Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT
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I should of listened to all of you telling me to stay away from my ex. I'm such a fucking idiot for hanging out with her again. I told her to never come back to me again. I just set myself up to get hurt
[QUOTE=TehMentos;45916487]Then don't fix it and instead keep having a nice friendship with her.
Don't keep on trying to get in a relationship with her, when she's already turned you down. It's unlikely you're ever going to be succesful, and you're putting the friendship at risk anyway.
So my advice is: Don't chase her, it generally turns into a series of polite rejections.
Sounds like you value the friendship, so keep it that way. Who knows, she might change her mind later, but don't try to actively change it for her.[/QUOTE]
Well the thing is, we have like a weird thing going on already where we're not dating, but we pretty much act like it. It's definitely more than just a friendship. We go out to places together, we kiss, and act intimate. She just says there's cons to us being in a relationship, and one of them happens to be my inexperience, and she doesn't want to move into a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship too fast.
[QUOTE=Exigent;45921560]Well the thing is, we have like a weird thing going on already where we're not dating, but we pretty much act like it. It's definitely more than just a friendship. We go out to places together, we kiss, and act intimate. She just says there's cons to us being in a relationship, and one of them happens to be my inexperience, and she doesn't want to move into a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship too fast.[/QUOTE]
Considering you guys are already doing exactly what a bf/gf relationship is it sounds kinda like she just wants the option the bail/ get with other guys without needing the break up with you or specifically consider it cheating. But I guess that could just be my reading of those words
I didn't get any answers in the other thread for this kind of stuff, so i wanted to post it here.
So I have a sort-of problem and i'm not sure what's wrong with me. I've been in dating this girl for about a month now and all has been pretty good so far. But there are two things that are kind of bothering me:
1. I've had anxiety for a few years which causes me to feel a complete sense of dread anytime the thought of socializing of any kind comes up. Most of the time I manage to go out and it's not bad once I meet people, but if someone invites me to a party I get really shaky and stuff in the hours leading up to it. With my girlfriend, I feel the same way before hanging out or doing something and it makes me feel horrible because it's not fair to her. I just don't know how to fix this.
2. People have been asking me the old "how are you and X" questions a lot, which I'm not surprised by. The problem is that some of her friends message me and say "I just talked with her, she really really likes you", and while I like her too it makes me feel like she likes me more than I like her, if that makes sense. So a lot of the time I feel like I'm not 100% into it which makes me feel bad.
She's also my first girlfriend so this is all kind of new to me, so yeah. I guess I'm just venting but I thought that posting might help me feel better or could be good for getting advice.
So, I've got a little bit of an issue. Actually, it isn't even an issue. If anything, [B]I'M[/B] the issue. I don't know what's wrong with me or what I'm feeling and I'm mostly posting this to vent and maybe come to my own conclusions, but if anyone has anything to say I'd appreciate it.
I'm a pretty open-minded guy. For a long time now I've consciously not let my own opinions and believe get involved when I'm listening to other people, which probably started when I started frequenting Facepunch. Yeah, yeah, [I]ohhh i'm saying something good about myself gee i wonder why i think that[/I], well, that's the way it seems and my friends generally wouldn't say I'm closed minded. I try. I don't care about religions, I'm not religious, I'm not really atheistic, but people can believe whatever they want. I've never cared. In fact, I see how good religion can be for people, and I think it's awesome. It's gotten my own Father through a lot of shit. But now something different has happened and I'm so, so confused.
For the past week or so in texting my girlfriend of a bit more than a year who is now living in another city for college, she's been using words like faith, saying she has faith in things, stuff like that. Last night (being the night of the 6th) she said she was going to church with her best friend who she's rooming with, who is a pretty hard-core christian, the next day. Not wet foot christian, but her family is christian, she grew up with it, it's a part of who she is, sort of thing. Doesn't talk about it, etc. I confronted my girlfriend about it, asked what's up with that, I really didn't care, then she told me that yeah, she had been talking to her friend about it and said she came to her own conclusions (it wasn't pushed on her or anything), and she didn't know how or when to tell me. For some strange, unknown reason, I suddenly started to freak out. I was just, I didn't know what to say. I told her it was good for her and I'm glad she had something to help her through everything, and that she need not explain herself to me because it's her choice and has nothing to do with me. I mean, I was happy she had this, college has been hugely stressful on her. But at the same time, I felt... heartbroken? That's sort of what it felt like. For the rest of the night my face was that of a deer in headlights.
I haven't talked to her all day. I know that's stupid and the worst thing I could do but I just don't know what to say to her. I SHOULD just ignore it and move on, knowing and respecting her choices, but I feel...disconnected. I feel like half of our relationship is just, wrong, or something. Maybe it's because we used to share the same religious views, but now suddenly she just switched up and believes in something completely different; something we used to share we now completely differ on. Maybe I feel like she's someone else completely. I really don't know. I've really never felt like this before, and I don't understand why I feel like anything. Like I said, I don't mind religions. It's good for people and I don't judge based on it. But now that my Girlfriend is suddenly Christian? I don't know. Should I just try not to think about it? It's hard. It's not like I suddenly don't love her, certainly not. I just... can't see her being christian. I would never leave her for this or anything like that, that's ridiculous and never even crossed my mind. I just don't know how to handle this. I don't know how to process it. This ordeal seems so stupid but it's apparently a very real problem for me. I don't know what to do.
So I've met this Irish girl while waiting for a bus at the bus stop, and she just so happened to ask my friend and I for directions. Afterwards, we had small talk, and I asked her for her FB, and my friend asked for her number.
She had added me just a day ago, now I regret not asking for her number. I don't want to be creepy and get it from my friend, so I'm thinking of asking her on FB for her number. How do I go about doing that? Also, I have no other intentions besides to be friends. I want to get clear on this.
And also, how would I go about getting back as friends with my old friends? I have them on facebook, but years of not talking has sort of made them 'acquaintances'. How could I get them back as friends then? I know this sounds silly, but its really hard to just ask them out for a chat. The last thing I want is for my facebook friends to remain as FB friends.
Well if you have no intentions other than being friends just ask for her number straight up.
You could bullshit about how you're never on facebook or something
[QUOTE=blerb;45914348]Big post[/QUOTE]
Wow dude, just wow. That seriously fucking sucks. I don't know if there's anything I can say that would make you feel much better about this situation. I don't know how I would handle it but I don't think I would handle it well.
But considering this is the advice thread the only advice i can give you is finding a job that isn't with her. Quit the cannabis too. Cannabis isn't bad on its own but it doesnt sound like it would do you a lot of good right now. If you can get to a therapist, do. Do that, then go to court for the right to see your son.
[editline]8th September 2014[/editline]
[QUOTE=riku2211;45922688]So, I've got a little bit of an issue. Actually, it isn't even an issue. If anything, [B]I'M[/B] the issue. I don't know what's wrong with me or what I'm feeling and I'm mostly posting this to vent and maybe come to my own conclusions, but if anyone has anything to say I'd appreciate it.
I'm a pretty open-minded guy. For a long time now I've consciously not let my own opinions and believe get involved when I'm listening to other people, which probably started when I started frequenting Facepunch. Yeah, yeah, [I]ohhh i'm saying something good about myself gee i wonder why i think that[/I], well, that's the way it seems and my friends generally wouldn't say I'm closed minded. I try. I don't care about religions, I'm not religious, I'm not really atheistic, but people can believe whatever they want. I've never cared. In fact, I see how good religion can be for people, and I think it's awesome. It's gotten my own Father through a lot of shit. But now something different has happened and I'm so, so confused.
For the past week or so in texting my girlfriend of a bit more than a year who is now living in another city for college, she's been using words like faith, saying she has faith in things, stuff like that. Last night (being the night of the 6th) she said she was going to church with her best friend who she's rooming with, who is a pretty hard-core christian, the next day. Not wet foot christian, but her family is christian, she grew up with it, it's a part of who she is, sort of thing. Doesn't talk about it, etc. I confronted my girlfriend about it, asked what's up with that, I really didn't care, then she told me that yeah, she had been talking to her friend about it and said she came to her own conclusions (it wasn't pushed on her or anything), and she didn't know how or when to tell me. For some strange, unknown reason, I suddenly started to freak out. I was just, I didn't know what to say. I told her it was good for her and I'm glad she had something to help her through everything, and that she need not explain herself to me because it's her choice and has nothing to do with me. I mean, I was happy she had this, college has been hugely stressful on her. But at the same time, I felt... heartbroken? That's sort of what it felt like. For the rest of the night my face was that of a deer in headlights.
I haven't talked to her all day. I know that's stupid and the worst thing I could do but I just don't know what to say to her. I SHOULD just ignore it and move on, knowing and respecting her choices, but I feel...disconnected. I feel like half of our relationship is just, wrong, or something. Maybe it's because we used to share the same religious views, but now suddenly she just switched up and believes in something completely different; something we used to share we now completely differ on. Maybe I feel like she's someone else completely. I really don't know. I've really never felt like this before, and I don't understand why I feel like anything. Like I said, I don't mind religions. It's good for people and I don't judge based on it. But now that my Girlfriend is suddenly Christian? I don't know. Should I just try not to think about it? It's hard. It's not like I suddenly don't love her, certainly not. I just... can't see her being christian. I would never leave her for this or anything like that, that's ridiculous and never even crossed my mind. I just don't know how to handle this. I don't know how to process it. This ordeal seems so stupid but it's apparently a very real problem for me. I don't know what to do.[/QUOTE]
Fear of change
Ive got responces for Blerb (particularly large) and Riku but typing on my phone is a massive pain in the ass, and the bf has my laptop for school so Ill be back to do that later if someone else doesnt say it better first
Some douche stole 100g of weed to a close friend of mine and we're about to hit him hard. However, I fear this might spring psychotic feels on me. What do?
That girl I posted about a while ago, we're going out officially now.
So yeah follow the advice on the thread title and all will go well.
My first girlfriend too which is awesome.
I completely despise my ex girlfriend and feel nothing but hatred towards her. She was a mistake and I never should of let her into my life. Everytime I hear her name I get sick to my stomach. I wish I never met her. Does anyone else feel this towards an ex?
I've been thinking if I should post this for a while now, but I've finally decided on doing so. I'm been primarily a lurker here on Facepunch and I hardly post, in fact, the last time I posted was years ago.
Don't know whether to post this on Love Advice or the Depression thread since it's both linked but I've gone with this since it's mostly based on a relationship that I had.
I'm trying to make this as short and simple as possible.
So I met this girl last year November at a party, she looked fine as hell and me being drunk, got the courage to ask her for her number. We've been contacting ever since then, going home together from school and basically spending a lot of our time together. All these while we've been "dating" I guess, without the commitment attached to it. We would do simple, sweet things together like holding hands, she'll always lie on me on the bus and we'd give pecks to each other. It's been going on till early January where we went to a party, got drunk and made out for the first time. Immediately after the incident, she told me she regretted kissing me and maintained that we only stay as friends, and she established that we cease contact for a week to give each other some time. So I did, until she texted me two days after and we started talking all over again. This is when we started dating seriously, till about April where suddenly she told me, "Hey I don't feel the same to you anymore, I think I might have lost my feelings for you." I felt devastated of course; but part of me still wanted to try and get her back.
We took things slow and it progressed again back to the point we were before. Again, about a month later, she told me, "I don't feel the same anymore, there's been a lot I've been thinking of. Is it okay if I left without saying anything? Or should I just stay and feel pain now?" I got worried as fuck as I'd thought she'll leave me again, so being the usual me, I persisted and kept trying until she stayed and we dated seriously, almost on a whole new level till end July. That's when she dropped the bomb, saying "I don't feel the same anymore." ( Yeah the same things she told me months ago ) This time, I asked why, and she said she isn't really looking forward to anything right now and she said I didn't have time for her, which wasn't true. Although I'm working part-time and schooling, I'd always find time for her at least 2 times a week. She said she got bored of the things we did too. I tried to end it, then she kinda said she was crying, her feelings haven't faded completely and I was the guy she loved most, and a whole lot of things about how she'll always be there for me, with a goodbye at the end. I did my best to get over her, concentrate on my exams and she texted me and asked why didn't I contact her. We've been talking, and the fact that she left me kinda made my depression go into a downward spiral all over again.
From years ago I've been battling depression due to family circumstances and I wasn't a very happy person to begin with, until she came and I did feel happy when with her ( w/o all the shit of course ). Yeah I've been on medication again, suicidal thoughts are coming in and just when I thought I had fought depression off, it came back with a huge blow to me.
Obviously now this is a one-sided affair where she doesn't have any feelings for me anymore and I'm the guy with too much investment in the relationship. We met for a while after 2 weeks, and we both kissed again. Two days later, she says she's not coming back anymore and it has been like that ever since. Since then, my depression has really taken the toll on me and I've tried to jump down multiple times, only to have the fear of pain stopping me, guess I'm kinda a wuss. Just weeks ago, she asked, "Will your depression go away if I came back to you like normal?" That really got my hopes back up, because nothing else really makes me happier than her, other than cooking and video games. But as you can guess, it's been a rollercoaster and soon after she said she wasn't coming back. I started drinking, sitting on top of rooftops and just wondering whether if it'll be better if I end it all and really wallowing in my own sadness because I don't know how to pick myself up.
Just yesterday I saw her hugging another guy, hanging out at the place we used to hang out together. She saw me and I couldn't bare to look at them, and I ignored her and she went to talk to me. Being emotional and all, I told her to just back away and told her that she'll be happy if I die. She looked drunk and so did the guy. It's kinda fucked up because I can't control what I said just now, and it was merely an outburst of emotion and anger.
I went home, told her how I felt about me being used, and the guy told me to stop texting her and harrassing her. I was slightly tipsy by then and I said shit to her, mean things like calling her a player and all that shit. I'm going to move on but I need help to forget it all.
Now this was my second relationship and it was a relationship where I gave my all, that's why you see how frustrated and heartbroken I am after this incident.
(sorry for the long blog post, I finally can find the words to concrete my thoughts. )
[QUOTE=Crpto2007;45925061]I completely despise my ex girlfriend and feel nothing but hatred towards her. She was a mistake and I never should of let her into my life. Everytime I hear her name I get sick to my stomach. I wish I never met her. Does anyone else feel this towards an ex?[/QUOTE]
Try to view it as a learning experience. Whatever happened in that relationship will leave you with red flags to look for in the future, as well as teaching you a lot about compatibility and relationships in general.
I still have all this resentment towards her. I really just wish I could just erase her from my mind completely
[QUOTE=Crpto2007;45927097]I still have all this resentment towards her. I really just wish I could just erase her from my mind completely[/QUOTE]
I wish I could erase her from my mind completely too. It's 5:21am from where I live and I can't stop thinking about it.
So I found out the girl was basically leading me on. I explained to her I felt like I was wasting my time wanting a relationship. It basically wound up with her explaining how she saw the cons outweighed the pros, but she wanted to stay friends. But then, she texts one of my closest friends and invites him to chill because she wants to talk to him about how I just ended it with her. I'm so confused.
I just wish the girl I'm chatting with could at least once not to meet her bestbest friend so we could meet instead and that she didn't ignore messages when I say/propose any meeting but answers to any other message.
Like what was the point of even adding me in the first place if you are bound to that friend completely
Sometimes I just feel like killing myself and I can't help it.
[QUOTE=Exigent;45927148]So I found out the girl was basically leading me on. I explained to her I felt like I was wasting my time wanting a relationship. It basically wound up with her explaining how she saw the cons outweighed the pros, but she wanted to stay friends. But then, she texts one of my closest friends and invites him to chill because she wants to talk to him about how I just ended it with her. I'm so confused.[/QUOTE]
That sounds crappy, it sucks to be led on and it does sound like she was messing with you if you were "behaving" like boyfriend and girlfriend but she's now decided against it. However you should also be glad she's been clear about wanting to stay friends since now you can just move on from it. Don't be resentful that she wants to talk to someone, even your close friends, about it.. that shouldn't be confusing either, I'm sure she just wants reassurance she's done the right thing. If you meant she's telling him that -you- broke it off with -her- then that's shitty but you might have that wrong, she might have been talking vaguely, and overall if she is telling him that's what happened it's best to just ignore it and move on. As long as she doesn't start making up anything else just take the high road and forget about it, it's not worth the stress any more.
[QUOTE=RocketRacer;45927217]I just wish the girl I'm chatting with could at least once not to meet her bestbest friend so we could meet instead and that she didn't ignore messages when I say/propose any meeting but answers to any other message.
Like what was the point of even adding me in the first place if you are bound to that friend completely[/QUOTE]
Sounds like she's just not that into you. Unless you're already in a relationship why shouldn't she see her best friend when she wants to? And I'm assuming when you talk about adding you mean on facebook, not OKC, in which case it means literally nothing and the point in adding you was probably so she could talk to you online, not a commitment to going on dates. Basically if she's ignoring messages about meeting up she probably doesn't want to meet up.
Ended up spending most of the day with the girl I like because this week at my university is the week where all the clubs set up tables and try to get people to join and this afternoon she had to watch one of the tables for a club we're both members of so I decided to just stay there with her until my next class. It was a little awkward for me though because her two best friends were there so I didn't get to talk to her as much as I had hoped, but it was still nice to get to spend a few hours with her. And when I was leaving to go to my next class I asked her out for a coffee date next week because she's going to be busy all this week and is already doing something with her sister on the weekend.
And yes, I know what to do on a date. Talk, flirt, be interested in what she has to say, I've done this all before with her. I just kind of want to make more of a move than that to just clearly show her that I'm interested. Is three dates too soon to try to kiss someone? Taking into account our last date was 4 months ago because we didn't get to see each other over the summer.
I hope I meet a girl one day who isn't fucked up
[QUOTE=Crpto2007;45927907]I hope I meet a girl one day who isn't fucked up[/QUOTE]
Same.
Though I gotta wonder, does it say something about myself if I only attract fucked up girls?
[QUOTE=Crpto2007;45927907]I hope I meet a girl one day who isn't fucked up[/QUOTE]
Don't worry about it. Everyone has said this before, take it as a learning experience. It's bitter sweet to say that because we've all had relationships we wished we never took part in or we wish they had worked out. The important thing is to not let yourself get sick and cynical.
You can miss a lot if you aren't paying attention to what is in front you. You really have to keep moving forward. Certain days are better than others, that's a given, but if you depend on someone else to make you intrinsically happy, you're only setting yourself up for failure.
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So I made a mistake, and now I know never to do this again.
There was a girl, who I was interested in but had no idea how I was going to "court". Well, somehow one day I just asked her out, turned out she felt the same way, but nothing really happened because of her parents. We continued flirting, talking, etc, and the plan was ( and she knew, through her friend, getting to that ) that I was going to attempt to ask her out again and see if we could start dating the next school year. So everything was going alright. I just had to wait around for 8 more months and keep her into me.
Now the mistake that I made was that I became close friends with her best friend in an attempt to stay close to her. Let's call her friend Kate. So me and Kate worked at the same place, and eventually she heard through the grape vine that I asked out her friend and all that. From then on, she was pretty much always trying to help in some way or another. I played along with it because I figured that it might work, which was a terrible idea.
Kate began pushing us together to the point of making this girl uncomfortable, and I tried my best to stay distant but she was honestly becoming a nuisance. Kate would tell her friend everything I did; everything. She would create facebook chats, add us both, and then leave. She would call her and then hand the phone to me and walk away. Pretty much just creating all sorts of really shitty awkward encounters which were not helping the situation at all. When the summer came, the girl just kind of felt more distant. I attempted to talk to her, but it just wasn't happening. The girl also told Kate that she was pushing us together too much, but apparently that wasn't enough to stop her.
Now all throughout the summer, me and Kate were still working together. So it was a continuous stream of her bothering her friend about me 24/7. I told Kate to fuck off but it wasn't really working. I pretty much gave up when I called the girl for the 5th time that summer and she didn't pick up. I broke all contact with Kate and just started ignoring her. After a few months of ignored texts and calls and even ignoring her when she says hi to me in public, I think she got the message.
Fast forward 8 months since I asked out this girl, and it's a new school year. I really cleaned myself up ( lost a lot of weight, reworked the wardrobe, new haircut, everything ), and it's only been a few days but we've exchanged a few glances and at least some form of attempt to talk to each other. I blame myself a lot for screwing up things with her, but I'm optimistic that I have another chance to hopefully work things out. I am never going to become friends with a girl just to get close to another girl.
Just wanted to vent a little bit.
I had a ridiculously good day today and just wanted to share.
- I've been stressed as hell about my kickboxing class because it just doesn't work with my schedule and realized last night that I can drop it and take nutrition online next semester to get that credit out of the way. Without that class, I'm taking 9 credits of fun classes with professors I love that I'm actually enjoying, along with a public speaking class that hasn't turned out anywhere near as bad as I thought it would be.
- I brought in left over cupcakes from D&D last night ([url=http://imgur.com/gallery/9wsnt]pics[/url]) to my speech class as well as my lit class and they ended up being a huge hit in both. In my lit class, several people ended up agreeing to make this a regular thing, and started a facebook group so we can coordinate what treats we bring in to future classes.
- I made a few friends in my speech and lit classes and actually was able to go up to some random people in my class and just start chatting with them without it being a big deal for me (which it usually is because I used to be pretty shy).
- My boyfriend's mom told me that she talked to one of her friends and her friend is going to let me teach her 6 year old piano. She's going to pay me $10 a lesson for it (which is fantastic because I wasn't expecting to even charge money when I'm starting off).
- My boyfriend's family gave me $100 today. I'm not sure why but now I have $100 in cash. Planning to surprise my bf with Eddie Izzard tickets for this winter since he happens to be performing an hour away from us and he's a huge fan.
- And finally... I felt really pretty today. Had a good hair/skin day.
Without my kickboxing class, it feels like a Thursday right now... I'm just unbelievably relaxed about everything academic. It's so nice having a semester without any math, science, or government classes.
[QUOTE=RocketRacer;45927217]
Like what was the point of even adding me in the first place if you are bound to that friend completely[/QUOTE]
That means fuck all, stop acting like it's the same as five dates and a relationship. If someone you chatted with always has a reason not to see you, they probably don't want to see you.
[editline]9th September 2014[/editline]
I'm not saying you're stupid for thinking it meant something, but adding people from OKC and so on doesn't mean they have decided, and your conversations after she added you might make her decide not to meet you.
[QUOTE=killerteacup;45923523]Fear of change[/QUOTE]
yeah after a lot of thought and discussion with my girlfriend I think that sums it up pretty well.
Now I'm having depression drama and I'm still having trouble coping with this. Not only is the change freaking me out and making me feel wrong thinking about her sexually, I realized that this is the only thing she's changed in her life on her own since we've been together. She's changed a ton since we started out, but it was all stuff that I helped her changed, or things that I got her to change. It wasn't like I was changing her as a person, but stuff like self-esteem issues that i helped her get out of. But now, she's made a huge change in her life of her own volition, and I had nothing to do with it, and I think part of me doesn't like that. I think part of what it is is that I don't want her to change unless [B]I[/B] want her to, and god that makes me feel awful.
I've been really depressed all day, I feel like a horrible person. I also realized that whenever she talked about praying, it was just jarring to me. I think I think Christianity is just...stupid. And I don't want to. I've been tricking myself into thinking I'm some super-tolerant coolguy because I so badly don't want to be a bad guy. I say things and justify myself constantly trying not to look like a bad person, and I'm trying so hard not to right now. But the truth is, I think I find all of it to be really dumb. And I feel like an absolutely shitty person for that. And now that my Girlfriend is part of it all it seems like she just pulled a 180, going from being someone who thinks like me and someone that I can connect to to someone who does these things that I find so ridiculous and believes in things so different from me. I feel so disconnected from her. I'm hating myself a lot for all of this, I really don't want to be this kind of person but I am and I can't do anything about it. I suddenly feel the need to just... NOT be me. I can't believe who I am and I hate that person.
I feel absolutely powerless, I feel like a terrible person, and I want to be able to just accept the whole religion thing and go back to normal, but I just can't. I don't know what to do at this point.
[QUOTE=killerteacup;45923523]Wow dude, just wow. That seriously fucking sucks. I don't know if there's anything I can say that would make you feel much better about this situation. I don't know how I would handle it but I don't think I would handle it well.
But considering this is the advice thread the only advice i can give you is finding a job that isn't with her. Quit the cannabis too. Cannabis isn't bad on its own but it doesnt sound like it would do you a lot of good right now. If you can get to a therapist, do. Do that, then go to court for the right to see your son.
[editline]8th September 2014[/editline]
Fear of change[/QUOTE]
Thanks. I've already got another job, and I've been trying to cut back on the pot use as well.
I currently can't afford therapy, and I'm not insured, so it's currently not a choice. I would have been going to a therapist a long time ago if it were an option. I am going to see my family doctor soon though, so I'm hoping he can provide some alternatives. Just acknowledging my problems helps a lot, though. I don't have anyone to talk about my personal issues, so it's nice to get it out there, regardless of whether people respond to it (or even read it.)
Are there any websites that provide pyschological resolutions to common personal issues? Most personal issues are too complex to solve without psychiatric help I'd assume, but it would be nice to understand some of the common elements of these complexes.
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