Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT

[Guy Mannly]

well
last night my roommate let me try some of the synthetic weed he had left over from when he was a drug addict. i made the extremely dumb mistake of not bothering to google it and find out just how potentially dangerous it was and he managed to neglect telling me how unpredictable it's known to be
i trust him like a brother but i don't get why he's not even slightly bothered that he hadn't even mentioned what i was getting into
don't do drugs kids

[thisispain]

[url]http://www.erowid.org/splash.php[/url] is a good independent resource for anyone who doesnt already know

[skynrdfan3]

so i'm probably gonna be in a relationship with a girl who is globally acknowledged around our highschool as a "whoore."

I want to start a relationship with her because i only recently learned that she's actually really cool. We've gotten along really well recently, made out once, but i can only guess this is what's happened with lots of other guys in her past.

i wouldn't be "heartbroken" at all if she were to cheat on me, i'd just be like "well that sucks but at least i tried"

idk im kinda under the influence and i just wannted to talk about this somewhere.

[thisispain]

tbh a lot of girls who get called whores are most likely just unpopular in some way with some group of people so they get rumours and stories spread about them

do yourself a favour and forget about that "whore" bullshit

[Treelor]

I keep coming back to this thread, wanting to post something, but never really being sure why I feel so depressed.

Maybe I just need a hug.

[editline]1st April 2013[/editline]

Not with your penis preferably

[GoldenGnome]

[QUOTE=skynrdfan3;40115259]so i'm probably gonna be in a relationship with a girl who is globally acknowledged around our highschool as a "whoore."

I want to start a relationship with her because i only recently learned that she's actually really cool. We've gotten along really well recently, made out once, but i can only guess this is what's happened with lots of other guys in her past.

i wouldn't be "heartbroken" at all if she were to cheat on me, i'd just be like "well that sucks but at least i tried"

idk im kinda under the influence and i just wannted to talk about this somewhere.[/QUOTE]

[url]http://youtu.be/RC7hZY3sVxE[/url]

[OogalaBoogal]

[QUOTE=skynrdfan3;40115259]so i'm probably gonna be in a relationship with a girl who is globally acknowledged around our highschool as a "whoore."

I want to start a relationship with her because i only recently learned that she's actually really cool. We've gotten along really well recently, made out once, but i can only guess this is what's happened with lots of other guys in her past.

i wouldn't be "heartbroken" at all if she were to cheat on me, i'd just be like "well that sucks but at least i tried"

idk im kinda under the influence and i just wannted to talk about this somewhere.[/QUOTE]

as long as you like who you are dating and are happy, who cares what others think!

[Tennisball]

[QUOTE=Tennisball;40107397]Went on a date with a girl yesterday, it went really well, we kissed at the end...

I text her last night saying i had an awesome time etc.... She hasn't replied since and I'm going kinda crazy here. I don't want to send another text because I'm worried about coming off as needy. Whatdo?

[editline]31st March 2013[/editline]

Okay so I just read that back and realised how stupid I'm being it's only been a day she's probably busy or something I'm being a faggot[/QUOTE]

Okay, so maybe I'm still over thinking things, or maybe I'm right I dunno

So I text her again last night and she replied pretty much instantly. We kinda had a 15 minute conversation, but she seemed really despondent and I was definitely having to carry the conversation. Plus she usually puts like 5 kisses at the end and she didn't put ANY at all. I didn't read into it too much.

But then I text her again this morning and she hasn't replied. She's been on facebook etc so can't be [i]that[/i] busy.

I dunno, someone just tell me I'm reading into it too much, cause I really do like her.

[fritzel]

Feels good after few days. Not the same feels now. welp.

[jbthekid]

[QUOTE=Splash Attack;40113872]We're already dating.[/QUOTE]

She may have been in the mood.

[Scoooooby]

so my ex-boyfriend and i texted all last night. he hits on me, sexually and what not.
i still have feelings for him, like emotionally. however i don't know if he feels the same way.
by the way he texts, you can tell he cares. but i don't know how i feel anymore.

and on top of that, he asked me something sexual. like "are you into _______"
and i'm like, "uh i don't know", and he said "oh well i enjoy it" i'm like "how do you know that"
and he's like "cause i tried it"

excuse me who the fuck is he messing with, and is this before we dated or afterwards.
i don't know, i guess my biggest fear is he's messing with someone in college and just wants to screw me, which is my fear of being used, my jealousy is viscous. i'm the one who told him i didn't think we should be dating cause i didn't know what he was doing in college behind my back. i regretted it, as he said he didn't think we're right for eachother. i don't know if he feels like that anymore. he wants to have sex, but i only want to screw if we're committed in some form or another.

i'm just upset i have such conflicting feelings for him. don't want to fall into another depression, as i'm bipolar type 2. i am going to be seeing him in may, we're going to drink on the beach. wish me best of luck.
and this fucking guy on his facebook, this stupid faggot UGHH!! he's so fucking weird looking, i swear if that's who's he fucking with, WELL THEN KISS MY ASS SALLY.

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=Scoooooby;40120214]so my ex-boyfriend and i texted all last night. he hits on me, sexually and what not.
i still have feelings for him, like emotionally. however i don't know if he feels the same way.
by the way he texts, you can tell he cares. but i don't know how i feel anymore.

and on top of that, he asked me something sexual. like "are you into _______"
and i'm like, "uh i don't know", and he said "oh well i enjoy it" i'm like "how do you know that"
and he's like "cause i tried it"

excuse me who the fuck is he messing with, and is this before we dated or afterwards.
i don't know, i guess my biggest fear is he's messing with someone in college and just wants to screw me, which is my fear of being used, my jealousy is viscous. i'm the one who told him i didn't think we should be dating cause i didn't know what he was doing in college behind my back. i regretted it, as he said he didn't think we're right for eachother. i don't know if he feels like that anymore. he wants to have sex, but i only want to screw if we're committed in some form or another.

i'm just upset i have such conflicting feelings for him. don't want to fall into another depression, as i'm bipolar type 2. i am going to be seeing him in may, we're going to drink on the beach. wish me best of luck.
and this fucking guy on his facebook, this stupid faggot UGHH!! he's so fucking weird looking, i swear if that's who's he fucking with, WELL THEN KISS MY ASS SALLY.[/QUOTE]

How about ask him? Ask him if he wants a relationship or sex. That honestly seems the best solution to me.

[editline]1st April 2013[/editline]

[QUOTE=Tennisball;40119059]Okay, so maybe I'm still over thinking things, or maybe I'm right I dunno

So I text her again last night and she replied pretty much instantly. We kinda had a 15 minute conversation, but she seemed really despondent and I was definitely having to carry the conversation. Plus she usually puts like 5 kisses at the end and she didn't put ANY at all. I didn't read into it too much.

But then I text her again this morning and she hasn't replied. She's been on facebook etc so can't be [i]that[/i] busy.

I dunno, someone just tell me I'm reading into it too much, cause I really do like her.[/QUOTE]

Maybe she is having an off day, doesn't feel like talking? If she usually posts a ton of hearts and isn't maybe ask her if anything is wrong, doesn't hurt to show you care either way.

[Scoooooby]

Thanks for keeping it simple bud. I will if it seems to be an unfolding problem.

[fritzel]

[QUOTE=Scoooooby;40120404]Thanks for keeping it simple bud. I will if it seems to be an unfolding problem.[/QUOTE]

I want no probremo.

[killerteacup]

oh for fucks sake a mosquito bit me on the eyelid last night and now I have a droopy/lazy eye for the next few days

how do I combat mosquito swellin

[xVENUSx]

I want a hug, so depressed, want to die.

[killerteacup]

[QUOTE=xVENUSx;40122838]I want a hug, so depressed, want to die.[/QUOTE]

Suddenly my problems seem more trivial

[Bobie]

[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;40115049]well
last night my roommate let me try some of the synthetic weed he had left over from when he was a drug addict. i made the extremely dumb mistake of not bothering to google it and find out just how potentially dangerous it was and he managed to neglect telling me how unpredictable it's known to be
i trust him like a brother but i don't get why he's not even slightly bothered that he hadn't even mentioned what i was getting into
don't do drugs kids[/QUOTE]

synthetic weed is nasty

[QUOTE=xVENUSx;40122838]I want a hug, so depressed, want to die.[/QUOTE]

virtual group hug

[Bellminator]

[QUOTE=Tennisball;40119059]Okay, so maybe I'm still over thinking things, or maybe I'm right I dunno

So I text her again last night and she replied pretty much instantly. We kinda had a 15 minute conversation, but she seemed really despondent and I was definitely having to carry the conversation. Plus she usually puts like 5 kisses at the end and she didn't put ANY at all. I didn't read into it too much.

But then I text her again this morning and she hasn't replied. She's been on facebook etc so can't be [I]that[/I] busy.

I dunno, someone just tell me I'm reading into it too much, cause I really do like her.[/QUOTE]

I'm kinda in the same boat man. My GF used to text me like all the time but now it's like nothing, she's on facebook all the time too. I think she might just been having a bad week/month but it's hard to tell with her ( she's very insecure about shit and wouldn't show any emotion other than "happy" to save her life ).

Sometimes chicks just need a few days off to themselves I think. But if it goes on like this for too long you should seriously just ask her about it in person if you can.

[Behemoth_PT]

I think I just hit a point of stagnation in my life that I would love to get out of but don't know where to start.
So basically since I have a very dense timetable at university and am constantly arriving home at 8pm I think I started to get unatached from my bohemian life.
I spend most of my time at uni and when I get home I only have time for a quick review of the subjects and rome videogame b4 i go to bed. And this life sucks.
I'm constantly feeling bored and unatached, and I only keep contact with a limited amount of friends, and although I enjoy the life of being single, there isn't much to enjoy when that life turns into routine. I'm starting to miss adventure and interesting people other than the retards I have to deal with at uni.
The problem is, I don't know how to start getting back on track. I'm 21 and I should be having fun, and yet I'm not. I'm at a loss here.

[Yourself]

[QUOTE=xVENUSx;40122838]I want a hug, so depressed, want to die.[/QUOTE]

Attention whore get sum real issues

[JaegerMonster]

[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;40125965]I think I just hit a point of stagnation in my life that I would love to get out of but don't know where to start.
So basically since I have a very dense timetable at university and am constantly arriving home at 8pm I think I started to get unatached from my bohemian life.
I spend most of my time at uni and when I get home I only have time for a quick review of the subjects and rome videogame b4 i go to bed. And this life sucks.
I'm constantly feeling bored and unatached, and I only keep contact with a limited amount of friends, and although I enjoy the life of being single, there isn't much to enjoy when that life turns into routine. I'm starting to miss adventure and interesting people other than the retards I have to deal with at uni.
The problem is, I don't know how to start getting back on track. I'm 21 and I should be having fun, and yet I'm not. I'm at a loss here.[/QUOTE]

Take up a sport or something.

There are two media fueled lies about university life:

1. That people your age are living adventurous lives and having lots of sex and and and and etc - most aren't. The ones that are don't really care for their studies and won't get qualifications and will live great lives for 2-3 years and then its all downhill after that. It shouldn't come as a surprise to anyone that if you want something above the average you need to work at an above average rate.

2. That university is something you need to do and that you're guaranteed a job when you get out - you're not. And in this current climate, working your way up in the jobs most people think they are above is actually better rewarded, same goes for technical/skilled labor jobs which are in high demand at the moment (think trades etc).

Think outside the box in your career choices, these days lots of qualifications =/= job satisifcation or high pay. Weigh up the best case scenario of you completing your degree vs the worst case scenario of you not.

For example, firefighters have some of the highest job satisfaction reports. Why? It's a physical job, it's got a strong comraderie apsect, it pays relatively well (especially for a young single male) and firefighters are almost universally praised by the public because unlike law enforcement it's perceived as being purely helpful.

That's just one idea, what I'm trying to say is university is not really all its cracked up to be unless you've got a really solid idea of what you want to do - I'd venture 90% of people who enroll don't. An education isn't worth much unless you can do something with it, and at the end of the day if you're just as miserable in that end game job as you would be stocking shelves 9 to 5, is it worth it at all?

[killerteacup]

Do what you love

and for those who can't, there is always walmart

[Bobie]

[url]http://www.vice.com/en_uk/read/dont-count-the-notches-on-your-bedpost[/url]

thought this was an interesting read that might be useful for some people here, especially after all the "everyone says my girlfriend is a whore!!!" stuff

[Deathhunter]

Sorry but what is an SO?

[GoldenGnome]

[QUOTE=Deathhunter;40132083]Sorry but what is an SO?[/QUOTE]

[B]S[/B]ignificant [B]O[/B]ther

[editline]2nd April 2013[/editline]

boyfriend, girlfriend, etc

[Tennisball]

[QUOTE=Bellmanator;40125908]I'm kinda in the same boat man. My GF used to text me like all the time but now it's like nothing, she's on facebook all the time too. I think she might just been having a bad week/month but it's hard to tell with her ( she's very insecure about shit and wouldn't show any emotion other than "happy" to save her life ).

Sometimes chicks just need a few days off to themselves I think. But if it goes on like this for too long you should seriously just ask her about it in person if you can.[/QUOTE]

Yeah, I'd understand if we'd being going out for a while... But considering saturday was our first date it's got me kinda worried. I mean, the only texting we've had since then is

"Hey what you up to"

"not much you"

"just chilling was doctor who good?"

"yeah it was great"

I dunno, she just doesn't seem interested. If we hadn't gone out on Saturday or if it hadn't gone so well then I'd just take it as she's not interested in me and I'd move on. But I know she definitely WAS interested. I just don't understand where I could have gone wrong really. I was talking to one of her friends and she said that she seemed happy about it when they last spoke, too, which just confuses me ever more.

Wooooooo for over analysing everything

[editline]2nd April 2013[/editline]

[QUOTE=Rhenae;40120347]maybe ask her if anything is wrong, doesn't hurt to show you care either way.[/QUOTE]

I did this this morning. No reply. (Although I think she is working today so I'm not too worried)

[fritzel]

[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;40132093][B]S[/B]ignificant [B]O[/B]ther

[editline]2nd April 2013[/editline]

boyfriend, girlfriend, etc[/QUOTE]

or me in case of narcissist.

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=fritzel;40133680]or me in case of narcissist.[/QUOTE]

Its Significant [B]Other[/B], so unless you have multiple personality disorder? :v:

[Valiantttt]

[QUOTE=fritzel;40133680]or me in case of narcissist.[/QUOTE]
Or my hand in case of me.