Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT

[Squidman]

[QUOTE=Remedial Math;46162675]Tried that, couldn't find her on facebook. Checked the name along with people who go to the school but she didn't set it as her school, apparently. for all I know she doesn't have one.

Oh well, I know she's cool so if she's some sort of weird mutant blob at least we can be friends and everyone wants friends[/QUOTE]

Even mutant blobs probably have attractive friends (citation needed)

Also, if she really is a mutant blob please to obtain a DNA sample. I can wire you money on delivery

[Remedial Math]

decided to grab lunch today instead

i'm going in expecting shrek in a wheelchair, and knowing this school there's like a ~40% chance that's accurate. if it's not, then yay for me

[Taepodong-2]

[QUOTE=Psygo;46162553]as far as I know Denmark is just a bunch of drunks at my age, no clue where to go.[/QUOTE]

Hi, welcome to my life living in a medium sized city in a very rural part of Canada

[Dooskington]

[QUOTE=Remedial Math;46164362]decided to grab lunch today instead

i'm going in expecting shrek in a wheelchair, and knowing this school there's like a ~40% chance that's accurate. if it's not, then yay for me[/QUOTE]

Good luck man.

[drutehtkehs]

[QUOTE=Remedial Math;46164362]decided to grab lunch today instead

i'm going in expecting shrek in a wheelchair, and knowing this school there's like a ~40% chance that's accurate. if it's not, then yay for me[/QUOTE]

post pics after

[Taepodong-2]

[QUOTE=drutehtkehs;46164788]post pics after[/QUOTE]

unless she does turn out to be shrek in a wheelchair, then don't

[Behemoth_PT]

[QUOTE=Remedial Math;46151419][hd]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QZuOKUrwoys[/hd][/QUOTE]

Flawless system.
Used it many times.

It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia changed my love life forever.

[Loopoo]

Absolutely loving uni right now, meeting so many nice people.

We completed an assignment today and we all had to queue up to get it checked and officially signed off by the lecturer. We're a class of [I]150.[/I]

I sat in queue and said "Welcome to Hell, enjoy your stay" when this group joined the end of the queue where I was. It caused a bunch of us to laugh, and we went from an antisocial queue to all of a sudden everyone chatting and joking and laughing. I shared a few mints around, and cracked a few jokes about how I hoped it'd make the wait less painful. Everyone was saying "yay now we get to wait with minty breath", it was really funny.

I met a bunch of people and hit it off with all of them. A second lecturer came to the back to start signing off our worksheets, and I asked him if he accepted bribes: "Chocolates? Flowers? You seem like a chocolates kind of guy" and he replied with "I'll accept money" and then called us too cheap for his price, and I said "careful, now, I've got witnesses who'll back me up when I tell the other lecturer you were going to take bribes", we all laughed about it and he said "keep it on the hush hush".

I absolutely love the way lecturers treat us. We had a really squishy emotional induction lecture, and one of the toughest, don't-take-no-shit lecturer told us "You'll refer to us by our proper titles now, but we hope that by the time you graduate, you'll refer to us by our first names as our colleagues". Very touching!

[Remedial Math]

ok so she wasn't shrek in a wheelchair but she was a lesbian so that's unfortunate, i guess i can't tell what flirting is over text which is not that bad

she's really cool though and she's basically a bro so i've made a lesbro so that's ok i guess

[rammaster]

I just feel so alone in my college. No one ever talks in class and it feels weird to start conversations when it's dead quiet in the class. There is this girl I've been meaning to talk to in class but I dunno, I just always just not say anything... It's just so quiet in class.

[343N]

i need you guys' help/advice
basically to say it in a sentence, at school I'm paranoid I'm doing something wrong and that I'm gonna be judged negatively for it
like i'd be at school and i'd want to say things but i just won't, and sometimes when i approach my friends i don't say anything at all and say as little as possible just so i don't say something stupid and be shat on for it.
for example, i told my best friend about this, and i said to him 'sometimes when i come up to you i think "am I coming up at the right time?" or "do i look stupid doing this" and sometimes "am i standing too close to him" and he's my best friend. I'm not like that anywhere else with him though, just at school
rarely do i actually feel 'free', as in, I would just speak whatever came to mind when i felt like it without doing any of the stuff i just described. this usually is good for me because when it happens i find that people laugh and want to talk to me and since i dont talk much that makes me feel really good. also this kind of anxiety only really exists at school.
i want this to go away, i've had it since pretty much the start of year 8 (in year 10 now)

[killerteacup]

[QUOTE=Rammaster;46171119]I just feel so alone in my college. No one ever talks in class and it feels weird to start conversations when it's dead quiet in the class. There is this girl I've been meaning to talk to in class but I dunno, I just always just not say anything... It's just so quiet in class.[/QUOTE]

YOU need to make that push when it comes to college and shit

trust me, everyone is waiting for one person to pipe up because they're all too nervous to do it themselves

[Remedial Math]

to clarify, you mean nobody talks BEFORE class, right? because if you're considering beginning a conversation in the MIDDLE of class, then don't do that

[editline]7th October 2014[/editline]

also what school are you going to where no one talks? that's just weird

[Banandana]

A school for the deaf

[editline]7th October 2014[/editline]

That would be weird if no one talked before class but it depends on the time of day. Morning classes are typically really quiet

[rammaster]

[QUOTE=Remedial Math;46177262]to clarify, you mean nobody talks BEFORE class, right? because if you're considering beginning a conversation in the MIDDLE of class, then don't do that

[editline]7th October 2014[/editline]

also what school are you going to where no one talks? that's just weird[/QUOTE]

Yeah before class, not a lot of people talk and just sit around looking at their phones. I mean sometimes there's some chatter but not really much.

but anyways, I did talk to that one girl I mentioned before and talked about our presentations because we have similar subjects. Yeah, I guess I do just need to stop talking myself out of talking to people because it's not that bad lol.

I mean I know how to talk to people and shit but I' m just really bad at just approaching people and I've just been in such an anti-social mood in the past few months that now I want to be social I just freeze up.

[Taepodong-2]

So this girl I'm kind of friends with but don't really talk to that much even though we have a class together just randomly decided to message me on Facebook and ask how my semester is going. 99% sure she's just being friendly but I guess it means there are some people who are willing to talk to me and care about what's happening in my life.

[Dooskington]

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;46179203]So this girl I'm kind of friends with but don't really talk to that much even though we have a class together just randomly decided to message me on Facebook and ask how my semester is going. 99% sure she's just being friendly but I guess it means there are some people who are willing to talk to me and care about what's happening in my life.[/QUOTE]

Yeah, It's kind of fun when that happens. A girl who I have known for 3 years but never had a conversation with just started messaging me and now we talk every night about whatever. Friendly people are cool.

[Banandana]

I'm just going to put this here:

I'm annoyed by the large amount of shallow shit people post on facebook, and how everyone has at least 1000 friends on facebook so their statuses get at least 20-50 likes. It's not the case that I wish to be like them, but more of the fact that I wished facebook wasn't a shithole filled with people trying to scale up the network of friends they have. I mean hell, if I wanted shit quality posts, I could have gone to 9gag. It's just really stupid because I know people are smarter than what they post, and no one seems to have any actual personality on facebook. Maybe I'm just being sour about it, but I donno.

I guess I should lay off of using facebook for a while. I stopped for a long time and I guess this is what happens after opening it back up.

[editline]8th October 2014[/editline]

That and it seems like I don't have anyone that I'm really close to anymore. After having broken up with my ex, I just don't see a lot of appeal in hanging out with people. It's not like I'm grieving over the breakup, I've moved on. It's just...meh

Seems like a lot of people are just kind of boring. Maybe I have too much hate for people. That and being into computers and whatnot, the only people I ever seem to meet into this stuff are a bunch of sweaty and annoying nerds with little social values.

[Taepodong-2]

Well I talked on Skype with that girl from Ukraine I'm friends with. I knew it would probably be pretty awkward, but it was more awkward than I was expecting because she has a really thick accent when she speaks English, made worse by her sounding kind of nervous and trying to hide it behind laughing, and I don't talk very much. But all in all it was pretty good and we are going to do it again, but hopefully next time isn't going to be so awkward.

I don't know why I'm even posting about this in this thread there's not really anything I need advice on about this and I'm not actively pursuing a long distance relationship with her. I guess if anything I want to know if it's normal for the first time you speak to someone you've met online and only spoken through to text up to this point to be really awkward, regardless of whether they have a really bad Ukrainian accent or not.

[Banandana]

I know a lot of people in Japan and talk to them on skype. From experience, the first couple minutes are somewhat awkward, but after that, you kind of get over it. It gets easier to talk to them, trust me on that.

[editline]8th October 2014[/editline]

They also sometimes have a really heavy accent as well.

[editline]8th October 2014[/editline]

It's totally normal

[Loopoo]

-Happily venting!-

[Remedial Math]

A friend wanted to try meeting friends with the subreddit. I told her that was a bad idea, she disagreed. She met with like four people this week.

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[Daniel Smith]

I really like this one girl but she says shes 'in love' with a famous person who doesn't even know her, what do I do?

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=Daniel Smith;46195686]I really like this one girl but she says shes 'in love' with a famous person who doesn't even know her, what do I do?[/QUOTE]

As in she said that in response to something you said or just in normal conversation?

Because I am personally infatuated with Tom Hiddleston but that does not effect my ability to have a real life relationship :v: people just say stuff like that

[Dooskington]

So, what the hell are you supposed to do at a club? I'm going to some event at a club with a friend of mine some night this weekend. I have no idea what to expect or what to do, anything I should be aware of? I just want to have a good time.

[Remedial Math]

how open are you to drugs because that will significantly increase your enjoyment

[Taepodong-2]

[QUOTE=Daniel Smith;46195686]I really like this one girl but she says shes 'in love' with a famous person who doesn't even know her, what do I do?[/QUOTE]

If she's older than 16, chances are she doesn't mean anything serious by it.

[Minimole]

[QUOTE=Remedial Math;46195971]how open are you to drugs because that will significantly increase your enjoyment[/QUOTE]
Never do this.

[Remedial Math]

oh no it's a terrible idea, but it will technically make you enjoy it more

[Daniel Smith]

[QUOTE=Rhenae;46195764]As in she said that in response to something you said or just in normal conversation?

Because I am personally infatuated with Tom Hiddleston but that does not effect my ability to have a real life relationship :v: people just say stuff like that[/QUOTE]

She just brings him up randomly

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;46196056]If she's older than 16, chances are she doesn't mean anything serious by it.[/QUOTE]

She's 16 so maybe idk