Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT

[Patrick]

[QUOTE=junker154;46872811]There is no need to cry over a girl you have barely met over a potential date, that is quite excessive. I assure you that life will ten times more sorrowful if you do this each time. Keep yourself occupied and just be in company of people, it always helped me when I got really emotional about such stuff. Hope it helps.[/QUOTE]

it wasn't a potential date, we'd been seeing each other. I've not felt sad about girls before, whether it be them turning me down or not feeling the same way and I don't think I've cried as an adult, at least not while I'm sober. I don't know it just felt like we had something and it's just shocked me to have it taken away so suddenly. I must sound like a fool though.

[Taepodong-2]

Pretty much confirmed girl is ignoring me. I can't tell if you've seen my text and didn't respond but I can tell you've seen my facebook messages and didn't. If I don't see her any time tomorrow, I guess I can write her off.

[junker154]

[QUOTE=Pat.Lithium;46872865]it wasn't a potential date, we'd been seeing each other. I've not felt sad about girls before, whether it be them turning me down or not feeling the same way and I don't think I've cried as an adult, at least not while I'm sober. I don't know it just felt like we had something and it's just shocked me to have it taken away so suddenly. I must sound like a fool though.[/QUOTE]

You're not a fool for showing some emotional depth and having a sense of empathy towards another person.

[Remedial Math]

Damn, didn't get a chance to talk to the gril, she had to leave early. I'm torn because I'm impatient and I kind of want to just send her a message on Facebook but that's never a good idea so I'm just gonna have to wait, I guess. I hate waiting.

[Loopoo]

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;46871407]Welp, that girl still hasn't texted me back yet. If I don't hear back from her and don't see her around campus tomorrow, I'm going to have to send her a facebook message just in case something is wrong with one of our phones, and if she doesn't responded to that, looks like it's gg.[/QUOTE]

You're far too desperate, I'd honestly call it quits and just move on. The likelihood of there being something genuinely wrong with her phone is slim, she's probably just ignoring you but doesn't have the heart to tell you she's not interested.

Messaging on FB could just end awkwardly, or have her string you along because she can't tell you "I'm not interested".

[Patrick]

well my best friend came round and took me to his mum's farm and we jammed with his mum and step dad for a few hours. As soon as he came around I was back to my usual self. I'm going to get back into it this weekend.

[Taepodong-2]

[QUOTE=loopoo;46874539]You're far too desperate, I'd honestly call it quits and just move on. The likelihood of there being something genuinely wrong with her phone is slim, she's probably just ignoring you but doesn't have the heart to tell you she's not interested.

Messaging on FB could just end awkwardly, or have her string you along because she can't tell you "I'm not interested".[/QUOTE]

If that were the case I would rather have her be honest with me. Like holy fuck I'm sick of girls treating me like I'm a piece of shit and don't have feelings or something.

[D3vils Buddy]

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;46875540]If that were the case I would rather have her be honest with me. Like holy fuck I'm sick of girls treating me like I'm a piece of shit and don't have feelings or something.[/QUOTE]

ffs, stop with the mindset that all girls are out to get you or treat you like shit. She probably feels as awkward as you do.

If you're too scared to say you like her then she is probably too scared to say shes not interested in you. Some girls just don't even pick up on you liking her because she doesn't see you in that way.

You've got to stop getting so emotionally attached to people you've just met, you're getting far too involved straight away.

If you start messaging people all the time asking if they're phones working or if they've got your messages then you come across as creepy.

Just let things go as they are, you've been given advice countless times in the airsoft forum on how to handle this. You need to just relax and take it easy, if you don't get a date then you don't get a date. At least you've made a new friend then and someone you can talk to.

[Navarchus]

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;46875540]If that were the case I would rather have her be honest with me. Like holy fuck I'm sick of girls treating me like I'm a piece of shit and don't have feelings or something.[/QUOTE]

That's a massive overreaction simply because someone isn't willing to fuck you.

[Loopoo]

But Hijacks, what's the point in even being nice to girls if I don't even get to fuck them? If I wanted friends, I'd just speak to guys, [I]gosh[/I]

BEING A SUPREME GENTLEMAN entitles me to sex, otherwise the girls are cockteasing bitches!!1!

[Taepodong-2]

OK, she messaged back and I ended up running into her not that long after. She wasn't ignoring me on purpose and she seemed pretty normal. I admit I overreacted but I'm sure you guys at least kind of understand where I'm coming from. I want to feel loved and that's a normal thing for people to want.

[editline]7th January 2015[/editline]

By the way I am friends with girls I don't want to fuck thank you very much.

[Remedial Math]

no you're not

[editline]7th January 2015[/editline]

posted this once already, posting it again

[video=youtube;aJz1f8hPRGc]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aJz1f8hPRGc[/video]

[GeeOhDee]

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;46876818]OK, she messaged back and I ended up running into her not that long after. She wasn't ignoring me on purpose and she seemed pretty normal. I admit I overreacted but I'm sure you guys at least kind of understand where I'm coming from. I want to feel loved and that's a normal thing for people to want.

[editline]7th January 2015[/editline]

By the way I am friends with girls I don't want to fuck thank you very much.[/QUOTE]

Man, you have to love your self first, otherwise you're screwed.
If you love yourself, you're always going to feel loved.
You can't rely on other people for that.

[Loopoo]

I light scented candles and give myself an oily handjob on a weekly basis. If that isn't loving myself, I dunno what is.

[GeeOhDee]

[QUOTE=loopoo;46879265]I light scented candles and give myself an oily handjob on a weekly basis. If that isn't loving myself, I dunno what is.[/QUOTE]

I still take my Self out on dates, even though I have a girlfriend.

[XUZUL]

[QUOTE=GeeOhDee;46879329]I still take my Self out on dates, even though I have a girlfriend.[/QUOTE]

I will not be a perverted fuck in the presence of myself lest not seem a creep.

[Just an Alt]

Posting on an alt so it's less embarrassing for me.

I honestly look like shit, I really need to clean myself up but honestly I don't go out of the house anymore since school ended because I could just talk to my friends over skype or facebook. We live in an incredibly boring town, the only thing to really to is go to the movies but that costs too much and I don't have any disposable income, which is pretty damn bad considering I'm an 18 year old NEET.

Anyways my appearance isn't that good, people give me shit for it. I've cleaned up but not that well honestly. I just don't care and care at the same time, I don't know how to properly explain it. Pretty much all through puberty and now people said I've looked like shit and that always gets me down to the point where I cared more about the insults than my actual appearance.

[Remedial Math]

you're describing apathy, friend

[Splash Attack]

Out of curiosity, what about your appearance don't you like?

[source]

haven't posted here in a while, but here it goes

how do i change from a single loser who really wants a relationship to a single loser who doesn't care about relationships? I want the moment to come when it comes, but I keep giving a fuck for some reason

[Remedial Math]

work on the loser part first

[Just an Alt]

[QUOTE=Splash Attack;46880972]Out of curiosity, what about your appearance don't you like?[/QUOTE]

That would probably give my main away if anyone frequents the poy thread

[Remedial Math]

so you want advice about how to fix something you don't want to share

ok

step 1: find a genie lamp

[Splash Attack]

Contrary to what you may think, we're not going to make fun of you for your appearance if you're coming to this thread legitimately looking for advice. This thread is here to help people, not put them down.

[source]

[QUOTE=Remedial Math;46881689]work on the loser part first[/QUOTE]

I was exaggerating on the loser part. I'm not overweight or unkempt in any way, no physical or mental disabilities as far as I know, I play an instrument, have friends, typical shit like that

question above still stands though

[Remedial Math]

clearly you weren't. why do you describe yourself as a loser?

i'll ask that a different way, since it's basically the same question. why do you think you can't find a girlfriend?

[source]

[QUOTE=Remedial Math;46882020]clearly you weren't. why do you describe yourself as a loser?

i'll ask that a different way, since it's basically the same question. why do you think you can't find a girlfriend?[/QUOTE]

i dont really know for sure, thats a good question

perhaps its because im not the type of person to walk up to someone and smalltalk with them, despite actually being alright at it, or maybe its because i got rejected at one point. maybe its because theres a significant amount of girls already taken at my school. i can tell when someone is interested in me or when someone is not, as can you, im pretty sure. i dont really know how to approach those kinds of things.

[Remedial Math]

[QUOTE=sourcegamer101;46882106]as can you, im pretty sure[/QUOTE]

lol

[source]

i thought this was an advice thread, clearly im in the wrong place

[Remedial Math]

you haven't asked anything