Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT

[Mr. Hale]

[QUOTE=Rhenae;40741298]Stop this immediately it's dumb bullshit, and [B]read the thread title[/B].[/QUOTE]

Ok, snipped it.

[Newbienice99]

Everytime I find someone who I am interested in, they wind up already being in a relationship, engaged, or in one case, a lesbian.

It's somewhat annoying.

[RocketRacer]

So the school is basicly over, but there are still exams to attend to. I am a friend for almost whole class of mine(except the people who I personally refuse to talk), so there is a girl that I was friends with, with a good relationship, and for the last couple months I weirdly felt that I started to like her. So now I'm wondering, should I either try to ask her out(and I am almost sure that I will get a big nope right in my face) and try to remember this for the exams, or wait until the last exam passes and then ask her out? I know it's a very weird question, but just would like to know your opinion.

Why am I sure that I will get a big nope? Because in Februrary I asked a girl(from my class as well) if she would like to meet more frequently, when I'll be back from London, and she said "no, sorry)" with that painful smiley at the end of the sentence, because we were good friends for couple of years. After this, I feel like being an awful person to meet and contact with, even though the girl I like now(as well as all the others in my class) are [I]really[/I] friendly to me.

I think I've told you a little bit more than I should. Fuck, typing this made me sad.

[johnsten]

[QUOTE=RocketRacer;40742126]So the school is basicly over, but there are still exams to attend to. I am a friend for almost whole class of mine(except the people who I personally refuse to talk), so there is a girl that I was friends with, with a good relationship, and for the last couple months I weirdly felt that I started to like her. So now I'm wondering, should I either try to ask her out(and I am almost sure that I will get a big nope right in my face) and try to remember this for the exams, or wait until the last exam passes and then ask her out? I know it's a very weird question, but just would like to know your opinion.

[B]Why am I sure that I will get a big nope? Because in Februrary I asked a girl(from my class as well) if she would like to meet more frequently, when I'll be back from London, and she said "no, sorry)"[/B] with that painful smiley at the end of the sentence, because we were good friends for couple of years. After this, I feel like being an awful person to meet and contact with, even though the girl I like now(as well as all the others in my class) are [I]really[/I] friendly to me.

I think I've told you a little bit more than I should. Fuck, typing this made me sad.[/QUOTE]

uhhh i don't think the fact that another girl said no to you should affect your confidence about the other girl at all.

just be confident when you ask her out dude.

[rrkpp_]

[QUOTE=RocketRacer;40742126]So the school is basicly over, but there are still exams to attend to. I am a friend for almost whole class of mine(except the people who I personally refuse to talk), so there is a girl that I was friends with, with a good relationship, and for the last couple months I weirdly felt that I started to like her. So now I'm wondering, should I either try to ask her out(and I am almost sure that I will get a big nope right in my face) and try to remember this for the exams, or wait until the last exam passes and then ask her out? I know it's a very weird question, but just would like to know your opinion.

Why am I sure that I will get a big nope? Because in Februrary I asked a girl(from my class as well) if she would like to meet more frequently, when I'll be back from London, and she said "no, sorry)" with that painful smiley at the end of the sentence, because we were good friends for couple of years. After this, I feel like being an awful person to meet and contact with, even though the girl I like now(as well as all the others in my class) are [I]really[/I] friendly to me.

I think I've told you a little bit more than I should. Fuck, typing this made me sad.[/QUOTE]

Chill out dude, one girl saying no doesn't mean you aren't cool to hang out with. Just because one chick or even a bunch aren't interested in you doesn't mean nobody is. I went through a bout of rejection these past few months and just a few days ago somebody asked me out, so when someone says no, forget about it and move on to the next person!

[RocketRacer]

[QUOTE=Kopimi;40742355]Chill out dude, one girl saying no doesn't mean you aren't cool to hang out with. Just because one chick or even a bunch aren't interested in you doesn't mean nobody is. I went through a bout of rejection these past few months and just a few days ago somebody asked me out, so when someone says no, forget about it and move on to the next person![/QUOTE]

That's what I am doing right now. I don't even think about what was happenening in the past anymore with that girl, but the main question is, should I wait or not? [I](I think not, probably)[/I]

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=RocketRacer;40742380]That's what I am doing right now. I don't even think about what was happenening in the past anymore with that girl, but the main question is, should I wait or not? [I](I think not, probably)[/I][/QUOTE]

I would try before, better not to leave things to the last second.

[Zar]

I asked a girl out once, I got a "I wont say yet but I wont say no either"-maybe. Aaaaand I know no other girls that are worth using my time on, I dont know how I'd open conversation with random girls on my school lol.

[Heigou]

Tell them your peepee is stiff.

[OogalaBoogal]

I need some advice, could someone hop on steam chat?

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=OogalaBoogal;40745629]I need some advice, could someone hop on steam chat?[/QUOTE]

Were here but your too busy playing GMod to notice :v:

[OogalaBoogal]

[QUOTE=Rhenae;40746229]Were here but your too busy playing GMod to notice :v:[/QUOTE]

I'm sorry! Teacup got me sorted though, so I'm all good!

[Sientanse]

About to graduate high school in two days. Everything should be wonderful. I should probably be happy right now, I certainly know that my classmates are, but for a variety of reasons I can't be. While I don't want to cry for attention or even make my self appear as if I am making up problems... I really just need a friend right now, and sadly, I don't know where to find one that I could actually talk to or that I will see again.

[ScoutKing]

[QUOTE=Reviized;40747956]About to graduate high school in two days. Everything should be wonderful. I should probably be happy right now, I certainly know that my classmates are, but for a variety of reasons I can't be. While I don't want to cry for attention or even make my self appear as if I am making up problems... I really just need a friend right now, and sadly, I don't know where to find one that I could actually talk to or that I will see again.[/QUOTE]

Same boat, about to leave high school, and in a few months go to boot camp, ill probably never see a large portion of my friends again, or at least not for a very very long time.
Its sad to almost instantly remove a ton of people who you have had in your life for 8 years so quickly.

[disseminate]

[QUOTE=Reviized;40747956]About to graduate high school in two days. Everything should be wonderful. I should probably be happy right now, I certainly know that my classmates are, but for a variety of reasons I can't be. While I don't want to cry for attention or even make my self appear as if I am making up problems... I really just need a friend right now, and sadly, I don't know where to find one that I could actually talk to or that I will see again.[/QUOTE]

If you ever need anyone to talk with, there's usually two or three people in the steam group chat.

[Sientanse]

[QUOTE=Disseminate;40748159]If you ever need anyone to talk with, there's usually two or three people in the steam group chat.[/QUOTE]

I wind up mostly lurking most days, but I may do that. Graduation, though it is true that i won't see a lot of people ever again, normally this shouldn't be a problem as it is a regular part of being human. We grow and meet people for long periods of time and at one time or another... we part ways and go off to live different lives. However, I almost find myself just getting the ass end of a lot of stuff. In that I found it difficult to make friends throughout high school and don't even have more than one person whom I can claim to have any sort of close relationship with, and even that isn't exactly the best. This summer is going to be lonely, but I am accepted into college, so I am hoping to begin anew there without less of the problems that have tailed me since freshman year. This time of year also has just hit me especially hard emotionally due to the fact that the girl whom I had adored since freshman year, and I finally had the balls to ask her to prom and she said yes, and though I personally had a wonderful time with her, she doesn't even want to be my friend and I haven't even said a single word to her for the past two weeks, even though it feels as if I see a ghost each time she passes by in the hall now.

[ardosos]

-whoops wrong thread-

[RocketRacer]

[QUOTE=Disseminate;40748159]If you ever need anyone to talk with, there's usually two or three people in the steam group chat.[/QUOTE]
How about me? <3

[Gungar]

Could someone please come onto the chat?
EDIT: Sorted :)

[ThePinkPanzer]

Sophomore year is about to end (highschool), and I don't have a girlfriend and I am about to get a job. Mediocre grades and a small group of friends, can anyone give me advice for my junior year? I have heard nothing besides how difficult it is.

[Sientanse]

[QUOTE=ThePinkPanzer;40761314]Sophomore year is about to end (highschool), and I don't have a girlfriend and I am about to get a job. Mediocre grades and a small group of friends, can anyone give me advice for my junior year? I have heard nothing besides how difficult it is.[/QUOTE]

From a senior about to graduate, keep your friends, don't worry about love right now, and work hard. Junior year does get hard in terms of grades and in how social groups develop, but in essence, it is the beginning of high school as you will most likely remember it, and is far more enjoyable than freshman and sophomore year. Everyone's situation is going to be different of course, but junior year for me was the time that I actually became somewhat comfortable with myself and made lasting impressions on people. It goes by in a blur, but I promise you that you will have a much better time as an upperclassman than as a lowerclassman. One little bit of advice though... when prom rolls around, ASK WHO YOU WANT TO ASK. This may sound obvious, but in all seriousness, if there is someone whom you would love to go with, or even someone whom you would like to get to know better but are too scared to talk to, this would be a wonderful time to break the ice (however, prom at my school was slightly less serious than what I hear at other schools) What ever you do though, don't ask a girl because she will say yes, this is almost a guaranteed bad experience. I wound up doing this and had a horrible time at my junior prom as she blew me off and actually hinted that she hated me a few days prior to the event. However, I did ask the girl whom I adored to senior prom, and I loved every minute that I spent with her, even though things are a bit more complicated now.

[thisispain]

[QUOTE=Rhenae;40660591]If you do you must digitize it and show us :v:[/QUOTE]

[media]http://soundcloud.com/thisispain/keep-yr-boots-on[/media]

by far the best post ive ever made
id post the whole thing but after this its like 20 minutes of noise and screaming about sex (???)

[editline]24th May 2013[/editline]

what was i thinking

[killerteacup]

oh man thats great

it made me go wow, my stomach fluttered a little

[editline]25th May 2013[/editline]

cassette puns tyvm~

[BigJoeyLemons]

So today, in Drama class, my friend who encouraged me to ask out that girl I told you about a whole lot before asked said girl to our Sophomore semi-formal dance thing in a couple weeks. It sounds like a shitty event, but It sort of pissed me off that he asked her, since he knows that I've liked her for two years and I'm still having trouble with the coping. He did note to her, though, that he's not [I]interested[/I] in her, so to speak, it's just a friend kind of thing. But I dunno.

So I kind of want to go to this semi-formal now to see if he's up to something, but I can't just go by myself. This presents me with an opportunity to ask a different girl, one who I believe harbors a crush on me. I'm sort of interested in her too, so it's not like I'm gonna be a dick and use her to as an excuse to go or anything. She's kind of shy but she gets excited really easily, and whenever I mention something to her in the morning, she'll ask me about it again in the afternoon. It seems kind of like she's trying to find things to talk to me about.

This seems really good for me, though. She's starting to help me move on. A little. The thing today made my heart sink and I was in a weird mood for the rest of school, but I'm cool now.

(I'm not looking at this before I post it, so I apologize if this was a lot of writing. I tend to do that.)

[Rhenae]

If your going to go, then go to be with that girl, not to see what your friend is up to. Otherwise no matter how much you say "im not using her as an excuse to go" you are. It might not be your only reason but it is your main one.

[thisispain]

you liked her for two years and never did anything except iirc stalk her or something so he probably just thinks you lost interest or something

and you shouldnt just go "to see if he's up to something", that's creepy and weird. go if you want to go, not because you want to snoop on people.

omg stop creeping about

[ScoutKing]

[QUOTE=ThePinkPanzer;40761314]Sophomore year is about to end (highschool), and I don't have a girlfriend and I am about to get a job. Mediocre grades and a small group of friends, can anyone give me advice for my junior year? I have heard nothing besides how difficult it is.[/QUOTE]

Junior year was my best year by far. Senior year was sort of a drag for a good amount of reasons. A lot of cool people left the previous year when they graduated.

So don't piss away your junior year. and don't do what i did senior year and take 6 AP courses, even if you can do it.

[Guy Mannly]

[QUOTE=BigJoeyLemons;40770454]So today, in Drama class, my friend who encouraged me to ask out that girl I told you about a whole lot before asked said girl to our Sophomore semi-formal dance thing in a couple weeks. It sounds like a shitty event, but It sort of pissed me off that he asked her, since he knows that I've liked her for two years and I'm still having trouble with the coping. He did note to her, though, that he's not [I]interested[/I] in her, so to speak, it's just a friend kind of thing. But I dunno.

So I kind of want to go to this semi-formal now to see if he's up to something, but I can't just go by myself. This presents me with an opportunity to ask a different girl, one who I believe harbors a crush on me. I'm sort of interested in her too, so it's not like I'm gonna be a dick and use her to as an excuse to go or anything. She's kind of shy but she gets excited really easily, and whenever I mention something to her in the morning, she'll ask me about it again in the afternoon. It seems kind of like she's trying to find things to talk to me about.

This seems really good for me, though. She's starting to help me move on. A little. The thing today made my heart sink and I was in a weird mood for the rest of school, but I'm cool now.

(I'm not looking at this before I post it, so I apologize if this was a lot of writing. I tend to do that.)[/QUOTE]

a) why is it your business if this guy's going [i]as friends[/i] with a girl you like to prom
b) why are you acting shitty about him going with someone you like ([i]AS FRIENDS[/i]) when you're 100% ready to chase after a different girl
and whether or not you like the other girl, using a girl who has a crush on you as an excuse to go to prom so you can spy on another girl you like is incredibly shitty and manipulative

[BigJoeyLemons]

I'm totally not ready to go after this other girl, though. I'm in a really weird state mentally, and there's a bunch of paranoia and internal conflict that precedes this whole situation.

I'm gonna ask my friends about it at Boy's Night tomorrow. They're all more up-to-speed on my life.(We all hang out and watch movies and complain to each other on Friday or Saturday nights, it's a great time)

But yeah, thanks for telling me I'm a dick, everybody.

[Guy Mannly]

[QUOTE=BigJoeyLemons;40772456]But yeah, thanks for telling me I'm a dick, everybody.[/QUOTE]

can't tell if this is self-depracating or you're actually upset that you got called out for being manipulative

[editline]24th May 2013[/editline]

it doesn't require us to be "up to speed" on your life to know that using one girl to spy on another is manipulative