetterthanthis attitude", except without the silver spoon. You may see it as "oh you find yourself superior because you're not like X or Y and because girls don't like you" but its far, far from it. And how does whatever opinion I have about any relationship I had with someone make me immature? I think I'm at a better position to characterize the woman I've dated than anyone else, seeing how I actually dated her and actually know first hand what I had to put up with and what I WOULD have to put up with if I had stayed with her more than the time I've spent with her. If anyone's immature here, that would be her. And you didn't understand the "someone like me" part? Like, gee I don't know, someone with the same tastes as me, someone who's kind of an introvert as me instead of a party animal, but at the same time isn't bad to look at* and doesn't has a completely messed up life that would be a turn off for whatever reason or just wouldn't allow someone to be with each other. *(you can press charges on me being immature on this, but the truth is, nobody will end up with someone they don't like looking at unless they are close to dying) And what does family problems have to do with "8/10 weird"? You got everything all wrong what the hell.. You can blame the format on that, even I would yawn at it. (you can complain about that drutehtkehs) What I DID say, was that she opened up more to me, and started talking about real issues she has, like with her family and stuff. Period. And shes a [B]8/10 on a crazy scale[/B] BECAUSE meeting someone who likes S&M stuff like that around here who is also my age is a huge fucking find. and I still don't know what metallics was talking about when he mentioned the candles.
Stop trying to justify and explain your really dumb understanding of how women should act. Someone has a few quirks and is interested in things you aren't, that doesn't automatically make them weird. You use the term "introverted" to describe yourself, but I'm pretty sure you're just sheltered. Also, the massive amount of blanket statements you throw around only makes it more apparent how oblivious you are when in comes to life in general.
[QUOTE=loopoo;45821624]Stop trying to justify and explain your really dumb understanding of how women work. Someone has a few quirks and is interested in things you aren't, that doesn't automatically make them weird. You use the term "introverted" to describe yourself, but I'm pretty sure you're just sheltered. Also, the massive amount of blanket statements you throw around only makes it more apparent how oblivious you are when in comes to life in general.[/QUOTE] You either didn't read, or read but completely ignored everything I said, and just assumed I don't know how the people around me work. People with whom I've lived with for the last 20 years. And now you're telling me you know more about these people than I do. Oh no wait, those are blanket statements, so that cannot be true! I guess I'll have to trust YOU who don't even know who I'm talking about instead of trusting my own two eyes. And again, you [B]didn't read[/B], since apparently, I'm not interested in the things the person in question is, and SOMEHOW, I'm calling that weird. I guess that one thing about she digging S&M, something which is, oh I don't know, [B]somewhat of a taboo throughout the whole world[/B], isn't weird at all. Nope, not one bit, totally normal, everyone does it. You know, it's funny that you say I'm the one who's oblivious about life in general, but really, throughout all these years of watching the people pass by this forum, I could bet I'm not even close to the average poster. And yet again, nobody really answers my questions and just sticks to not reading anything I wrote, making wrongful assumptions about it and lecturing me about the people I know and live with. It never changes. I mean seriously, it's amazing how sometimes, someone makes a post saying something among the lines of "the people around here are assholes" and nobody bats an eyelash, but right now, for some reason, someone from thousands of miles away knows more about my own town and the people that live in it than I do.
[QUOTE=Rocâ„¢;45822030]You either didn't read, or read but completely ignored everything I said, and just assumed I don't know how the people around me work. People with whom I've lived with for the last 20 years. And now you're telling me you know more about these people than I do. Oh no wait, those are blanket statements, so that cannot be true! I guess I'll have to trust YOU who don't even know who I'm talking about instead of trusting my own two eyes. And again, you [B]didn't read[/B], since apparently, I'm not interested in the things the person in question is, and SOMEHOW, I'm calling that weird. I guess that one thing about she digging S&M, something which is, oh I don't know, [B]somewhat of a taboo throughout the whole world[/B], isn't weird at all. Nope, not one bit, totally normal, everyone does it. You know, it's funny that you say I'm the one who's oblivious about life in general, but really, throughout all these years of watching the people pass by this forum, I could bet I'm not even close to the average poster. And yet again, nobody really answers my questions and just sticks to not reading anything I wrote, making wrongful assumptions about it and lecturing me about the people I know and live with. It never changes. I mean seriously, it's amazing how sometimes, someone makes a post saying something among the lines of "the people around here are assholes" and nobody bats an eyelash, but right now, for some reason, someone from thousands of miles away knows more about my own town and the people that live in it than I do.[/QUOTE] oh no someone likes S&M how taboo, I can't be with someone unless they only enjoy missionary like me. I don't think S&M is taboo nowadays lol, the only thing is, you don't really talk to people about your sex habits unless you're friends. literally every person I've been with has had varying degrees of interest in S&M. it really isn't taboo. also yes you are definitely not close to the average poster, you're a good deal worse.
[QUOTE=Rocâ„¢;45822030]You either didn't read, or read but completely ignored everything I said, and just assumed I don't know how the people around me work. People with whom I've lived with for the last 20 years. And now you're telling me you know more about these people than I do. Oh no wait, those are blanket statements, so that cannot be true! I guess I'll have to trust YOU who don't even know who I'm talking about instead of trusting my own two eyes. And again, you [B]didn't read[/B], since apparently, I'm not interested in the things the person in question is, and SOMEHOW, I'm calling that weird. I guess that one thing about she digging S&M, something which is, oh I don't know, [B]somewhat of a taboo throughout the whole world[/B], isn't weird at all. Nope, not one bit, totally normal, everyone does it. You know, it's funny that you say I'm the one who's oblivious about life in general, but really, throughout all these years of watching the people pass by this forum, I could bet I'm not even close to the average poster. And yet again, nobody really answers my questions and just sticks to not reading anything I wrote, making wrongful assumptions about it and lecturing me about the people I know and live with. It never changes. I mean seriously, it's amazing how sometimes, someone makes a post saying something among the lines of "the people around here are assholes" and nobody bats an eyelash, but right now, for some reason, someone from thousands of miles away knows more about my own town and the people that live in it than I do.[/QUOTE] You're making shallow assumptions about people, end of story
[QUOTE=Rocâ„¢;45817448]Both of us hate most people we see as idiots, or egotistical cunts, or sheilas, for the same reasons.[/QUOTE] Wow! You BOTH dislike talking to people you consider stupid? You must have been meant for each other! Most of us feel the same way, we just evidently have different standards than you. [QUOTE=Rocâ„¢;45819838]You wouldn't believe how right I am until you knew a good few people who live around here...[/QUOTE] Has it occurred to you that the reason you're mostly exposed to shallow idiots (allegedly) is because those are the sort of people you attract? How can you spend this entire discussion constantly referencing scores out of 10 on a "crazy" scale and NOT think you fit right into the group you're whining about? Do you understand that simplifying someone to a number on a scale of 1-10 is the embodiment of being shallow? Most of us who are comfortable with our sexuality would run in the other direction if we heard someone call us an 8/10 "crazy" for liking something vanilla like neck-biting. Calling someone "crazy" because they actually know what their sexual preferences are tells me you probably haven't had a prolonged sexual relationship with anybody ever. Grats on your shallow, boring sex life. I hope you one day find the maturity to entertain someone's fetishes with an open mind. [editline]28th August 2014[/editline] But please, write me an essay about how I completely misread your post because nothing you've said could possibly be this dumb. Let's hear more about how this girl is an 8/10 on the crazy scale (would you say she's "hysterical"?) because she has hobbies other than cooking, cleaning, and trying to find a husband. This thread hasn't needed a lecture on women's suffrage in at least a few days.
Lol this Roca guy, since when is wanting tattoos and shit not ordinary, do you live in an amish society. Also if you've never tried light BDSM/submission with a girl, you're missing out. Don't knock it until you try it, I bet you have a few fetishes yourself. Also she obviously is into you else she wouldn't tell you about her fetish, sounds like you don't deserve her though imo. Also trust me when I say, especially in the younger era, nearly everyone has tried Sub/Dom. Also most girls enjoy one or the other, so maybe you're the one who is weird and isn't normal by trying what is turning to be a normal sexual practice.
[QUOTE=Rocâ„¢;45822030]And again, you [B]didn't read[/B], since apparently, I'm not interested in the things the person in question is, and SOMEHOW, I'm calling that weird. I guess that one thing about she digging S&M, something which is, oh I don't know, [B]somewhat of a taboo throughout the whole world[/B], isn't weird at all. Nope, not one bit, totally normal, everyone does it.[/QUOTE] how sheltered wow s&m isn't a taboo in the slightest nor is it crazy, if it's what the girl wants let her enjoy that without judging her wtf. have you been raised on mormon missionary porn your entire life or something? live a little and step outside your comfort zone for once [QUOTE=TrannyAlert;45823243]Lol this Roca guy, since when is wanting tattoos and shit not ordinary, do you live in an amish society. Also if you've never tried light BDSM/submission with a girl, you're missing out. Don't knock it until you try it, I bet you have a few fetishes yourself. Also she obviously is into you else she wouldn't tell you about her fetish, sounds like you don't deserve her though imo. Also trust me when I say, especially in the younger era, nearly everyone has tried Sub/Dom. Also most girls enjoy one or the other, so maybe you're the one who is weird and isn't normal by trying what is turning to be a normal sexual practice.[/QUOTE] this is some true stuff, bdsm/submission stuff is the coolest shit. i haven't met a single girl in the last 5 years who wasn't at least into the idea of it
[QUOTE=killerteacup;45822261]You're making shallow assumptions about people, end of story[/QUOTE] All I'm hearing is "You're wrong and I'm right about things I don't have a single drop of evidence" By your logic, aren't you making the assumption that shallow people don't exist? [QUOTE=loopoo;45822220]oh no someone likes S&M how taboo, I can't be with someone unless they only enjoy missionary like me. I don't think S&M is taboo nowadays lol, the only thing is, you don't really talk to people about your sex habits unless you're friends. literally every person I've been with has had varying degrees of interest in S&M. it really isn't taboo. also yes you are definitely not close to the average poster, you're a good deal worse.[/QUOTE] Jesus what is it with you and reading? Seriously, what the fuck, I just asked if that wouldn't be too much of a hassle or if anything would come up involving that. Are you making up whatever I read as you write your posts? That's the thing. YOU don't think. YOU. The world doesn't revolves around YOU. Me and my life doesn't revolves around YOU, so pardon me for thinking that stuff around here is slightly different than whatever life YOU live which apparently is a life where you half-assedly read posts and assume shit that isn't even there. [QUOTE=Guy Mannly;45822866]Wow! You BOTH dislike talking to people you consider stupid? You must have been meant for each other! Most of us feel the same way, we just evidently have different standards than you. Has it occurred to you that the reason you're mostly exposed to shallow idiots (allegedly) is because those are the sort of people you attract? How can you spend this entire discussion constantly referencing scores out of 10 on a "crazy" scale and NOT think you fit right into the group you're whining about? Do you understand that simplifying someone to a number on a scale of 1-10 is the embodiment of being shallow? Most of us who are comfortable with our sexuality would run in the other direction if we heard someone call us an 8/10 "crazy" for liking something vanilla like neck-biting. Calling someone "crazy" because they actually know what their sexual preferences are tells me you probably haven't had a prolonged sexual relationship with anybody ever. Grats on your shallow, boring sex life. I hope you one day find the maturity to entertain someone's fetishes with an open mind. [editline]28th August 2014[/editline] But please, write me an essay about how I completely misread your post because nothing you've said could possibly be this dumb. Let's hear more about how this girl is an 8/10 on the crazy scale (would you say she's "hysterical"?) because she has hobbies other than cooking, cleaning, and trying to find a husband. This thread hasn't needed a lecture on women's suffrage in at least a few days.[/QUOTE] And people call me sheltered... Everyone rates anyone with a #/10 at least once in their life, no matter how shallow they are. That's like, the lazy person's 101 of rating stuff, aka evaluating anything with just a number instead of saying "its this, its that, its good, its bad, bla bla bla". The ammount of attention put up in that by you guys is astonishing. And AGAIN, someone who read my first post with hands covering eyes... Remind me of where I said "she likes neck bitting, shes a crazy 8/10!" instead of "she's into sadistic stuff with ropes and candles, sounds like a 8/10 crazy" ? No really, go read my post again, and tell me where I say neck bitting is being crazy. I mean, fuck, everyone in my town loves sadistic stuff right? Everyone loves it and actively talks about it! Theres dungeons everywhere aswell and doms on the street! Totally not strange at all to find someone that likes and talks about it! It's a normal hobby for sure! Who cares about sports and reading and watching TV and shopping and whatever else can be a hobby! Domination is the main one! [QUOTE=Dysentery;45823939]how sheltered wow s&m isn't a taboo in the slightest nor is it crazy, if it's what the girl wants let her enjoy that without judging her wtf. have you been raised on mormon missionary porn your entire life or something? live a little and step outside your comfort zone for once this is some true stuff, bdsm/submission stuff is the coolest shit. i haven't met a single girl in the last 5 years who wasn't at least into the idea of it[/QUOTE] Has it occured to you that, instead of calling me sheltered, you could think that s&m stuff MIGHT BE something pretty regular where you live, but it isn't here? I've never met a single person who didn't look at the thing the wrong way. [QUOTE=TrannyAlert;45823243]Lol this Roca guy, since when is wanting tattoos and shit not ordinary, do you live in an amish society. Also if you've never tried light BDSM/submission with a girl, you're missing out. Don't knock it until you try it, I bet you have a few fetishes yourself. Also she obviously is into you else she wouldn't tell you about her fetish, sounds like you don't deserve her though imo. Also trust me when I say, especially in the younger era, nearly everyone has tried Sub/Dom. Also most girls enjoy one or the other, so maybe you're the one who is weird and isn't normal by trying what is turning to be a normal sexual practice.[/QUOTE] For once, someone who actually helps me and sheds some light on it ffs... And I didn't say wanting tattoos is out of the ordinary. A full body covered in them however, might be. (oh, here comes the lecturing) Ofc I've never tried BDSM with a girl. That's not the most normal thing in the world to do in a relationship, not at least around here. And I'm not knocking down the possilibity of it. If people actually bothered to read my first post carefuly, they'd stumble upon the line where I say I find the whole thing a bit weird, but ultimately might like it a lot aswell. Stuff like that isn't quite normal around here. [b]This is what I've been trying to say for a while already and asking for advice on the matter, but everyone is busy overanalyzing my posts and telling me I'm this and that.[/b]
Well you're probably thinking BDSM is like black gimp suits and tying someone up and shoving a fist in their ass But it's more like lightly choking the girl while banging her or spanking or tying someone up with rope by the arms/legs BDSM is strange, when you get serious with it
you're such a tool
[QUOTE=loopoo;45824838]you're such a tool[/QUOTE] Wow you're so much help. Really, why did you even start posting if all you're doing is criticizing, calling me names and not giving the least it of help while going "I know more about the people you live with than urself"? Your title really fits you indeed. [editline]28th August 2014[/editline] [QUOTE=TrannyAlert;45824804]Well you're probably thinking BDSM is like black gimp suits and tying someone up and shoving a fist in their ass But it's more like lightly choking the girl while banging her or spanking or tying someone up with rope by the arms/legs BDSM is strange, when you get serious with it[/QUOTE] Not shoving a fist in someone's ass... More like the first 2 options you said, since she has stated interest in them. And candles. [B]For fuck sakes will someone tell me what's the deal with candles? Everyone's criticizing and calling me a douchebag and thinking everyone and everything is the same and only their ideas are right, and I STILL don't know why metallics said candles were "whoa"[/B].
[QUOTE=Rocâ„¢;45824869][B]I STILL don't know why metallics said candles were "whoa"[/B].[/QUOTE] sarcasm
[QUOTE=Disseminate;45824989]sarcasm[/QUOTE] Oh, thought that was supposed to be some messed up shit other than dripping hot wax or something.
So here's a weird thing I need advice for. Long story short, my mom had a seizure while driving and totaled her car. Nobody else was hurt and she's fine now, but we did do a bit of damage to someone else's property. Weird thing is, the daughter of the family whose property was damaged has the same medical issue, so they're super nice and understanding. Even sent us flowers. So we want to return the favor since they're good people, and aside from fixing all their shit which is mostly in the hands of the insurance anyway, what would be a good thing to give to a family to say "hey, we think you're good people and want to thank you for being understanding about what happened?"
[QUOTE=Disseminate;45824989]sarcasm[/QUOTE] This. [editline]28th August 2014[/editline] [QUOTE=Rocâ„¢;45825003]Oh, thought that was supposed to be some messed up shit other than dripping hot wax or something.[/QUOTE] I dunno though, have you tried asking her? Maybe she likes to eat them or something? I don't understand your point, you come in to a forum full of international people, give absolutely no background about something you perceive as vital to understanding your entire post, argue it out for quite some time and then go OH MY GOD HOW COULD YOU GUYS NOT KNOW THIS??? Get overly hostile about the whole thing and then complain when you get no advice. My advice: Stop being a muppet. [editline]28th August 2014[/editline] [QUOTE=Protocol7;45825105]So here's a weird thing I need advice for. Long story short, my mom had a seizure while driving and totaled her car. Nobody else was hurt and she's fine now, but we did do a bit of damage to someone else's property. Weird thing is, the daughter of the family whose property was damaged has the same medical issue, so they're super nice and understanding. Even sent us flowers. So we want to return the favor since they're good people, and aside from fixing all their shit which is mostly in the hands of the insurance anyway, what would be a good thing to give to a family to say "hey, we think you're good people and want to thank you for being understanding about what happened?"[/QUOTE] Flowers, box of chocolates, card. Standard stuff really, maybe a nice bottle of wine instead of flowers? I don't know.
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