Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT

[Loopoo]

Have to say the old OP was so true (you don't need a girlfriend to be happy, be happy with your own company). It's been ages since my breakup and I reached the stage where I'm just happy being myself about 3 months ago (like how I was before I ever fell in love). Been meeting new people, going on dates with other girls, and I've sort of broken through that "she is the only one that I can truly be happy with" mentality.

Though, being honest, I know I still love her. I don't know what'll happen when I head back there this September (just finished all my exams, feeling optimistic!), but I'm fine with whatever outcome it is (whether it's us being friends again, or us not being friends). This year has been a roller coaster of emotions, but I'm happy to say things are looking up.

I've also missed you guys very much, and it's great to see the same old users still regularly post here. Hope you've all had a brilliant 6 months! Glad it's finally Summer, no more shitty exam stress.

Guy Mannly, how's the situation with your SO? Hope things are still going as nicely as they were around December buddy!

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=loopoo;40773761]Have to say the old OP was so true (you don't need a girlfriend to be happy, be happy with your own company). It's been ages since my breakup and I reached the stage where I'm just happy being myself about 3 months ago (like how I was before I ever fell in love). Been meeting new people, going on dates with other girls, and I've sort of broken through that "she is the only one that I can truly be happy with" mentality.

Though, being honest, I know I still love her. I don't know what'll happen when I head back there this September (just finished all my exams, feeling optimistic!), but I'm fine with whatever outcome it is (whether it's us being friends again, or us not being friends). This year has been a roller coaster of emotions, but I'm happy to say things are looking up.

I've also missed you guys very much, and it's great to see the same old users still regularly post here. Hope you've all had a brilliant 6 months! Glad it's finally Summer, no more shitty exam stress.

Guy Mannly, how's the situation with your SO? Hope things are still going as nicely as they were around December buddy![/QUOTE]

Loopoo!!
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Your back : D

[Leader of Me]

My girlfriend is a Mormon, which is nothing of a concern to me because I don't really give a fuck about people's religion, but her dad is really starting to get on my nerves, I kissed her and when he found out he threatened to hurt me. Sad part is she doesn't know what to believe, she has doubts about the church and she says if her dad found out she'd probably be kicked out of the house.

I feel so sorry for her.

[Guy Mannly]

[QUOTE=loopoo;40773761]Have to say the old OP was so true (you don't need a girlfriend to be happy, be happy with your own company). It's been ages since my breakup and I reached the stage where I'm just happy being myself about 3 months ago (like how I was before I ever fell in love). Been meeting new people, going on dates with other girls, and I've sort of broken through that "she is the only one that I can truly be happy with" mentality.

Though, being honest, I know I still love her. I don't know what'll happen when I head back there this September (just finished all my exams, feeling optimistic!), but I'm fine with whatever outcome it is (whether it's us being friends again, or us not being friends). This year has been a roller coaster of emotions, but I'm happy to say things are looking up.

I've also missed you guys very much, and it's great to see the same old users still regularly post here. Hope you've all had a brilliant 6 months! Glad it's finally Summer, no more shitty exam stress.

Guy Mannly, how's the situation with your SO? Hope things are still going as nicely as they were around December buddy![/QUOTE]

we all missed you! it's good to see you posting here again!
it sounds like you're becoming more independent from your ex and are trying to move on from her. looks like you've made a lot of progress since you last posted here, too. i'm happy for you.
things are going really good on my end. my bf and i moved in together at the end of december and we're still very happy together. (we don't argue and we don't get bored of being around each other, which is what i was always afraid of about marriage/moving in with a significant other). moving here was the best decision i've ever made.

[Purple Gecko]

I'm going to agree with the thread total even when I fucked up just asking her out, she wasn't interested.
Sitting around not bothering because you're afraid of rejection isn't the solution, you'll never even know that way.
Rejection stings but not enough to stop you trying in the first place.
Just fucking ask her out.

[Guy Mannly]

[QUOTE=Leader of Me;40774563]My girlfriend is a Mormon, which is nothing of a concern to me because I don't really give a fuck about people's religion, but her dad is really starting to get on my nerves, I kissed her and when he found out he threatened to hurt me. Sad part is she doesn't know what to believe, she has doubts about the church and she says if her dad found out she'd probably be kicked out of the house.

I feel so sorry for her.[/QUOTE]

all she can really do is wait until she's 18 and move out. if her parents are adamant about her following their religion then she'll just have to play along for a while.
it's a shitty situation but she'll be able to get out of it sooner or later. but while her parents are paying for bills and food it's kind of up to them.

[editline]25th May 2013[/editline]

as for him finding out you kissed - just don't let him find out in the future. don't hang out where you could get caught by her parents.

[OogalaBoogal]

[QUOTE=loopoo;40773761]Have to say the old OP was so true (you don't need a girlfriend to be happy, be happy with your own company). It's been ages since my breakup and I reached the stage where I'm just happy being myself about 3 months ago (like how I was before I ever fell in love). Been meeting new people, going on dates with other girls, and I've sort of broken through that "she is the only one that I can truly be happy with" mentality.

Though, being honest, I know I still love her. I don't know what'll happen when I head back there this September (just finished all my exams, feeling optimistic!), but I'm fine with whatever outcome it is (whether it's us being friends again, or us not being friends). This year has been a roller coaster of emotions, but I'm happy to say things are looking up.

I've also missed you guys very much, and it's great to see the same old users still regularly post here. Hope you've all had a brilliant 6 months! Glad it's finally Summer, no more shitty exam stress.

Guy Mannly, how's the situation with your SO? Hope things are still going as nicely as they were around December buddy![/QUOTE]

Hey loopoo, nice to have you back!

[ROFLBURGER]

Non regular here. I come here once in a blue moon.

I literally do not know what a friend is, like I mistake friends as just some guys I talk to in class. I thought a friend is more than that. By my definition I don't really have real life friends. I usually just hang out with them during school and nothing else. What would be a good way to ask if I could maybe hang out with them some time?

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;40779988]Non regular here. I come here once in a blue moon.

I literally do not know what a friend is, like I mistake friends as just some guys I talk to in class. I thought a friend is more than that. By my definition I don't really have real life friends. I usually just hang out with them during school and nothing else. What would be a good way to ask if I could maybe hang out with them some time?[/QUOTE]

"Hey wanna all go to see Iron Man 3?"
"Hey wanna all all hang at my house and play Halo?"
Or whatever activity you would like to go for. Just ask, its that simple.

[thisispain]

[QUOTE=loopoo;40773761]Hope you've all had a brilliant 6 months! Glad it's finally Summer, no more shitty exam stress.[/QUOTE]

ive had a terrible 6 months,you have missed so much self-loathing

[Paravin]

I feel like such a major dick. I had a real great girlfriend, and everything was almost perfect, but I couldn't keep my dick in my pants, and we broke up a few months ago, since I felt trapped in the relationship and it was seriously screwing everything up. I know that not wanting to be in a relationship isn't anything bad, but this all feels a bit sad, she was everything I could have ever hoped from in a relationship.

Anyone of you has chosen to leave or reject someone purely on the basis of not wanting a relationship? How is it working out?

[MindMuncher]

I just graduated highschool.
The past two days have been nonstop activity with various people and I was running on about three hours of sleep until this morning, but it was all fun.

Everything seems very strange now. I'm all nervous about finding something worthwhile to do. I don't feel like I'm sufficiently good at anything to do justice to it. So thinking of what I want to do in the future is suddenly even more anxiety inducing.

[editline]25th May 2013[/editline]

Maybe I'll feel better after I go to the gym. I dread it every time but I usually feel much better about the world afterwards.

[thisispain]

exercise is always good, releases endorphin and reduces stress hormones and it takes your mind off of things by giving you one intense task

[ROFLBURGER]

[QUOTE=Rhenae;40780074]"Hey wanna all go to see Iron Man 3?"
"Hey wanna all all hang at my house and play Halo?"
Or whatever activity you would like to go for. Just ask, its that simple.[/QUOTE]

Doesn't really seem that simple. My gut tells me it's more than that.

[thisispain]

the fuck does your gut know, its just a dumb tube

[ROFLBURGER]

[QUOTE=thisispain;40780868]the fuck does your gut know, its just a dumb tube[/QUOTE]

I don't know, I just like leaving a really good impression before I become friends with someone.

[Babyarm-bat]

[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;40781093]I don't know, I just like leaving a really good impression before I become friends with someone.[/QUOTE]

It's more a gradual process than just one day all of a sudden you're friends

[ROFLBURGER]

[QUOTE=babyarm-bat;40781153]It's more a gradual process than just one day all of a sudden you're friends[/QUOTE]

Yeah I know this. I'm doing this very gradually.

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;40781093]I don't know, I just like leaving a really good impression before I become friends with someone.[/QUOTE]

You don't leave a really good impression before becoming friends, you give a good impression which makes you friends. You wont really come off to them as much of a friend either if you don't hang out with them outside of school.
Whats the point of dilly dallying wasting time building the best impression you can before hand?

[ScoutKing]

[QUOTE=thisispain;40780868]the fuck does your gut know, its just a dumb tube[/QUOTE]

but it is one really large dumb tube.

[MindMuncher]

[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;40780857]Doesn't really seem that simple. My gut tells me it's more than that.[/QUOTE]

Your gut is wrong.

[Dysentery]

[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;40780857]Doesn't really seem that simple. My gut tells me it's more than that.[/QUOTE]

secret tip #1 : it's that simple

[Guy Mannly]

[QUOTE=ROFLBURGER;40780857]Doesn't really seem that simple. My gut tells me it's more than that.[/QUOTE]

it's as simple as you make it
if you make a big deal out of it you might come off as weird, treat it like it's nothing and it will be nothing.

[MaverickIB]

I have awoken.

[disseminate]

[QUOTE=MaverickIB;40785144]I have awoken.[/QUOTE]

Oh my god

[Yourself]

who?

[killerteacup]

[QUOTE=MaverickIB;40785144]I have awoken.[/QUOTE]

oh my fucking lord

[ROFLBURGER]

[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;40782548]it's as simple as you make it
if you make a big deal out of it you might come off as weird, treat it like it's nothing and it will be nothing.[/QUOTE]

I'm as weird as I can get.
I guess I can try sneaking my way into a situation, this guy forgets his lunch sometimes and I could probably offer to buy him lunch.

Don't worry I won't let him leech off me.

[killerteacup]

Also hey everyone its time to get in chat yeah okay thnx

i see all y'all online and noone in here what is this badness

[MaverickIB]

How does one enter chat.

I've been gone for a really long time.