Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT

[Endae]

Yeah I knew I should have just gone with my gut earlier and stopped when I picked up on it. At first I sorta chalked it up to me looking at things too pessimistically as I tend to do but at the same time I knew I should have left it. Thanks for the help though guys, I appreciate it.

[Rusty100]

why is anybody taking advice from maverick he is a sociopath

[editline]4th June 2013[/editline]

[url]http://maverickib.wordpress.com/[/url]

[Heigou]

Much like anything, gotta filter the bad and the good shit, sometimes he says some good shit.

[johnsten]

[QUOTE=Rusty100;40887616]why is anybody taking advice from maverick he is a sociopath

[editline]4th June 2013[/editline]

[url]http://maverickib.wordpress.com/[/url][/QUOTE]

a broken clock is right twice a day

[Rusty100]

[QUOTE=johnsten;40887660]a broken clock is right twice a day[/QUOTE]

too bad its still broken for every other second of the day

[editline]4th June 2013[/editline]

and if the only clock you pay attention to is broken how are you to know when its right ;)

[MaverickIB]

[QUOTE=Rusty100;40887616]why is anybody taking advice from maverick he is a sociopath

[editline]4th June 2013[/editline]

[url]http://maverickib.wordpress.com/[/url][/QUOTE]

I may be a "sociopath" but I hit the nail on the head pretty consistently.

I don't even need to link to or quote your posts. You're probably the most naive individual on this forum, a bleeding heart, completely incapable of understanding how the real world works. I remember you getting all butthurt over a guy defending himself and killing his attacker, saying he shoulda just let the robber do whatever he pleased with him because hurr durr people are inherently good and the robber woulda let him go after.

The big difference between you and I, is that while I may say something from time to time that people disagree with, my experience gives most of what I say a solid degree of wisdom people choose to listen to.

Whereas whenever you voice an opinion, you are pretty much universally disagreed with, the only people who share your viewpoints are the few who have never stepped foot outside and share your ridiculously naive world view. How delusional does somehow have to be in order to still think they are right when pretty much everyone disagrees with them? You're unable to change, unable to learn, just a stubborn idiot. When I'm proven wrong, I stop posting and learn from it. When you're proven wrong, you refuse to believe it and just resort to calling everyone sociopaths.

[Rusty100]

[QUOTE=MaverickIB;40888181]I may be a "sociopath" but I hit the nail on the head pretty consistently.
[/QUOTE]

of course you think that though

[MaverickIB]

And others do too. Try again.

[Rusty100]

[QUOTE=MaverickIB;40888181]You're probably the most naive individual on this forum, a bleeding heart[/QUOTE]

calling anybody a bleeding heart ever is pretty self incriminating dude

[Boss]

[QUOTE=Rusty100;40888203]calling anybody a bleeding heart ever is pretty self incriminating dude[/QUOTE]

And calling someone out consistently for no reason is just being a plain cunt.

[Rusty100]

the problem is also that i am not universally disagreed with. i am disagreed with by many on issues of gun control and gun violence - and they are issues that polarize people. i have some weird opinions but at the end of the day i am a good human and you are a jacked up gung ho meathead who thinks the pinnacle of existence is being an alpha male

[editline]4th June 2013[/editline]

[QUOTE=Boss;40888239]And calling someone out consistently for no reason is just being a plain cunt.[/QUOTE]

it is very hardly for no reason, maverick was permabanned for a reason

[MaverickIB]

I don't need to bicker with you, there's no point. You will believe whatever you think is truth, no matter how many disagree with you. My advice has consistently helped a lot of people over the years, yet you seem to believe I'm the only one who thinks I'm right. Let me guess, everyone who has ever taken my advice is just as foolish as me, right? Because the almighty Rusty is truth and anyone who doesn't agree with him has some kind of psychological disorder?

You can believe whatever you choose to believe. At the end of the day, people will listen to me because I've been in their shoes. Most of the problems people come here with, I've been there, and despite being a "sociopath," explaining my successes and failures in that situation helps them. A smart man makes a mistake, learns from it, and never makes that mistake again. But a wise man finds a smart man and learns from him how to avoid the mistake altogether.

People aren't going to stop believing that just because you tell them to. You're not as important as you think you are.

[Rusty100]

here is anticipating another 4 paragraphs of delusions of grandeur where maverick lauds himself as the pinnacle of advice and tries to put me down by painting me as exactly the kind of dude he is

[MaverickIB]

[QUOTE=Rusty100;40888244]
it is very hardly for no reason, maverick was permabanned for a reason[/QUOTE]

So, you're calling me out over something that happened nearly 2 years ago?

Further proof that you think the world revolves around you. You haven't changed a bit, so you assume nobody has. Except normal people change, they grow, they learn. It's been years and you assume I'm the same person because you're the same person.

[QUOTE=Rusty100;40888292]here is anticipating another 4 paragraphs of delusions of grandeur where maverick lauds himself as the pinnacle of advice and tries to put me down by painting me as exactly the kind of dude he is[/QUOTE]

Good job.

[Rusty100]

[QUOTE=MaverickIB;40888301]So, you're calling me out over something that happened nearly 2 years ago?
[/QUOTE]
it is pretty obvious that you are the same dude

[MaverickIB]

[QUOTE=Rusty100;40888306]it is pretty obvious that you are the same dude[/QUOTE]

Clearly.

[Rusty100]

[QUOTE=MaverickIB;40888301]Further proof that you think the world revolves around you. You haven't changed a bit, so you assume nobody has. Except normal people change, they grow, they learn. It's been years and you assume I'm the same person because you're the same person.
[/QUOTE]

i do like all these grandiose claims about me though on the basis of me thinking you are a bad person

[editline]4th June 2013[/editline]

the proof is in your posts

[QUOTE=MaverickIB;40849731]

It's absolutely insane that for whatever reason, wanting to find the best possible partner is looked down upon. So just because you commit to someone, if you meet someone better you'd like to go out with, you have to let the commitment run its course before trying the new person? If a girl drops her current boyfriend to pursue someone she'd rather be with, that's a negative personality trait? Not settling for anything but the best is frowned upon?

I just don't see how it's a dick move if you see a chick with a dude and you know you can do better so you ask her out. It's a dick move if you're doing it just to fuck her and ruin the relationship or something, yeah, but it isn't if you genuinely want to be with the chick.[/QUOTE]

[editline]4th June 2013[/editline]

nobody else is deluded enough to drink that kool aid pally

[lordcrypto]

holy shit maverickib

you are that deluded wowwwwww

[MaverickIB]

I guess I am. Carry on then.

[Loopoo]

[QUOTE=LordCrypto;40888378]holy shit maverickib

you are that deluded wowwwwww[/QUOTE]

Go back to KTT lol

Rusty please do not shit up this thread, at least Maverick is giving advice instead of instigating pointless arguments.

[lordcrypto]

[QUOTE=loopoo;40888402]Go back to KTT lol

Rusty please do not shit up this thread, at least Maverick is giving advice instead of instigating pointless arguments.[/QUOTE]
uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

he's literally saying: "basically ask out any girl you want regardless of her relationship status"

that's the dumbest idea ever

[MaverickIB]

[QUOTE=Rusty100;40888320]
nobody else is deluded enough to drink that kool aid pally[/QUOTE]

Except I don't expect everyone to take what I say as truth. It's my opinion, it has merit, but people are welcome to disagree with it. It's just my point of view, like everything else I say here. People are not always going to agree with it, I don't expect them to.

[QUOTE=LordCrypto;40888412]uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

he's literally saying: "basically ask out any girl you want regardless of her relationship status"

that's the dumbest idea ever[/QUOTE]

Based on what? Morals? I mean, sure, if you care more about what people think of you than your own happiness (or your happiness is based on what people think of you), then sure, it's dumb. If that's the case, don't follow my advice. However, it's "dumb" if someone disregards what people think for the sake of what they desire in life? So because I don't care if people think I'm a dick or whatever, I'm dumb? If that is so, then yeah, I must be dumb.

[Rusty100]

i am not shitting it up so much as preventing it being shit up by the kind of guy who thinks someone in a happy stable relationship with someone they love should leave their loved one at the drop of a hat the minute they find someone 'better'. it is a pretty disgusting way to think about women, people, and the world in general. that is one example, but you are welcome to pine through his posts and specifically his blog to find more examples where this type of clinical thinking is rampant and for the most part unhelpful to any reasonable humans - god forbid someone seeking advice who doesn't know any better takes a hint like that from maverick and makes a huge mistake they will regret.

[Behemoth_PT]

I really don't care about this shitstorm, but I'm just wondering. When was the last time Rusty100 gave a useful advice in this thread?

I really don't see the point of this idiocy and why all of a sudden as disagreeable (or not) Maverick's posts may be, it is so important to you to prove him wrong here.

We really don't care here what posters think of other posters let alone are we interested in reading through all this bullshit.

Can we have Super Friendly and Social Advice back?

[Rusty100]

[QUOTE=MaverickIB;40888417]It's my opinion, it has merit[/QUOTE]

does it though? it does inherently because it's yours, right?

[lordcrypto]

"So if things fall through with me, they can just revert back to dating generic dudes like they always were. It just blows my mind how every girl I’ve ever had something romantic with eventually enters this 'He’s too good to be true, abort abort abort,' mode." -- i'm so good of a catch girls leave me, maverickib, 2012

[editline]3rd June 2013[/editline]

might one suggest they realize you are a raging sociopath and use an excuse

[MaverickIB]

[QUOTE=Rusty100;40888437]does it though? it does inherently because it's yours, right?[/QUOTE]

It does because I'm a person, and everyone's opinion has merit.

[lordcrypto]

[QUOTE=MaverickIB;40888489]It does because I'm a person, and everyone's opinion has merit.[/QUOTE]

some just have less merit than others

[editline]3rd June 2013[/editline]

"I saw this coming, I really did. Don’t get me wrong, I am an amazing person. In fact, I am sure I am the most amazing person most people will ever meet. I know I am one of the few individuals on this planet who can show this girl what the true meaning of life and love is. And I still believe I am the one who will do just that. However, there was a critical… flaw… in my execution, but it wasn’t anything I could have prepared for." -- delusions of grandeur, maverickib, 2012

[Rusty100]

[QUOTE=MaverickIB;40888489]It does because I'm a person, and everyone's opinion has merit.[/QUOTE]

I'm not sure how much merit social and love advice is worth from a person who views women as commodities to be traded in and upgraded whenever possible, and that commitments should not be adhered to and are just a word to be disregarded. it doesn't seem very helpful to anyone that wants any semblance of meaning in their life!

[MaverickIB]

[QUOTE=LordCrypto;40888447]"So if things fall through with me, they can just revert back to dating generic dudes like they always were. It just blows my mind how every girl I’ve ever had something romantic with eventually enters this 'He’s too good to be true, abort abort abort,' mode." -- i'm so good of a catch girls leave me, maverickib, 2012

[editline]3rd June 2013[/editline]

might one suggest they realize you are a raging sociopath and use an excuse[/QUOTE]

My blogs are an interesting creature because I tend to write them while I'm riding some kind of emotional wave. Sometimes it is good, sometimes it is bad. Often, I will write things that are outright ridiculous. Like what you quoted, I facepalm pretty hard when I read it. But I choose not to delete it because it helps me learn, the next time I feel those thoughts running through my head, I can think about how stupid I felt after the last time I thought them and learn from it.

They are not meant to be taken as what I believe all the time. They're just a look into my head when I'm joyous or (more often) distressed. They're a look into how the mind can create some pretty ridiculous claims when you aren't thinking straight. I embrace the stupid things I say on my blogs, and you're outright lying if you say you haven't had equally as stupid thoughts when you were undergoing some type of trauma.